I wish I was born in the 70s or 80s when we still had virtuous women

One hour na sin ?

Thanks man.

I’ve had a similar experience.

It all started from the very first day I had sex with her. She was so dry, and she actually knew she wasn’t going to get wet no matter how hard I try to she came along with a drug call “Spanish fly”. She said that drug helps her to get in the mood but unfortunately that day it didn’t work for her.

Second third and fourth time of having sex only made our sex experience worse as it became a norm for me to cum quick and she doesn’t feel a thing.

I decided to get lubricant and there’s one I bought for about 800 naira this was in 2020. Using of lubricant actually helped a lot as it made our sex to last longer and we both enjoyed it. After a month I stopped using lubricant as I was gradually getting used to her body system.

Bro, the last time we had sex her pussy was wet like it rained in it and now we do have sex for about 2 hours without lubricant and without saliva.

But what I noticed more is this… if we stay without sex for about a week, she easily gets wet and her pussy just gets running wet like a tap that was turned on and forgot to be turned off. This is because she has hungered and desired for the dick for a while but when we continuously have sex everyday for about 3 days, her wetness gets reduced.

I happen to see a conversation she had with a friend when she confesses to her friend that in her entire life nobody makes her wet like I do… and if she ever gets married to another man, she is sure of cheating on her husband because of my dick.

NOTE- this girl ain’t my girlfriend, I’m just the guy that took time to study her body and understood where to touch and when to.

Her boyfriend doesn’t make her wet and doesn’t satisfy her at all although she confessed to me that her boyfriends dick is bigger than mine. She always say that my dick is not so big neither is it so small, it’s just average.

I still bleep this girl till today and I think the number of times I’ve bleeped this girl, no man has ever bleeped her to that amount. I’ve actually lost count but I can remember when we do have sex like twice a day, everyday for straight two weeks. In a month I bleep her for nothing less than 10-15 times. That’s if I’m busy with work but if I’m not, the pussy is all mine.

She has actually been calling that I return back home to bleep her cos since I travelled, she’s just been getting high on alcohol and nobody has bleeped her the way I do this the whole intoxicating feeling she gets from the alcohol doesn’t end well.

So also note that in satisfying a woman, it’s not really about the dick size but how it’s been used.


And you talked about a girl u bleeped that gets wet so much u had to change the bed sheet, well, I’ve had that experience too but I don’t really rate my sex expertise with just one woman, but with how well I’m able to make a woman who feels nothing during sex become a woman who knows how sex truly feels like.

I think you can make your woman to become sexually active again but you don’t have to use power or force… like everyone is saying suck her boobs while fucking her, sex when done like a given instruction is actually boring. You just have to make the process flow by itself.

Kissing her passionately may be what her body requires and u could have been kissing her but not so passionately as she wants then u work on that aspect of u.. don’t just kiss or suck her boobs like it’s a sex manual you’ve read… sometimes kissing her boobs will be done 20minutes after other pre-intimacy that way she doesn’t get used to the way u romance her boobs and that way also she will feel the impact more.

You can kiss other parts of her body like her lips, gently roll ur tongue through her ears, use your hand to rub on her hair slowly, push her against the wall while u kiss her and squeeze her butts, finger her pussy slowly and kiss her and she’ll get wet if u do the job well, in all of this u’ve not sucked her boobs oooooo. There are so many more things u need to do before u get to her boobs… kissing boobs all time turns a woman on but when and how u do it will determine how far she’ll get turned on

Me personally I don’t suck pussy, I’m not a fan of that.. and I’m not the guy that’s so good looking and attractive, neither am I ugly naaaaaaa.. I’m just the average dude. But u see sex, my first girl friend who happens to be a lesbian thought me how to please a woman sexually and I can tell u, experience is the best teacher.


I’ve shared my own little story with you, I hope you will find a vital information to get out of it.

pussyeater:

This your last paragraph no make sense at all ohhh!
How you go like to born thief rather than born mumu?
Your brain dey pain you bro!

Lol…. Bros, take an easy na… first I’m in my late 20s and secondly I’ve not been that kind of guy that’s had experience with women.. this’s like on of the serious relationship I’ve ever had so I’ve also had my own fair share of women and their wahala… if I fall a victim a second time na that time u go categorize me as a mumu at 40..

Thanks all the same.

LordReed:


Yes you were wrong. She's a free agent and generous with the kpekus, you wan come put gate for the thing. No sir you will enjoy the free agency by force. LoLz.

Lolz… Free agent done go on transfer to another league.

zexy2030:

U tried, she is the fool.
In your next relationship, just watchout for the woman, men should always ask question about her past. Even God will tell you to confess your sins before he accepts you. The pyschology of confessing your wrongs before being forgiving is the greatest strength any human can have. Feel the remorse and the will to change.

what brought her, its that same thing that will take her away.

