@debosky

I am finding it really hard to blame the lady. At her age she wants a child and a husband to show off to her friends, sop her family asking her "whats up" and security for her child.

If she wanted his sperm she wont be asking him how far with marriage. I know a few ladies in her category which gives a fairly good idea what thier reactions and expectations would be.

I dont think this is about her being preggers but rather about that fact that he lead her to believe that he just might be what she needs. U get?

to reply to a thread you'd hae to be judgemental to some degree. I am guilty of that. But this situation is a battle of the sexes in terms of what is right at whateva right point.

A naija woman still single at 36 and playing the dating scene wants to get married. They wont talk about it as much as a 27 year old woman would but they do want to have that security and label "MRS"  . . . . . if all else fails at least they have to have a child. The clock normally ticks very very loud at this point.

stillwater:

Before I go on, poster, did you promise to marry her?

that is the question!

ariblaze:

anyone can fall in love

even pigs

LMFAO . . . . wow

crazykid:

@Naja. How do you know that. . . .or are you just pulling my legs?

Now why would i do that?

tope2000:

lol. . .we r both going to get married but he doesnt know it yet

this reeks of STALKERISM!!!!!! You do know that his picture has been airbrushed to the point where there were no bristles left. He might just look like a Caterpillar when you wake up next to him in the morning.

ariblaze:

who cares?

apparently some people do . . . . enough to join NL and create a thread for it

crazykid:

@Nhaje Hey don't go judging me on that pet. Of course that's not me it's just a dog. I hope you would not go thinking that I'm a dog?

Wow . . .  easy oooo. . . . . na wetin i see make me comment ooo.

Ha  . . . Oya Crazykid  . . . you fine no be small

efeski:

indeed i've bn tryin 2 move on 4 d better part of 2 yrs yet it seems an impossible task

I find it interesting when people very quickly and very comfortably use abstract issues/notions to mask thier in-competencies and weaknesses.

You are weak in the knees for her. It's as simple as that efeski. You neva tried or attempted to move on. You have consoled yourself with the fact that since YOU know HER buttons and you clearly understand how to use them  . . . . this means that she has not moved on. Do you know that with every new man in a woman's life; new buttons are created and most of the old ones either become defunct or passive?

You are hurting yourself by holding on to her mentally. She did not jazz you. You jazzed yourself. I believe, in life, you are in control of every situation. Your control can only be defined by your reaction to each individual situation. Life is about choices and discipline.

Make a choice and discipline yourself to stick to it.

crazykid:

Yea. Some members here can attest to this.

if that is you on your profile . . . . you have a long way to go my friend

@poster

I hope she gave you HIV at least this way you are bound to her for eva!!!!!


@Debosky

I like your points on the lady not being an impressionable 18 year old.

You are a Guy and You won't be dabbling with a 36yearold woman unless you have your priorities right shey? Well From the sounds of it the poster knew his game and played it well. The 36year old was a Womanliness to him! he probably does not have much luck with women so the available one was whom he took advantage of.

Then again the poster might just be very stupid and not realise that when you date a 36 year old woman the very next immediate and present-like step is marriage.

To a 36 year old Naija woman . . . . . it would be a lot more than declaration of love to get her into bed (that's unless she wants some nookie in which case she wont now be pressing him for marriage). It's a clear case of deception!

Most 36year old women are not really looking for love rather its more compatibility and security. This is where i think he played in to her sentiments and which is why i agree with everyone that's sticking it in him!

Not laying into you debosky, just that your statement was a lil bit man-ified and it needed to be expanded on

crazykid:

If you must know, I'm more handsome than he is.

Naturally

sistawoman:

what is a runs girl

Dis Guy:

whats /whos a runs girl?

prostitue? yahoo girl or what?

Runs girls runs men!

It's a glorified name for Prostitutes.

It's like hustling for guys but for women this usually involves sex with frequent partners. Its like prostitution with a Schedule, Mission Plan and Excecution Plan.

WOW!!!! this is your debut thread on NL?

@topic

I feel like i wanna like some more girls.

@kelly_hand

ask her if she can change her passwords. Simple. Its hard but it would help you move on.

DaPhoenix:

Cover his face with a pillow.

That would get you 25 to life!!

@ Topic

when I got tired of kicking him I left him and went to the living room

@poster

You do not deserve your wife!!!!!

whether you decide to continue with Your WIFE or not You are SCUM!!!!

I just feel for your wife and those lovely kids that have done no wrong. You are a BEAST!!!!

If i could heal the broken hearted in a second I will tell your wife what you are thinking ASAP. You and your ex are made from the same cloth.

SCUM SCUM SCUM!!!! Nasty SCUM!!!!

_{I can't remember ever being so angry at a poster before!}

Congratulations oooooooooo

Make sure you wear something frilly and sexy under your gown and also make sure you 'do' him nicely so he'll be bedridden for few days.

