I'm just wondering I am dating a man from Nigeria and he seems perfect but it scares me because if we were to marry and we go back to Nigeria to visit can he keep my there against my will? Because you here and watch that when these american woman marry someone form another country and you go back they can keep you there because your under their law is that true for Nigeria? I am trying to learn more about him and his culture I asked him but I don't know if he is lying to me or not he says he won't be you never know.