sniperr007:


Bitter truth is that the girl no appreciate you. And you investing your time, effort and resources will lead to premium breakfast.

Receive brain and leave the relationship ASAP.
Relationship no suppose hard. And wrong partner dey make am hard.

You don't just leave a relationship without trying to make it work. If what he just explained is enough reason to leave a relationship then you better remain single cos these are things that we find common in people's relationship we just have to figure out what has not yet been done or what has been wrongly done.

Remember the girl saw other guys but choose to date him in the first place. And they must have been happy in the initial times until something comes up. So bro, i'll advise you try to make it work before thinking otherwise.

See enh, I just don't understand my babe o. I'd do anything to make her happy. I have helped a lot of times and stuff. I'm not financially buoyant but I'd go out of my way to make sure she is happy.
This night I asked her to choose from a set of nice watch I wanted to get for her. What she said really made me angry. She said tbh all the things I do for her doesn't move her at all that I would do the same thing for other people.
She gets angry when I help people. I just don't understand her sometimes.

Believe me bro, you've not even understood her reason for being dissatisfied with what you're offering to her. First thing first, that girl is not happy in the relationship that's why what you're offering to her doesn't move her. You just first find out what is missing in the relationship that makes her not to be happy.

Women are a very tender creature, that you must handle with Care. I repeat handle with Care!!!

You can message me privately and I'll be happy to talk you towards understanding her very well.

Caaz:
I really cannot tell,maybe that's how nature destined it to be

Abeg you go help me tell nature say this he design no balance at all.

EzegeNdiigbo:
That's not what I meant mehn
Too much unnecessary pampering is not too good For girl Dem and secondly don't deal with them with Emotion because that's the time the said guy will be easily manipulated okay

Yeah, you're 100% correct when you say don't deal with a woman with emotion cos the moment your emotions affects your decision making that's when you become a whimp.

Tegabadguy:
send her parking pls

Na today ?? She has since moved ooooo. Although we do talk but I don't call her oooo only talk to her nicely when she calls and sometimes chat her on WhatsApp.

This gender called woman, it's complicated

Crampyblood:
Omo! People de try sha



Motor shafts? Check my siggy

Why?'d u use that comment "people dey try sha" what could be going through your mind ??

Caaz:
We still have virtuous and faithful ladies both married n unmarried,but sadly we're never valued and respected by our partners.


Men preferred the wide and loose ones.

Yeah I believe there are still good women out there but just a handful. But could it be that the problem is what we’re looking out for in the persons we call partners that pushes us to meet the wrong once ??

Why can’t we just find the right one with ease ??

waititi:
no na person suppose no behave like you at all! na use dey use you.

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My guy!!! How ever the game was played, it’s her lost.

ebudola53c:
true talktrue talk...

Sometimes I wonder what kind of feminine gender will be left in this Nigeria in the next 10years.. oh!!! Oh!! My heart is weeping for the unborn male children.

Persephone1:


It could have other meaning though

Yeah it does.

waititi:
op your level of stupidity N simpism amazes me.i truly hope you have received sense by force

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Lol... una no go kill me with laugh ooooo.. yes I have received sense but how I come take supid na Shey u didn’t see where I said this was my first ever serious relationship that I’ve been ??

EzegeNdiigbo:
The answer is ; How ya treat them..
Is gon' determine how they behaves when with you on relationship.

I disagree with you bro... I think the friends they keep affects them more.. I’m talking from experience bro... cos no matter how nice you try to treat a woman what her friends has to say matters a lot.

Most annoying thing is that most of these friends are faking their life oooooo but the mumu gf that u have won’t know.

One of her friend has come to my hse twice when she wasn’t around to pass the night. One of the visits was very dramatic as the friend called her to know her where about and she told the friend she was at her father’s place mean while she was with me but she just didn’t want to see the friend that day. 20 minutes later boom!!! The friend was at my door step knocking.

To be sincere, I can attest to the fact that some of her friends wish to have a guy like me but I don’t know why she can’t see that and behave well. See some girls are psychic.

There was a night I took her out with her friends guy!!! I over heard the friends praising me to her that she’s a lucky girl. But then she has another set of friends that are just different. See friends dey affect well well

RedCentaur:
You are doing well.

Take your lessons and enjoy your new found peace.

Relationship lessons Na wetin school no go fit teach ooooo ... Money can’t buy me the lessons and knowledge. It feels good being able to have a control over once emotions.

VladimirPutiin:


https:///MenRedPill

Join the telegram group using that link and you will learn a whole lot. Simping is the worst thing to happen to a man in this 21st century.

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I tried but not working.

