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Family / Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by olorimadam: 9:36am On Oct 29, 2014 |
Kanwulia: Did i mention that dis babes number is always saved with "codenames" on his phone? I no crase o, dem talk say anywhere wey smoke remain na because fire don burn for there before. Abeg marital fidelity is not d same as bondage or watever u call it jo. Thanks for not helping. |
Family / Re: Better Water Better Life-smart Mini Bar Water Dispenser by olorimadam: 7:19am On Oct 29, 2014 |
StarryLiu: What is the source of water? |
Family / Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by olorimadam: 6:28am On Oct 29, 2014 |
Stillfire:The thing tire person o jare. |
Family / Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by olorimadam: 1:34am On Oct 29, 2014 |
kandiikane:i actually reacted with num 2. Are u sure ur not in ma head or sumtin? Haha 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by olorimadam: 1:28am On Oct 29, 2014 |
Kanwulia: wetin dis one come mean na? Help a sis out. |
Family / Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by olorimadam: 11:39pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
kandiikane: He actually kept quiet for a while, then responded that i shd get help cos am mad. Shuoooo on top outside woman? 1 Like |
Family / My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by olorimadam: 9:54pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
So I've been married for less than a year now. When we were dating, though we were long distance, I had no cause to doubt my then fiance. He seemed like a principled straight forward person so I "trusted" him (Na for there I carry last). He also told me he would do all that it takes to keep his home as he wouldn't want his kids to go through what he went through as a child. Our marriage is very okay o, not perfect, neither is it terrible. I'm not sure if this is so because of my high level of tolerance or because I have nothing to worry about. Now we have one recurring problem. Before marriage, hubby had shared his phone passwords with me many times, though I had no cause to remember them or go through his phone. Fast forward to honeymoon, he was on his phone chatting, almost throughout. I say hian! na who dis guy come dey chat with during our intimate sessions. I also notice that he would never drop his phone, even if he wanted to use the toilet. anyway, God catch am one day, he left his phone in d room and went out, So I schemed through the phone and saw one particular girl in d recent chats, didnt get to really see the messages but i saw that he had sent her the picture of a joke that he recently sent me. Lo and behold before I could go far in my investigation, he came back and picked the phone (paid double transport ooooo, is phone food?). Anyway, since then I became curious, so anytime he leaves his phone, I check and she is always in his recent chats, through the chat history is usually empty because he deletes them. Anyway, Hubby tells me about his friends, I know most of them, but somehow, this female remains a well kept secret. anyway, to end dis long epistle, I confronted him recently, asked him in plain words, who she was? his response was that I have mental problem. Can you imagine? Is it that I dont have a right to ask my husband who his female friend is? I may be a jjc in marriage but to d best of my understanding, that is one right I should have. abi how una see am? dis guy is even threatening divorce over this issue but he has refused to answer my simple question. is it not easier to just answer than to divorce your wife over a small girl who is just a "friend"? i tire...dis marriage tin no be small jamb question. ok.....over to una. |
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