TheLaughter:
Some are saying there isn't, others say there is...

I have prayed on my own but I am not getting any revelation...

Now I am scared, I have asked myself what if spirituality is true and all they are saying is true?

I don't want to make any mistakes, but when it comes to compatibility, we are really compatible...

You guys must have gone intimate, so it might be difficult for you to hear from God concerning her.

Only in Nigeria.... Ndiara

He that findeth a wife, findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from God...

Meditate on the word 'findeth'. For the word of God to say 'find', means that you should search thoroughly and for you to find thoroughly means that there's a person ordained for you. Nothing good comes that easy

God brought forth Eve because there was a divine compatibility. God took a rib from Adam's body and formed a Woman. It was God's plan to bring Eve to Adam for a particular purpose but they disappointed God along the line. In other words, you thinking that everything is good between you both may not actually be the perfect plan for you. Life is full of mysteries and the earlier you begin to know, the better for you.


Now let me ask you..
When you unknowingly love a marine spirit in the form of human(like you want to marry her), and everything you do now goes well, what'd you call it?

Please before anyone goes into marriage, make sure that your foundation is not shaky. Deal with the powers of your foundation and nothing will hold you bound...
Check his/her foundation so well. Infact, before you go into marriage with anyone, make sure that the foundation of that person is Good enough so that no power will hold you bound.

No

IAMTHEHERO:

God bless you for this comment. You took the exact words from my mouth.Partner(s) can change your destiny for good or bad. She would have delivered this man from untimely death, since her mum was strong spiritually.

People especially Ladies are not ready to make positive impact when in relationship with opposite sex, they want everything smooth and that is so selfish of them.

Imagine that story by that lady

2 adults in relationship/ marriage are meant to compliment each other

One s weakness might be another s strength

I will advise you flee, thinking that you may change his destiny to live. There are some generational curses that require the person in question to fight with serious fasting and prayers not the lady. If that's not the will of God for the lady, why trying to help his destiny. That's the more reason we need to check our background, ask questions, observe patterns and fight what need to be fought.

IAMTHEHERO:

God bless you for this comment. You took the exact words from my mouth.Partner(s) can change your destiny for good or bad. She would have delivered this man from untimely death, since her mum was strong spiritually.

When the concept of marriage is understood.......all this talks will be thrown out the door

yusman14:
so sex don't allow the holy spirit to reign
That means married couples can't have holy spirit

He was talking about engaging in pre marital sex which is fornication

Your body is a temple of the holy spirit, If you continue live in fornication, that spirit will be far from you.

If you are legally married to your wife, then you can have sex any time you want

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I am a Christian and a strong believer of His words.
I believe in the spirit of God.

I want to tell you that there is no woman created by God and tagged a man that will marry her. Same goes to the men.

The Bible tells us.... Any man that FINDS a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from God.
Good wanted us to find based on our choice, lifestyle and beliefs.

The one God gave to Adam, when trouble came up, Adam blamed God for giving him that woman.

The spirit of God can only give u the wisdom to choose a relatively fair partner which you'll need to work on to get your real taste.

Let's try to beliv that God destines women for men and see the implication.


Secular and carnal teachings with no spiritual experiences and references...

I am really impressed by the comments on this thread

Everyone advising the dude to go prayer way which is good because you cannot be with GOD and be disappointed and that is why HE IS THE ALMIGHTY

I never knew we had RELIGIOUS nairalanders in this number

joyandfaith:


there is nothing like destiny. if you tell them she is adenuga daughter or an American citizen, they will tell you destiny has been changed because of their prayers and fasting

abi oooo

The decision of who to marry is not as important as the decision(s) you make in marriage.

He that FINDS a wife, finds a good thing of life. It is solely your responsibility to choose who to marry.

Since you believe in prophets and prophecy, I will tell you what no one has told you on the thread. Consult another prophet, consult a third prophet and check for any correlation.

If all repeat the same warning, then run for your life. Truth is established in the mouth of 2 or 3 prophets. This is what the Bible says.