She broke up to join you. She has broken up with you to join another. She is cursed and the lifestyle is transgenerational and demonic.
Women : weak willed, obstinate, manipulative, exaggerates and finally naughty

When dealing with them be wise, on your grounds, make sure of her words(verify), endure, never take nonsense(refuse it immediately and dole out a measure of punishment for it not brutal or hateful punishment but correctional.

Use emotional punches to correct a woman, physical corrections don't work on them.

If you want to know more on emotional punches, just try locate her love language and stop it intentional till you feel like forgiving. But this works for a wife and not a girl friend.

A cheating girlfriends is still for the street, let the who.re remain there, send her back there. After strolling the streets, let her return to find your home locked with a more beautiful woman in your home, enjoying the care of a man.

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Nice one, to be sincere my life has changed to a great extent after I joined nairaland. Reading from people’s experience, comments has made me learnt in a short time what I ought to learn for so many years.

Thanks to you all my nairaland fams.

placeofallure:

I'm a sis, not a bro.

Wow!! Such words coming from a sis… thumbs up to u… na sister like u I Dey find abeg

LordReed:


LoLz! You were dating someone who already had a boyfriend and you are now rambling because she cheated on you. You are not serious.

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Lolz!!!… but to be sincere, did I do anything wrong ?? she had someone and she was willing to share the kpekus, I was not reluctant to accept her offer but now that she confirms I’m the only man in her life, there should be some restriction. STI is real!!

placeofallure:


Your girl is one of the ladies that make men have little or no regard for women.

Going by your story, I wonder what else she could probably want.

Beware of women that tell lies, you know perpetual liars that tell even needless lies. They're more dangerous than AK-47. I just tire!

Ogbeni, shine your eye next time. Probably you spoilt her. Don't keep forgiving and forgiving. There should be consequences for every action taken. Good luck to you in your next relationship. I hope you have really grown and there won't be a repeat.

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Thanks bro, there won’t be any repeat at all cos I quit communicating with any lady immediately I notice any red flag.

SenecaTheYonger:


So are u guys back together?

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No, haven’t called her for about 3 months now… but she does call and text. And I reply her messages and pick up her calls. But never for once have I called her within this 3 months.

I hope I’ve not done anything wrong in taking her calls and replying her text

pansophist:


You talked like a guy with no female options, but even that is not a reason to do the wrong thing. You are still busy justifying your bad behaviors, and that is exactly why you suffer. If you want to keep spinning this to make yourself look innocent, just know that you are the one that will suffer, not me. Seems you have a problem with accountability.

Let's get something clear. She has a boyfriend before you started dating her, doesn't matter if she cheated on her initial boyfriend with another guy, and they broke up, those are collateral damage. The situation favored you later on because she became single, but from the very beginning, you snatched her from her boyfriend. So what's your point?

Then she went on a forking spree, and you kept forgiving, spending, and hoping she will change, thinking that makes you a good man, instead of a seasoned coward. Tolerating people's bad behavior is not love, its possessiveness, and foolishness. A cheater doesn't see you as a good man because you can forgive but sees you like an idiot that will keep forgiving, while she keeps messing up. You are so desperate for affection, that you have sacrificed your masculinity in the process.

Leading a relationship as a man is not by spending only, is just one slice of the pizza. Just as you spend, you must be able to punish. The same way your father provides for you and flogs you if you mess up. Love comes with consequences, that's how you make your beloved better. Jesus loves you but will punish you when you sin. Hell is there waiting for the sinner, but somehow, he (Jesus) loves you. Ever thought about that?

By the kind of problem a person faces, I can tell the kind of person they are. There are people out there that situations like yours will never happen to because they lead their life with intention and discipline. A good woman is a prize in a relationship just as you, the man., You seem to be so tolerant because you do not value yourself, and you accept subpar treatment. I pray no evil befalls you, but you are insulting yourself if, after all, you have worked for as a man, a woman will just come and shit on them all with her dirty attitude.

It is you, the man or the possessor of value that has the incumbency to safeguard it, and you do that by not allowing a devilish woman into your life. Her beauty and yansh mean nothing, they fade, and real life is hard man. It's school fees, house rent, finding purpose, and going through the difficult journey of life with someone competent by your side. Will you in good faith tell yourself that this scum of a girl is a worthy partner to go on that everlasting journey with?

If I ask you whether you hate yourself, you probably will beat your chest and say no, but by your actions, it doesn't seem to me that you are someone with self-love, since you kinda choose a bad person for yourself, to spend (waste) your time, energy and resources on. I hope when life's problem occurs and you need her help, she can help you as much as you help her, not disappear. As a man, you bear the burden of performance, and you must not bear such burden with a woman that lacks virtue, you are not born to suffer. Respect yourself. As you lay your bed, you shall lie.