EzegeNdiigbo:
Yap

But why women be like this

Is there no answer to this ?

sammycipher:



Why the insults, u just posted like a child

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Never mind... just take the sense in his words and leave the senseless words.

VladimirPutiin:


Many weak men are being raised today. Many don’t even understand the Redpill

Please What’s the meaning of redpill??

Kindly explain.

Worriedguy6699:
(Female opinion are not welcomed in this thread)

As the saying goes, spare the rod, spoil the child. Since women are perpetual children, I think it’s time to start correcting them the way our ancestors did.

I think the rise in unfaithful women these days is because society has castrated men and stripped them of their masculinity.

Even women want to be corrected with strength and dominance.

Please do not spare your woman if you catch her or are suspicious of her. Flog her very well on her bumbum (with love of course).

She might not talk to you for a while, but when she comes off it, she will forever fear and respect you. She will not love you because women are not capable of that kind of love you see on TV (it’s all formulated by Hollywood).

Even the Bible tells women to respect their husband not love them (the Bible knows women are not capable of love)

Do this and She will forever respect and adore you.

Beat her, hurt her, then you go know say she has a family that likes her the way she was and this family will come after you, bro you might not survive it oooooo.. worse cases happen when village people put hand and she kpuff for ur hand. You definitely ain’t surviving it bro.

It’s not your fault that she’s a hoe, the parents failed in raising her uprightly and with the fear of God.

So let the hoe be bro.

Persephone1:
Congratulations on your growth from being a sidecock to graduating to pleasure tool to ultimate provider and finally woman wrapper.

Dude still dey stay 1 hour ontop woman after everything omohhhh

You quarrelled and settled but una no break up. okay!

Lol... my guy, make person enjoy himself na.

VladimirPutiin:


See what I told one of my guy this morning.

Almost 80% of the guys in their mid 20s that thinks they’re in a serious relationship are victims to this circumstances. Why ? Why ?? Why .

I guess this your friend must have seen some of the signs.

SenecaTheYonger:
How come no one wants to talk about why this is happening? It’s a common theme nowadays

Yeah, that’ll be a good topic of discussion. Can we share our individual opinion as to why this is becoming a norm is our society today ?

VladimirPutiin:


You are right. You see these beautiful girls with big Yansh and breasts have too much body counts. And it’s not good wifing such women.

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I actually thought I could make her be stable. Like why would a girl be following several man ?? Probably to meet up to her demands. My brother, I did meet up her demands but a hoe will always be a hoe.

kelspinall:
relationship is not what it was painted to be..the white fooled us believing their damn telenovelas, it's all lies.. is hard to find a faithful gal and gals can never be satisfied,no!! no!! no!!...i wish the younger lads will hear this...

sorry man..your first mistake was accepting her back twice when you caught her cheating..gals has this mentality of"he will always forgive,even if i cheat again"
..break up with thaa #oe

Lol... bro ur no! no! no! Gat me laughing.

Accepting her back was not a mistake but being blind to her flaws and dieing in silence in the name of love would have earned me an award as the greatest fool of the year.

And lastly, I ensured I had no feelings for her anymore before I made my decision so I don’t have to start being a whimp.

Hed0nist:


Hope say you de use condom? Condom sef no de protect from herpes. There are a lot of things you can contract just by kissing her (herpes, hepatitis C and D). I’m not sure of HPV.

Once a girl cheats on someone who is basically providing everything for her, there’s little else she can’t do. Learn to say no cheating partners, it doesn’t end well. It also stinks of neediness.

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Yeah. My brother a cheating woman is the worse thing that can ever happen to a man. They’ll deprive you of your peace, happiness, e.t.c.

LawMan44:

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Yeah, but we can avoid the night mare. All we just have to do is to avoid falling asleep deeply and be more cautious.

Thanks for your words.

EzegeNdiigbo:
Mehn you're straight I like that


Nwanne you geh bad mouth hmmm

Lol... but they’re actually saying the truth.

VladimirPutiin:


That’s good. You can only keep the hoe for sexual pleasures but play safe though.

There are still good girls out there no doubt. Just look in a different direction.

Yeah.. I strongly believe there are good girls out there.. I just have to watch out for their characters and not their beauty.

Demigod22:
After reading the low budget modelled English romance story, I smiled in order not to insult OP.

Either op invented this story to get reactions or OP is smoking the same weed with Potable and FFK.

How can a reasonable man cope with a cheating partner? She is poor, according to you, you decided to become her sidecock and when the main guy left the overused kpekus, you gladly inherited it like your birthright. Someone that serially cheated on her boyfriend with you is the same girl you want her to be faithful?

