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Travel / Re: American Tourist Exposes Embarrassing Condition Of Nigeria by Narcop: 3:37pm On Jun 13, 2023
Hmmm
Romance / Re: Yoruba Girl Pretends To Be Igbo For Engagement, Backfires Spectacularly by Narcop: 12:21pm On Jan 18, 2023
What even comes to a person's mind to do this? It seems like it could be a mental illness

That comment section though... lipsrsealed

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Culture / Re: The Amazing And Advanced Social Values Of Igbos Of Old by Narcop: 12:01am On Aug 28, 2022
AlfaSeltzer:


But, no vex, Do you go to church?

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Strange question.

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Culture / Re: The Amazing And Advanced Social Values Of Igbos Of Old by Narcop: 11:21pm On Aug 27, 2022
In an ironic turn of events, the criminal incident at at Enugu pointed out that Igbo social values were fast deteriorating; to the point it was rapidly reaching the level of 'civilised development' that the colonials were looking for when they arrived in Igboland.

Rethinking on the turn of events, I still feel saddened on the dramatic decline of the Igbo societal fabric, but some circumstances like this make me appreciate out ancestors even more.

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Culture / Re: The Amazing And Advanced Social Values Of Igbos Of Old by Narcop: 11:20pm On Aug 27, 2022
A close example is this.

Have you ever watched a Hollywood superhero movie? Put a couple on and see how many times that actors take their shirt off. Using the same logic from the colonists, we can say that western women just naturally aren't attracted to male chests, otherwise men would be covered up. The colonists, who had a more regressive way of thinking, would have been completely unable to comprehend that women could be simultaneously attracted to male bodies while understanding that their attraction didn't entitle them to push for men to 'cover' or 'hide' themselves away.

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Culture / Re: The Amazing And Advanced Social Values Of Igbos Of Old by Narcop: 11:19pm On Aug 27, 2022
Igbo society greatly admired and uplifted the human body, this was not a topic that they shied from.

This admiration was open and benign, and consequently not covert and malicious like in more repressed cultures. Igbo women could even be said to encourage it by regularly wearing body art, jewellery and clever clothing choices to accentuate their bodies such as their waists or breasts.

The core difference then, was that there was a explicit understanding of not entitled to the object of your desire. Unlike some other cultures then, there would be little tolerance if a person attacked a girl, and claimed that it was what she was wearing that tempted them . From infancy unto old age, ancient Igbos imbibed values that constantly pushed this form of self-control, and practiced it without a second thought. It would have likely been horrifying to them that there were cultures out there were this was not the norm.

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Culture / Re: The Amazing And Advanced Social Values Of Igbos Of Old by Narcop: 11:18pm On Aug 27, 2022
The colonial understanding of life was as follows. Men are naturally attracted to the female body, so their natural urges will cause them to attack women if women are in any state of nudity. In order for that not to happen, the only option was to force women to cover up. Much like in several religious societies today.

To colonial invaders, the only way that Igbo women weren't being forced to cover up their bodies, or Igboland (to their astonishment) didn't have a widespread problem of rape; was simply because Igbo men weren't attracted to the female body the same way as foreign men. In their mind these Africans possibly hadn't reached a level of 'civilised development', to where looking the opposite sex with lust was a concern.

They thought of all this, but the one thing they failed to consider was that Igbos had already reached a level of social understanding that was otherwise unknown to the foreign culture that was then being newly forced upon them.

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Culture / Re: The Amazing And Advanced Social Values Of Igbos Of Old by Narcop: 11:17pm On Aug 27, 2022
'That was just their culture and they did find [the female body] attractive', she only responded. With that she went back to what she was doing. I paraphrased quite a bit, but that was the gist of the conversation.

She had already gone back to doing what she was doing previously, unknowingly leaving me still sitting down shocked. With one simple conversation, my core perception had shattered. Unknowingly, I had imbibed the colonial perspective of my ethnicity's society and culture that was imported from invaders.

