doggedfighter:


Having children in your case maybe expensive financial wise.


Hopefully you will be able to have the finance required for it. One or two kids are just okay

Have a good life !

Yea you said it all but about been expensive yes I agreed, if we can pay 10m and above for a ride, then paying that much for your wanted kid to come is not bad. So I think dumping her while that option is available is selfish.

Romanoff:


It actually costs more than that.

Regular NIPT is around 250k.

NIPT that testes for chromosomal anomalies cost more, the one for sickle cell costs around 500-700k.

The IVF for sickle cell procedure costs more too.

Hope you sha get the money?

Well if I have I can give it up, just that once lol and I have 45% moving prospects to achieve anything to bring us together.

When we thinking about making babies, we should also thinking about making money for the babies.

Tnks tho, learnt the other option is cheaper and safer, I mean checking the foetus before growing, and who knows our first hit could be a twin with AA it’s an option too my father had three twin, my uncles did too plus I shoot a lot.

Sneakytoucher:
Hardly see? Hahahaha .. All d more reason to want to bang her silly..

Yeaaa, we do that a lot in my early twenties, guess you just started hunnn! Lol bang bang bang! Haaa! Try other things na, try powder play too Hunn! Or skit too

Delight2014:
As + As is a no go area.
One girl was crying heavily in our lab the last time when they came to do screening test.
They were negative to all the test but their genotypes were As and it was damn hell for her because she wants to get married at all cost and to the man because according to her she loves the guy so much.
So my dear, you better separate from her now than it's too late

That’s my girl there, one white lab like this right? Beside where self

Zonefree:

So, what's so special about the relationship then

the 10yrs peace of mind and respect

doggedfighter:


There are ways around it now.


Someone suggested I VF already.

I think you can check the foetus and abort if it's SS too. That's another option too.

Meet a doctor specialised in this. He will give you options.

Don't dump each other yet.


Explore all and every available options .

There are solutions to these things now.


Remember not to reply little brats here that knows nothing about life !

Lawd! Just spoke the words outta my mind swears as in Nairaland just full of bitter people, we’ve dump each other several times tho, fate just keep buzzing us together back. Tanks u really a good thinker

Autobot05:


Dude there is an advice hidden in what I told you ... it wasn't an insult

Learn to be complete with or without anyone
You say she's all you got . What if she changes tomorrow? Then from your statement you have nothing if she leaves ... We are humans bro and humans( women especially) are fickle

I've been here before so I talking from experience.


Have a wonderful day and apply my siggy to your lifestyle if possible

Okay brr. Share the experience let me learn, you are the first commenter up there, that comments sends a lot of diversions and wrong signal to others coming to either address my issues or learn too.

And meanwhile, when I said all I’ve got, i don’t mean been materialistic tho, we both ain’t.

advanceDNA:


...u might not be able to give your children billions if you dont become a billionaire, or some other advantage in this unfair world..

[b/]The least u could do is not deliberately increase the chances of giving them a blood with a follow come disease they will be managing for the rest if their lives....

We have AA AS then SS options for us, so which of them is a follow come disease? Don’t forget we have people on this forum with same blood, and why narrowing it down to the last option, forgetting our first child can be AA and we done . Lol we should stop been primitive in this part of the world, so I should dump someone with prospects all because I want be having babies.

Romanoff:
If you are rich, you can opt for IVF so they can do selective implantation via advanced NIPT screening for the sickle cell trait.

Of you can't afford it, I don't know how you'll do it cause 10 years is a long time to have wasted the time of that woman.

With all the awareness going on about sickle cell and genotype compatibility, it feels like you just crawled out of the stone age where the topic is concerned.

I knew about the IVF where the foetus get tested before growing, and that’s the only slimmer chance I’ve been holding unto, I heard it’s cost around 2-4m or so. Believe me you we’ve have to do than growing babies and we both have more to lose leaving each other.

Zonefree:

Remove 4 years from 10 years, that's 6 years.

Una dey try sha.. you banged someone's daughter for straight six years

Are you a kid? Or just that you sleep around ? Must everyone bang each other ?
Lol we hardly see yearly tho, next question ?

Zonefree:

There's nothing healthy about banging someone's daughter for 10 years!

Na Mr saro, we’ve been apart for 4yrs now tho, and it’s healthy if not the best so far

Autobot05:
"She's all you got " FR

Your parents and siblings will be very disappointed in you sir

And if I don’t have anyone frm those you mentioned? What does that make you ? Don’t jump just address my concern! She’s all I’ve got to be with rn. I don’t owe you details on that

Good day! So I’m wondering if people still dump long healthy and lasting relationships for genotype sagas.


Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing.

Do people still dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues, or there are alternatives, this 2022 it’s been long I heard close relatives or friends having issues like that, I’m probably not exposed enough tho.

We both As in genetype, and I’m working on finding a better way to make this work, she’s all I’ve got fr and I’m already in my early 30s.


I’m not a fan of too many child, you can be a great parent even with adoption, but I still want a child with her exactly. She’s has to look like her self lol �

Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit?

Pls how best can I keep my land titles and documents, if this a thing Nigerian bank does, is it advisable to give it to them to keep?
Can keeping it with close relatives guarantee me a safety?

Just realized lots of my land receipts and documents on properties with me, I’m worried, having it all with me, does it make sense?

How do you keep yours ?

Price and location

Really interested

The country is doomed

And they want to come back

Bokked

All I know is everyone is angry

Ok

Just as ASUU is begging you

Okay

everestloger:


You must kill the hunt o. After all that was your mission in the first place. If you where doing well in life, you won't be here dragging with me. it just shows that you're even a worst jobless fella than me. Yours is worst cos I could sense frustration from your tone. poor man wey dey form big man for nairaland. I pity your generation

Really So shocked

More to come out this issues

Jashub:
These are mere hallucinations that come from watching too many conspiracy movies

In a sane country with sane citizens, this is enough break it apart

sirsugar:
Oga he is searching for job with accomodation bcuz he is from rural area I think,if you don't get anybody at Lagos the only job is mostly housekeeper, maid gardener gateman and area with sweet salary is those area ikoyi lekki v.i Ikeja

So spell out what I did wrong, he’s been posting that since 2021, does that mean people are not concerned? Lol young man, it’s a deep world, for he’s protection he should find my questions needful

everestloger:


And you think you know everything, meanwhile you haven't even scratched the surface. Continue doing "Mr I know it all" one day it will land you in very hot soup. Mark my word

Don’t forget you’ve been looking for housekeeping work for 14 months, so don’t let me kill your hunt, you have work ahead. Shalom