None in my church. The slit on the wall by the entrance is where you are expected to drop whatever tithes and offerings you have to drop. No one monitors who does but heaven has the record and bless the children of God that are faithful to this Bible injunction. No one carries offering bags or plates neither is there a time during any service where people are called to make donations.

Change your circle of influence. There are men that possess ALL the qualities or attributes you specified only that you cannot see them in those places you have been looking at. They a disciplined and children of God that are heaven bound.

Once heard about a lady that was praying with tears that God should give her a god fearing man and God answered her by asking her “Have you been a good girl? You want me to give you my son to marry so that you can mess up his life?’ This broke the lady down and prayed for forgiveness of her sins. Long story short, she is now enjoying a happy home.

If you can give it what it deserves, you will not only meet men of that possess these qualities but settle down with one of them and have a happy home.

You need a bible believing church where the word of God is being preached and practiced in its faced value. Going to heaven requires fellowshipping with true children of God because you need help when you are down apart from the burning message from the pulpit. You can pray if you are sincere, God will direct you to the right place of worship. You can private chat me and I can give you my opinion. I won’t support you not going to church, it’s the devil’s tactics to isolate the heaven band children of God so that he can get them out of the their heavenly vision and make them discontinue their mission. God will help you. Amen

Not every man. I think you need to change your circle of influence. Not every guy wants to even get down with a lady before marriage.

Any guy requesting for sex before marriage doesn’t love you. The guy is just interested in your body and will leave you immediately he achieves his aim. That should be your red flag.

What you are going through is the due to your unregenerate heart for of the heart proceeds evil thoughts Matthew 15:19.

You need to pray that Jesus should regenerate your heart and save you by confessing your sins, repenting of them, forsaking them and pleading that Jesus should wash your heart with His blood.

If you are sincere about it, while praying, the spirit of God will witness with your spirit that your sins have been forgiven and your are now a child of God. Romans 8:16.

If you don’t kill sin in your life, it will eventually kill you. You can inbox me for further guidance.

What you are going through is the due to your unregenerate heart for of the heart proceeds evil thoughts Matthew 15:19.

You need to pray that Jesus will regenerate your heart and save you by confessing your sins, repenting of them, forsaking them and pleading that Jesus should wash your heart with His blood.

If you are sincere about it, while praying, the spirit of God will witness with your spirit that your sins have been forgiven and your are now a child of God. Romans 8:16.

If you don’t kill sin in your life, it will eventually kill you. You can inbox me for further guidance.

A problem that is identified is half solved. Although, many people lie without thinking about the consequence and it doesn’t matter the frequency. A lie is a lie whether said or acted. And the worst consequence is that of eternal damnation which is hell fire Revelation 21:8. So the remedy is salvation, praying to Jesus, confessing, repenting and pleading for Him to wash you with His blood until the spirit of God witness with your spirit that the work is done. Romans 8:16. Not by raise of hand or pastor praying for you nor by restraining yourself because you cannot do it by your own strength, Jeremiah 13:23. This is the reason many people continue to go
back to their old lives after claiming salvation. It’s a definite experience and it is REAL. You can reach me for further guidance.

Being born into a Christian family is not the criteria for making heaven. Even going to church regularly doesn’t qualify you for heaven.

The condition for making heaven as stated by God in the Bible is that ‘ye must be born again’. Your must pray to Jesus, confessing your sins with repentance and ask Him to cleanse your heart with His blood, believe that Jesus will do this and continue to pray until the spirit of God confirms the work has been done. Romans 8:16 says the spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit that we are children of God. Your name will then be written in the book of life and you continue to work according to the dictates of the spirit of God. You can reach out to me if you need more guidance.

God cannot change His standard for anyone, we are to humble ourselves and submit to His own standard. Take care.

What about 1995/1996? That made me to spend 6 years for an engineering course instead of 5 years

If you can afford it go for PgD abroad. If not, do B.Sc in Nigeria. I always advice that OND students get direct entry to a university to avoid this kind of issue you are now facing after completing the HND.

However, now that you have identify the need to quickly upgrade, do it properly.

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Which church did u attend?

While I will be very willing to tell you the name of the church I attend, I don’t want that to be a major discussion. So if you contact me privately I can share that with you.

Having said that, you can do this from your room. What God wants to see is sincerity of purpose to seek Him and the thirst for righteousness. If you really want to seek Him start the prayers from your house (in your room). Let me know how things are going with you.

