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Crime / Re: Final Year UNIBEN Law Student Hangs Self by mylastkobo: 9:23pm On Jun 12, 2015
uniben law final year student dying anyhow, last year it was Lord Caeser now it is Daniel. may God save the next set

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Politics / Re: Photos: Boko Haram: African Military Chiefs Meet In Abuja by mylastkobo: 9:53am On Jun 10, 2015
Nigeria leader of the Black race.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Zimbabweans Thank Nigerians And Sahara Reporters For Thrashing President Mugabe by mylastkobo: 1:50pm On Jun 09, 2015
nembudziya:
so lame bro.........come on, upgrade the debate.
me debate with you? why? i ve written a lot of posts on political issues, go and start checking them i am sure you will find an answer to your question somewhere.
Politics / Re: Buhari Relegated To Back Row At The World G7 Summit Looks Dejected-pics by mylastkobo: 12:32pm On Jun 08, 2015
tochukwuifeduba:
this is hilarious grin grin grin grin
Hilarious or not Hilarious your father never stood in the back of any such picture, he wasnt even asked to lie down on the floor while great men were snapping picture so who are you to tell us about pictures. you who's father was a blue film camera man, and was never allowed to even touch bre@st. my reply to you in your first post was professional, but i ve now seen that you dont deserve that
Politics / Re: Photos Of Made In Nigeria Drones And Gunboats by mylastkobo: 7:26pm On Jun 07, 2015
lllllolllll this OP na im worst pass Labaran Maku, wey e say Nigeria dey cure Ebola. make una nor mind am oh, just like he said those drones are tactical drones and are not armed with any form of weapons, the CIS machine gun he mentioned is sitting right on top of those boats
Politics / Re: Obasanjo Appointed Co-chair Of Council Of World Ex-presidents by mylastkobo: 7:17pm On Jun 07, 2015
t45tns
Romance / Should Couples Run Same Social Media Accounts Or Have Passwords To Each Other’s by mylastkobo: 4:19pm On Jun 06, 2015

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Love thrives on so many things of which trust is principal. If one is in a relationship where one feels compelled to keep tabs on one’s partner at all times, then something is terribly wrong. Relationships should feel like home when one has been out in the wild for so long.

Remember those involved in marriages and relationships leading to marriages are adults, there is so much one can control. You might be engaged or married but you still have your individualities to protect whichever way. Imagine my husband logging into my account to reply to a message or to post an update. My friends might be confused. Our social media accounts reflect our different persona and so it might be confusing if two people are running an account that is customized to fit one person.

If my husband decides to give me the passwords to his accounts, it should be an initiative he takes on his own not because he feels pressured to but probably to solidify what we share by displaying transparency in his actions. Now, it will be wrong for me to follow all of his conversations or add or delete people off his page because I now have access to the account. That will be a violation of privacy.
For those that are unmarried, what happens after a break up? Would you deactivate the page or live with the horrors of stalking exes.
I know an unmarried couple who shared passwords and later broke up. Every time the girl tried to change her password, the guy recovers it through her email and maintains access to all her social media accounts. This made her so miserable because she felt at his mercy and she had to leave the accounts and open a new email thereby losing some of her old contacts.

Lesson here should be that just like everything in life, moderation needs to be applied.

Some situations might warrant sharing same accounts though but such situations are more common among the more elderly couples that are learning to move along with the growth in technology together and have probably lived long enough to share the same group of friends.

However, my two cents will be for couples to respect what they share with their significant others and to be transparent in their dealings with those outside the relationship. Deal with whatever trust issues you might have within the marriage/relationship. Keeping up a facade of perfection never solves anything.

Sharing is actually nice but allow everything take its course. There are no perfect tips to how to coordinate your lives as a couple on the cyber space. So, I’d say it is whatever rocks your boat but let moderation be your guide.
source; christlife9ja smiley smiley smiley
Foreign Affairs / Re: Zimbabweans Thank Nigerians And Sahara Reporters For Thrashing President Mugabe by mylastkobo: 3:33pm On Jun 05, 2015
nembudziya:
what characteriZes a 'strong opposition' ?
go and ask your teacher.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Zimbabweans Thank Nigerians And Sahara Reporters For Thrashing President Mugabe by mylastkobo: 6:19pm On Jun 02, 2015
dustydee:
Eyah!. The opposition in Zim need to unite against Mugabe and unseat him.
bros you sure say those people get strong opposition? Strong African Nations like Nigeria should sponsor an opposition party to unseat him.
Politics / Re: Next EFCC Chairman??? by mylastkobo: 1:16pm On May 30, 2015
I like this kind man. He should focus on the polithieves and leave huzzling boys alone. [img]http://2.bp..com/-gAAgW7P1Jio/VWmCLco5gxI/AAAAAAAAAMY/487PwJd-558/s320/pix201008252393471%2Bcopy.jpg[/img]
Events / Re: Hilarious And Beautiful Wedding Pictures To Make Your Day (pictures) by mylastkobo: 12:24pm On May 30, 2015
Politics / Re: 100 Days From Today: What Nigerians Expect From Buhari by mylastkobo: 9:17am On May 30, 2015
i want everybody to just sit down, relax and let Baba work.
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