OP is even busy forgiving the community kpekus. OP, your girlfriend is democracy, kpekus by the boys, of the boys and for the boys.

The distance between this OP and sense is like Akwa Ibom to Sokoto, veeerrryyy faaaaaaarrr.

Hahaha... another funny comment, bro lemme shock you.. the reason why the boyfriend left her was because he caught her cheating with another guy and that guy wasn’t me.

Well, I’ve learnt my lessons very well bro and I’m happy I did learn this lesson outside marriage and not as a married man.

Lalami3232:
.... First question wey I wan ask this OP be say "how old are you? "
See as you write epistle of rubbish and gibberish. Some of una no even deserve to dey wear trousers like us ooooo, una suppose dey wear skirt. See as you dey list very irrelevant things because you want validation from us wey no care a dime about you.
Who cares if you sabi fvck? Who cares if you dey inherit her family problem? Who cares if you dey sort her bill? Who cares if you no get sense to know what's right and wrong? The answers to the aforementioned questions be say "NONE OF US CARE" atall.
If at this your age you never get sense to know your right from your wrong, then I'm certain that the parable of a F00L at 40 maybe wrong because you may not get to that age before we go know say you join the category.
Some of una go bring mumu matter come here when una already know wetin to do. Make I just give you one simple advise sha.
As she dey stay with you so eeh, if she go do one hookup and something bad happens, na you na her family go hold responsible ooo, just have it in mind.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "Instead of person to born mumu as a child, it's better make the person born thief"

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Lol, I swear reading this was so funny... actually she does not stay with me any more. And yeah you’re right, this was actually the first serious relationship I’ve been into in my entire life and I don’t think I was a fool or I was weak. Because if I was a fool, I would have probably been depressed or emotionally imbalanced or something related.

But no!! It’s quite sad that I have only learnt most of my lessons from my own experience and not from people’s experience or stories and thus I gave her chances upon chances to actually see and understand the noun “woman”

Now I do and I feel happy about it. I’m just praying and keeping a positive thought over the next woman that will come into my life.

BigIyanga:

Lol..confessions of an emotionally needy and inexperienced man. You were in a relationship with your ‘good’ intentions without confirming from her if she wanted thr same thing. You were a side piece and wanted to be upgraded..’?? Nah, you knew what it was when u signed up. You were OK sharing her puozzy with another.. then you elevated yourself to the largest shareholder without her vote and consent.. Go read Eve by James Hadley Chase

I’ve been searching for the book you mentioned but can’t seem to find it online.. do you have an e-copy of it ? Would appreciate if you can share

VladimirPutiin:
Is it coincidence that I was listening to Fvck you by Kizz Daniel when I clicked on this thread ??

You can never please these hoes don’t even waste your time and energy OP.

Just recently I was discussing with one of my Ex and I asked her why she likes going about sleeping with different men, because I know she fvcks almost everyday. Her response was rather funny and disgusting at the same time. Imagine telling me that since she isn’t yet married, she wants to have all the fun and sex because once she gets married, she won’t be able to do that again.

I just laughed my ass out and told her you will definitely cheat if you mistakenly get married. Then she said there is a rite they normally perform on girls that newly gets married from her place and this rite won’t make the girl cheat on her husband. This is coming from someone that has never been to her village in the North before.

I just said in my heart, I pity the mumu simp wey go believe this your nonsense story.. Funniest thing is, this was same biitch that wanted me to marry her back then and mumu me was stupidly in love because of big ass and shape. So you see these girls know what they are doing and in most cases they end up marrying simps who don’t understand them. Thank God for the Redpill though.


By the way you sounded like a guy in his early 20s because I’m surprised you don’t understand the character of an average Nigerian girl at this time.

I’m in my late 20s and yeah you’re right when you say I don’t understand the character of an average Nigerian girl because all my life I’ve never really known what relationship feels like. This was actually my first time of being in a relationship because I had to give my focus to studies and get a good job at the early stages of my life. I’m happy I’ve been able to pursue and achieve most of the things I dreamt of becoming in life and for this reason I decided to taste what relationship really is and boom!! I met this girl.

It’s quite a sad experience but I’m happy for the lessons learnt. I feel more knowledgeable on how to go about with the next girl that comes into my life.

But I still got this p*ssy for supper just for the weather.

Persephone1:
That's because nah woman wrapper dey take all dirt that happens in the kitchen in those days nah After women put maggi, salt or oil for soup them use hand clean them wrapper just like your babe dey use all rubbish dey clean you.

Guy, you can do better. For your own sanity just let the babe go.

Thanks bro. I do appreciate these words