kkins25:
yes, and while men sat and nurtured the next generation of men, women were out there in barns getting their mammary glands filled with good old ale.

Thanks. You're very wise.

kkins25:
I have not argued against, so i do not know how the sarcasm fits into context of what I am saying. Men have built societies- facts. But, if men had the burden of rearing their offspring, we'd still be in the jungles fighting with sabretooth.

I'm sorry I misunderstood you. I thought Women advanced the society and channel the course of men

kkins25:




If sex is off the table, would there be "men" and "women"?

[qoute]In our medical class, we have almost an equal number of girls as men. doesn't surprise me, most gods worship their link to health were female.

And go to any medical school, the lecturers will always say, girls study more than boys. Facts!! women, as i learnt, have the capacity to outshine boys in every ramification, but provided they get some extra time. weird.


This is just the beginning of the things to come. We've seen women leading countries, leading armies.

Y'all are living in the past where you think muscle is still powerful. Bro, your muscles are currently useless.

True, but with regards to army, muscles is very important. As we've seen in sports as well. Let women stay clear of that area abeg. It's not currently required, they should rather invest more in politics, maths, etc. We need more brains and not muscles. plus, we don't want them loosing fertility as studies have shown for women who fight wars. Even though male soldiers face similar sexual problems, one man can impregnate 100s of females. So, we can have more men die at war than females. No, wonder, Nature did it so.. Nature is wiser than us probably.
We are not at the level where we can confidently produce Kyle xy. Even Kyle xy get issues

You're right TBH. Women build civilization. Talk of sciences, technologies, politics, airplane, missiles and all of that. Women are far more intelligent than men. Women provide for the family, work tedious jobs and do all sort of tasks to advance civilization. The only thing men do is stay outside playing games and watch porn. Look at all the countries with advanced civilization and system, it's women that are behind it all. Construction firms, armies, intelligent securities all have women as leader.

This is something men will argue against but I don't care

Even there are places like that in the US and Canada

MufasaLion:
It's not peculiar to only Abuja. We have many undeveloped areas in all the states of the federation.

You're trying to score a cheap point but unfortunately for you, not everyone is stupid.

Even there are places like that in the US and Canada

Jokerman:
So Nigeria is not cheap to live in then?

Nigeria is still the cheapest country in the world. Those fishes the OP find it's way to western country, they'd sell nothing less than $500 which is about #300,000

OP is an entitled narcissist. Yeahs, what OP said is true. But the way he's overly complementing himself is just nonsense

Here

I'll also call on our brothers in the Diaspora to come home and pick wife this December. Bride price is now very affordable, especially if you go to places like calabar

Jeweltz:
I pity women that still put their trust in Nigerian men. Most of them are time waster, terrible liars and heartbreakers. That's where they are good at

This one has had her heart shattered and disappointed.

The rise of husbandless women is constituting worry, especially for me. I can't just sit here and be watching our queens and princess getting swindled at Shiloh. Another December is here and Rebecca and Janet are planning to visit Shiloh again. There's also unemployment in the country which has make majority of abled bodied men to be single and focus on their career. Is this how we'll be looking and nobody is talking about it.

In your opinion, what do you think we can do to curtail this


NB: I'll also call on our brothers in the Diaspora to come home and pick wife this December. Bride price is now very affordable, especially if you go to places like calabar

SlyFoxx4Life:


So you can reply this guy that does nothing but troll you but won’t even dignify me, your biggest fan and supporter on here, with a response?

You’re not being fair but it’s all good sha. Hope you having a wonderful day?

Because she sees you for what you are; asslicker. You're asslicking a woman on a public forum and embarrassing yourself.

1stGenAmerican:


No. These are planes used in an Airshow, not the military. I’m sorry that you don’t know the difference.

Whether it's a plane use for Airshow or one use to carry ammunition, aren't they supposed to be designed to minimize such destruction?

Most of your mate are out there crying to be blessed with a man, but you're busy thinking with your ass and playing games. Very soon, una go dey go church go disturb God, but won't remember he send you a man and you used your stupidity send him away

kkins25:
Let me advice you from a man's perspective; I see he is doing exactly the same thing i do. As a matter of fact, i can see that it is working.


