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Abeg, how did una 2 argument end? Was it conclusive or are we having a rerun?

bobbolayi:

I also received 2 mail wit different date buh same venue

I think it's better u go with the first date. when u get there u will know if or not to use the second date

Has anyone from Ogun state receive screening invite?

happney65:


A real Jerk he is..If the Lady were to be barren sort of I for say she be bad fellow..but for crying out loud you already got triplets immediately you got married..Your condition isnt any fault of yours and you are blessed with triplets..As in triplets wey the people wey no get any issue dey beg for even just one of them oo

Maybe he does not love the OP sha,cos he should have forgiven her as she has compensated him with 3 wonderful gifts from Nature..

In short i dont even know what to say again.I feel like slapping the Man sha...

P.S..DO NOT QUIT YOUR JOB!..DO NOT..DO NOT..IN CAPS

I don't think you get it... This is a matter of TRUST and BETRAYAL especially if the husband has been faithful to her.
Let's take for example, not Everyman married a virgin,which means such wifes must have had sexual relationship with other men b4 they became married to their husband. Of course the husband doesn't see this as a big deal cos it's even a norm but I bet u the husband will see it as a big deal if he finds out his wife is having an extramarital affairs with another man. I hope u get the drift now

Kinggnicole:

Lol..were you expecting me to give the cliche Nigerian wife "pray that God touches his heart" advice?

I say it again! She has to leave if it gets to that point. From the write up above, her husband is outright disrespectful and obviously doesn't care about her needs and wants. Imagine telling her to stay and take care of the children so that nothing happens to them since she knows she's not fertile. How insensitive!

OP apologise to him again(if you need to because this is an issue of trust and is quite sensitive too) but tell him squarely that you are not quitting your job. Also give him some more time. If he's not budging , you know what to do.

Well, i think it will be to the best advice of the Op to take the advice of the fellow b4 u.
@kinggnicole, plz is her job more important than her marriage and children?
what if God forbid something happens to any of the children while she was away at work? Won't the husband be even more mad with her?
What if she lost her job tomorrow, won't she look for another job?
If u truly know the value of a family and u know what it means to have a happy one u won't have advised a fellow woman like ursef to leave her home due to hard times that will surely pass..

@Op, what if the hormonal injection didn't work? U know this would have been a different story entirely. the man have every right to be mad cos he felt he was deceived into the marriage but if he truly loves u, he will surely get over it and find ways to support you but he needs time to accept and process all that has happened. Thank God u both have 3 lovely kids.

Koolking:


It would cost us nothing but honor if we stop spreading falsehood to the gullible people. Even if you have the president because of your religious and political intolerance, you can always stand for the truth.

Requirements for Market/Trader Moni Loan Scheme are as follows:

You must be a Nigerian
You must be 18 years and above
You must be a business owner or trader
You must belong to a market cooperative union in your location
You must have a valid identification (For some traders who use their PVC as means of Identification does not mean the scheme requires your PVC. of course you can use other valid means of identification)
You must have a valid BVN
You must have a valid SIM/Phone number that is register with the service providers

e be like say ur head is paining u. aren't u educated?
are what u wrote not above not some of the requirements for voters?
if the govt want to empower people,isn't there a better way of empowering them than these dubious scheme called Tradermoni?
You are preying on the gullibility of the masses and u still want us to be grateful to u!

Anthonyyyyyyyyyy JOSHUA.

Plz how can I motivate myself and adhere strictly to observing 5xce solat prayer daily. Most importantly observing it on my own cos the nearest mosque is like 10min walk. All advice are welcome but plz make it concise, simple and not lengthy.
N.B : I was not born a Muslim . Thanks

Plz is there any positive correlation btw Quranic memorization and western academic performance?

Mimzyy:
I have discovered that love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all years round, and on the other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner. In fact, loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with someone else.
Relationships work out mostly because of our head not our heart. It works out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline because, time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you're in a relationship with.

In those times, love will not help you; self control will help you, emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and commitment will keep you going. With those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you're committed to will rank first in your life.

You think happily married people don't see better people than the ones they married? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings? They do!

But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings is the great arsenal that do destroy that impulse.

