Ehrrrm, he kept trying to force her to tell him that she likes him?

Dude Likessssssssssssss her. Trust me.

Leave them both alone and let them enjoy.

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Ehrrrm, he kept trying to force her to tell him that she likes him?

Dude Likessssssssssssss her. Trust me.

Leave them both alone and let them enjoy.

Na only that one you see Go and read the part where the POSTER went to the other girl's place and read the text her man sent

Thanks Busy body, , and no , no explanations needed.

I just feel sad now. What a waste of time.
I feel like flogging myself when I remember how I was considering sleeping with him.

@ Follypimpi ; Just to let you know, your comment was at best, irritating, and at worst, insulting. It was NOT funny.

luvbooks:

Thanks Busy body, , and no , no explanations needed.

I just feel sad now. What a waste of time.
I feel like flogging myself when I remember how I was considering sleeping with him.

@ Follypimpi ; Just to let you know, your comment was at best, irritating, and at worst, insulting. It was NOT funny.

Anytime babe You are very strong for a first timer, and I must say again that I am really impressed with the way you are well put together You really tried your best with this relationship and you gave your best but alas it was not to be. Just thank God that you got out quickly and learn from this and follow your hunch next time you feel something is not right in your relationship.

Allow yourself to grieve and mourn his loss, cry if you have to, listen to uplifting songs, but don't mop around for too long, hang out with your friends, get involved in what you love doing or invest in new hobbies, etc You will get over it, this too shall pass, after the pain and every pain comes the healing, so hang in there

And before I forget, in case you need someone to administer the cane or koboko to flog yourself because you cannot trust yourself to do it properly, I am the woman for the job

As for that Follypimpi, please bear with him for my sake, you see he is my NL boyfriend (my e-boyfrend), but I caught him looking at another girl so I have been punishing him and it is clear he is taking it out on you, so please indulge him for my sake

ThoniaSlim:

Haba Mr Pataki. . .what justice are we talking of here? do you expect her to keep wasting her time with this confused being and listening to his whacked up excuses. . .while better guys pass her by? don't think so.

You are quite right my dear Thonia. But then again, could it not possibly be that, the lady forced her emotions on the dude, hence leading to his confusion? Nevertheless, my advice for the poster, is to move on. There are better guys out there. No point sitting on the seat of confusion with a confused dude.

HEY girl dont fall for his trick his not confuse oooo he's only keeping you around to use you while he woo the other girl then wen they eventually come to a compromise he will dump you. I was once in your shoe and did exactly what you just did. its better you dump him first so he will see you as a super star now and not a dummy. I wish all girls will just be wise and not be blind folded with all this confused guys stories all the best move on with your life.
One Advice: dont ask your g/friend anything about his again and dont even create room for her to tell you about him it will only make you feel used. If possible avoid both of them they are clawns

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I NEED ADVICE - THIS IS AN UPDATE;!




Ok,  I was determined to start the healing process, so I did my exams and tried to move on. But now, He called me yesterday night, but I did'nt pick up, so he came to my house last night and said he was expecting a package in the morning ( he normally used to send his mail to my house cos if he sent it to his home, his friends would sign for it and he'd never see it again.) So I let him in, and suddenly he was on his knees, asking me to take him back. I could'nt believe my ears or eyes! I thought it was a joke, but he said he was serious and that he was sorry for everything. Initially, I said no, but he said he had made up his mind about things . Then I told him that I had heard that he was already going out with the other girl. He said he wasn't and that that was all over.
So I 'm really, really confused now. Not just because of him, but because I also heard that my best friend played to the other girl's advantage while those texts were being sent, and that she wrote some of them herself. I try to be open -minded about stuff, but this really puts me in a difficult situation., cos I don't know who is lying to me.

PS. And he lied about the package. He wasn't expecting anything (he told me the next day).

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IS ANYONE GOING TO HELP ME?

hmmm, this is a tough one. I would be so careful when it comes to this guy as he is very seedy. I think u need to rid ur life from him for good, if that makes any sense!!! I'm not completely sure as to what motifs this guy has but definitely I know its not a good one. Ur not and shouldnt be treated as a rebound or a substitute. Yes he's back begging but u as a sensible lady u must decipher as to [i][/i]why he's back begging, and can he really be trusted! I dont think much help can be on hand as the decision is urs as to what to do! Best of luck gal!

hi, can we chat, my id is adedimu4u@yahoo.co.uk

@adedimu4u, ther b plenti girls 4 dis site oh! who u tryna hook up wit?? lolololol

@ Gloriuss ; I posted another topic called "Am I being too irrational? "  because I wasnt getting any replies. You should check it out. It's kind of like ; Part 2 of this story. Thanks so much for replying.

@luvbooks, its cool girl, will do so!