This is a true life story that happen to me on the 8th Nov, 2011.
i met this guy during my lunch hour at Mr. bigg's, he came closer to me and he was disturbing me to give him my number which i did. he started calling me on phone, he invited me to his place which i did and i went without not thinking or veing anything in mind toward him. this man look like a good gentle man which u never expected in life he can do sure thing to ladies. i believe this is not his first time he has been doing this to other ladies. I went to this guys house which he was not there. he call me on phone and ask me to give one of the boys at home my phone to speech to him, which i did and he ask me to wait for him that he is on his way coming home that i should not go. i waited and he came around, when he came he ask one of his boys to dress his room for him after dressing his room he ask me to come to his room i told him no, that am ok in this siting room. this man stood up with annoyance on his face he brought out his handset to throw it on. he said i should not make him to beat me if not nobody will hear my voice that he is the only person living in this flats. i dont knw wat to do, i was crying like a child, i beg this man he refuse and told me he must ve sex with me. i told him why all this, ve i done bad to come to ur house. Moreover, this is my first time that u should not do this to me that am not in any mode to do anything. i told him to pls forgive me if i ve done anything wrong to him, he refuse and said he must do it. i cry and i cry he refuse to listen to my cry. he drag me to his room and ask me to UnCloth i told him i can do it. he was dragging me and i dont knw wat comes over me i pretend that i was not feeling fine, that i ve to collect my injection by 2pm. he said it is a lie. i beg and i beg he refuse to hear my cry, he try to UnCloth me which i ask him to wait that i ve something to tell him, he said he is all ears. what save me is that i am on my period which i show him, he refuse and told me he will do it in my anus. i ve to look up to God and ask him what ve i done to myself. i was week i dont knw wat to do. his phone wrings he was receiving calls, i stood up and pick my phone and pretend that i was receiving calls. i disguise myself by calling my mum pretend he was asking where i am, i was giving her the address that is when the man stood up and ask me to go that i should carry my problems and go. my God i ve to run out like a dog and stop bike immediately without not looking back until i get to my final destination. which i go straight to the church and ask for forgiveness. now am scarce of men now. i just ve to wait until God time is the best. pls oooooooooo dont insult me becos if u are in my shoes u will do the same thing. thank God i escape from the lion den. that is my story.

Hi friends, pls i need an advice and urgent reply.

There is this guy that love me so much more than i do. he really want me to be his wife, he keep on asking my hand in marriage which i refuse to give him the answer becos i dont really love him, becos of the guy that i was dating that i love more than him and this guy i love is not ready for marriage now, anytime i ask him, that were is this relationship going to lead us he keep on telling me he want to settle his family first before anything about marriage. that he love me and he want me to be his wife that if i can wait he will be very happy and this guy is my course mate he is my friend when we are in secondary school not my lover, until after school we all went to university but different university but close to my school, we didnt see each other until after our higher institution, i met him when i went for lunch close to my office and his own office is also close to my office too. the guy in question that is asking my hand in marriage, i met him when i loss contact with my friend in secondary school. After my higher institution, i met this my guy in secondary where i was having my lunch close to my office, and he ask me out and i accepted him becos i love me. now the guy that was asking my hand in marriage has come to my people that he really love me and he want to marry me. my pple ask me to accept him as my hubby but the question there is that i dont love him, i try to develop love were he is but the love is not there. now my family want me to marry, what will i do.

Hi friends, pls i need an advice and urgent reply.

There is this guy that love me so much more than i do. he really want me to be his wife, he keep on asking my hand in marriage which i refuse to give him the answer becos i dont really love him, becos of the guy that i was dating that i love more than him and this guy i love is not ready for marriage now, anytime i ask him, that were is this relationship going to lead us he keep on telling me he want to settle his family first before anything about marriage. that he love me and he want me to be his wife that if i can wait he will be very happy and this guy is my course mate he is my friend when we are in secondary school not my lover, until after school we all went to university but different university but close to my school, we didnt see each other until after our higher institution, i met him when i went for lunch close to my office and his own office is also close to my office too. the guy in question that is asking my hand in marriage, i met him when i loss contact with my friend in secondary school. After my higher institution, i met this my guy in secondary where i was having my lunch close to my office, and he ask me out and i accepted him becos i love me. now the guy that was asking my hand in marriage has come to my people that he really love me and he want to marry me. my pple ask me to accept him as my hubby but the question there is that i dont love him, i try to develop love were he is but the love is not there. now my family want me to marry, what will i do.

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There is this guy i met on my way coming back from work and he approach me and tell me that he want me to be her girl and two weeks after i see it in him that he is very serious about it and i make up my mind to give him a trial and after ten month of datting each other i found myself in love with him, now our relationship is a year plus.
one day he called me on phone to come to his office and i quickly ran down to his office and he sat me down and told me that this boy friend ande girl friend relationship of ours is getting too long that he want to settle down with me and he want me to get pregnant before our marriage.
Now am totaly confuse cos he knows that am a vergin and have made a convenant between me and God that before a man can sleep with me it must be after we left the alter, Now i dont know what to do maybe i should go on and do what he want or i should stick with my convenant until the right man comes on my way and he said without sleeping with me he will not take me to the alter and i love this guy so much, what should i do ? is he real or he want to diceive me ? plz i need you people advice or opinion ?