You are right Kobo, it is scolding. I was just at a loss for word for the way this govt is carrying on.

It is really interesting that a supposedly educated person with PHD would speak to the nation on what appears to be a recorded message in a manner that is equal to reprimand. In a democracy, you cannot impose on the people and expect them to be quiet. Nigerians are no fools and we have been quiet enough. If Nigeria belongs to us all like gej said, then we should all benefit from the nation's wealth and not just a select few cabals. What a shame getting fat on the backs of the masses.

@3ndy, it seems that you have already received a lot of good advice and would hope and pray that for your own sake you would seriously think about the situation and make the right decision for yourself.  I would add that no one man/woman has the ability to make you happy but yourself.  From what I have read of your situation, you are slowly being demoralized and very soon completely loose any sense of self worth that you may have.  I think that your partner should add to you and not subtract from you.  It is better to end it to prevent a lifetime of sorrow if you so desire.  Wish you the best

I would say that it is not good to compare your current girlfriend with your ex because you will be making your current girlfriend feel that she is inferior. Even if you get married to your current girlfriend, keeping your ex in your mind is like having a third person in the relationship. Prayerfully make your decision.

Merry Christmas to all

My suggestion is to go with the flow and see where it goes. You just need to keep an open mind and hope that he does the same. I wish you the best.

I am guessing that people don't chat in here

Online dating/marriage is a sign of the times, It can work if both parties are honest with each other about their expectations just as one would meeting someone through friends or other ways.

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