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Romance / How To Read A Girl's Body Language & Figure Out Her Thoughts by oboso1: 7:05pm On Nov 28, 2016
If a man could read a woman like a book, then the world would be a peaceful and harmonious place to live in. Woe on the man who do not have the aptitude or the talent to understand a woman. Women, in general have been sending out mixed signals for the longest time and a science (of some sort) has developed in the study of body language in general.

Of course everyone could recognize the six universal facial expressions: Happiness; Sadness; Fear; Disgust; Surprise and Anger. But can a man honestly say that he can recognize a girl's body language? Here are some common body languages of a woman that are worth knowing.

Eye contact.
A girl might look at your fleetingly, take her eyes off you and then returns her look this time for a longer period. If this happens the girl might have liked what she saw thus her second glance. If a girl repeatedly casts her eyes on you, then it's time to approach her.

Preening
Preening means beautifying oneself. This act could be exhibited by tossing of the hair, batting of eyes, wetting lips, combing hair with fingers, straightening up clothes and related little actions. When you see this occurrence, do your thing and preen too before you introduce yourself to the girl.

Displaying attractive body parts.
Girls have the tendency to display their busts, butts, legs and necks. What they do is thrust it forward, wiggle it, show it or elongate it. When you notice a girl preening while showing off her long and beautiful legs, prepare to introduce yourself.

Subtle pointing
When a girl subtly points at you using her lips or her eyes or her toes or her elbow or her head, then get ready for action. The girl is practically telling you that she is interested in you.

Leaning towards you
If a girl leans towards you that means that she wants to be close to you or to be with you. She is also trying to assess your take on the matter by looking if you will also lean towards her.

Looking down left
This means that the girl is talking to herself while trying to figure you out. The assessment is real for her.

Looking at you but seemed glazed.
This could only mean one thing. You are boring the poor girl to death but she is too polite to leave you.

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Romance / Do You Know Being Good With Women Is All About Mastering Yourself? by oboso1: 6:39pm On Nov 28, 2016
Developing your inner game simply means taking full use of potentials. You can attribute your inner game to both mind set and experience. Your inner game has a lot to do with your confidence. You can't develop confidence unless you believe in yourself and practice self assurance. Inner game has a lot to do with mind set too.

If you continue to perceive yourself as a sorry loser, then that is what you will project to the outside world. Have a positive mind set for encouraging results on your inner game. Here are some tips to work on your inner game.

Have a positive outlook in life. Think "I can do it" and chances are "you can do it". Winning a game, or topping an exams, to scoring with a girl is first "won" in your head. You have to think that you are going to do it to have a mind set for the "win". If you think you can't, then half the battle has been lost already.

Do not let the results obsessed you. Do the best you can and stop worrying about the outcome. In a game of golf, having a mind set of you winning the tournament is well and good. However if during the game you keep on obsessing about winning, you are definitely distracting yourself which could upset your chances of actually playing well.

Center your attention on having fun. Just have fun! Tell yourself that you are confident and self-assured. Tell yourself that you are ready to face the challenge. If you look like someone who is fun to be with, girls will gravitate towards you.

Do not be afraid to try new things. Be adventurous but not to the point of the ridiculous or dangerous. Life is too short. You need to widen and broaden your horizon to gain experience. Approach the girl. If she refuses to even acknowledge your presence back off and "rewind". What was the mistake in the approach? Think! Experience is the greatest teacher.

Do not dwell on what you cannot change. Work on your positive points and attributes. Do not waste your time lamenting on the negatives that you cannot change. If you are short, there's no way you can be tall unless you use platform shoes or science has invented a new human growth hormone. Focus on the positive. Develop your endearing qualities and you will be a better person for that.

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Romance / Is There Any Way To Make A Girl Think About You All The Time? by oboso1: 6:21pm On Nov 28, 2016
Knowing for sure that you have definitely made an impression on a girl you just met, make sure that you get her contact numbers for follow up calls and possible dates. Before you part ways, make sure that you have gauged the girl enough for you to make your next move on how to make her think about you all the time.

Any follow up call or date will be for naught if you did not make a good first impression on the girl. Before you even venture into hooking up with a girl, make sure you have "repaired" your personality quirks and irks. Make sure your confidence is intact. Make sure you have talked yourself into thinking positively. Having done that, here are some few tips you can use to make you unforgettable to a girl.

Be a complete gentleman. Chivalry is not dead. Women still love to be treated gallantly and respectfully by men. You have to show that girl that you are a caring and respectful person. If you need to open doors and pull out chairs for girl, why not? You will score points because of that. Besides, you will feel good playing the part of a gentleman.

Be concerned with the girl. Ask the girl how she would get home. There's no need for you to take her home but if circumstances calls for it, then do it. A girl will definitely think about your caring personality.

