Ilekokonit:
Once husband and wife sleep in different beds or in different rooms, the marriage is almost over and may not last for very long

Husband and wife have no business sleeping in different beds or in different rooms.

The excuse some women give is that they are nursing a baby who must breast feed through the night and thats a fair point but at some point, the baby will stop feeding on breast milk and at that point, the baby can go and sleep in his or her cot and not in the parents marital bed and after some time he or she or they if twins have to go and sleep in their own room and let Mum and Dad have the needed private time so that they can bond if their young marriage is to survive long after their children have left home (which they will someday).

But the mistake a lot of women make is to over prioritize their time with their baby / toddler to the detriment of their marriage. Why go into a marriage when at the first sign of a baby, the wife imports the baby permanently into her marital bed under the guise of breastfeeding and in some cases even when the child is more than 3 years old, he or she is still sleeping beside the mum at night and often times the man has been stylishly shunted to sleeping in another room and even if chairman wan nack during the day, the 3 year old child is furiously banging on the door for the parents to open the door because the child has been made to always feel he or she has to be beside the Mum.

But wives who want their marriage to last will know where to draw the line and give unto Caesar what is Caesar's in a TIMELY manner.

A word is enough for the wise woman who wants her marriage to last way past when the kids will have left home to start their own families.

MuslimIgbo:



This record will stand for the next 10 years!


OG

Real
GOAT

ochejoseph:
PDP brought in technocrats who managed our economy for 16 years, got us out of debt and made us the fastest growing economy in Africa.

APC brought people without certificates who destroyed our economy in less than 7 years, made us the hunger capital of the world and sold us to China with debt hanging over unborn generations!

yankeecoder:
The law actually doesn't restrict organizing any form of association of such as long as it is not done in public places and doesn't involve a minor. Do you know that we have strip clubs and prostitutes in this country and Government is fully aware of this ? That is because it isn't against the law at the moment so, renting a hotel for such parties can't be illegal as well. I know these things sounds immoral to you but we are running a democracy and freedom of association and speech is backed by the law. Whoever sealed that hotel can be sued because he has no right to do it in the first place, no law was broken. And bet me, that hotel will be reopened soon.

yankeecoder:
That's where you get it wrong. How are you certain the hotel posted the video ? Was it posted by the hotel's official handle ? No ! This is a video that is still yet to be seen by many people, check this thread you'll see a lot of people requesting for the video. We are talking about government sealing someone's means of livelihood, you aren't making any point by turning the topic into a family issue by mentioning my sister.

yankeecoder:
There is nothing like morality in the law the way you define it, this happened in a closed building not on the street or in the market, this is like Government intefering in people's personal affairs. So, what if they organized the party in their house so, Government has rights to seal people's houses too for having sex ?

yankeecoder:
Is the act of shutting down the hotel even legal ? Everyone who got invited to the party knew what they went for, it happened in a closed building and no minor was captured on the camera there. Our Government are always hasty to react just to form fake morality that most of us don't even have

FalseProphet1:
Abeg goan sit down. America bombed your general that year, the world expected you to retaliate rather you resorted to using your mouth rather than the so called nuclear weapons you claim to have.

I see Israel attacking Iran's nuclear power plant, I see Iran doing nothing.

This I have seen.

Jokerman:


Then he didn't do his homework well

Odewaleadesoye:


Source: DAILY POST

Jokerman:
6 months??

But they said Russia will take Ukraine in 2 Weeks...

What's happing Grandma Russia?

AAA593:


https://www.channelstv.com/2022/08/16/ASUU-fg-meeting-ends-in-deadlock-strike-to-continue/

Philipponzaghi:


Source: https://m.tribuneindia.com/news/chandigarh/nigerian-held-with-172-gram-heroin-422473

Kwanza:
The Rivers governor has exhibited strained ties with both the party and its 2023 standard-bearer over the outcome of the May 28 national convention and presidential primary.


https://gazettengr.com/just-in-pdp-crisis-worsens-as-wike-sues-atiku-over-2023-presidential-ticket/

Fira09:
A mammoth crowd of Christians from the 19 northern states, on Friday, stormed the Aso Villa State House, Abuja to protest the selection of Senator Kashim Shettima by the Presidential candidate of the All Progressives Congress, Asiwaju Bola Tinubu, as his running mate. Tinubu once said "ija o tii bere, e tin yin ibon, okere melo Le fe pa? It's actually only tinubu that can beat atiku and save us from these fulani people, even fayose that's a pdp member said they shouldn't have gone for atiku but a southerner, but realistically, tinubu can only win by votes, with north having 19 states, it's logical to take someone that'll deliver well in north. Even in a wrong fight, always pick the right weapon.




