nwokoocha:
I don't exchange words with married women

you can't even handle the pure truth.

He told if that is what will comfort you pending till when election takes place and you quickly change goal post

Obi and his online polls

Tueh for who do una like this

manchyme:


No ooo, since which year

have you done your biometric?

Buytrust20:
Pls, I need help from someone who has experience for years on nysc issues.

We the stream 2 batch (A) were discharged last week Thursday from camp in EKITI after the 21 days camping exercise, and I was posted to my ppa, but the issue is I want to relocate/redeploy back to Abuja where I based, I tried to go for my ppa to meet the proprietor where I was posted but couldn't meet him because I heard school just vacated same last week, and I'm currently in Abuja, but the issue is I don't like that place at all, I really want to get out from the ekiti state because I don't think I can come there anymore.

Please I need someone experienced in matters like this to tell me what to do please.

This is simple. Since you don't wish to serve in ekiti state then you have no option than to do your relocation back to where you want. School will be resuming 25th of this month, you have from now till then to decide. You go need clearance letter from your PPA to take do May clearance. Clearance always start on the 1st of every month unless the 1st fall on weekend

If you know you want to serve in ekiti, report to the school on the 25th for acceptance and go do documentation at the LG so that the proprietor can give you clearance letter by month end

But if you know you want to serve in Abuja, this is the time to work your redeployment back because the process of redeployment is always long (going to the secretariat for documentation after being redeployed and wait to be posted to a PPA) to avoid missing May clearance. Missing of clearance fit lead to extension of service year

F22RAPTOR:
If u can afford such tuition, best is just to look outside the country.

You must be kidding. Outside the country for 1M maximum fee?

fadilaMaikiriki:
See, it's not only Lagos state that allows request letter. Just say not all state. The state I camped accepts, and I didn't camp in Lagos state. You just have to take the request letter to those in ICT department. It's even way easier for those in the Northern part of the country. But I didn't camp in the north though. So any body interested in that should just take request letter to his/her camp. If they accept, fine, if they don't, just apply for redeployment while in camp, which is the easiest, and at the end of the camping, your new state will show. Where I camped, redeployment to a new state was moimoi, very easy, unless you didn't apply. But, as far as you apply, you're getting it. Infact, in camp, they'll be announcing it all the time that you shouldn't give any body your money for redeployment, that it's free, that it's your right to get redeployed. They were always making the announcement that those interested in redeploying should apply. That's why I'll advise those who wish to do so, to do that while in camp, at least, that one is guaranteed.

redeployment in camp na free but you no fit smell Lagos, Abuja and state of origin.

fadilaMaikiriki:
See, it's not only Lagos state that allows request letter. Just say not all state. The state I camped accepts, and I didn't camp in Lagos state. You just have to take the request letter to those in ICT department. It's even way easier for those in the Northern part of the country. But I didn't camp in the north though. So any body interested in that should just take request letter to his/her camp. If they accept, fine, if they don't, just apply for redeployment while in camp, which is the easiest, and at the end of the camping, your new state will show. Where I camped, redeployment to a new state was moimoi, very easy, unless you didn't apply. But, as far as you apply, you're getting it. Infact, in camp, they'll be announcing it all the time that you shouldn't give any body your money for redeployment, that it's free, that it's your right to get redeployed. They were always making the announcement that those interested in redeploying should apply. That's why I'll advise those who wish to do so, to do that while in camp, at least, that one is guaranteed.

redeployment in camp na free but you no fit smell Lagos, Abuja and state of origin

pamcode:
I was surprised at what he wrote that was why I asked the question? I have heard people talk about request letter ish too.

please don't be surprise. Only Lagos camp accept request letter. Just go with your request, even if they wont announce it. Try see the ICT people and talk to them. But truthfully only Lagos camp accept request letter. They even prefer request letter than for them to post you anywhere. You no fit compare Lagos to other states na

MummyMalik:
@money121

Engr Ayyub
Oga awon Oga
Afuni ma wo ibe
Afuni ma se iregun
Jagaban awon ti o n fi owo saanu
This singular honour will never be taken for granted
You saved my face
You restored my confidence
You told my beefers to go and die while inviting me to come and dine

Oju kii ti Ina ale oju ko ni tiyin
Tojo terun omi ki won ni okun, owo ko ni won yin

Hello

You don't need all these you know?