Ask permission if you could call her. Don't just spring an attack on the girl by making a phone call. Ask for her permission through a text message. You might inconvenience a girl if you call her in the middle of her work. It is best to let her know that you want to call her and is asking for her permission. The girl will be impressed by your consideration and will definitely think about you.

Send her flowers. A gift of flowers has never failed to make a positive impression on a girl. It does not matter if you send a bouquet or a single rose. Send flowers and the girl won't be able to resist thinking about you.

Ask her out. Your next step is to ask the girl out. If she agrees, tell her that you will take her to a real cool place that you think she would like. Keep her in suspense. Just tell her the date and time to keep her guessing and her level of anticipation up. This would really make her think about you.

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Romance / 7 Things Every Woman Desperately Seeks In A Man! by oboso1: 5:58pm On Nov 28, 2016
The qualities that initially attract you to a man are not always the ones that guarantee that he would be an ideal life partner. If you are seriously considering settling down and you still don't understand what qualities you look for in a man then this list can help you sort that out.

Personality: Your preferences should be in full consideration of what would complement your own personality. Some of the things you prefer may just be the traditional ones but not necessarily the ones that would fit who you truly are.

Do you want someone who is funny? Because you normally experience bad days, you want someone who makes you laugh out loud when you're having a bad day. Or do you want someone who is stable and lets you feel safe and secure because you're a practical person who works equally hard. Always look for someone who matches your personality.

Social Skills: Are you an extrovert? Do you fancy the night life and social functions? Or are you a homebody? Or are you biased to a guy whose sense of family is very strong? Take time to consider what level of social skills you feel most comfortable with. There's no point hooking up with a party person when you're a true blue homebody.

The Wallet Aspect: What about the subject of money? Where does he stand on the role of finances? Does he believe in what is his is also yours? Or is he the type who needs to confer all decisions about money? And where do you stand?

Sexual Issues: Do you want someone who is sexually charged or active? Or are you the once a month type? Are you traditional? You've got to know what you want in this regard. Sexual compatibility can provide an extra element of chemistry and intensity in your relationship.

Spiritual Compatibility: Whether you are religious or not, you would want a partner to agree with your view on this aspect. Spiritual beliefs are deeply ingrained in your upbringing and chances are, he or she will not veer away from his set of beliefs either. If you're a Christian, don't go looking for an atheist.

Relational Style: Are you looking for a prince who makes you his everything? Or are you the type who wants an occasional break from each other? Find out how your dream guy relates to you. If you're the type who wants love notes and phone calls every hour, but he just doesn't have it in him, then you're in for a big disappointment.

Physical Attributes: How would you like your partner to look like? Perhaps you're petite and you would also want a small guy? Do you want the athletic type? Who cares? But it's part of the formula so go ahead and make a list of what you want your partner to look like. Besides his physical characteristics is what initially attracts you to another person.

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Romance / Is It Possible To Read What A Woman Is Thinking? by oboso1: 5:35pm On Nov 28, 2016
There are a few very important signals that women being coy creatures send out to the men that they find attractive. Learning how to crack this code is an important part of becoming successful while dating women.

A woman's body language reflects open and closed gestures. Open indicating that she is interested in you and closed indicating that she is not. Learn to identify these and apply your understanding in your encounters...

o Eyes: When you catch a woman's eye keep looking at her till after she has looked away. She will either flip her hair or fiddle with her clothes or jewelry if she finds you interesting. Make sure that you create a positive impression by giving her a smile before she looks away. If she is interested in you then she will glace back a couple of times to catch your eye.

On the contrary beware of the 'eye roll'. Catch a woman doing this and know that she finds your company boring and can't wait to get out.

o Hair Flipping: This is one of the most tell tale signs of a woman being interested in you. If after catching your eye she turns away and flips her hair then she is definitely interested in you. Sometimes a woman does not flip her hair but just plays with it or just touches it.

This is one of the ways that she exercises to catch your eye as she finds you attractive.

o Body Movements: You can tell a lot about a woman by the way her body moves. She can send out many open or closed signals with the help of her shoulders, legs and arms. Open shoulders that are facing you, leaning forward, exposed wrists and palms and relaxed legs are all signals of her interest.

On the contrary if she sits with her legs and arms crossed with her knees and toes pointing towards you indicates that she is either nervous or disinterested in you. If you find her leading backwards further away from you then just back off as hanging around will only agitate her more.

o Notice her hands: If a woman is interested in you then she will constantly be doing something with her hands. Either touching her face, running her fingers through her hair or touching her clothes and accessories etc. She might also touch you lightly on your arms couple of times to suggest her interest.

Be on your guard if she starts to fidget with everything in proximity like her glass or the napkin or begins to drum her fingers. This means that she has lost interest in you and is just waiting for you to get the signal and move on.

