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Family / Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by olorimadam: 9:36am On Oct 29, 2014
Kanwulia:


You really think 'she' needs help?
Sure! FROM A SEASONED SHRINK ONLY!. . . To prescribe the RIGHT combination of 'nerve disorder' pills/elixir! kiss
I don't advice 'needy' or 'insecure' men or WOMEN! kiss

Marriage is not , AND SHOULD NEVER BE a 'life' or 'death' sentence you know?
So, because she is 'married' to a 'man'. . . the man should now be ENSNARED in her nauseating, suffocating clutches. . . with her INTIATIABLE quest for 'fresh', serial victims of 'indentured, romantic/matrimonial bondage/servitude'? grin

She go soon krase ke! cheesy

Did i mention that dis babes number is always saved with "codenames" on his phone? I no crase o, dem talk say anywhere wey smoke remain na because fire don burn for there before.

Abeg marital fidelity is not d same as bondage or watever u call it jo.

Thanks for not helping.
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Family / Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by olorimadam: 6:28am On Oct 29, 2014
Stillfire:
It's unfortunate when good people get entangled with people who have mastered the art of playing mind games. Such people would frustrate you and soon you will learn from them and begin to act like them.
The thing tire person o jare.
Family / Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by olorimadam: 1:34am On Oct 29, 2014
kandiikane:

He had to think of what to say and since he didn't have anything thing to say, he called you mad. I can give you two options:
1. ignore him regarding this issue, act like you don't care and do your own thing. Since he doesn't want to consider the fact that you have become one and should be sharing everything with you, you need to keep quiet too, it's not everything you should share with him. You don't necessarily have to start talking to a guy, just leave matter and when he comes to tell you things or about someone, tell him you don't want to know. If he can't share everything with you, he shouldn't bother sharing.

2. Put your foot down now, you won't tolerate any woman who will constantly be occupying his attention when he is around you or in your home. It's his choice if he does it outside but he should know that if you ever find out that anything has gone on between them or any other woman, then he would suffer the consequences since he refuses to adhere to your requests. Tell him if he ever strays, shebi, those women have vaginas, you too have one. You won't settle for less and neither will you suffer if he disrespects you with another woman. You can say this calmly and continue with what you were doing.
i actually reacted with num 2. Are u sure ur not in ma head or sumtin? Haha

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Family / Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by olorimadam: 1:28am On Oct 29, 2014
Kanwulia:
Serves you right!
You be real JJC!
He is right!
You have not just a mental problem, BUT MANY!

Get help fast!

Ahem! Private tots!cool

*going home after "doing" my hair and facials. . . To chop my husband's fresh-fish/shrimp pepper-soup with HOT EMA and some chilled pammy in preparation for real SHUKULI this night jor! Wetin be dat movie WEY we watch today? "The Judge". . . . Fantastic Drama Movie!* cool

wetin dis one come mean na? Help a sis out.
Family / Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by olorimadam: 11:39pm On Oct 28, 2014
kandiikane:
He said you have a mental problem? He is guilty, I don't know of what exactly but he is definitely guilty. What was his facial expression because you can tell by that and what comes out of their mouth when they know you are on to them.

He actually kept quiet for a while, then responded that i shd get help cos am mad. Shuoooo on top outside woman?

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Family / My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by olorimadam: 9:54pm On Oct 28, 2014
So I've been married for less than a year now. When we were dating, though we were long distance, I had no cause to doubt my then fiance. He seemed like a principled straight forward person so I "trusted" him (Na for there I carry last). He also told me he would do all that it takes to keep his home as he wouldn't want his kids to go through what he went through as a child. Our marriage is very okay o, not perfect, neither is it terrible. I'm not sure if this is so because of my high level of tolerance or because I have nothing to worry about. Now we have one recurring problem. Before marriage, hubby had shared his phone passwords with me many times, though I had no cause to remember them or go through his phone. Fast forward to honeymoon, he was on his phone chatting, almost throughout. I say hian! na who dis guy come dey chat with during our intimate sessions. I also notice that he would never drop his phone, even if he wanted to use the toilet. anyway, God catch am one day, he left his phone in d room and went out, So I schemed through the phone and saw one particular girl in d recent chats, didnt get to really see the messages but i saw that he had sent her the picture of a joke that he recently sent me. Lo and behold before I could go far in my investigation, he came back and picked the phone (paid double transport ooooo, is phone food?). Anyway, since then I became curious, so anytime he leaves his phone, I check and she is always in his recent chats, through the chat history is usually empty because he deletes them. Anyway, Hubby tells me about his friends, I know most of them, but somehow, this female remains a well kept secret. anyway, to end dis long epistle, I confronted him recently, asked him in plain words, who she was? his response was that I have mental problem. Can you imagine? Is it that I dont have a right to ask my husband who his female friend is? I may be a jjc in marriage but to d best of my understanding, that is one right I should have. abi how una see am? dis guy is even threatening divorce over this issue but he has refused to answer my simple question. is it not easier to just answer than to divorce your wife over a small girl who is just a "friend"? i tire...dis marriage tin no be small jamb question. ok.....over to una.

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