Remember there is a difference between a prophet of God and a false prophet. The bible has clarified these terms so anyone advising you against the ministry of prophets because of the numerous fake and false prophets in Nigeria is not a Christian.

klawaaa:
Please expantiate further

When you pray and there is no answer, it means God wants you to pray more, which in essence he is telling you "that way is somehow. No be am", or depending on the circumstances, it could be that time is not yet right.

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Secular and carnal teachings with no spiritual experiences and references...

You can go ahead and teach about spirituals with enough spiritual experiences and references.

Mind you, you can't teach what you don't know.

Prove me wrong here with all your experiences and references that disagree that God created each woman and tag a man that must marry her.

We as believers, sometimes for us to show that God is Almighty, we even start believing some certain things that God did not do and will not even do. He will not do those things not because He can't, only because it's not in His place to do dat.

Yes there is but I wouldn't advise you to listen to the prophet's sayings. Go down on your knees yourself. Secondly, answered prayers isn't by revelations( dream)alone. Be consistent with the prayer. It isn't a day thing.

It may be true and may not be true, why not pray on your own and meet another genuine pastor to confirm what they are saying.

Op, listen to this guy. They told me and said they should go and shit down somewhere but today my eye don clear.

Rogersmith:
There is. Op, don’t mind people telling you there’s nothing like that. However, I don’t do prophecy from prophets. I will advise you to pray about it fervently. Avoid sexual activities. The Holy Spirit will reveal it to you. Don’t allow emotions to cloud your judgement. Not all that glitters is gold. There are cases of couples after dating for several years got married and divorced within five years of marriage. Forget the qualities you are seeing now people change after marriage neither positive or negative change.
Op, God will see you through. Please pray! I repeat pray!

TheLaughter:
I and my girlfriend have been dating for about some years now, we have been good. We have encountered ups and downs but we pulled through. We plan together and execute things together.

Recently, I indicated plans for marriage but my people didn't give consent. They said she isn't my destined partner. According to them, they have prayed, saw in prophesies and visions that she isn't the one...

I happen to speak with one of the prophetess on phone and she repeated what she told them that she is not my wife, that I should pray, that my wife will come.

I am finding it hard believing all these but at the same time I am mindful too. I have been asking myself questions if what they are saying is true. They said I will encounter all kinds of hardship if I continue and many other things the prophetess said.

I see her as God's creation too, why will God allow such happen to me just because I married someone He created too.

I don't believe all these prophesies but at the same time I just want to ask if there could be any truth in this destined partner stuff. Thanks

If you truly want to know if she is actually your kind of woman,ask her the following questions when you are alone with;how should couples manage their finances where both are earning money?,what is her view of gender equality?,what in her view should be your responsibilities to her parents n siblings?,where in her view Should actually be the home of a woman, were she is born or where she is married? etc,insist she give you Frank answers then compare the answers with your candid view,if she achieved 80% match up n above then she is truly fit for you,if she score below that then watch her carefully n critically for hidden danger signs n make your decision.

the way of men are not the way of GOD, he is going to reveal it to you when you least expect it. don't be in a hurry GOD will show you, but not when you expect d revelation. seek God in your own way don't allow those fake prophet to ruin your life. I believe as a Christian that who ever you brought to God as a wife base on ur personal Accessment is whom he will work on. what about dose one getting married to Indians and the rest of them

There is nothing like destined partner, however anyone seeking a spouse can pray to God for guidance, and the Lord would direct such a person to someone who can give him/her peace, as can be seen in the story of Isaac, etc. Through carelessness, one can also be joined in marriage with a partner who will cause pain. Try and meet other annointed prophets to speak concerning the situation before you make a decision, meet at least 3prophets, plus your own personal prayers for God's direction. I have never seen any portion of the Bible that talks about destined spouse, people only misquote that verse in the book of Isaiah.

TheLaughter:
I and my girlfriend have been dating for about some years now, we have been good. We have encountered ups and downs but we pulled through. We plan together and execute things together.