You mean guys there are cautions of women who may be out to financially exploit them. In this case, i need to ask you,
1) How much impact does his finances have on you. If he were not as financially loaded, would you consider him? He might also see things from this angle, which may be hindering him from chasing after you? Or he could be... see below.

Wrong! You're talking of a financially stable guy who's DMs may be flooded with messages from women hoping to nest in his wealth like maggots after all they are fathered and mothered by "flies"

A confident man, with great job thinks like this "there are many fishes in the water."
So, I advice that you show interest first but subliminally. Be deliberate about the signals you send. When he steers at you, steer back, break it, look down, look back at him, break, act shy, brush your hair a little, smile(the type that makes you look beautiful). Feel the room with that awkward yet sexually tensed aura.

Come, why am i telling you this?


Of course! After watching lots of YouTube, you think he would come groveling at your feet? E na... Not when he's gat dough. He's probably searching for body language from you. I like that you've said below that you're making yourself scarce. Good move, but I can bet one testicle, he'd revenge when you finally say yes.


You're not serious . It's secondary school boys that run into DMs singing "i miss you" when they've not gotten assurance of having you. You're trying to play the game that he has the upper hand at. Na you go check WhatsApp 1 million times. My guy is probably watching world cup grinning. He knows what he's doing. That's his own game plan. Fall for it as most women do.

So did he. You won't die.

Call him. In fact, that's better than replying the message he sent. pick up the convo from there.

Lastly, wear bright colored cloths. Red is a great pick.. Not too heavy make up, that would make you seem desperate. Remember, you're trying to get his hormones to force him to loose his rational mind and shift to his emotional side..

Do not show any signs of Gold digging. I repeat, DO NOT SHOW ANY SIGNS OF GOLD DIGGING.

If OP is sensible, she'll follow this advise.

But come to look at it, do you think she can still find a man as she is? From the look of things, she's probably 35. This particular guy is gone. The guy might not reply his message as he probably gets busy watching world cup after work.

VeryWickedGoat:


WTF

You think she can still find a man.?

doggedfighter:
Sighs !






How come I didn't see this Walmart mass shooting on front page?

Who's hiding these things ?

Bad news about abroad will always be hidden from the front page. Bad news about nigeria us appreciated

The probability of you finding husband has reduce to zero now. With the look of things, you're probably close to 35. Instead of you to hold this one tight, you still decided to play hide and seek game. Your Nigerian counterpart and mate in Canada don't do like this. When a man messaged them, they respond quick.

The only advise I'll give is for you to call the guy. Explain your situation and let him know you regret what you did. From the look of things, he's a mature man and he'll understand and reconsider his stance. Men are scarce nowadays. Please hold tight the one God send to you. Don't go and be disturbing God at ministry of fire tabernacle by December. God has so many other business to attend to

ModestGal:
Share your reasons for not liking Canada

As for me, I love love Canada, its my dream home,my heaven. But many Nigerians living here do not like Canada and are usually complaining. In this post, I will highlight the reasons some Nigerians dislike living in Canada

1. Extroversion: Some people hate Canada because they are extroverts, quite understandable. There is less noises, people mind their businesses, you can't easily make friends with the opposite sex, (awon set,, bestie of life). Everyone is busy in Canada and thus extroverts do not really like it in here (They want people they will be wasting time together,lol). Extroverts derive their energy from being out meanwhile introverts derive their energy from being indoor, more like refilling a gas,one refills indoor, the other refills outdoor with friends. Alot of Nigerians are extroverts and thus, doesn't like their inability to go out and have fun in Canada

2. Canada is very cold and dark: Winter is very cold and lots of people don't like the cold weather. It also goes dark by 5:00PM which makes going out a little difficult . The coldness could lead to frostbites, a condition that can get the arm or legs forever destroyed

3. Mothers with kids: Another set of people that may not like living in Canada are mothers.

I drop my cap for mums with 2,3,4 children. It is a big job to raise children in this country. Cooking, cleaning, and going to work is not easy. In Nigeria, it is easy for you to drop your children with neighbors, have other children come play with your children and the children get occupied but here, none of that is possible.

