Please I need a comment on this. I need this information desperately

Good day, please I am very curious to know as I have spent time searching through the internet but to no avail.

Please when is the local government chairman election for different states suppose to hold ??

And I am more concerned about the local government election in delta state.

Thanks

Qatar2022:

You're a dog that goes back to it vomit

This one pain me

Fahvvy:
OP, you've made lots of mistakes ...

First of all, YOU NEVER TAKE BACK A CHEATING WOMAN ...

Once a woman cheats on you, let her go! ...

What kind of man even takes back a woman who has cheated on him repeatedly?? ...

I guess only a "real man" can ...

Secondly, why on earth would you accept to be 100% responsible for the bills of a girl that you're not married to? ...

In your mind, you think "You're a real man" but the reality of things is that you're creating room for laziness and entitlement ...

In summary OP, you're not a "si.mp" ...
Cause calling you that would be an insult to si.mps out there ...

Truth to be told, i made a great mistake being responsible for her bills. But here is my reason for doing that.

Once upon a time, i was so broke that i lived in the streets of lagos with no place of my own. During this time all i needed was a little support from anyone while i struggle to get my feet on the ground.

So when i met this girl, although she looks so pretty but her family background is nothing to write about. I did not look down on her but rather i decided to give her a helping hand with hopes that she will be able to resolve her family’s financial crisis. I just placed myself in her shoes and thinking of how a little help could make me cause a turn around in my family, i believed she will do same. But rather i realised she just wanted to open office in my head.

She no wan hustle make her own, she just want make i hustle dey bring for her.

Nomerci:
Face your books simp. Simp still staying under his mums roof

Lol.. I built a house for my mom 5 years ago. What where u doing with ur life 5 years ago ??

Good morning nairaland,
Since thursday night, i’ve been hoping that i’ll find the time to make this post but my busy ass won’t let me.

I dated this girl within a period of 3-4 years. During this time, i take 100% responsibility of all her bills even as far as his family as i’ve assisted with part payment of the family house rent, took care of parents hospital bill when the dad was terribly sick, sometimes when they run into some domestic bills, i’m the one they call out for.

Despite all of these, this girl was cheating on me back to back with any single tom, dick and harry that comes her way. Your guess will be that our sex life is boring, truth is our sex life is perfect, i’ve read chats of she and her friend when she confesses of how i handle her in bed and please her very well just as i also read chat of her and other man.

To cut long story short, at every timeni caught her cheating, i secretly advise her and talk to her about how bad her actions her. God knows i can’t count how many times this girl has cheated. But i know i never disgraced her publicly unless she begins to create drama.

I made several post about her here on nairaland and also talked to my friends about her and i was advised to leave her.
June last year, i finally broke up with her and moved on with my life, immediately my life took a dramatic turn around. While i was dating her, although i had a good job and a good pay but i was always looking slim and unhealthy.

In less than a month after our brrak up, i swear even my mom waa shocked at my new looks. For the first time in my life i realised that a man could actually look cute and be so attracted to girls that girls will just want to have u for sex.

A lot of people gave comments about my new looks but the most shocking comment came from my ex who said she never believed i will look so good. Like she never imagined i could look handsome.

Now here is the gist- After our break up, she always come to my place for sex, she spent the christmas with me just because she does not want me to be with another girl. I just laugh in my mind.

She sometimes ask me for money but i don’t give her a dime, we just have sex and go our seperate ways until she’s sex starved again.

This week wednesday she came to my house, spent night, we had sex as usual, she asked for some money, i told her i don’t have. When it’s morning, i left to work she also left my house and went to her school.

Just at my arrival at work, i got a text from her saying some of her school documents are missing and she is certain that i took it. I said i did not, and truly i did not. The next message i got from her was that she is going to drink poison and kill herself cos i’m frustrating her. I told her what sort of stupid message is this, and she said yes that she will kill herself as she meant her words.

Immediately i called her elder sister and told her to caution the girl. Later that night she came around with excuses of forgeting something at my place. Then when she came i confronted her at her message and she kept saying she will commit suicide because i am frustrating her. The big question now is how am i frustrating her I have asked her several times and all she says is “you know what you’re doing“ “ i don’t mean anything to u anymore“

Just yesterday night she came around and was apologising about her messages as she said her sisters confronted her.

Dear nairalanders, what does this girl want ??

Hey, I’m so surprised that nobody has created a thread about the recent debits on our bank accounts all in the name of stamp duty.. What exactly is this stamp duty for ??.. this is stealing by the government

Hi.

descarado:
I couldn't agree more. The state is worst than some desert states in the North.

If there is a worse that is worse than the word worse… I think that is the right word to use.

NotoriousBiggyS:
All the south south state are expensive except akwa ibom and cross river state are expensive to live in. Kudos to the so call yahoo boys that make live unbearable for the rest , Benin, delta, yenagoa, PH is hard to stay if you're doing legit, that's why girls are selling their bodies just to earn a living.

