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Politics / Re: EU: Buhari Doing Nothing To End Killings, Persecution Of Christians By Fulani by obowunmi(m): 10:23am On Jan 20, 2020 |
Nigerian Christians will still vote for him. |
Politics / Re: Pauline Tallen Appoints Daughter, Violet Osunde, As Special Assistant by obowunmi(m): 10:21am On Jan 20, 2020 |
Her, daddy bubu, vp Osinbajo.... same whatsapp group.
Enjoy it ALL while it lasts. |
Politics / Re: What Happened To Trader Money? by obowunmi(m): 5:57pm On Jan 19, 2020 |
TraderMoni was administered by SoftCom, which is owned by VP Osinbajo. Osinbajo leaves office Softcom DIES. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: My Fiance Is A 2-Minute Man & We Are Set To Do Our Introduction. Please Help by obowunmi(m): 11:28pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
Miffia: Hi everyone... Good Afternoon
I will keep this brief and short.. Ignore any typographical error, please.
I have this boyfriend, we've been dating for years now. The thing is, he doesn't last long during sex, he's a 2 minutes man, as you people call it. There was a time, we had sex, less than 1 minute, yes, I mean less than a minute, just 3 or 4 thrusts and he released. He was shocked, sad and disappointed, I was shocked too. I was even the one cheering him up, not to be sad, that everything will be okay, that's not his fault, he just wore his cloth and left.
This is someone I want to marry, we will soon do our introduction and wedding, and I don't want our sex life to be boring, we are not enjoying s*x at all, and I don't want to cheat on him... We love each other so much.
Please, anybody that has experienced this before, or know how to stop it should advice me on what to do, its not making me happy neither is my boyfriend happy too
Your advice will be appreciated.. Thank You. Cheat on him.
In Nigeria, marriage is do or die. So how will you go find someone else. You better take what you can get. |
Politics / Re: Femi Falana Meets With Sowore And Deji Adeyanju (Photos) by obowunmi(m): 9:26pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
jimyjames: Sowore disappointed me big time I was expecting a big revolutionnow comeback rally now that he's out of prison , he just turned to a news paper vendor The fear of BokoHoram Buhari is the beginning of wisdom. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 2 Likes |
Family / Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by obowunmi(m): 12:37pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Ebenezar2020: the mistake u made was to marry without seeking for God's will. that's what u get when u deny the godly wife to go seek for a thick wife with curvy waist, big boobs and tiny brain. If u got married to her and now you divorced her it'll be eternally and spiritually prohibited to get another woman as wife for it's adultery in God's sight.
There's NO SUCH thing as God's will. 1 Like |
Nairaland / General / Re: Huge Python Killed In My Workplace by obowunmi(m): 9:27pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Somebody's Aunty. |
Politics / Re: Olusegun Adeniyi Ambushed By Boko Haram by obowunmi(m): 6:24pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Buhari is Boko Horam.Una no dey hear word. Dem ambush Yoruba man. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Religion / Re: Reverend Jim Hogan Survives Accident That Claimed 6 Lives by obowunmi(m): 10:11am On Jan 05, 2020 |
He could have internal bleeding. Hope he still goes to the hospital. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by obowunmi(m): 11:23pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
milemimi93: I am not angry or complainingI am just shocked and feeling guilty.. I had to take her to a shopping mall to buy her stuffs. Getting to the mall I told her to pick any thing she wants that I will pay.
she picked just 3 things. When we got to the counter the cashier said the bill is 870. I was shocked again that she didn't get more things for herself. With joy, I gave the cashier 1000 and told him to keep the change.
MARRY HER. God has done it for you. 1 Like |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Iran Hoists The Red Flag Which Is A Traditional Symbol For War by obowunmi(m): 11:19pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED: THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE EXCITING, BUT I'M DISSAPOINTED WITH AMERICA. THEY SHOULD HAVE DIRECTED THOSE MISSILES TO BUHARI'S HEAD INSTEAD. Amen oo....make Buhari pafuka 1 Like |
Family / Re: Is There Anything As A Destined Wife/husband. by obowunmi(m): 4:52pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
joyandfaith:
there is nothing like destiny. if you tell them she is adenuga daughter or an American citizen, they will tell you destiny has been changed because of their prayers and fasting abi oooo |
Family / Re: Is There Anything As A Destined Wife/husband. by obowunmi(m): 1:16pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Stanzar7:
Bro if u find peace in her. Just go ahead. Humans r controversial being. They will always look for one ting to say just to make themselves higher being than u.. True. |
Family / Re: Is There Anything As A Destined Wife/husband. by obowunmi(m): 12:03pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
TheLaughter: I and my girlfriend have been dating for about some years now, we have been good. We have encountered ups and downs but we pulled through. We plan together and execute things together.
