I live in a face-me, i face-u neighborhud with all kinds of people residing. My next door neigbbor and her fiancee hav gone hell-wire with their 'sweety, pet names. To a displeasure of almost everybody, they sing it loud at slightest moments. This makes me so uncomfortable that i hardly spend time at home wen they are around. I don't imply it's not gud to call pet names, but in this case it has been made to become a tool of attention gathering and selfish promotion of romantic interest. Pls, am not jealous as many might think. I hav my own damsel that sometimes too, bursts into silent laughter at this uncommon public display of affection. Pls help me on what to do because i can't seem to tolerate it anymore and am not planning to relocate any time soon.

A very good friend of mine where we had gone to do drinks, all of a sudden raised a question, asking: would you sleep with your gf in her fathers house? When i asked him why the question, he said his gf whenever he visits her and there's no one around, would grab his asss for intimacy. At first, he condemned the idea, explaining to the babe that it is not a good thing to have her laid in her father's house. But the babe had always told him it doesn't matter. My guy is battling with his conscience over this issue and would want a genuine advice. Please NL guys, do you think this does not really matter and would you do it assuming your gal insists?

It is usual to feel that way by someone in your state. You think you are very busy and engaged in no extra curricula activities that should bring up this situation. You may not be completely right. Am not a psychologist neither am i a physician, but i think God kind of hardwired human physiology to his psychology. Thus, these hormones you talked about are activated by your state of mind and the result is your intense feeling of sexual pleasure. You read no seductive books and watch no dirty movies, yet your mind is always glued on the fact that you haven't had a feel of this for the first time. Sometimes, you fantasizes the act and try to picture how you 'd feel like to have it done one day. Unfortunately, that day seemed long and indeterminate to you, leaving you with often feeling to venture into that pleasurable world that is still unknown to you. The simple remedy is for you to work on your mind and think less of the much talked about sex.Period!

No Guapo. Nothing should go wrong. It only takes your bravely and courage to achieve this. You need to act fast since you don't know what her (Yinka) next move is likely to be. Just make sure you get the audio file recorded. You could even use you mobile device.

I will blame you for the condition you have found yourself. You wanted to get back at your lover for betraying you. Don't they say two wrongs can't make a right? Emotional pains never find healing from paybacks. Instead, you get hurt even the more. From your story, if you love your first guy that much, then there's a million and one ways you could have ironed the issue of his cheating on you without getting involved with another guy. One good way is to take a break and allow him decide if he wants you or the other girl he is cheating on you with. Holding yourself during the break is also important so as to allow you time to reflect on your past relationship and reason out solutions to fix things up. Now, you feel obliged to the second guy because of the things you believed he had done for you. But you don't have to marry him if you don't love him. If you truly love your Mr. Romeo and have settled things with him, then all you need to do is to open up to the second guy. Tell him the circumstance under which you accepted to date him. Also, let him know the truth about your true feelings for your guy and that accepting to be with him will not be in his best interest as you may end up having problems with him if you two get married. Am sure he will understand because one thing men considers a lot in marriage is love and when they are not sure of it, only the die-hard will forge ahead with such union. Be honest to tell him the situation you are facing and your wish to marry someone your heart yearns for.

Like you planned to, u need not leave the family unless Lola is not the love of ur life as u claimed. Also,in ma opinion, it's not yet time to tell Lola about her younger sister's scheming to have you. I suggest you find a way to blackmail Yinka before she carries out her threat. Invite her on the beach-side (am sure she would honor it)and tell her to back off else you would tell her sister. After that, listen to her response and have it recorded as well. Now, if she tries to execute the threat, go ahead and tell the sister and as a prove, present to her (Lola) your recorded conversation with her (Yinka). By this, you would have exonerated yourself of any blame in the entire process. Your girl (and the rest of her family)will also hold you high for standing for your true choice and not falling for Yinka despite her threats. Good luck.

Hello NLs, does any one have an idea of a good telecom training institute in China or India? Gurus in this sector help please!!!. I have a serious interest to train in RF and Microwave Radio Transmission Systems. Your suggestions will do me great good. One Luv.

Hello Nairalanders,i am in dare need of a training institute (China or India) that specializes in training of young telecommunication professionals. Does any one has one in mind? Please, gurus in this sector help. If many, keep the list of the best coming. One luv.