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Romance / Re: 50k Naira Giveaway by Obaman12: 11:50am On May 01, 2020
You're very madd. Yes u heard me. You're very very mad and inhuman to place such criteria for jst 5k.

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Investment / Re: Should I Use 30k To Learn Forex? by Obaman12: 10:57am On May 01, 2020
EXLOVER:
Is it FrankieFx?

I think it should be cos he's d only that's so adamant in charging 30k for d training. I went tru his first n second stage of training which is always free. I must say he's well skilled tho. But his fees is something else and he's not ready to bid down for anyone. Least he does is to ask u to pay in two installments. But he's good
Investment / Re: Is It Advisable To Invest A Huge Amount Of Money In Box Value? by Obaman12: 12:15am On Apr 25, 2020
UyaiIncomparabl:


Yes, I do.

Mbok nkor aya put through nah??
Investment / Re: Is It Advisable To Invest A Huge Amount Of Money In Box Value? by Obaman12: 8:00am On Apr 19, 2020
UyaiIncomparabl:


Forex is really paying now, and Binary options.


Uyai, do u also trade on forex?
Romance / Re: He Wanted To Make Love To Me But Passed Out. by Obaman12: 5:15pm On Apr 17, 2020
Ur write up needs heavenly intervention for one to really know who's involve here grin
Romance / Re: Wanna Teach A Few People How To Make Money by Obaman12: 4:56pm On Apr 10, 2020
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Education / Re: My Contribution To The Society by Obaman12: 4:32pm On Apr 10, 2020
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Romance / Re: I Don't Know Which Way To Go Anymore! I'm Tired by Obaman12: 1:14pm On Apr 07, 2020
fairfora:
You're not alone in this case. There are several people in your shoes. In fact, I was once in your shoes and I was the cause of my predicament. While serving in edo state as a corper I met a young girl who just completed her secondary school. Due to her height and level of maturity, hardly would one know she wasn't wayward.

I left her in Abudu orientation camp where she was assisting her sister sell food. After being posted out to my PPA, I got a room to stay because the principal of the school i was posted couldn't provide an accommodation. After settling down, I wrote to this girl in Benin. GSM was merely 3 months old in Benin that time...econet wireless to be precise so there was no means of phone communication. I took her address when I was leaving abudu camp so I wrote to her. She traced and located me. The night she came, I touched her and she told me she was a virgin. Her tighs were shaking. In short, she bled. She also told me she wasnt expecting her period but it came suddenly. I took good care of her and gave her enough money to return to Benin. I never knew that was the beginning of my predicament. I never set my eyes on her again. 3 months into the end of my programme, I was falling ill . I went for series of tests, nothing was found. When I finished the scheme, i returned home. With prayers, my health was restored. I now began to look for jobs ooooo. Nearly all my friends had got fixed with good jobs but in my case, alas!

The major means of sending job applications then was by post. I'd trek 30 km from my house to the post office in dugbe ibadan and trek back home. I'd post all the job positions applied to, on guardian Tuesdays and Thursdays back then. Jobs are no longer being posted inside the newspaper again. Guardian used to be hot cake in those days, until the advent of affordable internet service providers.

To cut the long story shot, I became tired after posting over 200 applications. I spent the little I garnered from NYSC on job hunting. One day, my aunt came to our house and said, please can you accompany me for a church programme? Reluctantly, I followed her and after the programme, she urged me to see the pastor with her. When I got there, the man asked me to kneel down, as he was praying, he asked me to open my eyes. He asked sir, please who is Elisabeth(not her real name). I said she was my gf. He asked further, how many times did she come to see you? I said once...he said sir, you're under a bondage, because I entered into blood convenant with her and she sat on my glory. I was sweating.I said stubbornly, but i didn't drink her blood neither did she drink mine. He wanted to slap me and said, does it sound like I'm kidding? Did you not have an affair with her? She's a virgin and said whoever disvirgined her must be her husband in the spirit realm, that she's not an ordinary girl.