There's no cousin, mother in law, they can spend the holiday with. You can't leave theem at home for 1sec, you can't tell a neighbor to hold their hands to school, you do all your work by yourself. I know you will think, "eehn what is there" Something is there sir/ma, during winter, you dress up for them, especially if they are below 5years old. This dressing up for them can take significant amounts of time,upto 30min per child, they will have to wear 10cloths because of the cold weather, bath them, wear socks for them etc and you will do thesame for yourself as well. This takes holy amount of time

Another reason is that most Nigerian mothers had 10maids in Nigeria..... That was a joke, but sincerely speaking,most Nigerians in Canada were doing well in Nigeria and thus, could afford maids, what I term slavery. And the maids work round the clock, but here in Canada, if you want maids, you will not only pay minimum wage but you also cannot belittle or talk to them anyhow. This makes their lazy asses to be frustrated. There is one aunty, I am praying her process should become successful,she has 3maids in Nigeria,she does absolutely nothing,but still complains she's stressed,lol. I can't wait for her to land in Canada, the suffer,she go suffer ehn.

3. Racism (Pronounced and Subtle): Racism makes some hates it here, structural barriers etc. 90% of racism in Canada is subtle, quiet, smiling which could seriously impact the of the victims
4. Bus system: The bus system is very slow, especially when you don't live in Toronto. In Nigeria, it is easy for you to pick up a bus and start moving, but here, you will have to wait in the cold weather to board a bus. This could delay your trip for upto 1hour. If you mistakenly miss a bus, then your journey is delayed for more hours.

5. Men: This is the part I love the most . In Nigeria, iphones, Cars, Jobs are what men use to entice females due to high unemployment rate in the country,many of our girls would fall for these things and agree to date them or sleep with them. But here in Canada, everyone has access to all these things, this is where equity comes in, a man has no advantage over a female, thus, females get jobs as much as men, and guess what, they can afford everything a man can afford.

Your "iphones" everyone has it, your "cars", everyone can afford one, your "designer wears", it is right in the store opposite their house, your beautiful "homes", every house is beautiful, you live in "Lekki, Banana island, Ikoyi" everywhere is developed and anyone can live anywhere, you are "well educated", school is free in Canada and you will even be paid while in school, tell me why the girls would stoop low to date you? Everyone is classy and can wear good cloths. This frustrates Nigerian men alot because they do not have access to their sexual escapedes with innocent girls anymore and might become depressed due to that

Nigerian men are sexually spoiled,and are preys to innocent girls with either bad education, parenting, religious doctrines that preaches favours, grace and thus when they meet predators, their subconscious would think, ooh, this is the grace and favor I have been praying for. In here, sleep with a girl who is not fully consensual and end your life in jail.

You can't practice all the rubbish you practice in Nigeria with girls here, sleeping with university students for grades, sleeping with under 18, or molesting females in your street, deceiving girls to sleep with them, luring a girl with money, all she has to do is report you.

In addition, many husbands in Nigeria cheats and not only go away with it but the society will still blame the innocent wife for her husband cheating, words like, you don't cook well for him, you don't give him enough sex bla bla bla but here, cheat and your wife would leave or start a divorce which could take a hit on men's mental health

You can't impregnate a lady and have them abort it, or abandon them, so many Nigerian males have a child somewhere that they will never take care of, but here, like it or leave it, you will pay for 18 good years.

This girl is bored and lonely in Canada. Nigerian girls once they get to Canada feel they've made it. Since now they're in the world rule by women in disguise of men. They can now work and earn, so Men can no longer control what they feel and how they act.

But mind you, what this girl write here is mere rubbish. Women have it the worse in Canada as no man is giving them attention. Men can still go to Nigeria and get married. But women can not do this because they're not wired to help a man. You'll see them opening vlog here and there cuz of boredom. But this one's here telling us how men are having it worse.

Aside from sex and babies, what do you think men want from women? Attention?? Lol

Helpout12345:
Can you rest please ?

A couple days ago, you were asking about your chances with a lady you are considering going to meet in Canada.

Today, you are everywhere here spamming and lamenting why Nigeria is better than U.S., Canada etc.

We have heard you. Stay in Nigeria and leave other people that want to travel alone.

It's a personal race. No one is forcing you to travel.

