The only thing that guarantees intimate satisfaction is MONEY not MARRIAGE. I am not married but i have been involved in something close to marriage. From experience, if your woman is not comfortable or happy you aint getting any sex. If you are a young man and you want to rush into marriage just for sex you will soon wake up from dream.

The level of make-up by ashoebi girls and the entire bridal train in weddings can cause impaired vision and admiration of falsehood. I am an instrumentalist in my church and last week Saturday i attended a wedding in my church, as i was playing the keyboard i kept a close watch on the ashoebi girls to see if i can find something good for myself, luckily for me i spotted a supposed pretty girl among the ashoebi girls and i decided to approach her after the wedding ceremony. I later approached her and talked to her, she agreed to everything i said and we exchanged contacts, we started communicating on phone from that day and after two days we agreed to meet somewhere close to her residence. On seeing her, i began to wonder if she was the person i met at the wedding ceremony. Because we were close to her house there was no make-up, all the beauty i saw had disappeared and i began to imagine if it were possible to withdraw all the words i spoke to her. My fellow Nairalanders i don suffer pass JOB for where women dey o.

lawrenceunaa:
sorry but edit ur post as no one is interested in ur assaets

Please i don't have assets. Maybe you own the whole wide world.

lawrenceunaa:
sorry but edit ur post as no one is interested in ur assaets

Please i don't have assets please. Maybe you own the whole wide world and you must be a fool.

lawrenceunaa:
u knw many girls want a man with houses and fat bank account
So he is advertising himself to such ladies

Do you think i come to Nairaland to look for online love? Have i finished dating the ladies i see within my location?

Pastor, deacons, deaconesses, elders, brothers, and sisters will never let a single brother have peace. They all trouble you and try to force you into marriage, i am an instrumentalist and almost all my church band members are married and will not let me be. I am only 27. My fellow Nlanders why is marriage overrated?

austine4real:
u can deal wth rejection bro

Rejection is not easy to handle, it comes with a feeling of unworthiness.

Minlax:
This is really a small matter for your hasty no church girls decision. Sha, if you are not ready for anything serious just mind ur own wahala but if not, move on to another. Maybe she saw the shy on your face.

i am ready for something serious

elspycey:
How do you want your 'K'?

How do you mean?

Blackvampire:

Must someone get a range rover becos of a girl gosh you pust women on a high pedestal so much

the brother that wedded today does not even have a bicycle.

kennyslim1:


So na everybody wey come church be "church girl"
If u no fit woo babe for church, na for ashewo joint u go get liver woo babe?

you don't understand

I am a very shy person and a strong introvert. For the past 7 years I have avoided toasting a church so that those treatments i do receive outside i wouldn't receive them in church but i attended a wedding in my church today and i went to toast a sister i have been admiring but the way she walked out on me i felt like giving myself 480 strokes of cane for making such move. I've vowed never to toast a church sister again.

oluamid:
Give her excuses not to call her. Don't return her calls and when she calls you don't be in a rush to pick it, rather let it ring a couple of times and even then tell her you are very busy and you'll call her back and hang up.


Same thing applies If she wants to come to your place. Nobody go tell am make she leave you before she does.

thank you very much. I love this forum

fightforchange1:


That person is taking advantage of ur affections obviously.

I decided to work with the advice i received here, she called me two times yesterday and two times today but i did not pick her calls. I want to be free from emotional bondage.

fightforchange1:
dog her out and then shell leave you alone......do her real bad.

i will

dre11:




This ur style Nah wa oooo
So all u keep are friends with benefits

yes, friend with benefit only. There are more than 400 sisters in my church but i am not a friend to any. When i was in the university, i belonged to a fellowship where we had more than 100 sisters but i was not a friend to any. I can never pick up my phone and call any girl to say hi except she is my sister or lover.

dre11:
Did u tell her to leave u alone.. ...


Or ure assuming she will understand that she had to leave u alone.. ....


Or ure catching ur fun of having someone calling u but not having the Associated gooddies that follows it

i have not asked her to leave me alone as that may sound harsh but i just felt she would understand she has to. I don't keep female friends, it's either intimate relationship or nothing at all.

MisterLongman:
This one na serious bondage......

i have decided not to pick her calls because e be like she get jazz for her voice. After i have recovered from emotional disappointment and have forgotten about her entirely, she would now call and on hearing her voice all the dead desires would coming and i would begin to chase shadows again thereby subjecting me to emotional bondage. This girl is a thorn in my flesh and has to leave me alone. What do you suggest i do about this?

Medunah:
Wait oo, u av bin asking her out for 4 years? U no get work??

it's quite ridiculous. I don't stalk her, but she keeps calling once in a while to renew the hide and seek game.

I wonder what i've got myself into. I have been asking this girl out for four years but she rejected my offer of a relationship, yet she will not let me be. She would make demands for money, to which i have never yielded. I don't make friend with women so i cannot accept platonic relationships. My nlanders which kyn yawa be this?

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djeezy: How handsome are you?

Bros i hope you know what it means to be handsome?

All my life I have never met a girl that was able to actively hold a conversation with me on the first date, i would always be the one coming up with what to discuss and i don't find it easy because i myself i'm a melancholy.