Recently, I indicated plans for marriage but my people didn't give consent. They said she isn't my destined partner. According to them, they have prayed, saw in prophesies and visions that she isn't the one...
I happen to speak with one of the prophetess on phone and she repeated what she told them that she is not my wife, that I should pray, that my wife will come.
I am finding it hard believing all these but at the same time I am mindful too. I have been asking myself questions if what they are saying is true. They said I will encounter all kinds of hardship if I continue and many other things the prophetess said.
I see her as God's creation too, why will God allow such happen to me just because I married someone He created too.
I don't believe all these prophesies but at the same time I just want to ask if there could be any truth in this destined partner stuff. Thanks There is NO such thing. We have FREEWILL. You decide, you choose. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by obowunmi(m): 1:17pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: I'm 42 years old and married with 3 children (2 boys and a girl). I got married to this beatiful lady 13 years ago and everything was bliss until three years ago when my business experienced a serious down turn.
My wife on the other hand witnessed an upturn in fortunes and practically became the bread winner in the home.
Her good financial fortune had me focussed on trying to get myself back on track. I tried getting a job, but it was not forth coming.
My business continued to dwindle and then I resorted to doing small odd jobs just so I could contribute to the family upkeep.
My wife's upturn in fortune however brought out the ugliness in her. She started trying to assume control of the home. She stopped consulting me on decisions concerning our home, rather consulting her parents. She practically turned my kids against me as she painted me as irresponsible.
We initially had assess to each other's account, but now she has accounts hidden from me. I just found out she bought land somewhere, though she doesn't know I have that knowledge.
She has become rude and disrespectful and her parents and siblings have taken over my home. I am so pained because all I ever did was show her love and respect.
She didn't like the fact i tried to have order in my home and that seems to be my sin. I have never hit her or been wicked to her.
Right now, I'm pained and confused. I don't know what to do. Someone please help. I honestly don't know why POOR, Lazy MEN refuse to be HUMBLE. Love and honor your wife. Thank her for supporting the family. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Crime / Re: Photos Of Anthony Oluseye Akinyemi Who Died In US Immigration Detention Centre by obowunmi(m): 2:50pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
He looks like a BABOON. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Softcom Flew All Employees To Dubai For Retreat by obowunmi(m): 10:21am On Dec 25, 2019 |
ooohoo:
I may be wrong, you can as well provide the source that confirms that they have worked for FIFA or Samsung, the only true fact up there is MTN. Don't exaggerate falsehood in your bid to defend the company's spending power. The ONLY thing SoftCom has are the BILLIONS of naira from Vice President Osinbajos office. |
Travel / Re: Softcom Flew All Employees To Dubai For Retreat by obowunmi(m): 10:20am On Dec 25, 2019 |
Gerrard59: Bad belle people full Nairaland oh
BTW, the company was founded in 2007 by graduates from Covenant University, so how does Osinbajo come in? Moreover, the CEO has attended the Stanford University Seed Program, so does Osinbajo own the firm? How exactly? Osinbajo OWNS softcom. All technology contracts from Osinbajo's office goes to SoftCom. 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Softcom Flew All Employees To Dubai For Retreat by obowunmi(m): 10:18am On Dec 25, 2019 |
IgboSomalia:
What do you know? Nothing. You're just bleating about.
They have been handling tech projects for FIFA, Mtn and Samsung. If you don't know that, I'm not responsible for your ignorance.
Post- Buhari and Osinbajo....let's see if una go dey go Dubai. I will be here waiting. Osinbajo is a thief. He is money laundering through SoftCom. Not to worry sha. EFCC dey wait. |
Travel / Re: Softcom Flew All Employees To Dubai For Retreat by obowunmi(m): 8:25am On Dec 25, 2019 |
IgboSomalia:
Softcom has been handling projects for FIFA, Samsung and Mtn.
Most of you are not enlightened and can't think beyond your immediate environment.