This your rants here is becoming a nuisance.

Ok

Pierocash:
this is another link. This is for 2022


https://www.gunviolencearchive.org/

Lol. Who doesn't know gun violence happen in the US every week? Haba. I was only catching cruise with my comment on your post

Pierocash:
that is a link below,go through and stop arguing blindly. This kids always defend other countries even with glaring evidences. But quick to curse Nigeria even on a very small and tiny issue



https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2022/02/03/what-the-data-says-about-gun-deaths-in-the-u-s/

U obviously didn't read the screenshot �

abdoulng:
Good day, Please I am in need of help to buy food and medicine for stomach ulcers. Thanks and God bless you.

FCMB 3935481011

Everyone in Nigeria is hungry as we speak
According to statistics on nairaland,no be only u

SLOVFO:


Every single Nigerian? Where on earth did you get that wack statistics? US is a land of opportunities for those that are prepared. Over there you have the opportunity to be whatever you chose to be. Don't discourage people intending to migrate to the states in order to better their lives.

Yes. Especially gay and lesbian

EtinosaDLaw:


Hire a professional to do the heavy lifting for you this time, and please don't screw it up again. I know someone who had a similar issue, she had to opt for Poland after spending a huge sum. USA is a whole different ball game when it comes to visa issuance. Also, be very prayerful.

All these to travel to America?

What will he do if he wan go heaven?

timesuploaded:
Visa in exchange for depression in America. Every single Nigerian who traveled to America regretted it and console themselves with the rubbish news they read on Nairaland about Nigeria. All the money you saved to travel you won't save it for 15years working as a slave in America. Guy use that money take set up something before you go set your life backward another 10years

People don't die in abroad because they have a working system. God don't kill people there.

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God don't kill people in the abroad because they have a working system and everyone has access to basic health care for free. Free housings. Free electricity. Free food. Free everything

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Pierocash:
I was telling some morons here few days ago who always curse Nigeria and telling everyone to japa that life is not guaranteed in Nigeria, about mass shootings in America,of how America have recorded over 40k death due to mass shootings. But one of the i.diots was busy still cursing me and the country. Not even In terrorists infested north have Nigeria recorded 40k death this year.


Can you imagine,606th issue of mass shooting,yet same hypocrite America will be issuing travel and security advisory to its citizens about where not to travel to in Nigeria. Tell me where is even safe in USA?Same with UK with gang violence ,knifing and shooting.

It's a lie . People don't die in the abroad. They have a working system.

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USA is vast becoming a crime infested place for immigrant. But I trust my Nigerian people to conceal this. If what happened in the US last week happened in Nigeria, the whole Internet will be brimming hot by now with takes of how nigeria will soon collapse. News of mass shootings in the abroad will plague the Internet and you'll see Nigerian excusing such attrocities with "gun is their right". But if a road accident in Nigeria, you'll get tired of seeing curses being heaped heavily on Nigeria. Japa ambassadors let us realized how there's zero crime in the abroad. But it's all the usual propaganda

I know this post will be deleted by the mods and I'll be blocked from viewing nairaland. But had it been I shared a bad news about nigeria, everyone will celebrate it and it'll be taken to the FP

blackboy:
It is our leaders we blame.

We love Nigeria but the system it is run we dislike.

You are complaining about the USA gun crime . There is statistics but here no or fake stats.
Most crime cases are solved but here if a crime case is solved celebrate. If justice is served thank God.
This bandits attrocities is a big shame and cannot happen in Ghana not to talk of USA.

Nigerian leaders give us reason to complain and we should for a better Nigeria. The day we keep quiet then Nigeria will never be better

In my opinion, bad news about nigeria circulate more than other countries. Nigerians are naturally loud. Other countries cover their shames except Nigeria. So, crime is easily exposed in Nigeria

thesicilian:
The reason I'd rather remain in Nigeria than immigrate to the USA. I'll gladly accept visa from almost every other country than the USA.

But then your topic (screenshot of how much I was able to save this year in Canada) doesn't match the content (mass shootings in USA).

Nigerians won't read if the topic isn't written that way . They only want to hear bad news about nigeria and good news about their heaven abroad

Na lie. People don't die in the abroad. They have a functional system