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Re: He Has Feelings For Someone Else: by Nobody: 3:17am On May 16, 2009 |
Ehrrrm, he kept trying to force her to tell him that she likes him? Dude Likessssssssssssss her. Trust me. Leave them both alone and let them enjoy. ![]() |
Re: He Has Feelings For Someone Else: by Busybody2(f): 3:38am On May 16, 2009 |
FL Gators: Na only that one you see ![]() ![]() |
Re: He Has Feelings For Someone Else: by luvbooks(f): 3:42am On May 16, 2009 |
Thanks Busy body, ![]() ![]() ![]() I just feel sad now. What a waste of time. I feel like flogging myself when I remember how I was considering sleeping with him. @ Follypimpi ; Just to let you know, your comment was at best, irritating, and at worst, insulting. It was NOT funny. |
Re: He Has Feelings For Someone Else: by Busybody2(f): 4:08am On May 16, 2009 |
luvbooks: Anytime babe ![]() ![]() Allow yourself to grieve and mourn his loss, cry if you have to, listen to uplifting songs, but don't mop around for too long, hang out with your friends, get involved in what you love doing or invest in new hobbies, etc You will get over it, this too shall pass, after the pain and every pain comes the healing, so hang in there ![]() And before I forget, in case you need someone to administer the cane or koboko to flog yourself because you cannot trust yourself to do it properly, I am the woman for the job ![]() As for that Follypimpi, please bear with him for my sake, you see he is my NL boyfriend (my e-boyfrend), but I caught him looking at another girl so I have been punishing him and it is clear he is taking it out on you, so please indulge him for my sake ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: He Has Feelings For Someone Else: by Pataki: 10:21am On May 16, 2009 |
ThoniaSlim:You are quite right my dear Thonia. But then again, could it not possibly be that, the lady forced her emotions on the dude, hence leading to his confusion? Nevertheless, my advice for the poster, is to move on. There are better guys out there. No point sitting on the seat of confusion with a confused dude. |
Re: He Has Feelings For Someone Else: by Fancier(f): 4:10pm On May 16, 2009 |
HEY girl dont fall for his trick his not confuse oooo he's only keeping you around to use you while he woo the other girl then wen they eventually come to a compromise he will dump you. I was once in your shoe and did exactly what you just did. its better you dump him first so he will see you as a super star now and not a dummy. I wish all girls will just be wise and not be blind folded with all this confused guys stories all the best move on with your life. One Advice: dont ask your g/friend anything about his again and dont even create room for her to tell you about him it will only make you feel used. If possible avoid both of them they are clawns |
Re: He Has Feelings For Someone Else: by luvbooks(f): 1:10pm On May 30, 2009 |
[color=#770077][/color] I NEED ADVICE - THIS IS AN UPDATE;! Ok, I was determined to start the healing process, so I did my exams and tried to move on. But now, He called me yesterday night, but I did'nt pick up, so he came to my house last night and said he was expecting a package in the morning ( he normally used to send his mail to my house cos if he sent it to his home, his friends would sign for it and he'd never see it again.) So I let him in, and suddenly he was on his knees, asking me to take him back. I could'nt believe my ears or eyes! I thought it was a joke, but he said he was serious and that he was sorry for everything. Initially, I said no, but he said he had made up his mind about things . Then I told him that I had heard that he was already going out with the other girl. He said he wasn't and that that was all over. So I 'm really, really confused now. Not just because of him, but because I also heard that my best friend played to the other girl's advantage while those texts were being sent, and that she wrote some of them herself. I try to be open -minded about stuff, but this really puts me in a difficult situation., cos I don't know who is lying to me. PS. And he lied about the package. He wasn't expecting anything (he told me the next day). |
Re: He Has Feelings For Someone Else: by topup: 2:24pm On May 30, 2009 |
Hi luvbrooks, you're a very smart woman indeed, you gave the relationship all you had, but when the signs were against you, you used your wisdom to make decisions to benefit yourself. Who is he really?? Okay, about the 'really good friend' - those words should never leave a boyfriend's mouth especially in the context it was in, he implied that you were nothing special. The guy you dated tried to monopolise you and you didn't fall for it, I think you left at the right time because even though it all lasted for three months, you made sure you checked your facts and now it'll be the hardest task of all for him to convince you, because you did nothing rash, you were calm and collected and so you're better off than he is. He tried to keep you in the dark and now everything's in the light and we can see that he was behaving differently with you compared to the way he behaved with others. No worries though, we're all behind you, you did the right thing and he was just another jerk. Now at least you've learnt some lessons (you stayed true to yourself too) and you can go and find someone who deserves all your affection and attention. Please remember there will be genuine people who don't like to broadcast their relationships (like me - since it's no one elses' business), also there will be genuine guys who may say a similar thing, you just have to be smart and use your wit (like you did here). Not all guys are untrustworthy - just this one. All the best in future & God Bless. |
Re: He Has Feelings For Someone Else: by luvbooks(f): 6:09pm On May 31, 2009 |
[color=#990000][/color] IS ANYONE GOING TO HELP ME? |
Re: He Has Feelings For Someone Else: by gloriuss(f): 11:51pm On Jun 04, 2009 |
hmmm, this is a tough one. I would be so careful when it comes to this guy as he is very seedy. I think u need to rid ur life from him for good, if that makes any sense!!! I'm not completely sure as to what motifs this guy has but definitely I know its not a good one. Ur not and shouldnt be treated as a rebound or a substitute. Yes he's back begging but u as a sensible lady u must decipher as to [i][/i]why he's back begging, and can he really be trusted! I dont think much help can be on hand as the decision is urs as to what to do! Best of luck gal! |
Re: He Has Feelings For Someone Else: by adedimu4u: 12:22am On Jun 05, 2009 |
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Re: He Has Feelings For Someone Else: by gloriuss(f): 12:28am On Jun 05, 2009 |
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Re: He Has Feelings For Someone Else: by luvbooks(f): 12:56am On Jun 05, 2009 |
@ Gloriuss ; I posted another topic called "Am I being too irrational? " because I wasnt getting any replies. You should check it out. It's kind of like ; Part 2 of this story. Thanks so much for replying. |
Re: He Has Feelings For Someone Else: by gloriuss(f): 12:58am On Jun 05, 2009 |
@luvbooks, its cool girl, will do so! |
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