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Romance / How To Make Any Girl Like You Within Seconds by oboso1: 12:38pm On Nov 27, 2016
If you want to impress any girl so much so that she wants to talk to you and also like you then you will need to rise above the other players in the crowd. The key is to get noticed in an approving way within a few seconds itself. Here are 5 ways on how to make any girl like you within seconds....

No.1 - Stand tall. Do not worry even if you think that you are not handsome by any standards. A girl might still think that you are and it is precisely this attitude that will help you out. Stand tall instead of drooping and act confident. Using elevator shoes to add a couple of inches will do no harm.

No.2 - Dress smartly. Girls will instantly notice a half-tucked shirt, un-ironed pants or worn out shoes. You need not wear costly clothes but instead simply wear smart clothes. Keep a clean look and remember to splash on an enticing cologne or after-shave.

No.3 - Keep a pleasant demeanor. Remember to smile when you see any girl that you like. It is free anyway and will help put the girl at ease. If you get a chance to introduce yourself, then do so cordially and then use subtle humor to break the ice.

No.4 - Hypnotize her by looking into her eyes. Instead of letting your eyes roam all over her body and making her squirm, drown your passion by looking in her eyes. This is sure to please her and you can also get vital feedback on whether she likes you just by gazing in her eyes.

No.5 - Ignore other fish in the sea. Instead of checking out other girls in her presence, focus all your energies on the girl of your choice. This will impress her and also make her feel special. Gawking at other girls will kill your reputation and ruin any chances that you may have of a future relationship.

These 5 ways will impress any girl the very instant that she lays her beautiful eyes on you. Use them and watch any girl fall hook-line and sinker for you within seconds.

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Romance / What To Talk About When On Date With A Girl by oboso1: 12:21pm On Nov 27, 2016
If you have managed to impress a girl enough to agree on a date, then you will need to prepare yourself. You simply do not want to end up talking about various ways of skinning a bear when the girl has just joined PETA unless you want to get skinned yourself.

Here are 4 topics that could end up pleasing any normal girl when you are on your first date with her...

No.1 - Talk about movies. Most girls love movies and you could start talking about movies. You will hence get to know if she likes cartoons, action or historic movies and this will also help you to plan your next date.

However, do not ramble on about your specialized knowledge of movies, if you have any, but keep the conversation going in a general direction.

No.2 - Talk about sports. Some girls are definitely into sports. You can talk about sports by telling her about your favorite sport and sports person and also get to know if she is really into sports.

If she does not like any sports then do not try to force your views on her.

No.3 - Talk about fashion. If you feel that both you and your girl have a keen eye for fashion then there is no harm in talking about it. However, be ready to listen to some girlie stuff including girl's fashion accessories if your girl gets really worked up.

No.4 - Ask the girl first and proceed. This could prove to be a boon or bore you depending on the compatibility of the topics that your date likes. You can directly ask her about her topics of interest and proceed from there on.

However, whatever be the topic, make sure that you discontinue talking if it makes the girl uncomfortable or if she looks bored. Change the topic back to what she likes in such cases.

These 4 tips should help you to easily converse with your date and make her feel at ease on your date. If both of you are comfortable with a particular topic then use that as an excuse for your next date.

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Romance / How To Deal With Tests From Women by oboso1: 11:57am On Nov 27, 2016
Often you might find women behaving very funnily with you. What you might not know is that such women prefer testing their men before they let them proceed any further.

Here are 4 tips on how to deal with tests from women and pass them with flying colors...

No.1 - Remain alert. The best attitude to possess is to remain alert at all times and not fall prey to any sucker test posed by any woman.

Before answering any question, quickly ask yourself as to the real reason that the woman might have asked you the question in the first place.

No.2 - Tell her what she wants to hear. A woman might be testing you to see if you are good for short affairs, good in bed, good husband material, etc.

If you feel that you agree with her question and are at a place where you want to be, then simply give her the answer that she wants to hear. This will satisfy her curiosity.

No.3 - Do not take it as a predicament. Do not get verbally aggressive when she puts you through a mental wringer even if you know about it.

Instead talk your way out of any curve ball that she throws at you with confidence and if possible, honesty. This will impress her completely.

No.4 - Do not wave the white flag. Do not talk back in exasperation and throw in the white towel. When women test you, they expect you to give them a fight. They also need to know where you stand on certain issues.

So, answer each test with zest and participate actively so as to keep her interest alive. This will be much more rewarding than just getting your marks after the test.

These 4 tips will help you to sail through any test that any woman throws at you. Use them to pass and get rewarded by your woman in a manner that might test you in other ways.

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Romance / How To French Kiss A Girl - Here Is The Art Every Guy Must Learn by oboso1: 1:55pm On Nov 26, 2016
No one is born as an expert kisser. Everyone needs to start out with someone. But if you kiss a girl after reading on how to do it right the first time then chances are that you will get plenty of chances with that satisfied girl, again and again.

