Dispelling myths about preeclampsia. Nobody knows w it happens ut If you ave it a first time it puts you at risk for having it a second time. The only treatment for preeclampsia is delivering d baby. If you actually have a seizure then that is eclampsia and d baby needs to come out ASAP. Most hospitals give magnesium to control d blood pressure. Ad hold on for as long as possible but ultimately d baby needs to come out

please and please dont let people get you carried away with their unrealistic advice. I dont have a link for a job for you, but

Now is the time to sit down and BUDGET!
know what type of help you need and who can help you.

people will pray for you, but dont get carried away please and please BUDGET while looking for a job.
Whether or not You get a new job or not or start a business you dont want to be jobless and homeless , so budget accordingly as if you're going to be unemployed for 6 months.

1. 300k for your accomodation. (even if u move to a cheaper place, you're going to use money to move)
2. stock up on food in your house.
3. SAVE another portion say like 100k (im hoping you were saving before you got laid off, but if not you can start now)
4. set aside another portion for the baby (cos whether u like it or not, baby is coming)
5. Turn your introduction into the wedding proper. (that would make it low-key)
6. set aside another portion for job hunting (owo la fi n wa owo)

Whatever is left out of your severance package (maybe 400 or 500k, you can decide what you want to invest it on (self employment/business)

get your fiancee to help with money while she can still work. this is 2012, you dont have to be the sole breadwinner. Let her open another account where she can be saving money for  (it could be food money or baby needs) when you guys get married.

IF your family wants to help, and they are people who cannot connect you to a job, ask them to foot a part of the wedding (have a back-up in case they disappoint, if they dont save your back-up) if they can give you money. if its peole that cant give u money or link u with a job, just let them pray for you.

Whatever you do, have a SOLID plan as to what type of help you need exactly. Commit things to God, and he shall surely make a way. It is well.

Thank God you have all these committments, no job AND 800k, it would be worse if you had these same committments, no job and no 800k.