I’m speechless.

pansophist:


Yes, slavic and Latino men also. The women can't be feminine and gracious if the men are not masculine. It's the opposite side of the same coin.

I want to mention Arab men, but I assume say those ones na instant rejection from black women lol. In Africa, silent countries like Namibia, Botswana are good too, you don't have to go far.

Are you sure these records are not just mere history on paper .

Nigeria sometimes appears to be a safe heaven when you see how it’s been described on the papers

benqo01:
Seriously u ain't making sense u and d girl una no get sense

Lol... but how na boss ?

pansophist:


Isn't it clear enough?

Don't do unto others what you don't want them to do to you. She has a boyfriend, but you didn't care. You destroyed another man's relationship for your selfishness.

And guess what? Everything goes both ways. Choosing to date you even when she has a boyfriend is something irresponsible women does. I won't trust such a woman. If another man shows up, she will port if she thinks he is better than you.

And as fate may have it, you paid for your selfishness and foolishness. She is a serial cheater, and have handled more joystick than an urologist. See as you fooled yourself, passing through this burden for a trash of a person. What you sow, you shall reap.

Be careful when you bend the structure of reality, meaning you should be careful when you do evil. The human mind is very limited to the operations of how the world works, and your ignorance of it will not exempt you from the punishment that comes with not doing the right thing.

Nice write up... I do understand your point very well but if you must know, I earlier stated that the first lie the girl said to me was to tell me that her boyfriend broke up with her because he found out about me, that was a lie.

The boyfriend broke up with her because he found out she was cheating on him with another guy and unfortunately that guy wasn’t me.

So apparently I wasn’t the root cause of the young man’s failed relationship I was just trying to enjoy the p*ssy peacefully.

But later run, she herself admitted that I am now the only guy in her life and I shouldn’t leave her cos her bf left her, that was when she made her commitment but they where just words.

We can go on and on and on. These woman are just crazy.

jassmenn:
You were comfortable with her having boyfriend and still date you initially, so what did you expect?
You don't want wht you did to someone be done to you too? Weldone oo, terminator

Lol... why’re u now pointing accusing fingers at me na

HenryG:
Kindly help me in this case.
University of Northampton contacted me to provide IELTS 7.0 with minimum of 6.5 in each section or equivalent. I was given 5 working days to provide this.
However, I do not have IELTS result and it won't be visible to book for IELTS exam and get result within 5 days. So, I sent them a mail that I have NECO result C6 (since they accept WAEC) and also, I drew their attention to my transcript that it is stated in my transcript that the university taught the student in English language.
I uploaded both my NECO and transcript to them once again for verification.
Please do I stand a chance to be considered.
Course- MSc Physiotherapy (Pre-registration)

I have been receiving rejection letter on these pre-registration courses these days. Just hoping Uni of Northampton will consider me

You should have also attached a copy of the scratch card that can be used to verify the NECO result online.

AdeoyeAdefemi:


Check the University of Leicester.

The university of Leicester is fucking expensive.

AdeoyeAdefemi:


Kindly check your mail I just dm you

I have replied your email.

meljoe:
Good morning everyone ,

Please what bank processes upkeep / maintenance through form a ? And how long does it take ?

Please does any one know of any cheap university that I can apply to and get admission into the January intake
The initial deposit for school fees should not be more than 2 million naira.

Please help a brother

Amenmay:



Yes, I have sent mail to all the schools i applied for below is there response

Thank you for your email.



We can confirm that all applications for the 2022/23 academic year are currently under review by our Admissions team. As soon as we have a formal update on your application, we will get in contact with you as soon as possible. Additionally, you can log into the application portal to check on the progress of your application and carry out any further actions that may be required. It is not possible to give a time frame for an update at this time.

My fear now is Form A takes between 4-6weeks how will i meet up with January intake please

Does any one have any idea of schools I can apply to and get admitted in Januray ??

Please help a brother.

Emilia154:
There are stil good girls out there but day scarce to c

Yeah there are still good girls but they just have to be treated without emotions cos these good girls go bad easily.

And one thing we must understand is that it’s difficult for a man to love you without showing his emotions. Women wants to be all emotional but do not want a man to be emotional too. The moment we become emotions boom!!! They take us for a fool.

I just fold hand dey watch Nija feminine gender sha.

Owen247:


understand these?

most ladies dnt want to be in any form of relationship wit any man. Just under the duvet friends.

funny but sad, if u ask the above lady out she will still accept u. But she isnt interested in d relship anyway and wen she done see ur face for lets say a week, she jumps over to another man.

the mistake u did is to date sm one dat just wanted to be having a no strings attached s.x flings wit u, and not a relationship

most ladies think its dia birthright to ride all the di.ks in d world, so dating u is just like judas being a disciple but he is still .....

my opinion n observation sha.

