Romance / Re: How Come You Rarely See India And Chinese/asian Baby Mama by onila(f): 5:19pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Buharison:
You are an old woman for heaven sake, All ur comments are not different from d little ones from kindergarten, Are u dah cheap to men, are u really married at all stop being mean 2 our NL Foreigners |
Romance / Re: How Come You Rarely See India And Chinese/asian Baby Mama by onila(f): 5:13pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
SINZ: My baby mama is Indian. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) you have a baby ![tongue](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/tongue.png) |
Romance / Re: How Come You Rarely See India And Chinese/asian Baby Mama by onila(f): 5:12pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Afam4eva: Maybe it's because they don't come on the internet to advertise their stupidity. It's a shame to be a baby mama in those countries. you have always been nice to me, what happened ![cry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cry.gif) and I have always respected ur intelligence |
Romance / How Come You Rarely See India And Chinese/asian Baby Mama by onila(f): 3:55pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
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Romance / Re: Ghanaian Guys Make Every Girl Feel Special by onila(f): 2:23pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
RB007: Has Kwesi been drilling you well onila? Or is it Kwame
i am a virgin |
Romance / Re: Ghanaian Guys Make Every Girl Feel Special by onila(f): 2:23pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
RB007: Has Kwesi been drilling you well onila? Or is it Kwame
i am a virgin |
Romance / Ghanaian Guys Make Every Girl Feel Special by onila(f): 2:13pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
![smiley](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/smiley.png) they don't criticize, they accept you for who you are 1 Like |
Romance / Re: How To Spot A Slut: The 2017 Edition by onila(f): 1:31pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
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Culture / The Level Of Bullying In Schools Is Worse In The West Than In Africa by onila(f): 6:19am On Jul 26, 2017 |
i was watching prince williams biography on youtube in primary(elementary) school, one of his classmate hit him on the head with a golf stick and he was quickly rushed to the hospital not even hes schools clinic you can imagine what happens in their high schools i did my primary school in Nigeria, i rarely saw anyone fight talkless of someone breaking anyones head the real bullying was in secondary school in Naija how is life there, any much easier ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) |
Culture / Re: Why Don't Nigeria Appreciate Diversity by onila(f): 4:18pm On Jul 24, 2017 |
lepasharon: Hmmm..Maybe the whites prefer ghana other African countries look more diverse than Nigeria |
Culture / Why Don't Nigeria Appreciate Diversity by onila(f): 3:59pm On Jul 24, 2017 |
when I went to Ghana i saw many whites, chinese, indians walking around the road, i thought I was in london
but in Nigeria, the whites are usually in their community/secluded environment . .dont really mix with the locals |
Romance / Re: Ever Since I Liked This Nigerian British Guys Music Page On My Facebook by onila(f): 11:49pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Fadiga24: Maybe he likes you, have you thought of that? that made me blush ![smiley](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/smiley.png) . .you made my day |
Romance / Re: Ever Since I Liked This Nigerian British Guys Music Page On My Facebook by onila(f): 11:11pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
ScotFree:
It will. Dont give up. You have family around? nop |
Romance / Re: Ever Since I Liked This Nigerian British Guys Music Page On My Facebook by onila(f): 11:04pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
ScotFree:
Okay. But do you think you're doing enough in terms of sharing in the house chores? yea I am trying but I still not doing enough just don't know what's wrong with me being called lazy especially when I know i am doing everything possible to survive based on my personality, temperament, and instincts to survive is hurtful i am just praying for this phase to be over |
Romance / Re: Ever Since I Liked This Nigerian British Guys Music Page On My Facebook by onila(f): 10:50pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
ScotFree:
Are you sad onila? I'm being nice and friendly now. No teasing. You're a quiet person who doesn't have much friends? People seem not to understand your feelings? So you prefer to write, in that way you reach out to more people than you have around you? Let's talk. Here i always have one issue to deal with every time that's why i am always here for help . .peoples advice help me here the new obstacle i am going through now . .my housemates think I am lazy . .always calling me lazy it's hurtful and I don't know how to help myself |
Romance / Re: Ever Since I Liked This Nigerian British Guys Music Page On My Facebook by onila(f): 10:32pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
ScotFree:
My guy you dey here. This girl case is something else o. If we truly are our brothers keeper, we should be doing something for this girl now.
it doesn't matter how long i have been here you should be supportive of me if making posts makes me happy instead of condemning me some people just love being aproko |
Romance / Re: Ever Since I Liked This Nigerian British Guys Music Page On My Facebook by onila(f): 10:29pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
ScotFree: Confirmed! Certified! She is Mad!! Every single post. Incomprehensible! Pointless and factless!
You always feel what it means to be mad when you're reading her posts. In that moment, you feel madness, then as soon as you are done reading, you regain sanity.
Just chase...flirt....trip..guys...guys....guys..