Recently, I indicated plans for marriage but my people didn't give consent. They said she isn't my destined partner. According to them, they have prayed, saw in prophesies and visions that she isn't the one...

I happen to speak with one of the prophetess on phone and she repeated what she told them that she is not my wife, that I should pray, that my wife will come.

I am finding it hard believing all these but at the same time I am mindful too. I have been asking myself questions if what they are saying is true. They said I will encounter all kinds of hardship if I continue and many other things the prophetess said.

I see her as God's creation too, why will God allow such happen to me just because I married someone He created too.

I don't believe all these prophesies but at the same time I just want to ask if there could be any truth in this destined partner stuff. Thanks

Wolgrace:
It's real, don't let carnality ruin you. Don't toy with the pattern and operation of spirit, they are stronger than the mortality and matters. Personal accessment to the spirit realm through Christ is your birthright. Talk and meet with Him there, He will show you great and mighty things you spiritually know not because you still lack knowledge.

People like you would die misrepresenting God. You are typical Nigerian Fake Prophet. Just go around and ruin people's lives in the name of prophetic prowess. You and all fake Prophets rooming around searching for people's lives to destroy should better change and repent because so many of you don't even know God. I dare you to give me Biblical Evidence of the trash you just said. Oga OP there are a lot of fake Prophets in Nigeria today, and I'm 80% sure that this prophetess is one of them. the major issue you have now is that ur family has been poisoned by fake ppl. and Family is integral in Marriage. OP ask the Prophetess to go back to the spiritual realm snap the picture of you destined wife. Stupid People

TheLaughter:
Some are saying there isn't, others say there is...

I have prayed on my own but I am not getting any revelation...

Now I am scared, I have asked myself what if spirituality is true and all they are saying is true?

I don't want to make any mistakes, but when it comes to compatibility, we are really compatible...

See eh! You just want to control things not in your power, the skies will not open and give you a sign, it's hwt you feel in your heart about her that matters, and what you know of her character. And have it in mind that marriage must and will experience crisis, it still doesn't make the person the wrong person, just makes you all human.

Besides what if it's actually you that's wrong for her? Lolz! Just saying. What if it's you who starts experiencing mid life crisis one day and break the poor woman's head.

Jokes apart, I understand you are just concerned. Prophets and seers and 90% of the times plain liars. Trust your own judgment and handle any negative situations as they arise, in your marriage.

Think about the curse that will follow you when someone's daughter who has been dedicated to you in name of relationship is jilted because of some mumu prophesy. See, be a human be who trusts your own judgment. Goodbye.

TheLaughter:
I and my girlfriend have been dating for about some years now, we have been good. We have encountered ups and downs but we pulled through. We plan together and execute things together.

Recently, I indicated plans for marriage but my people didn't give consent. They said she isn't my destined partner. According to them, they have prayed, saw in prophesies and visions that she isn't the one...

I happen to speak with one of the prophetess on phone and she repeated what she told them that she is not my wife, that I should pray, that my wife will come.

I am finding it hard believing all these but at the same time I am mindful too. I have been asking myself questions if what they are saying is true. They said I will encounter all kinds of hardship if I continue and many other things the prophetess said.

I see her as God's creation too, why will God allow such happen to me just because I married someone He created too.

I don't believe all these prophesies but at the same time I just want to ask if there could be any truth in this destined partner stuff. Thanks

Don't believe those prophet, it all lies

TheLaughter:
I and my girlfriend have been dating for about some years now, we have been good. We have encountered ups and downs but we pulled through. We plan together and execute things together.

Recently, I indicated plans for marriage but my people didn't give consent. They said she isn't my destined partner. According to them, they have prayed, saw in prophesies and visions that she isn't the one...

I happen to speak with one of the prophetess on phone and she repeated what she told them that she is not my wife, that I should pray, that my wife will come.

I am finding it hard believing all these but at the same time I am mindful too. I have been asking myself questions if what they are saying is true. They said I will encounter all kinds of hardship if I continue and many other things the prophetess said.