Read these 4 tips on how to French kiss a girl, before you get that golden chance to actually kiss her....

Tip 1 - Get ready physically. Make sure that not only your mouth but your entire body smells good. So, no bad body odor or no breath smelling of onions or garlic. If possible, keep a mint in your mouth before your kiss so that your girl gets a fresh French kiss.

Tip 2 - Get ready mentally. This applies to you and your girl too. Instead of jumping on your girl like a lion about to devour his prey, get yourself and your girl in the right kissing mood. Murmur sweet nothings into her ear, play with her hair and nibble her ear too if she does not mind. Make her want to kiss you too before you proceed.

Tip 3 - Start out only with the lips. When you do kiss, make sure that you initially stick with the lips only. Do not force your tongue inside as if embarking on a saliva exchange program. Instead play with her upper and lower lips with your lips.

Tip 4 - Go French. Once she is comfortable with kissing on the lips then she might just initiate the French kiss. Start by simply touching the tip of her tongue with yours. As the excitement builds up, you can move to exploring the rest of her tongue by entwining your tongue with hers. Cup her face in your arms for that passionate feeling. Continue until you cannot feel your tongue.

These 4 tips will enable both you and your girl to totally enjoy your first French kiss. Try it out until you achieve perfection or she does, whichever is later.

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Romance / How To Get Any Girl Literally Addicted To You by oboso1: 1:37pm On Nov 26, 2016
Asking a girl out or spending some time isn't enough if you want to be with this girl for a long time to come. She might drift away from you for a variety of reasons which might include boredom or attention from other guys. So you would need to get her literally addicted to you. This isn't as hard as it seems as the following tips will show you...

Are you sensitive to her feelings - very often some things which seem silly to you might matter a lot to your girl. You would thus need to develop a certain amount of sensitivity so that she feels loved and respected by you. This will help you to build her trust in you - once this is done, she will be totally addicted to you.

Emotions count - you might be the coolest dude on earth, but if your girl is not emotionally attached to you, she will slowly drift from you. You thus need to do all the possible things which will make her emotionally attached to you. If you know her well enough, this should not be a difficult task for you.

Don't take advantage of her vulnerability - most girls can be vulnerable at any given time. At such times, it's very important for you to stand by your girl. Don't take advantage of her in such a situation - physically or emotionally - let her know you care for her instead.

Master of all situations - girls love it when a guy can tackle all kinds of situation. Improve your crisis management skills and use them at the first given opportunity. Your girl will look up to you in such a situation and will always be addicted to you - other handsome guys don't matter anymore to her as you have proved yourself in every possible way.

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Romance / How To Make Any Girl Like You Within Seconds by oboso1: 12:25pm On Nov 26, 2016
Every man dreams of dating young beautiful women. However, impressing a gorgeous dame is not very easy as there already are many suitors waiting to make an impact on her. To impress a girl and make her like you within seconds, you not only need style but lots of confidence as well. Apart from dressing smartly, the way you talk is what matters the most in such situations.

Here is how you can make any girl like you within seconds...

Females prefer strong and bold men over timid ones. Walk with your head held high and carry yourself smartly. See that your gait is confident and you come across as a charming guy.

Girls are quickly impressed by guys who have a good sense of humor. Crack light and funny jokes to make the lady smile. However, do not go over board with it. No girl wants to date a clown.

Most men find it hard to wear a smile, especially when they are trying to impress a girl. That's because although they show they are super confident beings, they are actually trembling in their pants. Come on guys be natural and flaunt your charming smile. A smile can make you look friendly and even if it is not going to make the girl weak in her knees, at least she wont get intimidated in your presence.

When speaking to the girl make eye contact and let your gaze linger on her a few milliseconds longer than normal. Avoid staring at her, but look at her face when exchanging pleasantries.

Stop gazing at other women. Trying to impress several other females at the same time will leave you with no one beside you. Don't give an impression that you are a flirt. Instead identify one and focus all your energy on mesmerizing her.

Just be yourself and don't try to ape famous personalities. If the girl in question likes you, great, if not forget her. It's not the end of the world.

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Romance / How To Win A Girl Back After A Bad Break Up - Tips That Will Help You by oboso1: 6:44pm On Jul 20, 2014
You've just gone through a horrible end to your relationship. It was nasty, it was painful and now you're realizing that it was the biggest mistake of your life. You miss your girlfriend more than you thought possible and you have no idea what to do. Perhaps part of you thinks that the right thing to do is to just try and put it all behind you and move on to meet someone else. Your heart can't do that though because you love her way too much. You have to get the woman back. Understanding how to win a girl back after a bad break up is all about recognizing that you have to put the past to rest before you can make her love you again.

