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Romance / Re: 7 Wifely Duties Nigerian Ladies Should Avoid With Their Boyfriends by MyLuvmyjoy(f): 11:12pm On Aug 01, 2016 |
I'm a strong believer in rules 1, 3, and 6. Any woman hoping to land a cute man for marriage, should read this article. http://husbandforme.com/how-to-hook-up-with-and-marry-a-really-hot-man/ It is loaded! |
Romance / Re: What Married Men Are Going Through In Marriage by MyLuvmyjoy(f): 8:04pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
Op this is more like comedy quotes about marriage now you will say i'm biased because i'm a woman. Truth is that marriage sides both parties well, and when it stops serving BOTH parties, the D word happens No need complaining... 1 Like |
Romance / Re: .. by MyLuvmyjoy(f): 7:55pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
Congrats gurl.. Meanwhile go to [url]husbandforme.com[/url] to learn how to keep him interested and take you all the way to the altar. GUARANTEED. |
Family / Re: Olachi Manndarin Emmanuel Dies After Husband Allegedly Abandoned Her by MyLuvmyjoy(f): 5:28am On Jul 30, 2016 |
Marriage is a very serious thing. You can date all you like, but once marriage approaches, ask yourself some serious questions. Sad sad story. |
Family / Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by MyLuvmyjoy(f): 5:24am On Jul 30, 2016 |
So, to answer your question Marry first if you find a good man. |
Family / Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by MyLuvmyjoy(f): 5:24am On Jul 30, 2016 |
I’m Dating A Poor Man: Should I Marry Him? One question that our readers have been asking since January of this year is, “Should I marry my poor man?” There is no simple answer to this question because it depends on the individuals involved, the chemistry between them, and the combination of both. Certain individuals (man or woman) handle poverty quite well and their character remain unscathed by the challenges it throws up. Such individuals hold fast to the values, honor, dignity, and decency that they developed around themselves, and are not taken off course by poverty, no matter how dire the situation. Others, on the other hand, might struggle, and struggle really hard to cope with poverty. The challenges can be so devastating on certain individuals that they totally abandon honor, dignity, and values which they had developed around themselves for ages. Yes, the issue is not one for which anyone should be blamed or castigated. The key is to identify which group an individual belongs to, early enough in the relationship, in order to decide whether to marry them, or not. Another challenge to the question is that poverty can be gender biased. Society tends to forgive women more for failure to acquire wealth than it does men. Typically, poverty is not a life stopper for a woman, provided that she is good looking and smart. Men on the other hand are expected to have money regardless of looks and smarts. Having laid out these background facts, a woman considering whether to marry a poor (or poorer) man should be adequately guided in her decision and, be able to decide for herself what she wants. I come on the side of affirmation, and do so by assuming that the woman involved has done the preliminary work of ascertaining the character of the man in question -that the man is the type of honor and dignity even if all were to be lost. Obviously such men are not easy to find, because one has to sieve through the mountain of hay to find that single needle; but the search is well worth it. Marriage isn’t about finding a man who has every requirement on your checklist. If you’re only holding out for a rich “Mr. Right” -someone who has everything- you might be meant to remain single, forever. Why should you really consider marrying a poor man? Since we have established that men of character are desirable as husbands (irrespective of their financial status), the question turns to the woman involved! Are you a woman of character? Are you someone who maintains her values regardless of financial challenges? This question is as important as the main question because marriage can never work between a man of character who happens to be poor, and a woman of “easy life” -someone who drops her values immediately poverty comes knocking. Life never guarantees anything to anyone; so, everything remains possible in life, including abject poverty irrespective of how well one had planned, and laid all ducks in a row. The “black swan” factor is one that spares no one. According to a satirical self-help book, “Smart Girls Marry Money” a successful marriage is the one that is based on love, and not money. You may think that having a husband who is financially stable, someone able to carry your financial burden, is desirable ; but, what happens if he loses his job, or source of income -which happens quite frequently these days of increase competition for opportunity and finite resources of the earth? What happens if his savings are depleted and he doesn’t have any money to support you the way you would like to be supported? Your marriage will end up breaking because the money that kept you closer