I got thinking seriously lately n it prompted me 2 ask this question- what makes him/her 'the one' you've been searching for, for so long? cos recently i found out dat as for me beauty is secondary while searching for d lady of my dream, n then good intellect, originality, good character, expression of care n understanding are d primary factors i watch out 4 in dat lady. Beauty is not my condition 4 liking her but she should just look ok n presentable. WHAT ABOUT YOU GUYS OR LADIES?

There are no hard and fast rules.

What makes mine "the one" is we complete eachother, for the most part what I lack he has and vice versa. Along with this we are able to be completely honest with eachother and always try to not take eachother for granted.

only you can decide if the person your are with is the "ONE" and besides even if you think the person your'e with is the one you could be wrong too

iyawo1005:

What makes mine "the one" is we complete eachother, for the most part what I lack he has and vice versa.

you mean complement(go well together) each other?  I hate that phrase: complete each other.  As if you were incomplete before you met him.  You have your own responsibilities, your own goals, your own life. You were able to add him to your life without any hinderance. You came into the relationship as a whole person with lots to offer.  Luckily enough he brings the same qualities.  When the two of you are molded together, lightning strikes and you're able to jell very well.

lol mr kobe, long time. where have you been jare

and I too hate the whole "we complete each other" nonsense. I dont know which God created these "incomplete/inadequate" people

my sister. i dey o.

You do not have to search at all. What is yours is yours. Only God can give you that! And then you can confidently brag about it!

@poster reminds me of original movie "Matrix" where the famous quote said, "You are THE ONE". Obviously @poster don't know what he wants finding his soulmate!!!

opokonwa:

There are no hard and fast rules.

abi oh !

opokonwa:

There are no hard and fast rules.

Oh yes there are!

1. you better be 'hard' else you cannot be the one for some chicks, no impotent men allowed

2. you better NOT be fast (aka 1 minute man I-man ) else you shall also be disqualified

I hope with these few points I have been able to confinse you and not confuse you that hard and fast rules exist.

I think as a late b-day present, Im gonna buy debo a woman

He's beginning to scare me

Wetin be d problem? abi no be truth I talk?

like a Hot bloke. the other day he was hitting on one infant girl like that.
bros, i fear.

sharrap ma friend!

who appointed you nairaland police aka sisimose v 2.0?

I only complimented her, na crime again?

anyways, my theory holds water, I await rebuttals

debosky:

Oh yes there are!

1. you better be 'hard' else you cannot be the one for some chicks, no impotent men allowed

2. you better NOT be fast (aka 1 minute man I-man ) else you shall also be disqualified
I hope with these few points I have been able to confinse you and not confuse you that hard and fast rules exist.

True word! True word!

@kobe
Yes I was a whole person before I came into the relationship but I had my flaws just like everyone else in this world and for the most part the flaws I have he is able to make up for, such as I am not the best at handling money and he is able to help me budget, savings etc. So if to you that is complement then I will say that we complement eachother.

Weeell nothing but lots n lots of wad to throw around. It is written that '' the way to a woman's heart is thru her pocket"
Stuff it with dough and you get real luving. I no come suffer in this obodo naija