Everyone has one, some love theirs and some loathe theirs. How do you view yours?

I personally loathe mine. I mean, there's a reason why you guys broke up right? I have tried to become friends with my exes after breaking up but it just never works, it's always easier to go from best friend to boyfriend than it is to go from boyfriend to best friend. There are just too many feelings and memories involved, 'cause if you guys can be close enough to be best friends when why can't you be boyfriends/girlfriends?

But then there are those who thing otherwise. My friend is actually still friends with his ex, (it kind of bothers me but there's nothing I can really do about it) and they get along fine, she actually calls him for advice with her current boyfriend. Some of my other friends are still best of friends with their exes, I don't know how they do it but they do.

It honestly irks me to see friendly ex interaction, it's like seeing a lion be friends with a zebra.

What do you guys think? Are you guys friends with any of your exes? Was it/ is it weird?

Everyone has one, some love theirs and some loathe theirs. How do you view yours?

I personally loathe mine. I mean, there's a reason why you guys broke up right? I have tried to become friends with my exes after breaking up but it just never works, it's always easier to go from best friend to boyfriend than it is to go from boyfriend to best friend. There are just too many feelings and memories involved, 'cause if you guys can be close enough to be best friends when why can't you be boyfriends/girlfriends?

But then there are those who thing otherwise. My boyfriend is actually still friends with his ex, (it kind of bothers me but there's nothing I can really do about it) and they get along fine, she actually calls him for advice with her current boyfriend. Some of my other friends are still best of friends with their exes, I don't know how they do it but they do.

It honestly irks me to see friendly ex interaction, it's like seeing a lion be friends with a zebra.

What do you guys think? Are you guys friends with any of your exes? Was it/ is it weird?

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@ Poster,
When you were asked to stay in school, you were busy jumping fence to go to Titi's house, can you see the result now? Most richest indeed!

But on a second note, you would have written it in Yoruba
"Tani dude ti olowo ju laarin 2Face ati D'banj"?
Afterall english no be your language!
i love u for that reply

Every now and then I come across a story about how a couple started out as being best friends, each having its own unique tale. Guys and girls tell me how difficult it is to keep quiet about admiring someone so close to them. How they spend so much time talking, hanging out and joking around with each other. It’s always really satisfying to hear that everything worked out after the guy or girl confesses getting the same feelings in return. But sometimes things don’t turn out so well. It’s hard being rejected by someone you tell all your secrets to and you might think things will never be the same again.
So even though things may be rough with any situation, try and be the bigger person to work it out.

And of course, I want to hear your stories on how you fell in love with your best friend, your best friend fell in love with you, or if you have friends who had that situation.