I see her as God's creation too, why will God allow such happen to me just because I married someone He created too.

I don't believe all these prophesies but at the same time I just want to ask if there could be any truth in this destined partner stuff. Thanks

I believe you are a child of God why not go on a spiritual journey using prayers as your vehicle to find out if their prophecy is true remember kingdom of God is in you as a child of God

"HE WHO FINDS A WISE FINDS A GOD THIS AND OBTAINS FAVOUR FROM THE LORD"
and not

"HE WHO FINDS MY CHOSEN WISE FOR HIM"




The only man God gave a wife blamed God which is Adam

And ADAM was the last man God gave a wife

"HE WHO FINDS A WIFE FINDS A GOD THIS AND OBTAINS FAVOUR FROM THE LORD"
and not

"HE WHO FINDS MY CHOSEN WIFE FOR HIM"




The only man God gave a wife blamed God which is Adam

And ADAM was the last man God gave a wife

"HE WHO FINDS A WIFE FINDS A GOOD THING AND OBTAINS FAVOUR FROM THE LORD"

and not


"HE WHOM FIND A WIFE FOR "





The only man God gave a wife blamed GOD when she ate the forbidden fruit which is Adam


ADAM was the last man God gave a wife

Permit me to comment on this issue.

Destiny is an end product of something.
It doesnt appear at initial stage of life.
If two people are destiny to be together, their beginning will be good and their ending will be memorrable, but inbetween it will see all kind of things.

When one is destiny to marry a lady by say a hausa girl such personal will be constrained to find himself in such a location and position to meet the girl. And immediately you set eyes on the girl love will enroll

If someone isnt destiny to marry a girl and they begin to date or cohabit, it wont take long time before a disaster will surface that either one will lose greatly and if they continue but continue in love they will win because love superceed all.

The tips to it is that
You cant run away from your destiny.
Marry is not a thing to be destinied except it has godly purpose or else nothing like that.

Just keep dating and marry her if she is not your destiny one day You will sepatate effortlessly without anyone causing it..................................................

lovchalice:
Now I believe in destined partner. I dated a man for 4years and he kept postponing marriage. Prophets kept telling me he was my husband, although I'm not the type that consults them deliberately. At times a man of God can see me and start prophesying.
Later I met another that proposed instantly. Along the line, I became pregnant, come and hear stories. I wanted to commit suicide. At the end of it all, it's my ex that I abandoned that's taking care of me and has decided to adopt the baby and still marry me. All along he was my destined husband. One morning a neighbor ran to my room and said her roommate is prophesying about me that I should come and listen. When I got to her room, the first question she asked was, why did you leave the husband I prepared for you and choose another for yourself. It was scary

I'm sorry, I didn't quite understand what you said. Which prepared husband is she talking about?. The guy of 4 years dating?. Is he the one marrying you now?.
If it is, why did he wait so long before proposing?

I'm wondering how this made u believe there's anything like destined husband. Hope it's not because a roommate prophesied, I used to have a roommate too who prophesied but she's a chronic prostitute. Don't believe everything you see. What happened to the new guy?

Well, OP.
I am trying to put myself in your shoes. It is scary but you have to seek help. Don't base your judgement on one man's prophesy alone. Seek help from other anointed men of God, if they all say the same then quit. God is not an author of confusion.
If they say otherwise, then know the prophet is only a prophet of doom.

PS: the earlier u put a deaf ear to prophesies most especially through relatives, the better for you. If not, they would rule the rest of ur lives with such and it would run your finances down because soon you would have one assignment or another to perform. This happened to my aunty but now she's no more financially buoyant, prophesies have stopped coming.
Just be a committed Christian, study your Bible and pray.

Those phophets want's to destroy your life and cause emotional stress to you.

I hate it

Go ahead and marry her, sure nithing will happen.
Some i knew pass through this same issue but now, the pastor and the family love the two couple now.

Down with a boy, second one loading