You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them and takes more than love.

We are too fond of loving when it's convenient and sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there but that can only last for just the first 3-6 months of the relationship. After then, you'll realise that the feelings have dropped, it's now your responsibility to make it work, not love's responsibility.

Relationships cannot be readymade. You have to build it and it's never always about love, it requires commitment and intelligence. On the long run in marriages, it's not just love that keeps them together forever, it's determination and commitment.

Everyone falls in love; it takes little or no effort to do that. But staying in love? Building a relationship? Only the strong and committed ones do that.

That's why we must find that one person and commit to that one, discipline yourself and bridle your emotions.
Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career, It's like pursuing a dream. It's always tough, at some point it will be so bitter but you can make it work by putting your heads together, you can scale through the trying time by being focus and committed.

The kind of love that attracts two people together is not the kind of love that will keep them together. Be emotionally strong and be self disciplined.

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In Tina Turner's voice


What's love got to do, got to do with it
What's love but a sweet old fashioned notion
What's love got to do, got to do with it
Who needs a heart when a heart can be broken.

Love is an emotion but the question we should as ourself is why am I in love? What are the reason for falling in love? Can these reasons sustain us forever? If Yes, then love is enough. The important thing is to understand the reason why u(couples) are both in love and will those reasons sustain them.

KennyID17:



Smells like one to me.

whether nah true or nah lie, u can always learn from it or why do u watch movies?

People are wired differently. For me, a gf calling me every sec can be irritating.

dkconcept:
The business concept, many employer wont share with you
Let’s me introduce myself to you, in order to lets you know am not here to scam anyone rather to break you from Financial hardship, Am here to strictly give information not advert or profile selling, am (Andrew O.K a.k.a engrkunlexy4u, am from Ibadan but base in Aba), I started the business during my service year in Aba, and today the rest is good story to tell.
Before I continue to explain, try to answer this question if you can, and also know some facts.
1. The largest selling of textile materials in Nigeria is which state?
2. Electronics container from oversea is entering lagos as Number 1 importer , while Textile,Okirika (Buskoro) is entering which state as Number 1 importer?
3. 70% of the shirts, pants trousers we used in Nigeria, is made from where (you will never know this, if you are not from Onitcha or Aba)?
Lets me share these amazing facts with you?

70% of boxers used in Nigeria is made from Aba (anybody with contrary evidence should quote me wrong), shirt they sell and jeans is directly made from Aba. The question is, are they Aba made? Nope and yes, what we called Aba made is simply lack of packaging and that is why someone like I and you is going to invest into all this area. Later, I will still share amazing things about Aba peoples you need to know.

Introduction into the business (Boxers)
Boxer is made of different materials, we have close to 7 materials, but the common type of materials in making boxer is majorly two in Nigeria today, check this link for the facts: http://dudeundies.com/news/7-mustknow-mens-underwear-fabric-types/ (Cotton and Bed sheets material), lets me explain to you, original Boxers materials is made using Cotton material (Shirt Material) because the texture is of high quality and it does not wash nor change the color after entering water, most packing shirt material we used are made of Cotton materials, it also does not absorb heat and the washing is very simple, you get this type of boxer in supermarket and good store. Lets me share of other the materials with you, called bed sheet material, go and look for a bed sheet material that brings color and remove hair after washing and you will understand what I want to explain, note: we have some bed sheet material that are costly but am sure they will never use that to produce boxer, only a big company use it, Bed sheets material is very cheap to get and most people get their profit from using that in producing boxer, as per say Nigeria like cheap things, Bed sheet materials has less (good) and thick textile texture, this is the type of boxer you wear and 2nd day your yarns and this stuff will begin to ask for fresh air (you get that line), where can I get that? Some fake supermarket store, aboki for road, omo igbo for road side, infact they can sell it for you at 150 to 200, they have already make their profit. It is left for you to choose what you want as a visionary business person.