However, he said I should observe 3 days fasting and prayer which I did. On the 3rd day he asked me to see him which I did. He said he hasn't seen what he was looking for because he was still seeing traces. He said the 3rd prayer would have been answered but instead of watching a gospel music after I broke the fast, I was watching a hiphop song, which spoilt the 3rd prayer. He said i should go and repeat the 3rd one. Truly, after breaking the fast, I went to see my friend. He was playing an American collection of music on DVD. In short I repeated the 3rd prayer and went back to him. He prayed for me and said very soon, I'd see the hand of God. That was the beginning of my breakthrough. Barely 2 weeks after the prayer, the company I applied to in lagos sent me a letter of interview. I got that job as the overall best when the result came out. My boss called me one day and said, do you know I had wanted to call you 6 months before you were employed? I didn't know what happened after shortlisting you and I kept your resume inside my pending tray. I just shook my head . Suddenly I burst into tears. He didn't know why but i did.

Its been smooth for me since that time, up till now. I've been all over the world. I've dined and wined with world leaders Including Barak Obama. Maybe you committed same atrocity out of ignorance with some girls. I strongly believe with deliverance, fasting and prayer, you'd come out of it. Your case isn't ordinary, just check yourself and trace back your path. I'm sure you would remember. God would deliver you as He did deliver me. Those men of God who collected money from you are evil. You could even seek God's face yourself and I'm sure He would speak to you on what to do. All the best
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Told A Guy She Is Not In A Relationship by Obaman12: 10:52am On Apr 03, 2020
Brightgem:
yes, us the straightforward people. Why should a grown man or woman be playing games, are you a child?

Twisted world is because of this kind of messed up notions, play games, don't love too much, don't love them more... Plenty silly rules. Nothing in life is more headache free than being honest and straightforward. angry

The bolded is an insult to me. Pls be guided.
You girls treat guys anyhow only to come here and be claiming "straight forward persons" right? Ooin that's all I'll say to you.

Again, you're free to see it anyhow u want to, but for we that I've seen it all, we won't be tricked by those words of yours. Your type of self-acclaimed straightforward girl comes as a result of the fact that you'll be on the loosing side if you should fck up with ur moneybag boyfriend grin

We know all these things girl. So save ur "doctored" straight forwardness.

Mind you, am not saying a man shouldn't love her girl, but he should be guided not to get too involved to a level of being blindfolded by d sex and pleasure he's getting. Rather he should just enjoy the game even as it last

Oh u said this
Twisted world is because of this kind of messed up notions

Well, that's while Ubunja called it miseducation sha
Romance / Re: Please Help A Brother by Obaman12: 8:01am On Apr 03, 2020
Girls are getting wiser daily by being emotional intelligent when it comes to relationship but ours is just the reverse.

Guy you goofed up big time, thought u said you stayed off relationship for 3yrs and still you didn't learn anything. You should've learnt that it's a big taboo for a guy to get too involved with a girl that he's not even showing care financially.

And not just anyhow girl, the type u just mentioned here that flirts and professes love to people anyhow. C'mon bro, you should know this type of girls nah, same way she loosed it to you, that same way she's currently loosing it to other guys. People like this never get contented. So you don't get involve. Just chop and go. This is 21st century. There's no girl that doesn't need money.

She probably only accepted u then cos she needed u to help her drain off some juice off here at that time grin

Right now, she's on the hunt to get someone better financially buoyant than u.

You also failed rule number of not begging any girl to love u, that's where u also lost it.

Now way forward: Don't just give her the attention again, move on with ur life and try as much as u can to avoid going back to beg her. If she comes back fine, If she doesn't just move on.

NB: Next time don't be too rigid to at least show that u care. It's like a fuel to the car engine of any relationship these days.

Be good bro
Read on Miseducation by Ubunja
And game on grin

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Told A Guy She Is Not In A Relationship by Obaman12: 7:37am On Apr 03, 2020
ubunja:
damn that misspelling of my moniker sucks balls.
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grin OUR BOSS...LOL
Didn't see that too, I'll modify it right away

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Told A Guy She Is Not In A Relationship by Obaman12: 11:23pm On Apr 02, 2020
Brightgem:
WOW! Over 1k people liked this comment. There is serious problem with the people of the world.

Who playing games epp. Be transparent and when you have seen signs like this, still be point blank and walk away.

This is terrible advice, while playing games too, be ready to lose the real deal.


Na them oo shocked

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Told A Guy She Is Not In A Relationship by Obaman12: 12:27pm On Apr 02, 2020
sleeknaija:


So many ladies are fond of this dastard act, they will keep having relationship with 2 or 3 guys at the same time.. Always using guys as step up plan until they meet their preferred man, is it supposed to be like that?

Nay my brother!
Only when you make it known to them that they're so important to you.