Wetin sef? Get a grip on yourself. Dem do you?? with all due respect, if you don't have anything good to say, ignore my thread, thank you |
Romance / Re: Ever Since I Liked This Nigerian British Guys Music Page On My Facebook by onila(f): 10:28pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Fadiga24:
You sound very naive. You wanted him to chase you immediately after you were born? why didn't he chase me before i liked hes page he was on my friends list for 4 years before I liked hes page so why now i guess i brought out the fire |
Romance / Re: Ever Since I Liked This Nigerian British Guys Music Page On My Facebook by onila(f): 10:09pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
moshood521: Whoop.... U na knw weda na dem hm frnds push am dat dea..... Anyfin is possible under d moon.... Just a thought. ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) |
Romance / Re: Ever Since I Liked This Nigerian British Guys Music Page On My Facebook by onila(f): 9:55pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Victornezzar: since 2009 u entad dis forum 8 good years of madness u neva taya Ahbi is ur case 2 strong 2 handle with all due respect, if you don't have anything good to say, ignore my thread, thank you 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Ever Since I Liked This Nigerian British Guys Music Page On My Facebook by onila(f): 9:51pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Fadiga24: Maybe he likes you, have you thought of that? he doesn't even know me personally ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) why didn't he chase me before i liked hes page why all of a sudden he has been on my friends list for years |
Romance / Ever Since I Liked This Nigerian British Guys Music Page On My Facebook by onila(f): 9:49pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
hes being too friendly and flirty to me i just liked hes page. .so guys whenever a girl likes ur page or tries to support you on ur talent or something you think she likes you ![](/faces/huh.png) why are men just so hor-ny ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) |
Romance / Re: Are Black Men The Most Handsome Men In The World by onila(f): 8:23pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
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Romance / Re: Why Are White People More Concerned About Women Rights In The Middle East Than by onila(f): 8:16pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
MsRoe:
Let's first distinguish between the economic conditions of a place and the progressiveness of a place regarding women's liberation. I do not think people leave Africa for the Middle East (Dubai included) for the sole purpose of escaping female subjugation. They would go to Europe or The Americas for that. They do, however, leave Africa to escape the harsh economic climate, because (yeah) Africa is 'still hellish'. It's not comparable.
That said, when it comes to women's liberation, I am not saying that we aren't oppressed; even the West hasn't gotten to the promised land with the feminist agenda. I am saying that we can do something about without without fearing that we'll be stoned in the streets for raising our voices. We have women in the work place, we are not confined to our homes by law or religion. It is our responsibility to use our voices to better effect.
What we battle isn't our laws; we use templates from liberal countries (of course the northern states are exempt) What we fight, largely, is the prejudiced whispering from societies lot, which we are too fragile to withstand. A woman is afraid to want things that attract the 'feminist' label; she doesn't want to antagonize the men. We are going back and forth with it, harboring our internalized phobia. It's not laws that restrict us, it's our need for male approval. And who would have sympathy for that?
African women have to be unapologetic in their commitment for women's causes. They cannot be shriveling up whenever a man threatens that she would be single for the rest of her life if she doesn't drop her advocacy for feminism. We have to have thicker skins that that.
what is the benefit of living in Africa isn't living in Africa like being a woman in the middle east i grew up in Nigeria, the place is so horrible many Africans comfortable in the middle east rather stay there than live in Nigeria that looks like a refuse bin |
Culture / Re: Cameroonians Hate Being Bullied? by onila(f): 8:01pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
whitebeard: so a country called that is actually existing. ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) |
Culture / Cameroonians Hate Being Bullied? by onila(f): 7:07pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
is it the same way whites hate being bullied?
Cameroonians hate when people criticize their culture and way of life but don't mind bullying other people
when you argue with Cameroonians, they make it look like ur fighting a war worse than WW2
But we freely fight with Ghanaians, South Africans, Kenyans every day here, but at the end of the day, we all learn from each other without hard feelings on how to better ourselves and countries
why is it different from cameroon
white people always criticize other peoples cultures( women rights in the middle east, africans not accepting homosexuality) do whites also care when people criticize their culture |
Romance / Re: Are Black Men The Most Handsome Men In The World by onila(f): 6:39pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
i don't find east African men attractive |
Romance / Re: Why Are White People More Concerned About Women Rights In The Middle East Than by onila(f): 6:08pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
MsRoe: Wow, something refreshingly different...........finally.
In the Middle East, if anyone dares to disrupt the structure put in place by Islam, they do so at the pain of death. You can't compare the subjugation of women there and here. They desperately need advocates from around the world. In Africa, we are an eclectic bunch. We largely operate under supposed progressiveness when it comes to women' lib. Our women are free to speak and fight for what they want. Our laws aren't so unfriendly to women; what we need to battle are the unwritten social and individual biases. And the only people stopping us are we ourselves. living in Africa is still hell fire we should have equal attention like them many Africans are sending their kids to dubai, and all those strict Arab countries to school despite their harsh laws looks like living in Africa is much worse than in Dubai |
Romance / Re: Why Are White People More Concerned About Women Rights In The Middle East Than by onila(f): 6:03pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Fulaman198:
It probably is, but it is not better than many countries in Africa in treatment of women. You saw how Do***.T**ump referred to women. Also, the fact that there still has not been a single female president in the U.S. but there have been several in numerous African countries.
In the West, women are seen as objects, at least in Dubai, they respect women to the point that they should not be getting pregnant before marriage (call me old fashioned but not old from an age perspective). I think it's important that women are in a financially stable relationship before even considering having a baby, so in a way what the UAE is doing is a good thing. America is not the only white country UK and Germany have female prime ministers are you saying black men don't say grab them by the pu**y too close doors with their guys abortion is illegal in uae, women don't have rights to abort even when raped white women have rights 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Are White People More Concerned About Women Rights In The Middle East Than by onila(f): 3:59pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
white women lead the porn industry the fashion industry hollywood
domestic violence is a big offense in their community
they get to live in a better country than third world garbage |
Romance / Re: Why Are White People More Concerned About Women Rights In The Middle East Than by onila(f): 3:55pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Fulaman198: Why aren't white people concerned about women's rights in the Western world? Women in Africa actually have more rights than women in the West. in dubai, you can't get a girl pregnant before marriage or you will be arrested and be sent to jail white women don't have to deal with that, the west is much better the arab world whether you like it or not |
Romance / Why Are White People More Concerned About Women Rights In The Middle East Than by onila(f): 3:33pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Africa's situation
i am beginning to think white people hate black people or just see us as a lost cause or see us as boring or our problems just too much too handle |