When @Snowland accused you with enough evidence backing it up and asked you to come clear yourself. You couldn't even say Jack

You were begging him to come on WhatsApp and have a discussion. @Snowland is not all those people that you are mentioning, worshiping and giving appraisal to

@Snowland is a very intelligent man. You should see that from the way he writes and how he handled the giveaway.. You came to this forum to solicit for help. You get caught and given opportunity to come clair yourself and all you had to say was to beg him to come on WhatsApp

Don't you see how the second person that was accused cleared himself right here? Or you think he doesn't know how to beg for private discussion? I'm happy @Snowland is a Yoruba man but not everyone are tribalistic

Even if angel come down and voutch for you no one whatsoever will believe provided you yourself couldn't clear yourself by yourself. People can easily assume those who voutch for you are your people, yes. Since you failed to clear yourself like the other person then whatsoever you are being accused of is right

You couldn't clear yourself like the other person and you are here praising your fellow human because they are fortunate to have money. My dear God is not a man, we all understand all these that you are doing so please stop it


Lastly, God doesn't accept praising or worshiping your fellow man because of material things

If you recieved any gift items from anyone. Thank the person, pray for him/her and leave everything to God. Stop worshiping your fellow man because of money please

snowland:


Thanks for the observation. Honestly I only looked through page 10 of the thread and from page 8, it was just repeated names. So it's possible that other names besides @VTJN might also not appear in my list.
If there are other names, I'll appreciate it being pointed out for addition to the lists.

Also I equally ommitted some names, like @byrron that I feel might not really need it, I might be wrong though.

Thanks.

You welcome sir

Maybe you should check out on Villa12, NigeriaIsGreat and Spherical77 from page 18 i guess. You can decide if any of them would be considered. God bless you richly for your heart of benevolence

snowland:
UPDATE FOR PLAN 3

Okay guys, these are the names of those that commented with at least one idea. Each contestant should note the number his/her name corresponds to because I'm going to be making the draw using the numbers.
Also I decided to increase the total giveaway to #250k, hence I will be drawing 10 names instead of 6 names initially planned.

If you think you posted an idea but your name is not on here. Kindly bring my attention to it by telling me the page where you posted it. I'll verify and if I find your claim to be true, I'll add to the list. I'm giving a grace period of 3 hours from now.

Here are the names:

1. illicit
2. superintendents
3. Bankowner -
4. isaiah4life
5. lilachiever
6. seankafor
7. uyogabie
8. Supreme145
9. chieni
10. Miracood2
11. sirBLUNT
12. stacyadams
13. money121 *****
14. pocohantas *****
15. Orente21
16. tens4real
17. Foodqueen
18. bjprodint1
19. Sirchiboy
20. GboyegaD
21. Mariangeles
22. SurvivorM
23. Moonie911
24. FriendsAndFans
25. Adaanna
26. Timekeeper
27. chatinent
28. anuofGod

I can't find @VTJN on the list. He gave a top notch ideas if not the best and made a good suggestions which you also agree to consider. Please don't make a mistake, he deserves having the plan 3. His ideas and suggestions was even backed up and recommended by different members for you to use for Plan 1

@isaiah4life also put up a nice idea

My observation

rickyrex:
I can't advice my enemies to wear any form of uniform in this country. I have rejected two offers to join nigeria army and NSCDC ... Bro I lost a friend who joined army short service after a year. Bro join army for Nigeria and say goodby to the earth

Please bro i beg you in the name of whatever you are serving or believe. can you help me with the NSCDC job?

Richy4:


Every one on this planet basically has something he/ she enjoys doing and it comes effortlessly...
For example...
>>> Some people like talking, entertaining and Enjoys listening to radio or shows...If u were a career advisor, where would u advice such person to channel that energy to?

>>> When U discovered that someone likes helping out a lot planning, organising, very good with people, in your opinion,if u were asked to advise the person, what will u say?