In other words, when you over express your love to a girl, she tend to take it for granted by making herself vulnerable for any random guy to get. That's why u see some rich men's wife fcking sm random guys outside. Not that the husband isn't good at bed nor is he not taking good care of her. Its just that she doesn't really value the man's love again. Cos he's being too over expressive. So that's it. As a man, it's very important to keep your emotions regularly at check, especially when dealing with girls.

There's this friend of mine, girls so much loved this guy eh, even the once with boyfriends didn't care whatever would happen to their relationship just to be around this guy. This guy had girls to his dispositions. What was his code? He doesn't put his cards out by over expressing himself. Rather they're the once that do the expression thing by going after him with words like Joe, you're very gentle, calm and lovely grin

Na girls dey toast d guy.
Even upto date. My guy still dey ball hard.

So that's it man

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Romance / Re: Kogi Commissioner, Brutalises Lady For Calling Him Out On Facebook by Obaman12: 9:44am On Apr 02, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
what?!

Space booking grin
Romance / Re: Kogi Commissioner, Brutalises Lady For Calling Him Out On Facebook by Obaman12: 9:12am On Apr 02, 2020
This government is the worst ever recorded government in the history of Nigeria. Before now, Politicians weren't this bold in attacking people irrespective of whatever thing they said.

But right now, this government leaders may even go as far as killing you right in front of everyone's eyes and no one will do anything about it.

So pls guys let's be careful, the government isn't the type we should joke with. They're highly deadly.

For them to deliberate on enacting the Anti-social Media Bill shows how serious they don't want us to have our voice again in this nation.

So, let's be careful ooh, with this set of people on board now. Them fit kee pesin.

This is Buhari's Government is d worst ever government in the History of Nigeria.

I bet, we'll never be ruled again by a clown. This will be d last time in this country.
Health / Re: How Osun Recorded 14 Coronavirus Cases by Obaman12: 9:02am On Apr 02, 2020
Osun Ooin grin

Always known for negativity

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Romance / Re: Let's Find by Obaman12: 12:48am On Apr 02, 2020
Bestie in grin
Romance / Re: ...... by Obaman12: 12:46am On Apr 02, 2020
You'll still find good guys sha shocked
Romance / Re: I Once Had A Gay Friend by Obaman12: 11:46pm On Apr 01, 2020
shocked grin

You were honestly lucky bro. Had one stup*d one like that, you know those set of friends that'll choose you to be their friend not u choosing them, I had one like that. This kept calling me my friend everywhere he saw me in school then, Gasp, it was then becoming alarming so I had to start avoiding him by taking other routes when I sight him afar. So one day, he asked me if I had boyfriend, and I said yes, in short that I have many friends. There, he was like, many boyfriends?...and me I was like wtf is wrong with is mugu.

Then again, I kept mute as if I knew nothing abt what and where he was heading towards. The one that broke me was when he said I should come to his house, that he's going to pay my fees grin

Na dia I come know say d mumu dey serious. Las las, I cleared him and he never tried such shit around me again.

But yours, based on what u dropped here, it shows you wont have done(no reaction) anything being that u were already an introvert, a shy one in that matter. Just thank God, if not by now u for don turn probably Riskybob grin

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Told A Guy She Is Not In A Relationship by Obaman12: 11:25pm On Apr 01, 2020
tomju:



