Am not especially gonna nsr the question, but I think african ppl on this site are especially rude to outsiders. If we are to appear civilized to the outside world; we should learn to practice diplomacy and etiquitte. At poster am sorry for your misfortune, but one man behavior does not speak for everyone. Good luck with your search for happiness.

I kno dis is n old post, but 4 all purposes intended I find the post both insightive n halarious. While I believe the passage meant no harm, she most recognize dat nigerian r vry sensitive concerning them beit positive or negative. So my dear it's up to us 2 take what applies n disregard wat doesn't. Thnx n God bless.

@ OP


It will be nice to know that my husband is domesticated. If I should get sick or an emergency arise I don't think that house chores should just sit there until in-laws, family or friends arrive. On the other hand I do believe that certain chores around the home should be designated as the husband's chores(especially if both work outside the home), eg: taking out trash, the up keep of the outer areas of the home, repairs around the home etc. So in my candid way I do tink so.

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Quote from: Nwaka77 on April 25, 2008, 05:57 PM
They will collapse



I only asked bcuz previous post said, "they will collapse". I haven't gotten any sign of disapproval, but it's always nice to know what to expect or what not to.


@ NJean,
Ese.

Speaking of marriage, what would a Nigeria family think of their eldest son in the USA marrying an American woman

Am neither American nor European, am dating and soon to be married to a Yoruba man, will it be really upsetting to his family?

I do understand what ur saying and what th question is. My advice to you is to try and study his parents culture and even ask thinks that will give you a better understanding. When u look at the facts not being born in one country means that is the culture u adapt ultimately, but family does play a crucial role in one's upbringing. So my dear if u really love this guy (which you I really think you do, else y will u b here looking for answers) try doing some research that will enable you to better understand and keep your man.

While I do understand ur desperation to find resolution to your problem; you have to remember this is a [PUBLIC] forum and not only Nigerians lurk around in here. "A word to the wise is sufficient", be very careful of what you post cuz innocent and undeserving people can get hurt. I think that is all people on this thread is trying to say. The next thing you know this website will be on prime news for convenience marriage solicitation. Be careful my friend and good luck in your endeavors.

wat r u talking bout?

@ Londoner


Is that something personal?