No advice to give but Goodluck to you bro

Nigeria is a power house in Africa house like other develope nation (Germany, Uk, France, Usa)

Our weather, population, landmass, natural resources and labour is nothing to be contend with

Only if we can make use of our advantages to overcome our disadvantage, we will give the black race a prestige

Nice to hear these form a foreigner

Absolutely true

And this traits are very much seen in younger women (below 21 years old)

But as they grow older and their congo has been shined by numerous bad boys who dumped them, they appreciate the nice guys.

Its not bad to be nice, but it limits your chance of getting laid, you would be stucked up in the friend zone, or the maga that they run to when they need care, advice and cash. (afterall, thats why you are nice)

constant drama and quarel stretches their emotions, and they fall deeply for guys with such traits.

Oya boy, try being bad if you wanna get laid.

Good thread

But if all you ladies here can tell yourself the truth, it would never get better

Naija/Black girls generally sees an ordinary hard working guy as being sissy/boring/not man enough etc. They lack common sense and are short sighted. They judge you base on today alone, and the judgement generally comes from the way you dress, talk etc. they can tell if you are rich or not (materialistic bunch of girls).

even in the western world, some guys always prefer to settle with white ladies or come back to look for a decent woman either by recommendation from families or a long time girlfriend. Many of my friends got married through that way.

If you need an evidence of how materialistic Naija girls are, just stop them when you are in your car, and see the way they will jump in as if they have known you from adam. And if you stop that same girl when you are on foot, then the attitude change.

Like someone already said, the only thing most (yes, most) of them will offer you is s3x and children thats all.

many of my friends in Nigeria are clocking 35, but havent found a decent wife due to their materialistic behaviour.

even the one's I met in New york, London, Paris are nothing to write home about

Imagine when you are on a date and a girl is asking you question like ''are you a student?´´ what job do you do?'' do you have a car?'' ''do you live alone?'' etc

THE FACT IS, THERE ARE GOOD MARRIAGABLE MEN EVERYWHERE, THEY WILL COME TO YOU IF YOU ARE DECENT AND NOT MATERIALISTIC AS THE REST.

Show me a woman of 26 years old, and I will show you at least 5 different guys that proposed to them

And to the guys here, pls tell them the fact, and stop making them feel like is not their fault they are still single.

Of course there are decent girls, but majority of them are like these, and I am sure they are on this page. (no need to take it personal if you aint one)

Just my thought

I remember they used to call me Dog then, because my saw name was Ajah

One day, I provoked a guy and he brought bone to class the next day, and came to put it on my desk and shouting

Bingo, Bingo, eat some bone. The whole class saw the him, and were all shouting Bingo, bingo.

Even in maths class, them de call me adjacent. no be small thing.

I go enter school with happiness, come out with sadness

My papa done report to the principal tired so tay, principal nor know wetin to de again because any small thing, student go call you dog

This was when I was in High school and secondary school

E no esay mehn.

Memories

N.B: I no be Calabar, I be ibo boy

wishing you all sucesss in your application

seriously, i cant believe the replies I am getting here. is carry your child on your back the best or the only way to show care to your child? I can do more than this, but carrying the child on my back is not my thing

only a foolish man will do this. even if na my pikin nko? everybody has a duty to play and this is definitely not my own part

I thought I might bring this topic up, since I can't find it on Nairaland.

What are the things you regrets while growing up?

Mine was constant abuse by parents, elderly people and teachers who believe that constant beating, insult that demoralize self esteem (e.g dullards, Good for nothing etc) and abuse is the best way to discipline you. even for things you did not do, and there are little or no chance to defend yourself. you don't always get what you want even though its available, with the mindset that you will be spoilt if they give it to you, there was no family time, as everyone was busy with working from 7am to 11pm. Parents never took you out to parks and recreational center, have some fun time with the kids and to clear any doubt to most of the questions which I may ask. and to be Honest, i got some answers that has been pondering in my mind since childhood as an adult, because it was constantly ignored by parents or perceived adult who underestimate your curiosity

Please share your experience.

MUMU. lol, when you apply to join your grandma wife, you go know whats up. you think say consular na mumu like you abi? continue dreaming

fish seller, psychopathic internet Eediot

No make me get your time, if i do, you go change your username because i go too yab you. keep dreaming

dahonestboss: na wa ooo, see this two Anililagnia, make una no vex abeg.

oh boy you bad ooo, why you call dem anililagnia? I sure say them nor know the meaning sef

Talk2naija: I am not saying he should come to Nigeria and get married, the lady said the guy travel to germany on tourist visa I think and it will soon be expired and I said why can he find someone he can married over there (citizen) and come back to Nigeria, because he applied for tourist visa and he promise to return then he should return as he promised, then since he's married to a german citizen he should apply for family visit then when he got he can tell his wife to apply for stay for him. That's what I mean hmm

Na only topics wey involve marriage to akata dem de see you for, and to make things worst, na only old women you de get affair with. take am easy bro, e no de easy as you think am. you still young, invest in yourself, not hoping for woman wey go carry you go obodo oyinbo. I de live for europe, and I know as e be for here.

i don advise you my own.

They also threatened to kill you if you did not open the door

According to the bolded statement above, its a clear evidence that either they are armed robbers or hired killers. to be honest with you, I will waste them all, at least that is one of the reason that I have a licenced gun, its for my personal safety and defence.

but in the case of ALUU, the boys were caught without any weapon or stolen items, which makes it barbaric to lynched them in broad day light. even the law allows you to kill in defence of your live, family and property but not in a situation were you had already disarmed and arrested the intruder.

nkem owoh