SOURCE:VANGUARD

Totilopussylick:
Nigeria politicians makes themselves an enemy of her citizens that voted them to becomes whom they are.

Can he walk alone till he gets home without

Those fearlessly looking security men surrounding him .

Come to Germany, a politician walks about without a single security man watching after them.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Is Nigeria an Islamic country?those Dumbo Christians supporting this act cos homosexuals are involved are the same Dumbos who will wail when they hit at their Religion persons for blasphemy..what law does Nigeria practice? Islamic law or what is written in the Constitution..?

Most Africans/Nigerians are closed minded muppets that can't comprehend that people can do what they want..where they want and with who they want...

If your choice as a man is to sleep with a man then who the hell has the right to challenge that?
The same for a woman..the same for gender fluid..the same for agender..the same for any living being...
In this day..it should be ok to love who you want..because let's face it..if some people can love inanimate objects why can't you love the same gender?

Everyone should be considered normal...Gay should not be a label..straight should not be a labe.....transgendered should not be a label...

Love is limitless..boundless..hopefulness..happiness.. Why anyone should deny another living breathing human this right is beyond me...
Why do people forbid this? Jealousy...religion..Self-centered...
Why can't we celebrate the fact we have love and accept each other..What another man does should be of no concern to them...

One day...I hope..

phransix2:
Akoi Grace, Akoi Mercy, Akoi Biza Biza
Blessing follow you, you are blessed

vicdom:


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/06/we-will-mobilize-our-members-against-muslim-muslim-ticket-pfn/

Needadvice200:
Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.

Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.

Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.

in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.

When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.

My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.

I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.

I will be in comment section if case of any questions.

Thank y'all

Newsmic:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q59l9UKL6X4

Nigerian soldiers were seen hiding as gunmen rob five banks simultaneously in Uromi, Edo State on February 24, 2022, IGBERETV reports.

The robbers were also spotted carting away bags of money after robbing the banks.

https://igberetvnews.com/1415417/uromi-bank-robbery-soldiers-hide-robbers-cart-away-money-photos-video/

nairavsdollars:
Why do Muslims worship on Fridays

nairavsdollars:
Why do Muslims worship on Fridays

uptimumOne23:
The best President Nigerians as ever had

Only children of hate will not agree with this

richmond500:
So I was just surfing the internet, browsing through the pages of google and I saw the Nigerian Coat Of Arm, it caught my attention and I begin to wonder how it has lost almost all of its identity.

Quick Check



So forget government, my question is, what are u doing to maintain the motto of the COA? cos I know we will come here and start insulting government first

Liposure:

’https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/458638-germany-to-start-returning-benin-bronzes-from-2022.html

saphiere:

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9503305/Boyfriend-dated-35-women-arrested-fraud-Japan.html

obembet:


Source: https://amp.marca.com/en/football/international-football/2021/03/31/60643a14e2704e39178b462e.html

mysportdab:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/football/article-9414519/amp/Cristiano-Ronaldo-Referee-APOLOGISED-Portugals-squad-ruling-late-winner.html

SonOfAfonja:


Care to tell us what exactly the joy is?

FreeSpirited:
The scene of a guy shedding tears on his wedding day usually baffles me. I don't understand that feeling and why it happens?
.
Is he shedding tears feeling he's going to miss his bachelorhood?
Sometimes people say it's like tears of joy, but still I don't understand that joy cos most of the time he had been dating the babe, cohabiting, sexing her, and the babe doing wifely duties while dating.
So what really triggers that well of water? I feel women are the ones naturally given license to cry on their wedding day for obvious reasons we don't need to talk about..
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As a guy, If you were moved by emotions and brought to tears on your wedding, pls share with us what triggered it. Perhaps, we could understand from your angle.

Hollusilva28:
Hello we feel nothing at all. market is still open, though it may be expensive. Those people in the east are still buying things in the market . My dearest, we southerners need to come together and learn on how not to be over depending on other region. Are you saying, we don't have farmers in the south, if not by now, we supposed to have been shouting or begging northerner to unban.