Learning how to win a girl back after a bad break up starts with making a sincere and appropriate apology to her. You may think that she should be the one apologizing to you if she did the actual breaking up, but you're wrong. If you were doing everything you needed to be doing in the relationship it wouldn't have ended as badly as it did. It's rarely one person's fault only when a relationship comes crashing apart. Therefore, you need to own up to what you did and you need to do that as soon as possible. Your apology must be coming from a genuine place inside of you and it has to be delivered in a very sincere and calm way. Just tell your girlfriend that you regret your actions and that you're going to work very hard in the future to be a better man and to learn from your mistakes.

Once you've done that, you then can move towards getting her back. Since the break up was so bad it's going to take time to reconnect with her on a romantic level. You have to approach this as a journey and with that comes many small steps to help you get towards your goal which is to be back with the woman you love. Each day do something to transform yourself into the man you know she wants you to be. If there were things she criticized you about while you two were still together, focus on those. A new and improved version of you is sure to make her think twice about the break up.

As you work towards becoming the man you know you are capable of being, continue to be a strong and positive presence in her life. Talk to her frequently but don't bring up the past or the future. Focus on what's going on in both of your lives at the moment. Encourage her in any way you can and be there to support her if she needs a shoulder to lean on. Show her that you care for her whether you two are romantic partners or not. That alone will help her to feel closer to you again.

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Romance / Make Your Ex Boyfriend Miss You Like Crazy! How To Make Him Crave To Be With You by oboso1: 6:32pm On Jul 20, 2014
You want to make your ex boyfriend miss you like crazy? Who could blame you? There are so many emotions bouncing around inside of a woman after a split. Part of you knows that you should just give up on the idea of being with him and move on. However, the other part of you, the stronger part, wants the man back. In your eyes, he's the love of your life. Why settle for having loved him once when you can love him forever? You can make it happen. With the proper approach you can make your ex boyfriend feel such yearning for you that he'll crave to talk to you and see you.

In order to make your ex boyfriend miss you like crazy you have to conjure up more willpower than you've ever had in your life for anything. The thing about making another person miss you is that you have to be in control of not only your own emotions but the situation in general. You can't be pining away for him if you want him to start pining away for you. You have to actually compartmentalize your feelings and put him someplace in the back of your heart for now. The best way to do that is to imagine that at the end of your long journey he'll be waiting for you with open arms. He will be if you handle this correctly.

The first step to get your ex boyfriend to miss you is the hardest. You have to stop talking to the man. Not for an hour or two, but for a week or two or even better an entire month. Right away you're imagining that during that time he'll meet another woman, fall helplessly in love with her and get married while your back is turned. That's not going to happen at all. He'll actually think about you more when you talk to him less. He'll start to obsess over the fact that you've dropped off the face of the earth and he'll begin to wonder whether you're the one who has found someone to replace him.

The only real way to make your ex boyfriend miss you like crazy is to cut him out of your life. If that seems impossible to you now do it strictly on a day-to-day basis. In other words, worry about today and how you'll avoid him. Then tomorrow when you wake up do the very same thing. Before you realize it, a week will have passed, then two and then more. Depending on his own willpower it won't take long before he's calling you. He'll sound more open and willing to talk. That's because during your absence, he came to the realization that a life without you just isn't what he wants after all.

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Romance / My Ex Girlfriend Ignores Me - What You Need To Do To Change This by oboso1: 7:34pm On Jul 09, 2014
Imagine being ignored by your ex in the presence of common friends. It is not a pleasant feeling and you may actually be wondering how you should react to her when she chooses to ignore you! Here are some points you can consider.

Try to know if you sent the wrong signals

Break ups are common these days and many a times the couple breaks up with no hard feelings. This can happen only if the two have spoken about it before taking the final step. Look back if you did so or if you have sent wrong signals to her for which she prefers to ignore you.

Let her know you still like to stay in touch
There are innumerable ways you can reach her. Be it phone, SMS or even a message on a networking site; let her know you like to stay in touch. Talk about things that you appreciate in her even today and bridge the gap at the earliest.

Try to organize a get together with common friends and ask her to join

Well, if your ego does not permit you to let her know you are not comfortable about being ignored, try doing it in a very casual manner. Organize a get together with all common friends and make sure she too is invited. This will give you a good platform to interact with her casually.

Find ways to keep yourself engaged
One thing you can do is just reciprocate her behavior. You too can ignore her and think of ways to keep yourself engaged so you don't miss her presence in your life. This is the time you can explore activities that you would like to indulge in.

Choose to move on in life
Life will not cease if she is out of sight. If she is making you feel uncomfortable, simply move on. You may meet many more interesting girls in life, so pep up and get going.

See if you really need her in your life
If the two if you were not serious in the relationship, there is a chance that there is no void created in her absence. Friends might make you believe that she is ignoring you which must be quite humiliating, but do you really feel so? Go by what you feel rather than get influenced!

