This boy will live to thank you for your labour of love. So many mothers would have given up on him but you didnt. God bless you ma. I'm encouraged.

onye ego:
But God never collected bride price.
But the discussion is on the significance of paying the bride price as practiced today.If I have a daughter , I won't collect money before giving out in marriage,the purpose of money is to buy things, so my daughter can never be sold.
For the people that do it, good for them, but for me it's baseless and makes no sense.
They will tell you; we are not selling our daughter but they still collect money and other items.
Who is fooling who

Oga, suite yourself. If you dash your daughter to a man, dont complain when he starts treating her like a piece of trash.

I pray she doesn't get killed too.

onye ego:
Who collected the bride price of Eve in the bible?
Or is Eve not Adams wife?

I agree that one must pay the dowry but its doesn't prove anything before God.
Whether you pay or not, as long as you sleep with each other, you have become man and wife.

God ordained Adam and Eve's marriage Himself, do u want to question dat? I dont think you would like it if you get to know your daughter is living with a man without your consent or a bottle of wine on her head. Things are got to be done righty.

ekt_bear: I think that things are even more romantic when you live separately.

For me, with my recent situation, she lived 30 minutes away. So I'd pack a bag and spend the night. So it felt special spending the night at her house, or vice versa.

If you live together, then isn't that "special" aspect gone? How do you maintain the romance?

. Hmmm, wont you get married? May be when you do and start living together, u'll still be travelling to another lady's house for the weekend in other to "maintain the romance". Marriage is for the mature minds sha.

honeric01:

Fallacy, how can you be married just because you live together? what about bride price? didn't the bible talk about bride price?

Yes, whether you marry in church or not does not mean you're not married as long as you've paid the paid price which is the only evidence accepted in Heaven.

Then for official reason, you must have a court wedding too, if not, the government of the land does not see you as married.

if any of these 2 are not done, then you're not married and only sleeping with eachother like "friends with benefits"

Thank you sir. Well said.

Lovine: All the marriages joined by men are irrelevant until God joins them. Go to many homes today and see by your self what is going on, no peace and only cat and rat. They were joined by men but not God. Anything God joined will last for ever and with peace even if there are challenges, God will still see them through. Church marriages, etc are nothing until God does it.

my dear, marriage is purely physical, not spiritual. The husband and wife are the ones to involve God in their marriage. Adam and Eve were joined by God, what happened to them? Besides, God will not come down from heaven to join couples. For a marriage to work, the 2 parties involved have responsibilities. @topic, cohabiting is bad. Jesus went for a wedding at Cana where He turned water into wine. That makes me believe the importance of wedding. If you are lady and cohabiting, you are sooooo wrong. Only very few men settle down with such ladies. Let Him pay your bride price at least. As for me, take me to the altar first before i back my things to your house. And thats exactly how it happened.

ok

pls doc, can i hv ur email address?

jerseyboy: made in china

exactly my tot

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Best news of all: ABSOLUTELY NO SIDE EFFECTS


N.B. I've just read about the above remedy and got my friend to successully try it but have subsequently discovered it is quite a popular natural online remedy for lowering high BP.

pls has any1 tried this out? Whats the result? So many bp patients around. Thanks for sharing.

R2bees: make una forget that tin, na him buy am kom gv church members make them present am 2 him as bufday gift

. Were u there when he bought it? If his members are rich, what is a private jet? Happy birthday papa.

redsun: He is a shameless tout.An offer nobles like buhari cannot accept even with a thousand metres pole inbetween is an opportunity of a life time for an osu like kalu.

If animals like him who are the bane of corruption and nigerian syndromes are locked for their criminalities,insurgencies will fade out in nigeria.

eyaaa, dont take it too personal, has he offended you in any way? Orji is far more better than most politicians in Nigeria, take it or leave it.

nyere84: All this for marriage to work?? Pls, were are the lesbians in the house?

. Meaning? If you are one, kneel down and ask God to forgive you. Do not get urself involved in dat dirty game.

carry on sir...

I hope to be the one. So help me God.

masterpiecer:

lolllll,

very funny though.
ok, let me give a tip on how i make my favourite noodles with eggs.

step 1:
fill a kettle with about half a litre of water (depending on the size of the noodles, more noodles, more water).
allow to boil till a 100 degree celcius

step 2:
take an empty bowl,
place the noodles inside, pour the boiled water on it (make sure the water level covers the noodles),
cover the bowl with a lid or wide flat plate and allow the heat of the water to cook the noodles for about 4 minutes.

step 3:
pour the noodles with the water into a sieve so that the water can drain off the noodles,
pour the noodles into the empty bowl, (by now it will be a little bit soft, but not totally cooked),
add seasoning (noodles seasoning or any of ur choice), stir together very well
note: all of these should be done on the bowl without placing it on the fire.

step 4:
take a frying pan, place it on the fire,
pour 5-6 table spoonful of groundnut oil on it
slice half a bulb of onion, (slice fresh pepper if u like)
allow the oil to get hot (but not too hot)
pour the sliced onion into the oil and allow to fry for 3mins
pour the already seasoned noodles into the oil and allow to fry for 2mins while u stir consistently
note: u can add very little water to it so it can soften a little (but if u want it crunchy, dont add water)

step 5:
get eggs(desired no, 2,preferably)
whisk in a bowl
pour the whisked eggs into the frying noodles
allow it to fry 4 about 1min without stirring
then stir the mixture altogether

voila!!!
enjoy ur meal
(pls remember to give feedback after ur 1st attempt)

oh yeah

Toria,this is soooo good and i'm sooo loving it. That's a very good one. More of it pls.