I am from

You are from where

SavageResponse:


What you said does not come as a surprise. If you check you will see that not even one multinational company has its head office in Bayelsa State

The most annoying part is when you hear the name “Bayelsa State” you’ll think you’re visiting a promising state.. you nor know say na dead zone.

True or Fasle ?.

Centered with the daily routine criminal activities in the state, Visitors seems to be nothing but prey in the hands of the predators whom are the citizen of the states.

The central community in the state’s capital commonly known as Tombia is the hideout for these predators as the prepare their nest awaiting the visitors who have little or no knowledge about the unsafe place he could be standing waiting for the next cab to pick him up.

The unruly character of the females in that state is so appalling as every girl above 16yrs old is a walking object for sex. All they want is meet Mr A to feed them for breakfast, Mr B to feed them for lunch and Mr C to feed them for dinner whilst the so called serious boyfriend soles responsibility is to feed the girl’s family… haaaaaaaaa!! This is so irritating.

You take care of bills, bills, bills and u wonder what kind of family is this

This is not excluded to females who are married as Bayelsa as a town does not have a culture that restricts the married women from committing adultery.

Should I go down the list … not forgetting the fact that these people actually have nothing to offer to you as a man.

Bayelsa is the worse place to live in a a guest.

jimmyolasun:
they have used this one destiny collect post for inside coven... pele ooo

wahala

virginprincess:
Of course it has,if you know you are having sex with her you better stop for your own good.

after that day I have been knacking her till now... I don't even know what my problem is.

virginprincess:
Oga not only girls has bad luck,most of you guys are also carriers of bad luck,stop being one sided.

is there any practical experience that can be attached as a reason for this comment ??

Vinnie2000:
OP,

You urself, Do u have Goodluck in You,

how am I suppose to know ?

virginprincess:
Not everyone has a good spirit in them,some people are carrying the spirit of bad luck,that is why you should be careful the kind of person you date(male or female),some people are sent from the pit of hell to come and destroy others.

these words is being said every day to my hearing. but how true is it to our practical lives

LordIsaac:
Hmmm....let's await elders. All I know is that there are very strange people on the earth!

how strange can these people be ?

Kly003:

He mean them don use your destiny collect front page of distaster for spiritual realm.

Lol… na who collect am

DaddyCK:



So u desperately loookin for fat woman to date ...corrřrrect? Can't u pay for fat olosho or are u hear to ask for moiney sir?we will help u(no oofencse)

Mad people every where!!!!

jimmyolasun:
they have used this one destiny collect post for inside coven... pele ooo

Wetin u mean ?

DaddyCK:



omagala..bro so u loooookin for fat woman on nairaland....corrřrrect?..does this place looks like brothel? Shame on u sir!![ (no oofencsse)

Who be this one

virginprincess:
Of course it has,if you know you are having sex with her you better stop for your own good.

Really!!!… what’re the consequences of having sex with such girls ??

virginprincess:
Oga not only girls has bad luck,most of you guys are also carriers of bad luck,stop being one sided.

Yes… but I’m not trying to be biase in gender here… I’m just wondering could the presence of someone in our lives bring good luck or bad luck

virginprincess:
Not everyone has a good spirit in them.

I don’t believe that people’s presence in our lives could have so much influence until now.. I’m scared of settling things with her

Vinnie2000:
OP,

You urself, Do u have Goodluck in You,

My luck too good… if e no good, I for no notice say I no Dey make progress when she dey with me na.

Good day my people.

So there’s this girl that I’ve been dating and since she came into my life, I’ve not made any progress in life. Although I do notice some positivity in my life when ever she leaves my house, but I do not attach any superstitious belief to it until this week.

This January she’s been at my house and things are really hard that I have to sometimes go to bed without food. Until last week Thursday we had a little quarrel in the morning before I left for work. That day I was blessed at my place of work and with excitement I returned home just to find out she has packed her things out of my house.

I began to wonder could it be that it is because she left my house that I got this blessing today.

I deliberately did not settle the issue with her cos I don’t want her to return and I can tell u that only this week I have received close to 100k which is unlike my financial life when she’s with me.

I received blessings everyday now.

My question is could this be a coincidence or she is a bad luck to me.?

benqo01:


Shut up

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hahaha.. this your shut up loud ooooo

MissTemi1:
If it will make u feel better, den confess. I don’t know what ppl gain from cheating Will u like it if it was done to u? Have conscience o

u've never cheated ??

meobizy:
These are threads created by that secondary school boy. This forum is filth.

i'm not a secondary school boy.

iHart:
You have admitted but confused as to confess

how did i admit without confessing ?

Sunnymatey:
If your confession will tear your union apart, leave till later date.
Meanwhile, go and cheat no more

thank you.