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shogsmania: He's not working with anyone on this platform. It's the same person different accounts. |
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creolehunt: I don't do enquirers for now bro. I haven't got God's authority to do that yet and will never misled people about what I don't have. I want to marry first then theological training next. Sorry, I am far from ready spiritually. |
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faderayo: Very. Hoping to be a pastor soon. I have actually met 2 very lovely ladies here. The first one in particular was very satisfactory but once they heard pastor and public life they ran off. When you keep asking why they run they say they want to live a quite life away from public eyes... one said she will never marry a pastor or politician. Apparently that rumor about good looking women being horrible runs girls in school is not an empty rumor after all, eh. Too many skeletons in the cupboard. @Nikkol |
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camoncx2019: When you use another moniker to vouch for yourself use another wording. Same wording 3 threads today! |
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ikoyila: I saw the email alert as I logged in but can't access the email itself. You live and work in PH but I am in Lagos. I prefer someone from Lagos, no long distance stuff. 1 Like |
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kyliespicer: The true caller app on Goggle play sture 1 Like |
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MuttleyLaff: Take a look at the bride in this photo. The light skinned version of her will do for me. Maybe a bit taller and not so heavy since as you rightly pointed out, women do add weight as with time (thank you for that reminder). https://www.nairaland.com/5339422/man-poses-curvy-fiancee-pre-wedding There is nothing really strange about my fleshly desire it just a natural choice. Not marrying your natural choice is what makes many men commit adultery. I've seen too often to walk the same path. A fake man of God can commit adultery with all the women in his church and still retain the power in him because that power is not of God. With true men of God, if they do it even once, they are done. My body is not stone. I will not be taking such risks. No one is perfect bro, but i promise, I'm not self centered and I will try my best to learn about women and marriage as i go. |
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jesmond3945: After much thought, I don't wanna go there. The money is not the issue at all, I earn enough in dollars as a writer right now and its better than minimum wage in Nigeria. If you look well too you'll see i mentioned wanting train my woman from Bsc level to Ph.D. That is what i really want. You cannot come to God for a favour when you have already settled in your mind I am living proof that God can shoot down a man's decision and exert his right inside that man's life. Every I am today i chose not a single one. God did. I fought him for so many years before surrender. I know what he can do and fear it. My advise is this, in this matter of marriage put unconditional love first, have a open neutral mind, dont base your choice on any material stuff like certificate if she is not for you her character would speak loudly. This is exactly what i am doing, bro. 1. Love and satisfaction first. 2. God's opinion next 3. Marriage finally |
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MuttleyLaff: Interesting theory you've got up there. Since you've mentioned just about all the behavioral and intellectual qualities i am looking for in a wife let me give you the low down on the physical qualities so you may begin to understand or rather appreciate the challenge I'm facing at the moment. I don't really care for facial beauty but have a thing for well endowed, light skinned, tall women. However lovely, I don't find dark skinned, small or even average sized women that attractive. but big sized women *(tall and full bodied) always get me, particularly when they are light skinned with prominent hips. Igbo of origin, gentle matured, 25 to 30, throw in all the qualities you've mentioned already and you have a woman i need. Giver her to me, with God's approval and I will be married man before December when i have attend to some serious land disputes in my home town with men who all decades older than i am. You see, sir, I am a leader born and chosen before God and man and such positions do not come lightly. I have suffered and made sacrifices that will shock you if you knew the half of it. My father died fairly recently and being the first son this has kicked me to the head of a very large extended family. I have rights and authority that succeeds that of over 50 people several of whom are older, married and based overseas, my aunts and only uncle included. Some of them do not like this, they want my power but can't get it unless I'm dead. Do you know what that means? Do you know how many times i have been served food in my home by different aunties and cousins only for God to send a stranger to tell me that one of them gave me poison he rendered useless and I am to be very careful? Do you know what it means for older people who call themselves uncles and aunties to plot against you and do things like start multi million naira projects on family land without my permission just to see what i will do and to subvert my authority? I handle all these people in real life and you on Nairaland don't think I can handle just one women i call my own? Lol. Presently, I'm an author but that's only a temporary occupation. I have the calling to God's work which i have been running from for over two decades. It first came when i was 15 years old. I started hearing the voice of the spirit of prophecy at 17. The visions started before that. The gifts come