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Politics / Re: Florence Ita Giwa Celebrates Her 74th Birthday Today by obowunmi(m): 12:34pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
She's known for being very promiscuous. |
Family / Re: We Have Stronger Women And Weaker Men Now!! by obowunmi(m): 10:55pm On Feb 16, 2020 |
Lazy men who want the women to take care of them. It's so sad. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Share Your Best Val Experience by obowunmi(m): 11:04am On Feb 13, 2020 |
Yet to have one. |
Health / Re: Coronavirus In Alimosho: LASG Dismisses Rumored Cases In Gowon Estate by obowunmi(m): 6:43am On Feb 13, 2020 |
The Chinese don't care about the Africans. They hate Africans. I am sure the CORONAVIRUS is definitely in Nigeria. |
Health / Re: Nigerian Student Volunteers To Help Fight Coronavirus In Nanjing, China (Photo) by obowunmi(m): 6:11pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Sunofgod: Foolishness... Very foolish considering that there is no cure for the disease. 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by obowunmi(m): 3:54pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Dominiondominio: I’m a 26 years old woman married to a 37 years old man. We have been married for almost 3 years.
We don’t have kids yet and 6 months ago I ended up in hospital with sepsis. The doctors originally thought it was caused by a kidney infection but later found that it was caused by Pelvic Inflammatory disease.
They repeatedly asked about my sexual history but I have only slept with one person in the past 3 years - my husband. I ended up having to have emergency surgery as the infection would not respond to the IV antibiotics they were giving me. I was in hospital for 10 days and have potential long- term damage which will affect my ability to have children.
I recently found out that my husband has cheated on me a number of times throughout our marriage and that the Pelvic inflammation was caused by untreated Gonorrhoea.
When I was discharged from hospital, he admitted that he has been cheating on me with a single mother of 4 (unprotected sex ) And he got the gonorrhea! How irresponsible! I am completely devastated and don't want to believe that the love of my life could be so callous. I very nearly died and if it were not for the brilliant doctors who quickly recognised my symptoms.
Of course the woman my husband got the gonorrhea from denied everything and I bet she won’t go get treated and will continue to spread this nasty and dangerous disease! She is done with having kids so why would she care, right?
Well, I do want to have kids and I won’t let my fertility and health taken away! the emotional damage caused by the infidelity itself is horrible. I feel angry, dirty, and ugly. All I want to do is cry all day. I can’t talk to anyone about it because I feel so ashamed. The person I trust the most is my mother but i don't want to break her heart. I know that to her my happiness matters the most and I think she would be angry at me the rest of her life if I told her that I still love my husband.
My husband feels remorseful and said he would never cheat on me again. He said he would choose me over any lifestyle and that he would give up everything for me. I have a very hard time trusting him again and I still don't know what I want from this whole thing. I just can't understand why my husband would have sex with a disgusting, nasty woman and betray me on so many levels. My pride got hurt so badly. I feel so ugly and worthless. My libido is absolutely gone. I feel empty inside. Then all the sudden I feel horrible, horrible anger and I want to break everything in sight. On some nights I can't sleep and sometimes I want to sleep all day. Most days I'm not even hungry and I have to force myself to eat something.
I feel like I will never be happy again. I used to be a happy, confident, bubbly person, now my zest for life is gone. Is this normal? Will these feelings ever go away?
If they asked you to leave your husband, you will NEVER leave.
Hang in tight. the Lord is your strength. |
Family / Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by obowunmi(m): 4:26pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
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Family / Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by obowunmi(m): 4:24pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
victorian:
I don't doubt your story
It happens like crazy to women who wants to bear Mrs by all means
They are everywhere. Yes ooo...she is my cousin. If the man tell am sef that he is gay and wants to be fucking a dog. She will NEVER, EVER leave him. She will die there. But the man is a lucky bastard. With all the time he has, He doesn't even babysit the kids. She will still bring her mother from the village and be stressing the poor woman. |
Family / Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by obowunmi(m): 4:21pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
You don't do it directly but systematically. Like one poster contributed up there, pretending you're worried over financial issues works like magic and can even make them bring out money you have no knowledge about. *If they love you*
How Nigerian male scammers operate, ladies be warned. 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by obowunmi(m): 4:18pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Ishilove:
Is this a joke? ![](/faces/huh.png) No joke oo....true story. I swear. She is a medical doctor. She even married her husband only one week after meeting him. They are four years together with two boys. She was ready to do anything to be married. She married him at 36 years old. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by obowunmi(m): 4:12pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
My own cousin married her self.