to him would be gone by then. Another reason you may even prefer marrying a man with less cash is that they actually make women happier because wealth often breeds disloyalty and other negative traits in men. This is according to the survey that was conducted by Dr. Adam Galinsky, who is a renowned professor of management and organizations at Northwestern University in Chicago. A poor man is more likely to be faithful to you. When Tiger Woods apologized to his wife Elin Nordegren, he revealed openly that he felt entitled by his wealth to have extra marital affairs. Mr. Tiger Woods is not the only successful man who is having affair with women. Not only do studies show that poorer men are less likely to cheat on their wives, but scientists also found that richer men are hypocritical about cheating. The above findings are also backed by marriage and family counselors. For instance, Ellen Galinsky, who is President and Co-Founder of Families and Work Institute, says that individuals with successful jobs are more likely to cheat on their partners, yet they criticize and condemn others who do it because they are wealthy, and their status evokes feelings of entitlement. A poor man is more likely to champion his wife’s ambitions. Research published in the Journal of Applied Psychology shows that wealthier men turn out to be more sexist than guys who are low-income earners. This is because such wealthy men regard themselves as alpha males. All the time, they feel that it is their duty to provide. This research was conducted by Beth Livingston, who is an assistant professor of human resources at Cornell University. Beth continues to document that poorer men are more supportive when it comes to their partner’s careers. Joshua Coleman, the author of Marriage Makeover, adds that a man who encourages his wife to fulfill her professional dreams or work tend to be happier. What do experts say about women who marry poor men? Read the rest here: http://husbandforme.com/im-dating-a-poor-man-should-i-marry-him/ |
Family / Re: Should I Marry This Man? by MyLuvmyjoy(f): 5:20am On Jul 30, 2016 |
If you are sure that he loves you, then marry him without delay. My sister good husband is scarce these days o I talk from experience |
Romance / Re: 7 Wifely Duties Nigerian Ladies Should Avoid With Their Boyfriends by MyLuvmyjoy(f): 4:41am On Jul 30, 2016 |
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Romance / Re: 7 Wifely Duties Nigerian Ladies Should Avoid With Their Boyfriends by MyLuvmyjoy(f): 4:38am On Jul 30, 2016 |
God bless sir |
Romance / Re: 90% Of Nigerians Girls Have Weak Pusssies by MyLuvmyjoy(f): 4:34am On Jul 30, 2016 |
Sho! |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Man Grows Breasts After Sex With Neighbour's Wife (photos) by MyLuvmyjoy(f): 4:30am On Jul 30, 2016 |
S3x is a serious business I wonder when people will start to take it serious A lot happens during sex That is why you must stick to your own woman 2 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Is Falling In Love Really For Everyone? by MyLuvmyjoy(f): 4:26am On Jul 30, 2016 |
CheedyJ: More like "Madam". I was thinking you are an Aries star sign. Most Arians hardly show love, but they still have a most committed love relationships. Now Taurus Never knew them for romance, but they are pretty steady in marriage, particularly the men. I'd say you should just not worry about it much. Just find a lady you want to spend the rest of your life with and just commit to her. Love will come later ... with kids, hopefully adorable ones. |
Romance / Re: Is Falling In Love Really For Everyone? by MyLuvmyjoy(f): 11:35pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
i ask because i'm into the business of making sure that ladies find husbands these days are so bad that we need to help hook up people genuinely interested in marriage. |
Romance / Re: Is Falling In Love Really For Everyone? by MyLuvmyjoy(f): 11:33pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
bros if i may ask what is your month and day of birth? |
Romance / Re: My Ladies Please Come In, I Have Vital Info For You All by MyLuvmyjoy(f): 11:30pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
i believe the story almost anything is possible in naija |
Romance / Re: What Do You Admire About The Opposite Sex? by MyLuvmyjoy(f): 10:58pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
For the good lookin ones among MEN ... Everything! Ugaalyy ones tho 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Never Trust A Nairalander Completely - He'd Be Your Doom! by MyLuvmyjoy(f): 10:39pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
Betrayal is as old as man. Never ever ever ever go the whole way for someone who is not ALREADY married to you. |
Romance / Re: Ladies Come And Pick Your Man (photo) by MyLuvmyjoy(f): 10:27pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
you never know which will perform beta |
Romance / Re: Kenyan Lady Dumps Lover Because Nigerian Man Buys Girlfriend A SUV (photos) by MyLuvmyjoy(f): 10:24pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
Wahala dey o |
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