>>Someone who is gifted in terms of fixing things, Who knows little minor details that any one can just over look... Even as a kid he knows that it was not stressful fixing certain things..be it plumbing, building, electronics etc.. what will u say to that person?

>>Remember having passion in doing what u enjoy as a career and getting paid for it is different from picking up a career for monetary reasons...

In OP's case..
>>Is he compassionate and passionate about his country enough to die for it?
>>Is he ready to forsake his family for Nigeria and protect its territory?
>> Is he a peace maker?
>> Does he dislike injustice?
If the above few mentioned were Yes, then the country is calling and he need to answer..

But if it was because he doesn't want to stay for long looking for a job, or his friends was on it, or he was fit tall and athletic to be in the army, then...

Brilliant input

Sadly, most Nigerians don't go with passion and compassion as the country itself isn't encouraging

We mostly resorts to whatsoever job that can put food on our table

Very few Nigerians possessed these aforementioned traits at bolded. Yet, we keep applying for millitary and paramilitary job. Some are already into the system

The country isn't working seriously. I for instance had passion for talking. Here i am today, no job

If given the opportunity, i don't even mind joining the paramilitary I.e custom, immigration, FRSC, civil defence, police, prison service, et al. All these, just to end poverty and unemployment

It's not been easy in this present state of the nation as a graduate still unemployed. The guy is even lucky to have gotten someone to help him with NA job

Johndagr8t:


bro am still in first class for now,did you think navy is Better?

First-class with this your English? Please bro don't see this as an antagonist! It's much expected for a graduate to write/communicate efficiently

I won't advise you to join the NA at this crucial time. The harm is pretty much than the good

Moreso, hope the man who nickname you GENERAL also nicknamed his beloved son FIELD MARSHAL or IGP?

Richy4:


Ok, this is an Uncle's advice, If army is your calling please go for it... But if it wasn't and U just want to make it as a career, please don't do that to your parents...

It is good to die for one's country but die for a country that will appreciate it.. Obviously Nigeria is not a country worth dying for...

The politicians, their kids are littered all over Europe and America and u want to be a sacrificial lamb?..

Not trying to stop u..after all is said and done, the final decision is yours to make.

How would he know if army was his calling? How would i know if custom is my calling? You can give advice, but claiming if something is one's calling is what i find somewhat difficult to grasp

If you ain't a witch or a seer. You definitely won't know which profession is your calling. We are all running helter scatter to be responsible and be a better person

obynzo:


can you swear with what you hold dear that Tinubu has no personal stake.

Your obsession with Tinubu will make him win 2023 election if given the mandate. Just the way you were obsessed with buhari back then in 2015 and 2019, yet he floored all other candidates

Continue with your obsession you hear!

GraciousGod190:


foolish boy why are you spamming this thread?
one can see how old you are from all your post.

You seek for advice and you got it

Why calling him names man like you? see who want to marry a woman. This is a typical red flag for women to see that you would be violence in marriage. If you can be calling someone whom you seek advice from name's simply because what he said doesn't soot you

By the way, what is wrong in what he said?
Can't you marry your level a school cert ?

Please tell me you can't marry a school cert as a school cert holder that you are

You are indirectly discriminating and you come here claiming the girl family are discriminating

With what you just did, even though you are a billionaire you will look for your wife elsewhere

Forgodsgrace:



All the people wey go schoool get Bsc,MSc,PhD. Wetin be the outcome ?Go to Alaba international ,Trade Fair,Idumota ,Ladipo,computer village 90% of business owners there are school cert. holders controlling graduates.
Most of our footballers are sch cer. Holders getting married to PhD holders.
With all your sch you end up seeking for 30 thousand naira job.

Everything no be by university and That family serious reorientation .

You lied baba. Those footballers are educated. Though not all but majority are educated

You listed the little benefits those who had no education are benefiting. Forgetting that an educated governor can put down a law and policy that would make them run away

If i should list the benefits of being educated trust me it won't contain here

BluntTheApostle:


What do you mean by level?

So, if you are poor, you should only marry someone who is poor?