I suggest you ask questions and not jump into conclusions like an overzealous illiterate. osinbajo owns SOFTCOM. what kind of moronic contract from MTN and Samsung? Lmao. All the contracts from VP Osinbajos office goes to SoftCOM. As soon as Osinbajo leaves Office, SoftCOM will not be able to carry any staff anywhere. |
Travel / Re: Softcom Flew All Employees To Dubai For Retreat by obowunmi(m): 10:53pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
The company is owned by Vice President Osinbajo. Softcom owns ALL contracts from the Vice President's office. 2 Likes |
Career / Re: Dropping Psychology For Nursing. Am I Making The Right Choice? by obowunmi(m): 9:21am On Dec 18, 2019 |
When you go abroad, Nursing go make sense die. |
Romance / Re: To Marry A Lady Who Loves You More Than You Love Her , Is It Okay? by obowunmi(m): 11:48pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
No such thing as love. |
Politics / Re: Photos From Senator Ajimobi's 70th Birthday In Ibadan by obowunmi(m): 10:23am On Dec 17, 2019 |
ghettokid1: Happy birthday sir! May your health be as strong as that of nigeria health sector. May your life be bright as that of nigeria nepa. May your life be as terrible as you leave oyo state In Jesus name, Amen. |
Romance / Re: What Are The Spiritual Effects Of Sleeping With A Married Man Knowingly ? by obowunmi(m): 4:16pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
LoooooL. There is no spiritual implication except for HIV, Gonorehea, Syphilis and others STDs. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Sowore: Wole Soyinka Centre Postpones Award Presentation To Osinbajo by obowunmi(m): 12:45pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
idid: Good
More of this should come, he deserves no award.
Osinbajo is a coward Big COWARD. |
Politics / Re: Hadiza Usman Petitions IG, DSS Over Attack At NASS by obowunmi(m): 12:28pm On Dec 06, 2019 |
Hadiza Usman is a very stupid woman. She left Buhari sponsored Bring Back our Girls Campaign against Goodluck to work for her daddy Buhari.
Hope they beat you up well! Karma will pay back your evil. |
Romance / Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by obowunmi(m): 11:43am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Harlequeen: I opened this account because my main one is pretty popular.
I've had this issue and don't know what's wrong. I can't seem to get into a new relationship. I am now 25, about serving, working a normal job
My dating history is not too rich. I dated just one guy for 2 years, i became sexually active with him, we enjoyed each other, but things didn't work out. I tried to be better, have moved on, and he has too. This was mid last year. I have been celibate since then not because i don't like sex, but because i had time to think, i read a lot of books, listened to a lot of relationship counselors on YouTube, reddit, Nairaland and so on. I decided to approach dating differently, with my head and not my heart . i would vet men out who were not in line with some basic standards, to avoid fuckboys and meet high quality men. He should be well spoken, either with a career or into trade, accomplished, way older by at least 10 yrs(no i don't have daddy issues, i just like mature guys because i think like a mature person) he could also have plans to leave the country, because i plan to do that also.
Here's the issue, the men that express interest in me do not fit this criteria. They seem to have no plan for their lives. I get this impression that they are broke, they recycle the same lines all the time, i usually see their bull sh1t tactics a mile away. some are in the army(i can't date men in the armed forces, they lifestyle is not what i want for myself, cannot date doctors either for the same reason)others are artisans, some are plain hustlers who just do whatever to eat. I have a soft spot for ambitious men, and i have not seen a lot in the area that i am in. I have been advised by my friends to try highbrow areas like lekki or VI or go to church, but i don't believe in religion.
But whenever i see these men, i am not attracted to them. I have even tried online dating with some male nairalanders, but i get disinterested easily. I get turned off when someone asks for my normal pics, it is quite frustrating. There's that fear that some of these men could use my pics to masturbate or one other creepy purpose. I block them if they ask for nudes. But the issue is, it is quite exhausting to keep chatting with someone without seeing them in person and some of these guys just want to smash and run which i won't allow. No man will have access to my vagina and womb without investment and commitment. Eventually it becomes hard to keep up communication and we just fizzle out like that.
I am not under pressure to marry from my parents, infact my dad says he won't allow his daughters marry until they clock 28 and i am the first. He wants us to have a career and a life before moving with a man. I just want to know if what i am doing is right?
To be honest, i just want some words of advice and encouragement, you can ask me questions if you want. This approach of mine? Is it the right thing? Am i being too smart for my own good? Am i afraid of commitment? Unfortunately, Nigerian women MUST choose between lazy but faithful. Many men out there have no plans for their lives, which is why there are more successful women than men. |
Politics / Re: Aisha Buhari: Things Getting Out Of Hand by obowunmi(m): 6:12am On Nov 30, 2019 |
smogup: This woman is just another scammer like her husband. She is just saying this in other to make it look as if she really cares about Nigerians.
Moreover, the best person to tell this is buhari who is unconcerned about the plight of Nigerians. Buhari is after traveling round the world and taking huge loans from everywhere.
facts 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Princess Nnenna Orji: I Wouldn't Marry An Older Man Like Regina Daniels by obowunmi(m): 7:18pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
Growing number of women will remain single because men aren't working, don't have jobs and are lazy. |