“As many as are led by the spirit of God are the sons of God” I will leave you with this Bible passage.

You don’t need a boyfriend to get married to your husband. What you need is to be a child of God. I mean genuine bible Christian. Then you can ask God who your husband is and He will tell you the name or show you the person. Guys are deceitful and it’s only God that knows the heart. We are leaving in a dangerous time.

God did the same for me and I am happily married since April 7, 2005. I don’t have any regrets. But you cannot start with marriage if God has not been speaking to you before and you have not been hearing His voice. That is the reason you must first be His daughter and He can give you His son to marry. Anything outside that is like going to unknown river to fish and you can caught any type of fish.

Addiction is not something any human being can break off the yoke without the help of Jesus Christ. You need to pray you way through to salvation, pleading for mercy and Christ to forgive your past doings, ask him to change your heart and wash you with His blood. If you can do this diligently irrespective of the place, it could be in your room by your bedside. Jesus will speak to you when the work is done as stated in Romans 8:16. You must believe in Jesus and that He will answer your prayer and wait for that to happen (Hebrews 11:6). Please feed me back on the outcome if you do this. I will be praying along with you. May Jesus deliver you from this bondage and give your total victory. Amen

Ordinarily, it shouldn’t be a matter that should provoke you but based on the circumstances described in this senario whereby you said you were hungry and requested for a meal urgently while your brother-in-law was still asleep, she is expected to have served you first.

However, she might wants to show hospitality to her brother by doing so. Additionally, she might be very close to her. Just like my wife is very close to her immediate younger brother and he stayed with us for nine (9) years. There were like 5 and 6 in the house o. But I understand the love and understanding their parents brought them up with and I just come into their discussions to tease them and leave. If I were you, I would ignore it and find a way of bringing it up to her during discussions for her to explain her thoughts before doing that. I know must women are attached to the families, so you need to be careful not start a fight over this trivial issue.

You need to communicate with her more and bond more. If I may ask, how old is this marriage before allowing a third party to come and stay with you?

No uniform personnel can try this under Governor Fashola.

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Nigerians need to come to terms with the current realities of events. The country is not the same and is no longer safe to do things same old ways.

Though it wasn't mentioned whether this guy is married or not, whether he is staying alone with these strangers.

Current situation demands that people do their house activities themselves and avoid strangers in their homes (househelp, gardener, chef, driver, etc)

The evil of kidnappings, bandits, Fulani heldsmen, outside the home are enough to contend with. Living with strangers is only worsening the already bad situation.

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DO NOT GIVE WHAT YOU ARE TO GIVE IN MARRIAGE DURING COURTSHIP. It will hurt you, if the marriage doesn’t work out

Please be careful o. Looks very suspicious to me.

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I think the question you should answer first is how do you know when you become a Christian and how have you been hearing from God? These are very vital questions because they answer to the starting point of a relationship and walk with God. If at your conversion God spoke to you as written in Romans 8:16, then you will continually hear His voice and this question will not arise. Because God is interested in His children, He will always talk to them on every issue of life be it marriage, health, choice of job, choice of course of study, etc. In fact, there is nothing too small to commit to Him in prayers. And as a result you will always hear His voice as you hear people speak to you because communication is a two way thing. You must receive a feedback when you prayer. Just as written in the Bible “He that make an eye does He not see or He that make an ear can He not hear”.

But the challenge with many people in this generation is that we claim to be God’s children without God adopting us as His child through various means raising up of hands, reciting verses after the pastor, etc. To be a Christian you have to pray your way through with sincerity of heart and readiness to leave your sins then the spirit of God will speak to you. After that, you will always want to commit everything to Him in prayers and He will always speak to you on every issue you bring to Him in prayers. Directing you on what you should do because He knows the future and the only one that knows the best for you. He will never give His son or daughter to a wrong person to be maltreated.

If you want us to talk more about this you can contact through my email address or inbox me for my details.

OP, I can understand your frustration. However, I will like to advise you to talk things easy. Continue to do your job happily. No matter how much he tries to shield you from being noticed by executive management, one day you will be spotted out for honor. Will he not go on leave? Won't he have reasons not to come to office someday? Just wait for your opportunity and God will raise you up. After one opportunity, the truth will be known by your management and they will see the game he is playing and they will be requesting for you to attend some of the strategic meetings he is trying to shield you from.

Just keep your calm and continue praying that should favour you and bless the work of your hands.

Best regards