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Culture / Re: The Amazing And Advanced Social Values Of Igbos Of Old by Narcop: 11:16pm On Aug 27, 2022
"I continued on. 'It is a shame women are being attacked for showing their bodies now, while men in the olden days looked at naked breasts all day and did not see them as attractive, just lumps of flesh'. My older relative then stopped me there. She stated that they did find breasts attractive. I looked at her, feeling we had diverted from the topic a bit. "No they did not" I said. She looked back at me. 'Yes they did' she replied.

'No they didn't or women wouldn't walking around topless in the first place.' I insisted feeling a bit frustrated. Igboland lay staunchly in hot and tropical West Africa, and it's ancient inhabitants dressed accordingly. Heck, it's a common fact that some young Igbo girls before marriage walked around town with only jewellery on their bodies, so it was obvious Igbos of old didn't ascribe any particular sexual value to most of the female body or that would be impossible."

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Culture / Re: The Amazing And Advanced Social Values Of Igbos Of Old by Narcop: 11:15pm On Aug 27, 2022
"Deeply saddened by the continual deterioration of modern Igbo society. I struck up a conversation with an older female relative. I lamented on the fact that Igbos now didn't know their culture. The fact that only several decades ago, women and men walked topless across the country, but now a young woman was being attacked by violent men for wearing a skirt that was possibly even longer than what her great grandmothers wore as a young girl.

My older female relative sympathised with me and claimed that cultures will continue to always change, whether for the good or the worse."

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Culture / The Amazing And Advanced Social Values Of Igbos Of Old by Narcop: 11:14pm On Aug 27, 2022
From what this person wrote here: https://biafraspot.com/threads/the-amazing-and-advanced-social-values-of-ancient-igbos.106/

"I was thinking of a story some time ago, where woman had to be rescued in Enugu from a mob of men for wearing a short skirt. She was hidden by good Samaritans, but an angry mob were attempting to force their way through and calling for her to be brought out. It read like something out of a horror movie. How could Igbo society go down this low?

I would spare posting the story here, but some people may remember that incident a couple years ago. I remember that some people were asking, how can this happen in Igboland? It must be a mistake, it read like something from an islamic state and not Igboland.

But this terrible incident was simply an indicator of a deeper cultural flaw that had been left to fester and even encouraged in the last several decades."

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Culture / Re: Nollywood Sins: Nollywood Almost Never Gets Igbo Historical Attire Right by Narcop: 3:05am On Aug 16, 2022
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Culture / Re: Nollywood Sins: Nollywood Almost Never Gets Igbo Historical Attire Right by Narcop: 3:04am On Aug 16, 2022
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Culture / Re: Nollywood Sins: Nollywood Almost Never Gets Igbo Historical Attire Right by Narcop: 3:03am On Aug 16, 2022
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Culture / Re: Nollywood Sins: Nollywood Almost Never Gets Igbo Historical Attire Right by Narcop: 3:02am On Aug 16, 2022
This would have not been a problem is Igbos back in the day were walking around in sackcloth and ashes, but they weren't. It's like making an Indian movie, and everyone is wearing cowboy hats and boots. It makes no sense.

Here are the average clothing of historical Igbos.

Culture / Nollywood Sins: Nollywood Almost Never Gets Igbo Historical Attire Right by Narcop: 3:01am On Aug 16, 2022
https://biafraspot.com/threads/nollywood-sins-igbo-historical-attire.97/

This is likely going to be a series. Just because of how prevalent so many historical 'sins' are in modern Nollywood. Why is it that Nollywood almost never gets historical Igbo attire right? I acknowledge that Nollywood doesn't claim to represent actual history and lack of funds strongly restricts them. But at a point, you need ask; how is this even possible? Do they not research at all? Watching some movies gives the impression that they searched up stereotypical 'African' dressing and decided to go with that, instead of sitting down to talk with their elders.