I will start by disagreeing with you about relationship being like a card game! It is better the shit happens now than later when he is really deep into it, like in marriage.
Why would I date a girl who always rejects her calls when we are together? 1st wrong signal.
Why would I date a girl who turns off her data when we are together? Another wrong signal.
When she always locks her phone, then definitely she is hiding something. Listen, if you cannot pick your girl friends phone and answer her calls, then she is cheating period.
Firstly, a serious relationship her parents should know you or atleast the mom should know there is someone. Except maybe you are dating an underage girl. This takes me to another issue. Relationship should be for adults! Not kids. Adult decisions, adult consequences.
Okay, i give ya'all an assignment. Propose to your girl or boy a game. Phone swap. We switch our phones for a day or two. You pick all my calls, I pick all yours. We read each others text messages. Anyone that has something to hide CAN NEVER agree to this proposal. NEVER.
Several years ago, I was in a very serious relationship. I would never suspect my girl was cheating, because she didn't need to. She had everything she wanted. I mean everything. Story for another day.
Now, I went to Abuja to visit her serving then NYSC. In the night she removed network from Her Blackberry phone before going to bed, you know like airplane mode, you can just click and mobile network is disconnected. As she slept off, I inserted network again, about 12am calls and text messages came in. Several like 7 in total.
Some girls were calling her to come out....and another text threatening her to leave her husband alone? blah blah blah. She work up in the morning looking confused. I said you had several text messages! Reavealing ones at that. She was shocked. Did you read any, I said yes. tThe one that said you should stay away from Mr Nnaji! Mrs Nnaji sent it. She broke down and cried..started apologising and all, but boy! my mind was made up. Long story short, I left.
A week after I left her for good, a lot unfolded. Love is blind init? Anyway, the thing is: be yourself. Don't "play" your relationship as "a game"! It should not be. Its either he/she is worth it or they are not. Imagine if I had married the slut that time? So I will be battling depression et al, or running upandan for paternity tests!
Love your girl/guy for real but be open minded to expect any eventuality. This is the part I had to agree with you on loving with your head, and not with your heart. A good woman is a good woman. Play a game or don't play a game. Some women have values. Norms they can die for.
If a woman or man, is cheating behind your back, and you are not...its just a matter of time, they'll be exposed. You are better off loosing a cheating girlfriend than a cheating wife.
I believe some good girls are still out there. Pray you meet one. Remember the good ones may not come in the right shape! or skin colour...you know what I mean. I wish all faithful men/women the faithful partners of their dreams or atleast be honest about who they are seeing. So you can choose which way to go. Staysafe bro. It will be okay.


Finally went tru it bro. Hmm, am sorry for all she did to you. I have my reason of saying we should never display our cards to them, the moment they know u love and trust them so much, its then you'll see them strike u real hard. Had same experience, all what I typed was solely based on my personal experience I had with my ex a Madonna medical student I wanted marrying. I lost it coz I was playing nice bro. Not for anything, I was just a weak man then. More of like a nice guy. At d end, I lost terribly to her and she won and left with happiness. So, u see? It's no longer working bro, girls now go for guys they feel don't really love them, that's like, guys that don't see them to be relevant. So, they go seeking to be relevant by being the pussi, playing nice to d guys that don't really value them. Its real my brother. So I know what am saying.

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Told A Guy She Is Not In A Relationship by Obaman12: 11:12pm On Apr 01, 2020
tomju:



I will start by disagreeing with you about relationship being like a card game! It is better the shit happens now than later when he is really deep into it, like in marriage.
Why would I date a girl who always rejects her calls when we are together? 1st wrong signal.
Why would I date a girl who turns off her data when we are together? Another wrong signal.
When she always locks her phone, then definitely she is hiding something. Listen, if you cannot pick your girl friends phone and answer her calls, then she is cheating period.
Firstly, a serious relationship her parents should know you or atleast the mom should know there is someone. Except maybe you are dating an underage girl. This takes me to another issue. Relationship should be for adults! Not kids. Adult decisions, adult consequences.
Okay, i give ya'all an assignment. Propose to your girl or boy a game. Phone swap. We switch our phones for a day or two. You pick all my calls, I pick all yours. We read each others text messages. Anyone that has something to hide CAN NEVER agree to this proposal. NEVER.
Several years ago, I was in a very serious relationship. I would never suspect my girl was cheating, because she didn't need to. She had everything she wanted. I mean everything. Story for another day.
Now, I went to Abuja to visit her serving then NYSC. In the night she removed network from Her Blackberry phone before going to bed, you know like airplane mode, you can just click and mobile network is disconnected. As she slept off, I inserted network again, about 12am calls and text messages came in. Several like 7 in total.
Some girls were calling her to come out....and another text threatening her to leave her husband alone? blah blah blah. She work up in the morning looking confused. I said you had several text messages! Reavealing ones at that. She was shocked. Did you read any, I said yes. tThe one that said you should stay away from Mr Nnaji! Mrs Nnaji sent it. She broke down and cried..started apologising and all, but boy! my mind was made up. Long story short, I left.
A week after I left her for good, a lot unfolded. Love is blind init? Anyway, the thing is: be yourself. Don't "play" your relationship as "a game"! It should not be. Its either he/she is worth it or they are not. Imagine if I had married the slut that time? So I will be battling depression et al, or running upandan for paternity tests!
Love your girl/guy for real but be open minded to expect any eventuality. This is the part I had to agree with you on loving with your head, and not with your heart. A good woman is a good woman. Play a game or don't play a game. Some women have values. Norms they can die for.
If a woman or man, is cheating behind your back, and you are not...its just a matter of time, they'll be exposed. You are better off loosing a cheating girlfriend than a cheating wife.
I believe some good girls are still out there. Pray you meet one. Remember the good ones may not come in the right shape! or skin colour...you know what I mean. I wish all faithful men/women the faithful partners of their dreams or atleast be honest about who they are seeing. So you can choose which way to go. Staysafe bro. It will be okay.