and go but I'm not worried at all. Those gifts will be back in full, making me a force to be reckoned with once i answer God's call which i want to do after marriage. This i know well. I'm not looking for a wife to stay in my kitchen and other rooms like Mr. Buhari, no. I'm looking for a first lady for my father's house and all the educated women there, one to cook safe foods for me and advice me in all things. A powerful woman with the physical and spiritual strength to support me in my ambition to do God's work on an unprecedented scale internationally. One who, in her beauty, will satisfy my fleshly desires and eliminate the problem of temptation (after running for 20 years and being punished heavily for it i will not be giving God any more chances to find me wanting on earth). This woman must understand God because it is he that will show her what he has made me so she will understand what i am, what makes me different from ordinary men and the things i must do. |
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jesmond3945: I'm not your regular Christian. I'm something of a seer on suspension. Long and very complex story. I assure you i know exactly what God does with biassed minds that ask him things. Circumstances differ, though. I am not worried at all about not getting an answer under the circumstance. My USA based uncle, my late father's only brother, who is my sworn enemy today for reasons i cannot understand has a nurse for a wife. She was an O'level in the East when he married her in 1983 and took her overseas. I saw her graduation photos from Texas stat University about 10 years later. Today she has 4 grown kids, all US citizens. My father was a teacher who home schooled his own wife, a student in a secondary school where worked in the 1970s. If anyone know about training women after marriage its me. I will train my wife but not from O'level. I want to do that from BSc to Ph.D. I have my reasons. Moreover, this particular girl in question doesn't thick a few important boxes on my list. So the question you might want to ask me now is if i find one who ticks all those other important boxes but is at O'level will i be willing to train her.from ground up.... YES! You see, I want to be someone very great tomorrow. I have everything i need already in place except a wife and it's affecting me in a bad way. |
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jesmond3945: Yeah, I was prejudiced alright but if God had said "go" i would have made the move. No regrets though, put her through school at this point in my life would have been a problem. Don't have time for that. |
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MuttleyLaff: Thank you for this advice. I will make my own list tonight and use it in my midnight prayer 1 Like |
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Hi there, Can someone please explain to me why educated Christian ladies make it so difficult for serious minded men to woo them? I'm not just speaking fresh from reading a post on social media or something i am talking about my own experience. It's not easy at all for a man to find a godly woman in Nigeria in this day and age much less one he really likes who suits his natural choice. When they are under 30 they behave so proudly like God will send them a husband direct form heaven instead of on earth. The ones of 30 and above and self ordained pastors who will criticize you in everything so you regret crossing paths with them. I've been looking since this year. Met 3 at different women i liked at different points. The first one, 32, criticized the life out of me heart. Change she won't but I am the one that must change to suit her. The second one, 29, was cool but got no answer from God when i prayed about her moreover she wasn't well educated, a stback in my ambitions. The third i met just a week ago is the one driving me nuts. I'm Igbo, late thirties and she is Calarbar, 29. The fact that i am willing to cross the ethnic barrier to get her say a lot. But in 5 days of trying i have not been able to start up a conversation with this woman on whatapp *(we met there after we joined the same whatapp group and exited less than a day later for same reason.. the people there were worldly). It's not that she is cold or something, when i asked for her photos she obliged. But then if I ask so lengthy question, any at all she would shoot down with a non-committed one word answer. When i voiced my displeasure two days ago she apologized, saying she was in prayer. Do you want me to leave you alone? She said no. Is someone else in your life? she said no. I let her be then. I told her when she's done with her prayers she should tell me. Today is the third day and she was last seen this morning on whatsapp but no message to me. I don't understand and I'm tired. But one thing is for sure. God will give me a god woman to marry this year. One to make me happy and fill my life with good things. Amen. |
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kyliespicer: Not necessarily. If you have wide hips on you, within a year of eating good food you would fill out and become everything I'm looking for up there. Once the kids start coming your hips will expand to become big, satisfying all my manly desires. I've seen a good number of tall, slim girls become big and curvy women in very a short time to overlook your type. As for not being light skinned, I can make do with fair skin even chocolate skin, provided I like you well enough. What i never subscribe to is black skinned women. Moreover, if at any point in life I'm not satisfied with your complexion there are natural skin lightening solutions available in the United States to work wonders (forget bleaching that's useless and skin damaging). A pity you don;t have your photo up on your profile page. I would've liked to take a look at it now. |
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