Read above

theenchanter:
Does anyone need law books?

For free.

Ikosi, Ketu, Lagos.

Interested please

I can come pick them up.

Thanks

Nawao


Wetin jandor dey challenge?

franchasofficia:
Many men, especially Igbo men do same or even worst, but they won't say it out



I have friends living in the US who told their wives not to work, they foot all the family bills, reason I usually laugh when guys claim things like this dont happen abroad, there are men that practice same all over the world lol

It's terrible.

franchasofficia:
For me, its what I desired right from when I knew what marriage is.


I think she uses her money to help some of her biological family side and maybe saving for her kids which are fine by me.


I didn't marry her to make money for me or pay bills. My position may not be ideal for others but its what I wished for.


You won't believe I fuel her car to and fro work lol. I also told her whenever she spends her own money to do anything for my kids she should tell me so I refund her. This may sound crazy but I derive joy being totally in charge of my family and life financially. I also help some of her family members in need though they aren't much and rarely ask, but during festive times I extend to them whether they ask or not.


As for sex, I am not a sex person, I am easily satisfied sexually even though I love pretty ladies for looking and admiring and maybe playing lol


I hate food, I eat to survive, and very picky. She tries, whenever she is off, she cooks herself and pack in freezers, and we have helps and children nannies. She tries sha. But I guess why it seems easy for me is because I am buoyant.


If you don't want to have issue with women in general, please don't ever put eyes on their money no matter how small, ignore a woman's money like a plague, this is my principle even when I was a bachelor

Hmmm

You have corrupted her o bro.

Serious corruption.

franchasofficia:
Naturally, men are not attracted to a woman based on her achievements in life because men don't desire women because of provision, men are usually attracted to a woman mainly to satisfy their emotional need not for material need.



Once a man sets eyes on a woman, the first thing that runs through his mind is how pretty, sexy and enjoyable she will be in the oza room . He may consider other qualities in the woman later, but man's primary need from a woman is sex and care. It is because of economic hardship or financial difficulty that makes men even consider marrying a financially rich or comfortable lady. A rich guy cares less about a lady's success. He may only want the girl to come from a rich or comfortable family background to minimize the possibility of her becoming a gold digger, but not necessarily for her to be rich herself.




My wife is in a career that makes women become rich easily and this career makes them feel kind of pompous/arrogant to men lol, but she knows that whatever financial growth she is getting or will get in future from her career no concern me, so she remains loyal cos na me still de buy her undies



But from my personal observation from friends and some family members married to ladies richer than them lol, I will advice any young man to focus on being financially successful, pray as your wife gets richer, that God blesses you with more wealth oh, if not na Oyo state for you lol.



Financial success or career success can change women eh lol, except their hubby is richer and not depending on them or asking them for a dime.



Honestly with what I notice around friends that married ladies richer than them, its risky marrying a rich lady if you aren't richer than her oh lol.



This always makes me wonder how my own marriage would have been if I was broke and not able to provide 100 percent for my family, maybe my Nyarinya for de lock me for house with big chains


I thank God oh, I will never go down till I depart this earth, no woman except my daughter(s) will be richer than me till I sign out from this earth, and even if my wife becomes the next Ngozi Okonjo Iweala, I will make sure say na me de pay all my family bills 100 percent, make she carry her money go give her papa and mama abeg lol. Thank God my wife knows that I don't care if she earns 1billion per hour cos I will still be buying her car, paying for her driver, and making her know that she is still a broke woman where I de




To all these Naija single boiz searching for Linda Ikeji and Folarunsho Alakija to marry, make una de careful oh, we weh de on that table are grateful we escaped their wahala by grace, I wonder how a guy earning 1 or 2milla per month go survive staying happily married to all these beautiful successful career ladies, na cane them go de use wake una up for morning

Franchas, I have followed you here for long. And this has always been your position on this issue.

Now, I am wondering, why is your wife working?

If you foot all bills 100%, upto her undies, what is she doing with her money?

Why is she working because I know by her working, she will be busier leading to less time for you, sex etc; less time for kids, less time to do chores, manage the home etc. YET despite taking part of the time meant for you, she is still unable to contribute from the proceeds of the job.

Many men do this

Now, do you think this is ideal?