I can handle it now cos it only happened once but if it happens again then I'm definately out. I'm only giving him a second chance, thats all

Ebonyeyes:

The good thing is he came forward with the info, the bad thing is the trust issue that will arise from this situation. Do you think you can handle it? Only you can answer that question.

Yes. I can learn to trust him again with time cos it's not easy. It's only a gradual process.

woye77:

just hook me up - u can always know the why later

Ok I havent got any friend that is single

BLACKSNIP:

i advice you stick with him,

Thanks. I've decided I will.

Ladies, does size really matter? cos I heard that even with a an average size, you can still feel the pleasure as much a bigger one,

woye77:

i beg hook me up with one of your friends

Why?

Thanks you guys. I appreciate all of your responses. I've decided to give him another chance cos of his honesty and see how things goes. Hopefully, things will work out for us. Many thanks again!

Ladies please I need your advice:

I'm Nigerian and my boyfriend is also Nigerian. We both reside and met in UK and we both love each other and everything. We're not engaged or anything, just dating. Well the problem is, last year he travelled to Nigeria to see his family and consequently cheated on me. I recently found out this year when he got back, he told me voluntarily and said he was being honest and sincere with me and that I should forgive him and that it was a mistake cos he was tempted by the gurl. Anyway, the thing is although I could forgive him but its hard to forget and it will take some time to trust him again. I've tried breaking up with him but he keeps begging that it wont happen again and that its me he wants and that he's sorry. I've forgiven him but I just need advise as to whether I should break up with him. I'm just really confused cos how can a guy say he loves me and then would cheat on me. Is that true love? Please I need advice ladies, should I break up with him? or should I give him another chance then if he cheats again then I should break up with him? Please, any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.