josephb:
Hi bro,

As much as I do not want to enter this argument, I need to stress the part I bolded and let's not derail the thread.

A lot more women have done this to their spouses all in the name of pressure from friends/colleagues and more. Personally I always advise people to take heed and read more about the negative review of a place more than the sweet things; so if things do not go well you would quickly understand that i am aware (more like oh, I read about it before) but if it goes well, count yourself to be lucky.

Nigeria is in a state of calamity and cataclysm, hence more people are leaving on the regular, the rush to leave the country has made a lot of people research only on the good side of a country without reading the NEGATIVE reviews.

Throughout my lifetime (travels), I have got to meet at least one or two persons on every of my visit stranded overseas and wished they had researched and planned better, some of these people envy and see a genuine Tourist as "woow you are going back for real? I wish I can too" I understand the fervour, warmth and keenness attached to wanting to leave the country; It happens to me too despite just going for Tourism or Business.

In conclusion, let us evaluate a destination based on the positive and negative reviews so you won't be totally disappointed, for me I love to have a mild mindset about a destination and experience it first-hand, by then I will be able to write my own review(s).

Regards,

And the woman told you she is even seeking for visiting visa in the first place? Or should we also dig out your personal information and use that to advise you and it'll be cool? I read all the back and forths and its disgusting that we can't debate without cussing out.

The positives and negatives like you said is what makes NL travel thread a beautiful place. Not being people cussed out for saying their opinion. Everyone's experience is valid

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