@kevinberry

that's deep...

Thank You everyone...

vizkiz:
for you to post all these at this infant time of the day, it is really bothering you...but uhmmmn give me few more hours after daybreak, i'll be back with a replying
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like seriously...it is

Hello guys,
this issue has been bothering my mind for months,been thinking about it and dont want to make mistake i will live to regret. I am about 28 years old and have been working for few years now.few months ago i broke up with my ex,whom so many persons thought she's the one i was going to marry.she's very matured(mid-20s),intelligent ,working class lady, nd always wanting me to grow spiritually.when it comes to relationship,trusted her more than i even trusted myself,she's just very reliable.But the problem is,i wasnt really deeply in love with her.Thought she was going to be my best choice when we were just friends and that's why i gave it a shot.but from the beginning have always felt i dint love her enough,always praying the love get stronger.on the other hand,she loved me intensely,i was like her god.The distance wasnt helping issue as we were in different states.we had little issues that could have been resolved if the love was mutual and over time this cascaded to our break-up.i dint go back to resolve as people expected cos i felt it's better i save the future,if i cant love her enough,it's better i let go(it's over a year with her already).am sure she's going to find someone that will love her better cos she's worth it.
I thought i was going to stay single for a while, think straight nd maybe then,would know how much she meant to me nd go back.But in just no time,i got close to a girl around me.so close that people even thought we were dating already( though nothing sensual). obviously,we jst click somehow nd that's how i got fond of this young girl (infact i fell in love,she does too).We were like that for like 2months,i wasnt coming forth to her nd it's like i was blocking guys way(she wasnt complaining tho).at the end i did,nd she said yes after a while.She's less than 21,an undergraduate in the state uni where i reside nd has only had one short relationship (she's not really experienced). one thing I know is I love her,a lot,always wanting to be around her,she makes me happy.just having an issue with trust knowing that i have to start building that from the scratch.she's in skool nd always having guys coming to disturb ( she has a good level of beauty) .i dont know if she would be able to handle a lot of things cos of her age nd experience,that's just my fear,it makes me get jealous sometimes that i even hurt her with my words.i know she's a good girl too but i just dont want it to be like have wasted my time nd energy on her at the end.am thinking of getting married soon but i need to be sure,dont want heartache especially when i had enjoyed peace of mind from my last relationship.My ex seems to still be available and i dont want it to be too late b4 i realize(perhaps she would b with som1 then) but is it advisable to carry-on with someone you know yu dnt have somtin deep for,all because of qualities she possesses.should i just give this new relationship a chance to grow?for how long what if it crashes ? where will i start from...am just confused ...

bombdiggity: Gbomo Gbomo tinz
Make tisha reach Ogun state finish come see say na ritualist den for dia!
No be English u type so? Tish her ursef na! she can come and live with you

lol chill na,dont be too harsh. which kind ritual,thhis girl sef.i stay very far nd gt a job.it's better for som1 who gets paid for it to handle the situation.please,we are christians in my house....JESUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU

I need som1 who can help prepare a niece for WAEC especially in English Language because she doesnt perform well in that.She's around Sango Ota in Ogun state