No man should allow his wife control him to a point people see you as weak or your wife as controlling. A man ought to be the leader of the home and that ought not to be in doubt.
Firstly, if he dies before the wife, the family will show her shege. Therefore if you refuse a request from your family, leave no one in doubt that you are the one refusing them.
Secondly if your wife destroys all your other relationships and you are left alone with her, she will show you shege knowing you have no other person to turn to.

Never believe a woman's story about her marriage break-up without listening to her husband. Women have a capability to state a story so as to whip sentiments in their favor. Let me shock you that a crying woman does not mean she is telling the truth. The tears is to distract from her obvious lies.
So until I hear the husband's side of the story I refuse to believe her

It is either the beginning of the end or the end of the beginning for you and your fiance. The mere fact that she even considered asking you shows she has either visited already or will visit him. She is just telling you to pre inform you that she is going. And you know if she gets there okafor's rule will immediately come into play

Na we send you. BBL is an operation that has one of the highest post operative complication rates. When una dey do like say God be no know wetin Him dey do when He created you as male, now e don happen. Ask God for mercy o, kidney no be joke o

which kin way you act so? you ought to have insisted that he be arrested and charged to court for making false allegation/report to police, defamation of character and attempted murder. you ought to follow it up till the case is over and his butt is in jail. what if you had been lynched? you think he would have owned up to the mob that in fact his penis was intact? no!!, absolutely no!!!.

Congratulations!!! Its a thing of joy for a parent to witness the wedding of their child.

Dead people dont pay loans. Correct girl!!! If they posted your obituary, that means they have written of the loan

was a statistical study carried out around the nation?

hey bro, 7 months no be 7 days o!. where/ how has she been getting sexual satisfaction? abi you think say the thing no dey hungry women too? your pastor's advice is most unwise. from your story your marriage is headed for only one destination-the. rocks. my remaining advice to you is to carry out a DNA test on your child (ren) before you labor in another man's vineyard. also a telltale sign of a cheating spouse is sudden suspicion of their partners. her being suspicious of you talking with any female is her trying to divert attention from herself. also her mum is in cahoots with her, there's another suitor in her home state who is making promises of marrying her, you are just a spare tyre if that option fails. ogbeni wake up

young man..my only advice to you is to drop her like hot amala and run for your life
before you know it you will marry her and that is where your suffering starts
run my guy run