Then, what’s the point of calling it a relationship or what’s the point of even assuming it is a relationship in the first place

So annoying.

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That serves her right.. sometimes I have this regret in my heart that when her friend was giving me green light, I would have stopped being a nice guy and have a taste of her konto. Every time I remember the 2 nights she passed at my place and I was forming gentle man, E Dey pain me reach my bone.

pansophist:
Good women are not scarce, them just scarce for naija. As a traveller, I can tell you where to go, maybe study there for a year and you'll be tired choosing good women. But naija passport na fork up, visa is needed everywhere.

The money you wasted grooming an habitual cheater would have opened a new business, give you a good vacation in places like Namibia where you'll meet better women, and or give it to your mother. Inside life.

The test of a good man is not by tolerating evil, but to destroy it. You're not a good man, you're a coward. Your goodness has no value, since evil people are sheltered by it. And you messed up from the beginning when you decided to privatise another man's girl.

Can you please elaborate more on this line you made ??

Bradford111:
So I’m dating this a girl for a while now and she is taking post utme might gain admission next year...

The relationship has been going smoothly except some few problems but that’s nothing

I’m scared that I will lose if I spend on her because she will go to school and follow another guy


I don’t know if I’m doing the right thing. Your honest opinions are needed

Why will you have to spend on her in the first place ?? You’re already creating a responsibility that will end you in jeopardy.

Relationship is not all about self benefit. Change your ideology first before you consider changing the woman or not.


And I just saw the part where u said u’ve been dating for 4 months.. You must be joking right 4 months of being with a girl and you think you love her as much as taking care of her responsibilities? Or you think that’s enough time to completely win her heart Have you guys even had quarrel before and where able to settle things out ??

For me, I’ll say you’re being over serious with this thing you call relationship and it’s very wrong. She might be or might not be the woman for you so I won’t contest you leaving her or not.

But note one thing: Relationship of these days are very delicate and needs to be handled with care, if you handle the relationship too tight, you might ending up breaking it into pieces and if you hold it too loosely, you mind end up loosing it. Just handle with care and caution.

It’s not easy bro so don’t ever think you’re not doing ur best, and even when you make a mistake don’t feel bad about it cos in the school of relationship we’re all learning.

iLegendd:
She's probably doing the right thing. No woman wants to end her life with a weak man.

Being a strong man is not by being abusive, but in charge. In your case, you're not abusive and you're not in charge.

Also, when a man is just too gentle, calm, homely, humble, and too good, it makes a woman cheat because she'll see him as boring.

By the way, as a real man, you need to be in power starting from the day you met your woman to the day of death, else, you're in trouble.

I just can't imagine asking a woman I'm married to or dating to hand me her phone and password and she says no. Dem never born you.

Na lack of principle, money, and options on the man's part dey make some women misbehave. Unfortunately, most men don't have much money, any principle, or any other option. They're just too good to be crazy, hence, she takes over the power and disrespects him.

Imagine attending a Church or Mosque where the pastor/Imam doesn't know the word of God and how to manage the Church/Mosque. Will you respect him? No. You'll secretly attend another Church/Mosque.

Sad Truth

Brunosamel:
Nothing like toxic relationships it's all invented by the west toxic masculinity tell someone who's in toxic relationships to leave his or her partner and they will despise you a freeman should put himself first before anything else the only exception is his kids since they aren't married he should stop please his girlfriend instead it should be the other way round

What if the girl only shows him this attitude cos she wants to correct some certain wrongs he does and probably she is not mature enough to do it the right way ?

You cannot judge an entire relationship from just 10 lines of English words that this OP wrote.

There could be more to this than he has explained

Crampyblood:
she cheated on him several times and he 'forgave' her plus kept on feeding and housing her.. abi him no try?

Lol.. true talk.

My brother they say no be everything when Hunter see for bush nai he dey fit talk when he come out. But wetin man go do

RedCentaur:
You are doing well.

Take your lessons and enjoy your new found peace.

The feeling of peace and sanity I have in my heart now is priceless and I'm not ready to trade it for anything.

Savedday:
Sorry is ur NAME! This one never know 9ja girls.

9ja girls don't love and dey will never love.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

You are very correct when you say girls don't love because of the society we're in today it is difficult for a girl uphold all the attributes that can quantify a genuine love. But a loyal girl will always RESPECT their man. And if she's truly his girl, she owes him some respect.

Brunosamel:
You are too nice that's why she detest you stop helping her financially you are not her parents
See her when is necessary and find another side chick

These are manipulative measures that leads to a toxic relationship. If he likes her and she likes him too, there are better ways to handle this.