Make her your strength rather than your weakness
If she is ignoring you, it is time you fight back at that attitude of hers. Make her attitude your strength and find ways to enjoy your life much more than before. Work on your looks, your physique and get noticed by her without speaking a word. A good looking guy cannot be ignored for long!

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How to Make an Ex Like You Again
Romance / How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Chase You Without Trying Too Hard by oboso1: 7:16pm On Jul 09, 2014
No woman wants to look desperate when she is trying to get back together with her ex. She instinctively knows that looking needy will turn her ex off. This is why she should go about getting her ex in a manner that is subtle and clever. These secrets will make you very successful in drawing him back to you.

Look desirable and unavailable to him
Don't beg for his attention. The best thing for you to do is to ignore him and look like you don't care at all. The fact that you are looking stunning and more desirable now will irritate him no end and he will get jealous and envious of the fact that you are no longer available to him.

Get other guys to chase you
What you should do is try to flirt with other guys. If your ex sees you always surrounded by other males vying for your attention, he is bound to wonder if he made a terrible mistake in giving up a girl who is so obviously attractive and irresistible! So go out there and get other guys to chase you.

Flirt in such a manner that he can't resist you
Once you are sure that he has begun to notice you again, you have to be as aloof as you can so that he is goaded to try and get your attention. When the time is right, you can begin to flirt with him in a subtle and sexy manner so that he will find it really hard to ignore you and will be attracted to you again.

Jog his memory and make him reminisce about the past
Do little things that will jog his memory and take him back into the past when he was madly in love with you! Wear a particular outfit that will bring back memories of shared passion as fresh as though it were yesterday. Make him notice these little lovable things and he will find it hard to resist you.

Use little tricks to make him jealous
The idea is to get him to notice you and become curious about you again and then make him a little jealous so that he loses control and lets you know that he still has feelings for you. Date a handsome guy or be seen in the company of admiring alpha males. Look cute as a button and ignore him completely. This really works.

Catch his attention and make him curious
Sometimes you don't have to say a word. Just hang around the same old familiar places but look like someone different - sexier, more beautiful and definitely more popular than you used to be! He will soon be dying to know what it is that is making you so happy and gorgeous.

Let him see that you are not averse to the idea of making up
If you feel that you have teased him long enough and it is time to get back with him, then it is a good idea to let him know in a frank, honest yet subtle way that you are not averse to the idea of kissing and making up with him. If he has been unable to tear his eyes away from you recently - it only proves that he is ready to get back with you.

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How to Get Your Ex Back After Cheating
Romance / Does My Ex Boyfriend Miss Me After The Breakup by oboso1: 1:28pm On Jul 08, 2014
When your boyfriend dumps you and you still love him, it can leave you feeling very raw emotionally. Not only will you be feeling anger and sadness, but you'll also experience regret and longing. Once you've gotten past the initial shock over the relationship ending you'll start to wish you could have him back. Your mind will race back to the wonderful moments when he used to tell you he'd love you forever. If you want to have that back it is possible. Learning how to make him miss you after the break up is the first step towards getting him back for good.

Understanding how to make him miss you after the break up starts with recognizing the power in being emotionally calm and in control. Women are notorious for allowing their emotions to take hold of them. We tend to cry at even the smallest thing. It's not uncommon for a woman to become teary eyed over a passionate romantic movie or even an endearing television commercial. It's understandable that when we feel as though we've lost the man we adore that our emotions would wreak havoc. We do things during this time we wouldn't normally do. Things like calling him continuously or sending him long, rambling emails proclaiming our undying love.

You absolutely must be in control of yourself if you hope to have any chance with your ex in the future. You must present yourself as a strong, stable woman. Show him that you are okay after the split and that your world didn't come to a crashing halt just because he said goodbye to you. If you can do this, you'll be on your way to getting him back.

The only way to make your ex boyfriend miss you is to remove yourself from his life. Some women can't really comprehend this as they think that even a day away from their ex will result in losing him for good. Distance is your ally when you want to get him back. Making him miss you will reignite romantic feelings in him. It will help to push aside all the negative emotions he's feeling right now over the beak up and will remind him of why he fell in love with you initially.

Do whatever you need to do to not call him for a few weeks. Focus on all the other areas of your life including reconnecting with friends and getting caught up with family. Surround yourself with people who love you and enjoy life. If you can do that, and resist the urge to reach out to him, he'll start to miss you. Once that happens it won't be long until he wants to talk with you again.