If you have a bachelor's, you should only marry someone with a bachelor's?

How many of our elites and rich families marry from the poor please?

Only a stinkingly rich guy will convince a woman family to marry their daughter who is educated

Without that, it's very hard to see

Odima easy

GraciousGod190:
Am hurt, 4 years relationship about to go down the drain.first time meeting her parents was last week Sunday, they did welcome me with a smiling face.
After all the introductions and making my intentions known to them I like to marry their daughter.

my girlfriend called me on phone yesterday that she's coming over, which she did and start saying that her elder bro and her mum is kicking against our marriage. i asked why? she said because am an Ssce holder.

yes I might be an Ssce holder, but am self employed doing well for myself (I noi de beg to chop) isn't that enough.

can't an Ssce holder marries a bsc, msc or a phd holder.
why the discrimination towards a brother because of a white man education?
because of a white sheet of paper.

Bro go and marry your level please. If you know you can't upgrade yourself and have a degree not because of this lady in question o. But if you've already made up your mind not to have anything to do with schooling to acquire knowledge then you should settle down with a girl with school cert for peace of mind. It's hard before you can see a family that will allow their daughter who is a graduate to marry a school cert. It's very hard bro except the guy is very very rich

If you are my brother and i know you can't futher your studies again. I will advise you to look for a girl with school cert and settle down with

You need happiness and peace of mind bro

Spherical77:
Please kindly point out where i was boasting about my personal self? Everything I've said so far pertaining to myself as a case study was based on "Instance" please don't quote me out of context. You don't need a soothsayers to tell you that not everyone will do well with or without formal education. Besides, formal education isn't meant to make you rich or whataview. Nothing can stop you from being rich if destined to and have access to the right information. Education has nothing whatsoever to do with richness. Nonetheless, it'd be a plus if one had formal education no matter how little it is

You asked for fact to my claim that people who got education had more opportunities to leave the shores of the country. Didn't you? Then i told you to bring someone who had just school cert and business doing with other person who had a degree and wanting to explore to other countries like US, UK, Canada et al. Then watch and see who US or UK embassy would gladly grant her request amongst both parties. That's a real life scenario i put up there. At least, if you claimed you don't know that those countries are majorly accepting those who had good education and wanting to make futher research through studies and possibly get PR and become citizens with time. Then you can make do with the life scenario i put up there as the fact that you are seeking for

If paradventure you need more input or fact to my claim then you should visit the travel session of this beautiful forum. Google, quora, Wikipedia et al are also recommended to get more fact that you seek

You better leave that dude alone guy. Person wey dey ask you wetin embassy carry come for this matter na him you wan dey elucidate futher for

Please save your strength abeg

0m0nnakoda:

Innoson is not average? Where did I mention Otedola. You ignorantly refer to me as young man. Are you older than me? Do you know me?
I wonder whether you have comprehension difficulties because it is not clear what you understand me to be saying . You were the one boasting about yourself and I set you straight
You are just jumping from one topic to the other very incoherently. What has embassy got to do with what I said
The point is simple not everyone needs formal education to do well in life.It is OK for some but not everyone and there are examples like that all over the place

Everything else you are saying is your illiterate interpretation of things I never said.

You are just confusing yourself sir. You couldn't even comprehend the simple illustration he gave you.

If i were him, i wouldn't respond to your mention again. Your comprehensive capacity is still low to have found it difficult to grasp and asking what brought embassy into the discussion

This is hilarious seriously

Nwodosis:
She's acting happy but not happy.

How do you know she's not happy sir?

Elporo:


Can you imagine. Your only daughter whom you claimed to love gets pregnant and your first call of action was to beat her.

If it was Ned Nwoko's child, this same father would be praising his daughter .. Ada Daddy. ... "you have made me proud"

OP .. you reap what you sow. Your family was greedy, and now the tables have turned. Take your L in peace.