Politics / Re: Natural Gas Prices Surges, Oil Declines: Implications For Eastern Nigeria by Narcop: 6:05am On Jul 27, 2022
Politics / Re: Natural Gas Prices Surges, Oil Declines: Implications For Eastern Nigeria by Narcop: 6:03am On Jul 27, 2022
Eastern Nigeria has the highest gas deposit in Nigeria...and counting. The region also has one of the highest in the world.

According to this article, the east is crucial to Nigeria's gas revolution.

https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2020/10/20/south-east-crucial-to-nigerias-gas-industry-revolution-says-fg/

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Politics / Natural Gas Prices Surges, Oil Declines: Implications For Eastern Nigeria by Narcop: 6:01am On Jul 27, 2022
https://biafraspot.com/threads/natural-gas-hits-record-levels-implications-for-eastern-nigeria.57/

The current issues in eastern Europe is causing gas prices to rise significantly.

Politics / Jewish Man Explains Why He Stands With Biafra by Narcop: 7:42am On Jul 22, 2022

Politics / Re: American Economist Explains Why Igbos Are Envied by Narcop: 5:45am On Jul 22, 2022
Shiver99:


Oh Wow. shocked

I and many other Igbos have been looking for an online board for Igbos to discuss. Unfortunately on Nairaland threads celebrating Igbos, much like this one, can at times be bogged down by a lot of tribalists.

Here: https://biafraspot.com/
Politics / Re: American Economist Explains Why Igbos Are Envied by Narcop: 5:38am On Jul 22, 2022
Shiver99:
Btw, Narcop, I haven't seen that forum before. Is it new?

Yeah. Very recent actually.
Politics / Re: American Economist Explains Why Igbos Are Envied by Narcop: 1:44pm On Jul 21, 2022
More:

From: https://biafraspot.com/threads/thomas-sowell-discusses-why-groups-such-as-igbos-jews-and-chinese-are-dominant.12/



Speaking more on middlemen:
While such individuals might be of any ethnic background, in Nigeria they were often from the Ibo tribe,
in whose culture "thrift, resourcefulness and foresight were the principal themes." Some Ibos “began trading with a few shillings or even a few pence derived from the sale of agricultural or jungle produce.” From there they proceeded to rise, step by step, as they “slightly enlarged their still very small scale of operations” until eventually they were able to become established in retailing. “In practically all cases they were members of farming families.”

"This suggests that what their enemies feel is not simply a need to be rid of them but also a need to rid them￾selves of feelings of inferiority by subjecting middleman minorities to humiliation and dehumanization. These middlemen—“their wealth inexplicable, their superiority intolerable”113—are basically an ego problem among those who have been so blatantly outper￾formed. This is also consistent with the history of the countries where middleman minorities have been either accepted or bitterly
opposed.

It is in precisely those times and places where there are few others who can supply the skills of middleman minorities that they are most hated—whether it is the Koreans in today’s American black ghettos, Jews in Eastern Poland in centuries past, Chinese in Southeast Asia, Armenians in regions of the Ottoman Empire where they were the predominant entrepreneurial group,
Lebanese in West Africa, Ibos in northern Nigeria, Indians in East Africa or others in other places. Where middleman minorities have been more accepted have been places where others have had similar skills and entrepreneurial occupations, such as the
United States, Australia, Britain, and the Scandinavian countries.
It has been precisely where middleman minorities have been most needed economically that they have been most hated, while places that have been not nearly as dependent on them have been places where they have found their greatest acceptance. This does
not present a very reassuring picture of human reasonableness, but neither does the history of most middleman minorities.
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Politics / Re: American Economist Explains Why Igbos Are Envied by Narcop: 1:42pm On Jul 21, 2022
“Where middlemen are an ethnically distinct group -the Jews, the Chinese in SouthEast Asia, the east Indians in Uganda, the Ibos in Nigeria- that ethnic group is hated by the masses who deal with them” ~Dr. Thomas Sowell

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Politics / American Economist Explains Why Igbos Are Envied by Narcop: 1:39pm On Jul 21, 2022
From: https://biafraspot.com/threads/thomas-sowell-discusses-why-groups-such-as-igbos-jews-and-chinese-are-dominant.12/

[img]https://biafraspot.com/attachments/1658403081818-jpeg.7/[/img]

Asian Americans are a substantial presence in this region but they are by no means a majority, much less such an overwhelming majority as they are among those winning high tech awards.

