yeah that is part of my sad story, i have zero nigerian friends. see i lived in san diego for like 8years and they are just nothere, not that i saw anyways and now i am in norfolk and they aint there either. i mean if you don'tlive in like dc/maryland,new jersey or houston, it is kinda hard to come across our kind anywhere else.

see chinani, that is something i will never do though, i mean take out a personal ad, you are right that just spells desperate, i would rather just stay single than do that.well my parents live in the dc area and i do get a chance to go home here and there but i am never there long enough to actually get something going. my sisters lives in dc too but i don't think i can ever ask them to fix me up uno, i am embarrased byt stuff like that

see i guess that i kinda have to agree with my parents on this one, everything they have told me about my past relationships and even my past marriage has been dead on point, but it is still a lot of pressure and stress though trying to look for a nigerian girl in a place where there is none.And not even any nigerian girl, no that will not do, she has to be yoruba, i mean even within nigerians that are educated, there is still ethnic racism and prejudice!!

well i guess u are kinda right becuase i was married once to a white lady offcourse, that only lasted 2 years and the cultural diff had a lot to do with it, but the feeling my parents have is that a nigerian girl would have been willing to stick around longer and work our marriage out,.but i guess that i am starting to lean towards the whole aura about nigerian girls and happy marriages.i guess i will find out one day

Nigerian Marrying Their Own Kind

Okay i wouldn't say this is a problem but i just want u guy's opinion. Well i have been in the states now for about 10 years with my family and i am at that point in my life when i need to settle down and stuff.

The problem is that my parents will not support me marrying a foreigner, it has to be a nigerian girl. Well i really don't have a problem with that but my deal is why do our parents have close minds about their kids marrying outside of the race or even ethnic grp and must i say that it is a tall task for me now the fact being that there are no Nigerian girls where am at and I haven't been in nigeria in 10 years.

I mean are Nigerian girls any different from othe races, shouldn't it all be about who you fall in love with?