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How to Get Over Your Ex Boyfriend
Romance / How To Get Him Back After He Dumps You - Win Your Ex Back by oboso1: 1:14pm On Jul 08, 2014
Sometimes it is better that you move on when he dumps you. Sometimes, it is good to let some time pass by so you could realize whether the break up was for your good or not. Sometimes, you need to go back after him with all you have got. When you decide to do this, you should know that there is only rule to this game - winning. You keep your eyes firmly on the goal and ignore everything else of you want to win. Here are the 7 steps that will ensure you win your ex boyfriend back:

1. Forget about him for now - stop whining about him. Stop even thinking about him - for now. Look back into your relationship and analyze it carefully. Why did he leave you? What do you think was the problem between the two of you? Ask your close friends what they thought was the problem between the two of you.

2. Pay attention to how you look - in most cases, men complain that their super cool girlfriends after going steady become dull. They stop caring for themselves and that literally puts off the fire in the relationship.

3. Pay attention to your attitude - sometimes, you might sound too demanding, too emotional, too pushy, too bossy, too clingy. A woman should be a little of all these, but if she lets any one of these attitudes dominate, she is in for trouble. An attractive woman has only one attitude to wear - that of a woman in charge of her destiny, i.e. confident.

4. Invite him out for a talk - when you do so, he should be able to see the change in you. Men do not like to "talk" for they are not really equipped for emotional banter. However, if you seem in charge of your feelings and exude inner confidence and control, he would be intrigued enough to know more about the new you to accept such an invitation.

5. Start from ground zero - tell him that you feel he left you for whatever reason you think you identified in your earlier analysis. Ask him whether it is correct. Request him to tell you what made him take this step.

6. Negotiate re-entry - let him know you still have feelings for him and are willing to work at the relationship.

7. The decision is his - it is very important that you put no pressure on him to take a decision fast. Trust me, he will come back to you.

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How To Fix A Long Distance Relationship
Romance / Can You Win A Man Back With Sex - The Truth About Sex With Your Ex Boyfriend! by oboso1: 6:53pm On Jul 07, 2014
A frequently asked question by a lot of women who are desperate to get back together with their ex is "should you have sex with your ex boyfriend to get him back?" usually, after a split up emotions still lingers. At times, you may think that you can win back his love by having sex with him. It is going to make both of closer again, it is going to make him realize that he misses you, it will make him fall in love with you again, right? Wrong! Having sex with your ex boyfriend will simply end up hurting you. If you are thinking about having sex with him, then you need to reconsider your decision.

Women often correlate love making with true love; they think men feel the same way. Emphatically no! Having sex with your ex boyfriend after a break up simply sends a signal to him that you are okay with being casual lover.

Women who makes the mistake of jumping into bed with their ex often end up making their ex not treat them as they expected. They will never get an invitation to stay the night and he never gets in touch with them. It will also be wrong to go out on a date; it will even make things worse if you suggest it. All the times he has gotten in touch with you is because he is eager to see you.

Something else that usually happens when a woman jumps into bed with her ex is that he will start dating someone else and dump her once more. In point of fact, it's not dumping to him in any way. She was just a mere sex partner to him, after all anyone can pay a girl to have sex with him, but in his case he got it from an intimate partner - not a girlfriend. He doesn't see both of you in a relationship at all. The fact that he met someone he loves and hopes to have a relationship with, he has to discontinue the sexual meeting with his ex for the reason that he wants to be fully committed to his new relationship.

Do not have sex with your ex boyfriend if you want a future with him. Rather, you both could be platonic friends. For the time being, you must avoid sex and make effort toward strengthening the bond between the two of you. If you can make him realize that you both still have strong connections without sex, it will melt his heart again. Your relationship should be built on this basis.

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Does Your Ex Still Love You
Romance / How Do You Make A Guy Want You Back After A Break Up by oboso1: 6:23pm On Jul 07, 2014
How do you make a guy want you back after a break up? You wish you knew the secret answer to that question, don't you? There are many women in the same position as you. They've come through the end of a relationship and are now standing on the other side of it full of regret that they've lost the man they truly love. As difficult as many of life's challenges are, this is one of the worst. Trying to mend a broken heart and find a way to get back someone after a break up is really challenging. All you want to do is call him up, plead with him to see the light and take you back. You know that's not the right approach to take though, right? You need to take a step back, catch your breath and really learn how to handle yourself and him so he wants you back for good.

When you're searching for an answer to the question of how do you make a guy want you back, you're going to come across some pretty ridiculous advice. Some people suggest that the right thing to do is to write him a long love letter spilling your innermost thoughts out. Don't do that. Other advice will tell you that you can't get him back unless you call him continuously in an effort to get him to talk to you. Again, you're not going to help anything by doing such things. And finally, never follow any advice that tells you to start dating again to make your ex jealous. Doing that is going to guarantee that you end up alone while in the process you'll hurt both men.

