I can't believe what I have been reading here!!! How can some of you Nigerians think so little of your cultured woman? I will tell you this for a fact, the only reason most of us SA woman go for Nigerian men is because they give us money and threat us better than our own south African guys do. Those who say SA women are not gold diggers are very clearly not very in tune with SA culture. Foreigners = money (and some are are good in bed). Also there is this thing that foreign men especially from west Africa have big dicks and are good in bed, so those of us that are sexually adventurous go for these men and they get us very very easy because we want to taste what they have.

As for the big bum (sibunu) it is a genetic thing to help with the cold weather. We store fat in our bums. Those who say SA woman take care of their bodies have no clue what they are talking about. SA has the third highest number of obese people behind the US and the UK.

Do not bring your women down like this especially over things you don't really understand. Nigerian men also go for SA women to get their papers, simple as that.

Nigerian men defend your women, they are good.

I have my hands full at the moment, but soon I promise

I'm 30, he is in his late 30s.

As I said I felt really bad about that lady and I am no longer seeing her husband, even though he is still pursuing me. I just fell for his charm, the sex was like nothing I had experienced before, it was just too much to resist. What sealed his fate was I met his wife at the super market and she looked so stressed and unhappy. She looked like a nice person gentle person. If I could apologised to her I would have, I felt so sorry for her.

Onyinda, I have posted before, some weeks back. I joined this site not that long ago and asking the same question again does not me I will answer it. I am not Nigerian and that should be all you need to know about my origin.

Oh I'm very real Oyinda. I actually joined this forum to have a general insight into how (some) Nigerians think.  I love love Nigerian men. I will say the ones that I deal with somehow see me as not being Nigerian and therefore it is ok with them. I am the type that men cheat with. I can't really say where I'm from as I will do anything to keep mu unanimity.

The guys are hypocrites, but I don't spread for my country men, I spread mostly for Nigerian men because they are so damn good and discrete

I excellent, you know you are when they all want to marry you. But I must admit around my community members I act like I have never seen a man before.

I'm an African woman and I spread my legs easily, no point pretending, if I want and its on offer I go for it.

Wow, this has made me feel really guilty and opened my eyes.

I  have been having an affair with a married man, I joined this forum to  get an insight into how Nigerians think in general, as he is Nigerian. This article has given me something to seriously think about. I don't think for a sec that he will leave his wife for me, so the question is 'is it really worth the pain that his wife will suffer were she to find out about us'. The even sadder part is I think its not the first time he's done it to her, and she seems like the kind that will stay with him no matter what. I feel so guilty now and all for what, a very skilful lover with a big satisfying manhood who will never be mine.