justified19:
actually, I don't know. confirm it

Hmm, i dont just Know what to say now...

ikbnice:
i knw it isnt

thanks

starwar:
hell No, I cant read that.....summary pls

lols, i learnt here, people read short summary...

Its too lengthy i guess

ikbnice:
this would have been better as a poem if arranged in lines and stanzas

Its not a poem dear

justified19:
u had someone before him, now lets assume u av met me after him. wat do u think.

you saying trash you know?

Who am I? Who am I not?
Why are we like this or why we are like that?

What do we want or what do people want from us?

Which race have you picked up for yourself?

We grown-ups believe ourselves to be so mature that we assume we can get answer to every question.

Strange are we humans we live in present moment with baggage of past happenings and burden of future responsibility.

But wait this is isn’t strange. We are bound to live like this as adults. We laugh at kids on how foolishly they handle things.

I may appear eccentric with my thoughts ahead but we adults are foolish that we being a single person actually think to be omnipresent in three worlds- Past, Present and Future.

We want to know every reason or logic but sometimes knowing everything is adding burden to ourselves.

Ever looked at your younger siblings or your children and wondered why they are so much happy?

Because they don’t have the extraordinary wishes like we adults to live in three worlds they enjoy being in present.

We listen to only those songs whose lyrics we understand.

We move to the beats only we are aware. We take the roads we are sure about or only those roads that have calculated risk.
What children do?

They enjoy the music lyrics is last part they care about.

They dance when they feel like and they choose to go the roads that are unexplored.

The evolution would have stopped if kids started giving so much thought to things like what is this or Why is it so?

Who am I and Who I want to be?
They do not think about it.

They just demand or they act stubborn and take things.

Life is a surely running at its pace and we cannot take babysteps or we will be left far behind in the race.

But what race are you running?
Do you really want to be in that race?

Ask yourself what do you crave for because at times we get lost so much in being mature that we forget what we are really running for?

Most of the times we keep ignoring little things for bigger perfect goals but we never know that the perfect big goal from the future world will give us the amount of pleasure the little things from present world can give.

Don’t take babysteps in your life but do take steps baby way.

What is baby way?
That’s just taking one step in one moment being and caring about one world.

Do have your vision. Even as kids we had our visions to be grown-up although as grown-up going back to childhood is all we wished for.

But don’t let your vision drag you away from enjoying present moment, If you ever feel tired running with life please halt a little because running so hard that you squeeze all your energy running and when you’ll need the energy in final lap you’ll collapse.

That would be heartbreaking so keep the energy saving mode always switched on.

Every time you feel you are panting. Relax a little put some optimism diet food and then start again better than before.

Sometimes it’s cool to break some rules cut the monotony.

Search out for the old foolish movie you have loved and watch it. Or do some crazy things with your friends or take a day-out alone.

Give yourself break not in a particular holiday sense but just do something unusual or usual that will remind of who you are and what you want to be instead of people telling you that you will be getting answers but just look inside and ask Which race are you running and what for?

Is it so necessary to be so hard on myself?

When you run so fast to get somewhere you miss the fun of getting there.

Take it slower Enjoy the music before song gets over and yes always don’t try to get the entire lyrics at once.

These words have flown out of my mind after a lot of chaos in mind.

I'm not sure if the words are making sense. But for now I will not try making sense out of it I'll just let it be and Believe that they will make sense......

Everybody forget god dont, so na to face church

Hmmm, maybe the girl have her own reason. Maybe he's older than thee guy, or have seen another guy..

Cutehector:
aww... So wen is d wedding goin to be?

whenever it comes up dear, na godwin for us

passionate88:
@Mzshawdy, do you have those qualities?

hmmm, i can't say, nobody is perfect

justified19:
will u start texting me? #wink

lols, nope, already gat some i text

Cutehector:
aren't u one?

lols, am already for someone

justified19:
ok..u dont look like u text ur bf all d tym.

hmmm, I'd text sometimes tho, but not always....

flocelng:
you are doubting me. thanks for hooking me up

Not so Ma'am just tryna chill you up...

Cutehector:
I'd luv to meet one

lols, still search NL you will see one

justified19:
btw, dat story na ur story?

not mine, got it from a page on fb

She wanted wealth now, now she gets served, she shouldn't regret about it at all....

