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Romance / Re: This Lady Is Trying To Embarass Me In Front Of My Family by MyProblem: 6:14pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Hello julieearth... I am not able to reply with this account as I don't have access to the mail. |
Romance / Re: This Lady Is Trying To Embarass Me In Front Of My Family by MyProblem: 6:12pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
UPDATE I have decided to come clean with my uncle, he may be disappointed but that's where it will end, I will also resign my role in the organization, I think it's the honorable thing to do right now. I have made my mistake, I've learnt my lesson, now it's time to carry the cross. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: This Lady Is Trying To Embarass Me In Front Of My Family by MyProblem: 12:04pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
Csami: While the lockdown was on, movement was still very possible, she traveled all the way to Abuja while the lockdown was on, she didn't come back until December last year, I even brought the story to nairaland when she was asking me to marry her, the topic even made front page, I can't waste my time lying for nothing, I have far important things to do, plus, I attached a screenshot of our conversation earlier and if you didn't see it, I'm not obligated to explain anything to you, believe what you want. |
Romance / Re: This Lady Is Trying To Embarass Me In Front Of My Family by MyProblem: 5:42am On Mar 30, 2021 |
AwesomeStormy00: I personally have a friend who was in his second year by 15 |
Romance / Re: This Lady Is Trying To Embarass Me In Front Of My Family by MyProblem: 5:38am On Mar 30, 2021 |
Kobicove: Exactly, I skipped a lot of classes in primary school cos the school recommended me to do so, so I finished quite young, plus, I didn't have my tetiary education in Nigeria. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: This Lady Is Trying To Embarass Me In Front Of My Family by MyProblem: 5:36am On Mar 30, 2021 |
Michelle55:You think i will waste my time, sit here and start writing an epistle that doesn't exist? I have far better problems than making front page, moreover, I have made it more than 50 times before with my main moniker, I'm not gonna explain anything to anyone again, if you think it is fake, fine. |
Romance / Re: This Lady Is Trying To Embarass Me In Front Of My Family by MyProblem: 5:29am On Mar 30, 2021 |
Csami: Well, not everyone schooled in Nigeria, moreover, not everyone attended your everyday university, I got the degree I went for in 2 years, but that's because I never schooled in your everyday Nigerian university, so please understand someone's plight and think well before typing. |
Romance / Re: This Lady Is Trying To Embarass Me In Front Of My Family by MyProblem: 12:18am On Mar 30, 2021 |
Casalindal: Thanks so much, I really appreciate. 1 Like |
Romance / This Lady Is Trying To Embarass Me In Front Of My Family by MyProblem: 11:50pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
Hello house, I'm in a little problem and I have no idea how I should go about it, I'll appericiate any vital contributions I can get here, thanks. I am a 24 year old guy living with my uncle who is like a father to me, he is an ordained Reverend tho he isn't practicing, he works with an international missionary organization where he leads the Nigerian chapter of the organization. After graduating, I joined him in the organization and have spent 6 years working with the organization, I am the leader of the Lagos chapter and my uncle totally trusts me, I have been faithfully carrying out my duties for the last 6 years without any problems. During the course of my job, I have had various advances from female colleagues who clearly wants something with me, but i have always managed to keep myself intact without falling for their games, the organization does not allow relationships with colleagues who serve in the same center, tho it is non profit and non-salary, which means we are not being paid, I remotely run my company where I earn about 350k on average monthly, so I am very fine serving in the organization as it does not clash with my role in my company. So about 2 years ago, we had this Nigerian lady who was transfered from the Indian branch of the organization to Lagos to serve, and I picked her up that day, and we blended, we got talking and we soon became good friends, but on the way, I found out that I was feeling something for her, but I didn't let her know or show it, she was 5 years older than I am, but I'm her superior in the organization, she respects me and is a good lady, so one night, she confessed over the phone that she has feelings for me, I told her it was mutual but I have a girlfriend whom I love already. During the covid lockdown, the lady somehow got my uncle's permission to stay in the house with me, my uncle is never around as he travels frequently, so I'm home alone most times, I knew this was going to be trouble, but there was nothing I could do, so I stayed behind, and one thing led to another, I found myself cheating on my girlfriend with this new lady, she was a virgin and was looking to settle down, I was not even thinking about setting down now, not to talk of with one 5 years older than I am, we had a lot of romance but never sex as I didn't want to deflower her if I knew I was not going to end up with her. I was not happy about my new cheating habit but this lady is pretty, tho not as pretty as my girlfriend, but she is well endowed every where, more than my girlfriend. This lady tried to persuade me to marry her but I refused and decided to end everything with her, and asked her not to mention anything to my uncle, else it will break the trust he has in me since I flouted the organizations rule. After I ended it, she left the house for sometime and returned almost a year later after I cut contact with her, I knew that there was a possibility for trouble again, so I started preparing to go get my place and totally avoided anything that would leave us alone together, but one night, a mutual friend came over, and we had a great conversation together, after he left, the mood was still a happy one, and I continued to talk and joke with this lady, one thing led to another and I found myself ontop of her once again, I didn't penetrate her as it was too tight and painful for her, but my joystick was brushed on her veejay many times but I didn't cum, she told me she intentionally initiated it as a last time and it was never going to happen again, after that day, I began to avoid her again. Few weeks later, she began falling ill randomly and said she missed her period, I was scared but hoped for the best but the illness kept coming, so I took her to 3 clinics and was dumbfounded when all the pregnancy tests came out positive, I explained to the doctor that I didn't cum and I didn't penetrate her but he said my precum can contain semen and it was enough to impregnate her if it finds it's way in, I didn't know what to do but I told her we could never keep the baby, so we found a pharmacy who finally agreed to help us take it out, it was 7 weeks old already, but we were successful after spending close to 80k to make sure she was fine, we both agreed that no one must know what happened, we prayed and asked God for forgiveness and that was when she revealed to me that she told my uncle about what we had before, I was mad at her cos I saw a change in the way my uncle looked at me, plus, he now gives me full privacy, he has not been inside my room for more than 4 months now which is unlike him as he comes in when he needs to tell me something, I decided to let it go and pretend that I didn't know he knew about my atrocious acts. To cut the story short, yesterday, this lady called me and started saying things I didn't understand, saying we need to confess our sins to my uncle, bla bla bla, I just couldn't believe my ears, like, I thought we were over this already? She was saying stuffs like she doesn't have peace, bla bla, I told her telling God was more than enough, but she was saying strange things, threatening to tell my uncle about it as her mind was not at peace, this is almost 3 weeks after she took the drugs and everything was flushed, I don't know what to do, I have gotten a house already and want to move by the end of the month all because of this, but how do I manage to face my uncle and family with this terrible act, I told her that she was really crazy to allow us compound our sin by taking the baby out and then still confessing to man, plus, how can I face all that embarrassment for a sex I never did or enjoy? please any advice will be appreciated. Lalasticlala please don't move this to the front page, my girlfriend is a nairalander please. UPDATE I have decided to come clean with my uncle, he may be disappointed but that's where it will end, I will also resign my role in the organization, I think it's the honorable thing to do right now. I have made my mistake, I've learnt my lesson, now it's time to carry the cross. Modified So I tendered my resignation and he rejected it, asking me to go and pray about it. Even though he was disappointed, but he handled it very well and thanked me for showing that I honor him, the work and God. 7 Likes 1 Share |
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