This pattern of disproportionate representation of particular groups among those with special skills and achievements is not confined to Asian Americans or even to the United States. It is a phenomenon among particular racial, ethnic or other groups in countries around the world — the Ibos in Nigeria, the Parsees in India, the Armenians in the Ottoman Empire, Germans in Brazil, Chinese in Malaysia, Lebanese in West Africa, Tamils in Sri Lanka. The list goes on and on.

Gross inequalities in skills and achievements have been the rule, not the exception, on every inhabited continent and for centuries on end. Yet our laws and government policies act as if any significant statistical difference between racial or ethnic groups in employment or income can only be a result of their being treated differently by others.

Nor is this simply an opinion. Businesses have been sued by the government when the representation of different groups among their employees differs substantially from their proportions in the population at large. But, no matter how the human race is broken down into its components — whether by race, sex, geographic region or whatever — glaring disparities in achievements have been the rule, not the exception.

Anyone who watches professional basketball games knows that the star players are by no means a representative sample of the population at large. The book "Human Accomplishment" by Charles Murray is a huge compendium of the top achievements around the world in the arts and sciences, as well as in sports and other fields.

Nowhere have these achievements been random or representative of the demographic proportions of the population of a country or of the world. Nor have they been the same from one century to the next. China was once far more advanced technologically than any country in Europe, but then it fell behind and more recently is gaining ground.

Most professional golfers who participate in PGA tournaments have never won a single tournament, but Arnold Palmer, Jack Nicklaus and Tiger Woods have each won dozens of tournaments.

Yet these and numerous other disparities in achievement are resolutely ignored by those whose shrill voices denounce disparities in rewards, as if these disparities are somehow suspicious at best and sinister at worst.

Higher achieving groups — whether classes, races or whatever — are often blamed for the failure of other groups to achieve. Politicians and intellectuals, especially, tend to conceive of social questions in terms that allow them to take on the role of being on the side of the angels against the forces of evil.This can be a huge disservice to those individuals and groups who are lagging behind, for it leads them to focus on a sense of grievance and victimhood, rather than on how they can lift themselves up instead of trying to pull other people down.

Again, this is a worldwide phenomenon — a sad commentary on the down side of the brotherhood of man.

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Romance / Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Narcop: 2:20pm On Feb 14, 2022
Carot:
behind every successful male leader, there is a woman. Women are suppose to be chaste and live by example and not the other way round

Just speaking as a neutral observer to this thread. Your exact mindset now is how millions of religious Nigerians (which I am assuming you are one) when they pass through this life, end up in hell.

I'm speaking candidly here, please never support evil just because you enjoy it or are able to do it.

There are too many bad things that that are celebrated in Nigeria that eventually leads it's participants to eternal regret.

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Literature / Re: New Website to View African Stories by Narcop: 11:16am On Jan 16, 2021
Ok...

Thanks anyways.

I'll try again.
Literature / Re: New Website to View African Stories by Narcop: 11:08am On Jan 16, 2021
Ok...

A writing group right? Do you have any links?
Literature / Re: New Website to View African Stories by Narcop: 8:11am On Jan 16, 2021
Narcop:
Hi Emulsy,

I want to post, but I can't figure out how to upload a novel?

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Literature / Re: New Website to View African Stories by Narcop: 7:52am On Jan 16, 2021
Hi Emulsy,

I want to post, but I can't figure out how to upload a novel?
Literature / Re: New Website to View African Stories by Narcop: 10:55am On Jan 04, 2021
It looks pretty good. Can anyone post there?
Literature / Re: New Website to View African Stories by Narcop: 9:38am On Jan 04, 2021
Cool. I'll check it out.

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