Cutehector:
dats d problem wit ladies.... They lie to be perfect.... Its so annoyin

lols, not all ladies lie tho, i guess the once that lie are those you have come across, there are real ladies, when i say real ladies not perfect but they can still be of good......

Cutehector:
lol only a few.... So tell me, wad made u come of wit this topic

the topic its cool, i just come across it on a friend wall on fbm and decide to share it here, Ladies do need to learn.

9. Never fail to read at least 20 books aboutmarriage and family before your wedding.

Seriously, reading crap before marriage, i guess mum read 100books of marriage then...

justified19:
na u dey cook am na, u go serve me wen it's done.

I dont think so dear, Am Ottawa Juice now..

flocelng:
op, i think you are referring to me, because i have all those qualities

Lols, if i hear joor, no lady will deny sha, everybody will say they got all the quantity list above...

Cutehector:
I think ladies should let dr boyfrnds be durin d day... He may be busy, gv him space, in d evenin or night, he will call u or u call him...

Second, if u hav a guy dats still strugglin, pls dnt freak him out... If u"v got d money den help out.

lols, sharp guy, tho, some ladies do help out sha....

Patented:
One Man's beef is another Man's Pomo. OP should speak for himself only

Hmm, why speak for myself only, tot we all do share tots together on NL?

Patented:
One Man's beef is another Man's Pomo. OP should speak for himself only

Hmm, tot here, we share tots right, why speak for myself alone?

justified19:
lol...patiently waiting, d half done sef sweet sha

lols, i pray make you see am self oh....

Manuelson:

Not funny please

hmmm, okay then

Manuelson:
Na plasticine them go use make this one o...

lols

Came:
It is not good to overdo anything , because it will lose its value.She must be the type of ladies that disturbs with numerous messages, and calls. The guy must have said to himself when that particular massage came "It must be one of her love messages,i will read it tomorrow,am tired now" Too much of everything is bad is the lesson learnt.

lols, you maybe right tho, but if you truely love someone you dont get bored of what they do, you know that right?

justified19:
rubbish...mtchew. d way u pple cook lies ehn, u sabi cook am pass food sef.

the lie you just read now, is half done, why not wait till its fully done huh?

Manuelson:
Yh sad story. My girlfriend got tired of reading mine and eventually "disappeared" from my life... Tragic

lols, funny, why not tell your mum to call her, and say you were eventually rapped huh?

What Do Men Want from Women in a Loving Relationship?

Copy from a friend wall and I decided to share it with you here
today Here are the things Men really want from women.

Caring Partner – A woman who has regard for him in every way.
She is conscious of his needs and gives him the attention he
desires, either through conversations, material needs or sexual response. She is sensitive to his past, present and future.

Understanding – A woman who knows him better than anybody
else. She could translate even his body language and reason with
him on an equal level of understanding. She could also relate to his family in an understanding and traditional way, putting asid the arrogant behaviour the modern day women extend towards their in-laws.

Confidence – A woman who trusts herself enough, to confidently
represent or stand in place of her man when he is not available
and his attention or decision is urgently required. He can rely on
her to make an equally solid decision as he would himself. She is bold and she makes herself clear to anyone who cares to know.

Independent – A woman who is not a subject to him. She gives
him breathing space. She can look after herself without leaning so
much on him in every situation; she is in control of herself.
Self-Respect and discipline – A woman who has self-respect and
self-discipline . She is not out to please anyone by putting up
pretences. She is careful about how she carries herself, what she
does and what she says. She is in total control of her own dignity.

Good Personality – A woman who brings sunshine into his life even on a cloudy day. Her smile lightens up his inner most being.
She jokes, laughs and makes life seem very easy. She rarely nags
him. Not the moody type, ever cheerful. She gets along easily
with his friends and family. She knows how and when to pamper
him.

Romantic – a woman, who can love him and teach him how to
openly express love in and out of bed, she is not shy. She breathes femininity. She will go the extra mile to discover new ways of spicing up their sex life. She has good appetite for sex. An Italian healer called De Paolin, who is a believer in sex for health, stated that: “Good sex releases nervous tension, warms the body and helps circulation.” A more intense organism also improves health, looks and serenity.

Excellent Cook – A woman who understands the adage “the way
to a man’s heart is through his stomach.” She must be in control
of her kitchen totally. Pretty good in serving him delicious basic meals he grew up with and frequently experiments with new
dishes

Spirituality - Very important too for the spiritual well being of the
family.

If there is anymore to add, kindly drop them below...