Why you need to do the business
Do you know that 50% of ladies now wear boxer? Do you know that 10% of women (our Mother) also wear boxer? Do you also know that 80% of our papas now wear boxer and lastly do you know that 95% of grown up guys have nothing less than 3 boxers in their wardrobe? All this estimate was not so in the year past. Before our own generations wear pants, am still a young guy, our ladies don’t even wear boxers before, our mother don’t try it, while our father only wears pants or none. This facts should make you know that the paradigm of fashion is shifting and its for the best brain that will grab this profitable future opportunity and make it a reality. Another reason why you should do this business is, do you know that most people used to overlook the production of boxer and very few peoples knows how to sew boxer well, ask anybody in the North and western part of the country where they are producing boxer, they will tell you from yanki(abroad) or those guy that don’t have what to do.

The marketing strategies
I will like to explain from what worked for me during my service year and now I can be proud of it. Then we used to pick it at the rate of 200 naira and packed it into 3 in a good nylon for just 1000, the nylon at times attract peoples, people talk about Aba made, Simple definition of Aba made is what simply lack packaging and lack of well arrangement, though I know some people sew bad material for boxers and still sells. We give out to our fellow friends and also go to nearby store, banks and offices to deliver to them, some get attracted with the nylon and the color packed inside. Also, know that if people love you, even if they have 10 boxers at home, they will still buy from you, mostly, ladies sell faster than we guys you understand better.

How do I make my own profit?
The profit is very simple; first, ensure you are getting a good material from your supplier, because this will make your business sustainable for long. Imagine you are getting at 200 per one and you are packing it into 3 per 1 as in you pack 3 boxers inside one nylon for just start of 1000, mathematically, you gain 400 on it, which means 100+ on one boxers, may be after expenses of buying nylon and may be you want sticker to the nylon, you later make 100 on each boxer, I believe that is enough for anybody. Secondly, you can target supplying it out to people close to you, I have a guy who always acts as a middlemen for the boxer, he gets it and supply out to his people for sell, he made faster money than we do then. Making your profit depends on how you can think deep on it.

Risk attached to this Business
I believe there is no business without risk, any business that poses without risk must not be a genuine business. Number one risk is frustration? What do I mean, if you ever buy boxers from an untrusted person, and your customer started condemning your goods, you notice that frustration is the first thing that will come to you, advice, don’t go for anybody you cant trust in supplying you the boxer, and no matter what, never allow your customer to select boxer and that is why we packed it in a nylon, because all colour can never be so attracting, they compensate each other. Secondly, if you fail to establish market or target a market, you may be disappointed that it is easy to establish with mind but execution is a challenge, my advice for you is to talk about it to friends and family even your enemy and lets them comments about it. Lastly, You are the last risk, don’t join because I said its profitable, simply follow your dream and lets be fits into making it before you start, I started with my mind fits in making it, and today, after my NYSC, I stayed back in producing my own boxers and also work as an IT executive for one popular radio station in the city.


NOTE:
The business is sweet, but if you don’t have right mind of making it, don’t start it. Today, am supplying to different state today simply because I started the business from my mind after gathering all the facts needed and I develop a right attitude towards it. I started producing my own with less than 200, 000 today, though I invested more than that into it now.
If you will like me to supply you anywhere you are in the country, I can incur the cost of sending it but it will be (a pack) which is 25 pieces inside a pack nylon at N5,000 for now, I will pack 3 in 1 boxer separately from your 25 pieces as a sample for you, you pay after receiving it, you pay to the person that will give to you or from where you will get it from after bargain on sending it, I will only incur the cost of transporting it for the first time and subsequently you pay for the transportation on your own, all is to clear your doubt about it.

:If you have interest on how to make your own boxer with less than 200, 000, just drop your mail on this forum, I will mail you.
Note: I dont sell a fancy Boxer,i only produce what will last long for the consumer, so dont be disappointed getting my boxer and not seeing oyo-yo,and also i dont come here to advertize, only to sensitized. We can only promise you the best

I have interest on how to make your own boxer with less than 200, 000, just drop your mail on this forum, I will mail you.
Email address ogunbankeolalekan@gmail.com. Thanks and God bless u.

When you meet them you wonder if they talk,but when you get to know them shutting them up will be the next thing on your mind.....
They rarely talk,but engaged them in a topic of their interest you don buy market be that.

Definition of me. .. Sometimes being an introvert can be killing .