And just so you know, your sister has a mobile phone. Yes, she does

She has no phone of her own. She has been without phone back in Lagos. Not until an uncle got her a phone

The last time my dad talked to her through her husband's phone she did claimed she had a sim card but had no phone. The phone they bought for her got spoilt

Anyway, you are entitled to your opinion though

igbowoman:


I pray you meet your sister well. .
Tell her that an Igbowoman you met on nairaland says that if her husband truly loves her he would honor her parents by marrying her properly like he would want his own sisters married.
When you are able please also help someone in need .
God bless you.
Travel mercies

Thanks for this ma'am. May God continue to replenish your pocket

I've discussed with my parents and brothers, we agreed to go coming weekend. Thanks!

Danjikanbauchi:
if you knows the man family house then your problem is half solved. Pipe low for now go and hustle pretend as if nothing is going on take care of your parents when you arrived with enough bar then you can pay the fool a visit and treat him well.

But for now pipe low.

We only knows where he lives in PH, we don't know his exact family house in IMO state.

Thanks for the advice sir!

igbowoman:


I have asked my son in the Lord to send you 25k.
5k to help with food.
Please quote or mention me when u receive it.

May God almighty bless you ma

Though i've not gotten the money @Igbowoman

maiiilooo:
Please I need urgent replies..
How is accommodation and expenses in general while serving in Lagos. I'm thinking of serving in Lagos though my pocket is little, I'm only in search of opportunities during and after service.

Depend on which part of Lagos

Accommodation is reasonably low on the mainland than highland

Neddyogu:


You meant to say 'borrow'.

All the same sir

Neddyogu:


Let the op get in touch so we can discuss repayment.

Thanks bro, I don't loan money

igbowoman:


Still waiting for the details

0142245483 Gtbank

Thanks a lot ma @ Igbowoman

eaglez:
My dear she is not bitter about anything, I am typing this with all honesty that lady has been brainwashed to see her husband above everyone and whatsoever he says is the final, the truth is the Germany returnee is not a good man and he is enjoying every bit of the dissociation with her family members, he is lording himself over the young innocent girl, I have exactly same thing going on in my extended family and the worse thing is the man will be filler with pride and same has put on his wife, check them well they are poverty stricken, I pray that the lady will be liberated from the shackle of mental and emotional slavery the man has put her into.

Sincerely speaking bro you've truly experienced it in your family. My sister sees the man as heaven and earth. The only thing my mum used to say was that the man has hypnotized her. She believes the man is diabolic because no woman would be doing all what she's doing with a normal eyes. This is a perfect summary of the man honestly

fearlessmum:

Good evening all, I have been a guest of this forum for some years now, I decided to register after reading a story shared yesterday by NPTJ to also share mine and asked for advice as i am really confused right now.
Although my own case is different as i am legally married.
My husband and I have been married for five years now with two wonderful kids.
Aside the reason for this thread, He's a very good husband and father to our kids.
The issue is , he doesn't want me to go to the village with the children that automatically means I can't go as I'm still breastfeeding our second child , I cannot leave him and travel as he's not even up to one year.

My husband and my parents stays in different states. We went to the village last year July and there's no plan of going this year, whenever I raise discussion concerning the issue he simply replied that we'll go when there's a need for us to go.
I hardly go for any function in the village except it directly involves my parents.
This has brought a lot of issues between my nuclear and my extended families.
It wasn't like this when we married newly, we do visits them then and even go during Christmas holidays but all that changed when we had our first child, he feels we can't take the child to the village so that "village people" will not attack him.
We've quarrelled about this severally yet nothing changes, I am tired of arguing about this .
Please married folks, am I suppose to abandoned my extended family just because I am married? Please I need matured advice before I do something that I will regret.
Is my husband right on this ? has anyone been in my position, please help me.

Sis please listen to your husband. Provided he's not stopping you from reaching your parents. Please sis love your husband and listen to him. You see those extended family, they are just after what they'd get from your husband. They can't do nothing if things goes south

How i wish my sister was in your position. I wouldn't be here crying and lamenting. Your husband didn't isolate you completely out of your nuclear family. Look at you using a phone and you were legally married to him. Chai sis all these basic things in marriage looks like a luxury to me where my only sister is

Please sis listen to your husband. Your husband is a good man seriously, please do not take his goodness for granted

Enjoy your home sis