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Romance / Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Nicejay30(m): 9:30am On Nov 27, 2017
LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking naked for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.

Truth is some gals wud always play hard to get so as not to appear cheap so wnt give their consent straight up not until d deed is done.... So in essence itz difficult to tell if she does not actually want it considering how easy it was 4 him to go down on her wit d oral stuff and all dat..

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Crime / Re: 16-Year-Old Girl Who Was Gang-Raped By 4 Boys, Dies Of Strange Ailment (Photo) by Nicejay30(m): 9:00pm On Nov 12, 2017
pol23:
This is a murder case.
She was killed by her Family to cover the shame and disgrace...
My guess though.

I dnt really understand how you guys think though o... after reading all of dis u still came up with such notion....
Just smh...

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Religion / Re: Five Things You Never Knew About Jehovah's Witnesses. by Nicejay30(m): 8:49am On Oct 30, 2017
DavidEsq:

1 Corinthians. 5:11

Dats wat u are still dwelling on?...

Dat was exactly what brought about me saying dat Jesus dined with zacheaus na....
And u are yet to give any illustration as to d prostitute... Did d disciples not complain to Jesus when she approached him? Did he turn away from her?
And moreover did d bible say disfellowship a brethren dat does not go 4 preaching

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Religion / Re: Five Things You Never Knew About Jehovah's Witnesses. by Nicejay30(m): 10:42pm On Oct 29, 2017
Itz funny what u people are saying about dis blood ish... God's instruction was dat we should abstain from anything dat has been touched with blood especially when dead... Except being killed by us 4 food.... Dats so far from transfusing blood na as d person is still alive and not dead... Itz basically as food cos God sees whatever thing touched by blood as unclean
Datz y a lady cnt lead the church cos she has periods of uncleanliness which is her menstruation...
My church allows women to preach but not as d head of d church as it is biblical...

In essence abstain from blood there means abstain from everything touched by blood mostly as food...
Mind u is there no blood in our system, why dnt we abstain from ourselves then since u say God hates blood..
Religion / Re: Five Things You Never Knew About Jehovah's Witnesses. by Nicejay30(m): 10:32pm On Oct 29, 2017
DavidEsq:

If u read that scripture, u wld c clearly wr Apostle Paul made a distinction between the Zacheaus kinda people and the people who claim to be of the fold of Christ yet practice vile things. Pls kindly comment of that scripture because u failed to do so but began to talk of semantics.
what scripture pls...
Did he also talk about the prostitute if so pls show me...
Religion / Re: Five Things You Never Knew About Jehovah's Witnesses. by Nicejay30(m): 3:06pm On Oct 29, 2017
Oye0404:

I attend a Baptist church but am at awe on JW level of commitment. this broda comes around since I was in Sec school till I went to d uni,, he still calls me now even wen I don't worship wit dem. how many Christian can leave d comfort if his home and walk in the scotchy sun d heavy rain for a course u don't get paid for. they are d only practising Christians I know

I love dis attributes of theirs most definitely buh d funny side of it is dat if u dnt go for dis outreach, u wud b dismembered
Religion / Re: Five Things You Never Knew About Jehovah's Witnesses. by Nicejay30(m): 2:40pm On Oct 29, 2017
DavidEsq:

Pls read 1 corinthians 5:11. Whatever reasons for "dismembership" as u put it, is contained in dat scripture. The first part of ur story doesn't say it all. In fact, it appears to conform with "dem say".

Dis is where u get it all wrong

Did Jesus not dine with zacheaus

Or what of d prostitute dat washed the feet of jesus

D bible is more than English words but of sound understanding which d Holy Spirit gives
Religion / Re: Five Things You Never Knew About Jehovah's Witnesses. by Nicejay30(m): 9:40am On Oct 29, 2017
Nobody is saying they are terrible people.. It's some of their doctrines dat seems way too extreme..

An old woman dat was sick 4 some time and was unable to go out with dem 4 preaching during dis period till she died and yet was a member all dis while was dismembered and refused to b buried by them cos she was unable to go out 4 preaching at her age...

These practices do not denote Christ...

If u are a member and u go astray dey wud dismember u immediately having nothing to do with u....

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Education / Re: OAU Student Set To Break 28 Year-old Record by Nicejay30(m): 8:16am On Oct 23, 2017
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked

How is that an achievement.

Graduating from Medicine at 28years?
Nonsense.
Enough of all these medicority


My cousin did her housemanship at 23.
And she graduated with distinction too....
No hype, no noise. Just silently challenging the norm.


Even if she's 28years old.... what hav u yourself achieved at ur age... U are here boasting of ur cousin.. Abeg try get sense.

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Romance / Re: What's The Most Bizarre Thing You Ever Did For Love? by Nicejay30(m): 11:28pm On Oct 19, 2017
Having to beg her even when she's the one at fault...

Traveled to her skul to spend time with her even while she had two roommates...

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Crime / Re: Man Dies After Pole Falls On Him While Attempting To Steal Electric Cables. PICS by Nicejay30(m): 8:32am On Sep 08, 2017
1000 ways to die in the East

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