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Hey ladies no matter the condition avoid saying these,even when you are pushed to 1) "My ex did the exact same thing!" Whether it's a desirable resemblance (they both always hold the door open) or a less desirable one (neither one showers often enough), your boyfriend never wants to hear that he's anything like your ex. Ever. You don't want him to feel like you're always comparing the two of them, do you? Think about it: Do you really want him to imagine that he does other things just like your ex? Doubtful. Plus, he might think you're still hung up on your former flame. Either way, a comment like this won't do much for his self-esteem. So the next time you experience boyfriend deja-vu, keep it to yourself. 2) "helen's pregnant ... shhhh" Remember on Séx and the City when Carrie tells Aidan that Miranda's pregnant but that he can't tell Steve? Remember how upset Aidan was to hear the incriminating news? Your boyfriend doesn't want to hear information that could get him into trouble. And even if he does want to hear it, he really shouldn't. Don't burden him with someone else's secret. And besides, if he does spill the beans, your friend is going to be mad at you, not him. Along the same lines, he doesn't want to hear about your friend's yeast infections, her irregular periods or her IBS. It's bad enough heh as to hear about yours. 3) "when we're married/have kids..." It's natural to fantasize about wedded bliss and the three kids you and your beau will one day spawn - you're only human. And sometimes you might even entertain this fantasy very early on in a relationship. But unless you want to scare him away permanently, keep thoughts like these in your head where they belong. Even if he himself has thought about your happily-ever-after future, he probably doesn't want to hear it described out loud just yet. Wait until you're on the same page,regarding marriage, kids, and the future of your relationship before you start prophesizing. A gut feeling probably isn't good enough. 4) "do you think she's pretty?" When you ask a question like this, your boyfriend knows he can't win. If he says Continue - Niyi Daram's Blog |
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Omo! this is what we call a proposal...i am seriously taking cues from you peter..seriously! He proposed to Lola Omotayo this afternoon and guess what? She said YES! See photos - http://niyidaram..com/2013/08/peter-psquare-proposes-to-lola-omotayo.html?m=1 |
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