As strange as it seems one of the best things you can do right now is push your ex out of your mind and focus on yourself. If you don't attempt to talk to him for a day or two or even a week it's not going to harm your chances of getting him back. It will actually help your chances. He'll have time to reflect on what you meant to him and you'll have an opportunity to brush your heart and pride off, pick yourself up and get your bearings. By not trying to contact him, you'll ensure he misses you and that's incredibly helpful when it comes to getting a man interested again.

Men are naturally drawn to strong, self confident women. Even though you may feel like an emotional mess with no confidence at all, don't let that show to your ex. You want and need for him to see you as someone who can weather the storm of a break up and still be in control of herself. Don't shed a tear when you're talking to him or when you see him and keep a beautiful and bright smile on your face. By doing this, you'll make him face the fact that you aren't completely emotionally dependent on him. When a man starts to see that a woman can live without him, that's when he wants her more than anything because in his mind, he'll prove to her that she needs him.

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How to Get Back Together With Your Ex
Romance / What To Do If You Want Your Ex Back In Your Life by oboso1: 4:08pm On Jul 03, 2014
You probably have been saying the same words a thousand times now: "I want my ex back." But are you doing anything to make this happen? It is easier to say things but harder to find ways on how to make things work out the way you wanted to. However, with enough determination and a few action ideas from here, you will surely be able to get what you've always yearned for.

What to do?

First, you should disappear for some time as if you were invisible. This will help you and your ex recover. That is why it is not advisable for you to come running to your ex in this kind of situation, for you will just end up getting fed up of each other's presence and end it all. If you really want your ex to get back with you, try giving the person some time and space to think. This will not pressure him at all but instead will have him think of you more and more.

The next thing to do is that you shouldn't give up on the words "I want my ex back." Let no other thing sway your mind and be constant and positive in what you believe in. It is not enough that you admit to yourself that you really want to get back with your ex. You should be self-assured that you will be doing the right thing to make sure that everything works out for you.

If you are planning to meet you should be able to come up with a certain course of reasoning that will win the approval of your ex to consider reconciling. Of course, you should also keep in mind not to make any promises that you yourself cannot keep just in case you both decide to give it a shot one more time. It is important that you are both honest with your feelings and make sure that both of you understands each other.

Finally, you should allow your ex to establish his/her own standards on how to deal with this. Since you were able to obtain what you have yearned for, then it is now your time to give way and be patient enough to wait till everything's back to normal. This is somewhat like a new beginning for both of you, so better go by your ex's pace. Eventually you will find things turning out the way you wanted to. Surely in the end you will once again have your happy ending.

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Now listen carefully! Take 2 minutes to read the next page and you'll discover a stunning trick which will have your ex begging you to take them back. There is a set of easy to follow psychological tricks which will make your ex crawl back to you within a few days guaranteed. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page before it's too late and time runs out- Click Here

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How To Get Someone Back
Romance / What To Do When He Breaks Up With You by oboso1: 1:56pm On Jul 03, 2014
It is terrible to live through heartbreak; but this is a part of life. It happens all the time. What do you do when your boyfriend breaks up with you and you find you still love him? Do you plan to get him back or go through the rest of your life regretting that you lost the person you thought was the one for you?

The wise thing to do would be to go after him. However, you definitely do not want to fight a lost battle. You need to know whether he still loves you. Can you tell whether he still loves you or not? Here are 7 signs that he still does (which means you have all the chances to get him back).

1. He calls back - leave him a message (text him or send him an email) saying you wanted to talk with him. If he calls you back it means that he still cares for you. If he has outgrown the relationship - he would ignore the messages.

2. He is still protective of you - ask him his opinion about going out with some not-so-great guys around you. If she shrugs off his shoulders and does not say anything, the signs are not good. However, if he goes to lengths to dissuade you from connecting to such men, he still cares for you.

3. He accepts your friendship - tell him you respect his wish to move away, but you still wanted to be friends. If he accepts to be friends with you, he still has a soft corner for you in his heart; good sign.

4. He goes out of his way to help you - make up some problems and ask your ex boyfriend for help. Make it look like a 'have to get your help on this one' situation. If he comes to your aid even when this means considerable discomfort to him, it means he still cares for you.

5. He remembers your special days - whether it is your birthday, or any special day he remembers and send you good wishes/ flowers/ gift.

6. He appreciates the way look - watch his eyes for this one. Wear a new dress, of get a new hairstyle then when you come in front of him watch his eyes. Do they light up? If yes, he still loves the way you look. If he pays you a compliment, it is still better. Good sign!

7. He accepts a date invite from you - test him. Ask him out for a date out. Keep it low profile. If he accepts to go out with you, he still loves you.

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Now listen carefully! Take 2 minutes to read the next page and you'll discover a stunning trick which will have your ex begging you to take them back. There is a set of easy to follow psychological tricks which will make your ex crawl back to you within a few days guaranteed. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page before it's too late and time runs out- Click Here

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