LOL I couldn't go tru all write bro. But From d first statement u made, I think you fall under d nice guys category. Not bad tho. Am also a nice guy tho but with sense mbok

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Told A Guy She Is Not In A Relationship by Obaman12: 5:23pm On Apr 01, 2020
Bro! You see?

You goofed up big time by showing her all your cards bro. Relationship these days are like card games. You don't display all your cards to your opponent to avoid being kicked off the game. You play it smartly with your head not with your heart.

Now, you're outta of the game & you're of no relevance to her again. There's nothing you'll do to gain that back from her. To her, she's just using u as a step up plan until she lands her target man.

In otherwords, you're on your own

All, I'll say now is, start searching for another girl that would keep ur hrt occupied at the moment, after that dump her and move on. That's d only way to mk her feel d break up, don't let her break ur hrt, break hers first that's how you'll get to win on this bro. Outside it, it'll be an all-round win for her. So be smart and act fast.


Note: all these should be on code. Don't let her notice anysh*t as regarding ur intention towards her. Oya go win this bro grin

I made this same mistake bro, and now am a rebranded person.

Read on miseducation by Ubunja

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Education / Re: Fellow Nigerians, How Do I Go About This Issue During This Corona Virus Epidemic by Obaman12: 12:53pm On Mar 31, 2020
Maryjane001:

Ok, thanks a lot



I love your personality girl.

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Education / Re: What Course Did You Study In The Tertiary Institution And What's your job now? by Obaman12: 1:22am On Mar 22, 2020
bayocanny:

Msc scholarship

Pls put d name out here and probably how u went abt it to help others pls..

Thanks so much, u na real hustler bro. Thumbs up
Education / Re: What Course Did You Study In The Tertiary Institution And What's your job now? by Obaman12: 1:17am On Mar 22, 2020
Amanda4life:
Studied Industrial Technical Education (Electrical Electronics

Now run a mushroom school )

Infact Teacher shaa
Education / Re: What Course Did You Study In The Tertiary Institution And What's your job now? by Obaman12: 12:43am On Mar 22, 2020
Omoosage:
Studied Electrical and Electronic Engineering.

Am a drilling Engineer with a multinational oil company

Sir pls where were you trained for the skill?
Really wanna learn the skill after my program. Pls help me with info Thanks

Studied Electrical Electronic Technology Edu.(Bsc.End) and
M.tech. in Electrical Electronic Technology (in view). Soon
Investment / Re: MBA Investors Forum by Obaman12: 6:19pm On Mar 11, 2020
phoenixideas:
MBA stopped the referral program a long time ago(even before I joined them 2018[sept]);
According to the branch manager, I spoke to(Then), he said MBA was losing a lot of money from referrals, so they stopped. If you don't indicate renewal, MBA will contact you, asking you if you'd like to renew or not, until you respond, you'll not be paid.
smiley

Boss!
Good evening

Is MBA still working till date??
Politics / Re: Udom Emmanuel's Road Infrastructural Development In Uyo Senatorial District by Obaman12: 4:15pm On Feb 20, 2020
Oga stop all these unnecessary hyping. These roads were exactly like this 5years ago...

To me, Udom hasn't done any damn thing compared to what Chief Godswill Akpabio did.

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Health / Re: My Brother Wakes Up Shirtless Whenever He Sleeps At Night. Please Help!!! by Obaman12: 2:55pm On Oct 11, 2019
ugomnaanny:
Install CCTV camera inside his room.

Lol
Politics / Re: Samuel Ortom Queries Aide For Renaming Ahmadu Bello Way After Him by Obaman12: 1:27pm On Oct 04, 2019
Las las Na okada man go suffer am shocked grin
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: We Need Partner Across Nigeria To Work With Us by Obaman12: 12:46pm On Sep 24, 2019
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