Give it to him nice and good. (he won't be thinking about how much the wedding cost him . . . at least for a while)

The list is endless . . .

I think as the fingers on our hands are not equal so are the qualities we as individuals desperately need and search for.

For Mr A -- the top of his list could be that his wife does not sleep round and cooks daily

But then for Mr B --- it would be an understanding that although they are married they both maintain an open relationship. Much like Swingers. This guy may not even be bothered that his lady can't cook.

Jay Z is not bothered that Beyonce can't cook but he still married her tho.

Freelance .  . . what qualities are you looking for?

Hollysmile:

Hope u can sustain it with ur small dic.k!

Seriously . . whats up? Haven't slept? Way too early in the morn babe.

ayeesha:

spoken like a true SON of a daft, dense, stupid beast, object of sex, imbecillic slowpoke & daft chicken headed decorated baboon!!!

pc guru:

This shit has been bugging me.are shemales formely males who changed thier sex to female without the p*ssy or they given birth to like that. (2 x Adam Brody=FuckYOU))

@Bleep-You and AnthonyKil

There's a passage in proverbs that says The fool looks like a WISE man when he shuts up and says nothing!

gabrywyl:


ok, I hope I have settled the battle of the sexes issue?

As long there is female and male there is always going to be battle of the sexes.

_{*****Now that there are lesbos, homos and trannys I think this battle is going to explode into something nasty*****}

Moonstone:

I agree with you both. I thought it was a myth as in non-existent but it does exist and it's awesome. It's so pure that everything just seems right and better. You feel like you're floating in the air especially when he/she is the equivalent of happiness. When you have a relationship with no stress and a guy who you feel understands you and loves you no matter what, when there's almost nothing you'll change about him, then you'll know that true love exists.

God's Love Does Exist.  The love we should have for him should exist. God then said love one another as you love me.

@moonstone

am really feeling you mehhn.

Obioso:

Hum am ibo boi 1st 4 pple dat think i dönt kn what is swagga should rethink cos i kn what am sayin may be u dont kn the koko.amigoz thank u very much am workin toward there cos the coast is clear 4 me.

hhhmmmm . . . . . Mehhnnnssss . . . . U making sense!!!!!

Swagga is a charismatic thing that if done in a manly sexy way draws the attention of a female.

What does ''Swagga like them'' mean? Or rather who is she/him or who are they?

tkb417:


are you from tottenham area of London?
u jamo? whtyu saying man?
get real or fck off!!

Tottenham ke? errmm . ,  u might wanna try Brixton or Islington    I don't think Jamo talk swagga.

How you dey sha?

I used to think True Love was equivalent to Dinosaurs but then I met my Baby. . . . .  he would die for me and him in a heartbeat!

True Love is rare to find. Maintaining it is another story. I am just trusting God and doing my best so that what we have does not transcend to something mundane.

Is There A Second Chance 4som1 Who Had Done A Great Damage 2u (emotionally)

Yes there is   . . . . .  third and a fourth and Fifth

Who gives them?

Capital M U M U's

@Sunday

Are you an M U M U?

From what it seems  . . . . the emotional damage was not GREAT enough. Unless you're a masochist you won't be taking her back. 

You are not a substitute sperm bank!!!! Tell her that!!!

tboy1:

Sorry dude only had information for Prince2

Goodluck!!!

Am really proud of you!!!!!

How much did you pay to sit for Prince 2?

MRbrownJAY:

just a nice way to tell you to take a hike, read the signs and move on with your life.

Simple.

@topic

silly and interesting excuse

webprince:

@sistawoman I text dat back and she said she need 2 c me 1 on 1.

are you surprised? what did you think she was going to say? So are you going to see her 1 on 1?

Affeni:


Please pardon me but can you break down the 'cows come calling'

ARE YOU SERIOUS?

_{*****I smell stupidity . . . .  am not surprised she's treating you like she's doing . . . *****}

MrCrackles:

Topic

Women dont deserve the hassles they get from men

Its a pity

am really feeling you on that.


I think women should start growing some backbone it's the 21st century after all!

MRbrownJAY:

i don't remember where i read:
a loved one that makes you cry isn't worth your tears AND the loved one worth your tears would never make you cry.

that would be perfect for the poster's ex

@Poster

text her . . . would you me like to kiss your tears?

Seeing as your ex likes cryptic questions . . . . ask her what colour her tears are . . . .

Busta:

Becos women are the weaker sex . . .even tho these days, more women are getting stronger than men emotionally and sensitively.

Kai . . . yeah i know it's true but i still get angry when i read or hear this statement!!

Why cant we turn our negatives into positives. Like if we are the weaker sex then we lure guys in with our''weaker antics'' and then give them a good beating.

What a man can do a woman can do better?

LMFAO

willyesq breeze don open ya ynash ooooooooooo and it really stinks of poopoo lol!!!!