She bought her own:
Wedding Ring, House, Wedding dress, Wedding car Her and her husband aso ebi Her and her husband white wedding dress.
All her lucky husband does is suck and Bleep her. They have two children and 4 years of marriage. He has never worked since they got married. She is even paying his school fees. 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by obowunmi(m): 4:10pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
sylvestersamuel: Good morning my fellow Nairalanders, I will try to make my story brief and precise.... I have a fiancée whom I am already engaged to. As a matter of fact I have already done all our traditional marriage and rites the only thing left is our white wedding which will be coming up in the next 3 weeks.
Yesterday, my fiancée came to visit me in my house so as to discuss our wedding plans. But before she left, we had a slight misunderstanding and the reason for our misunderstanding was because I allocated 50% of our wedding expenses to her i.e (she would be the one to sew her wedding gown, pay for the catering service amongst others) while I take care of other expenses...
On hearing this, she didn't even utter a word but left with annoyance, since then I have been trying to call her but she hasn't been picking my calls neither have she replied any of my messages....
Please I need your advice, did I do or say anything wrong, because I know how much I spent during our traditional marriage rite and mind you, she earns close to 200k per month.... Insult in form of advice is allowed all I need is just your advice.
Who will she marry if she doesn't marry you ? Good men who want to settle are hard to find. Don't worry, she will be be back. 1 Like |
Business / Re: Balogun Market, Lagos On Fire (Video) by obowunmi(m): 12:02pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
This market is ALWAYS on fire. |
Romance / Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by obowunmi(m): 1:17am On Jan 29, 2020 |
IyaTola: Some guys can talk to any girl in this world but still fail at an interview!!!
Did your confidence disappear? ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Politics / Re: Tolu Ogunlesi's Tweets About The Revival Of The Eastern Ports. by obowunmi(m): 3:07pm On Jan 28, 2020 |
I can't wait until when EFCC comes for Tolu.... Wicked small boy. We will use his ugly face to clean the floor. 1 Like |
Education / Re: What Is The Best Course To Study As A Science Student.? by obowunmi(m): 12:45pm On Jan 28, 2020 |
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Romance / Re: I Lied To Her That I Have Feelings For Her by obowunmi(m): 8:08pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
Etinosa1234: Should I Use And Dump This Girl Or Not?
PLS I have an issue bothering me. There is this girl in my class that likes me.. but I don't like her one bit. Yes she's fine and all that but the feeling is not jus there.
At first I jus wanted to bang her and break up with her but. I don't want to break her heart...I don't want to be seen as the devil in my class..
Due to pressure from her friends...I jus lied to her that I had feelings for her. Now the thing is paining me badly...
I know that this relationship won't last Bleep her and move on. Nothing special. What if she doesn't like you too ? 1 Like |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Meet Up, One Night Stand, No String Attached Group by obowunmi(m): 11:10am On Jan 21, 2020 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married Bt Bored And Lonely??, Lets Meet Here by obowunmi(m): 11:09am On Jan 21, 2020 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Buy Herbal Products To Enjoy Your Sexual Life by obowunmi(m): 11:08am On Jan 21, 2020 |
Me too |
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Single Guys Ready For Serious Relationship by obowunmi(m): 11:07am On Jan 21, 2020 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Drop Your Number And Location, You Might Get A Date by obowunmi(m): 10:59am On Jan 21, 2020 |
[quote author=MTaffairs post=85969304]Based in Ibadan, Muslim, working, need a Muslim matured guy that’s ready for a serious relationship that will lead to marriage soon PS: I don’t need a long courtship pls, therefore your maturity is highly needed. Age range: 35-40. 07038134485. Once I see that you aren’t for me, I block you AS |
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Drop Your Number And Location, You Might Get A Date by obowunmi(m): 10:59am On Jan 21, 2020 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Need A Lady In Abeokuta For Serious Relationship by obowunmi(m): 10:58am On Jan 21, 2020 |
debola33: pls mr chris am a man not a lady. Thank you. I think say you be woman. |
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