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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Fresh Nigeria Immigration Recruitment 2015 by Ozilla(m): 6:36pm On Feb 25, 2015
AlPeter:
i am on the website but vacancy section is not opening i have been clicking on apply now since
same tin hapenin to me, hv bn clicking on apply now button but is not responding. ....please can anybdy verify it, using Mozilla n explorer on Windows 7
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Fresh Nigeria Immigration Recruitment 2015 by Ozilla(m): 6:35pm On Feb 25, 2015
AlPeter:
i am on the website but vacancy section is not opening i have been clicking on apply now since
Health / Re: Top-7 Crazy Things That Happen While You Sleep by Ozilla(m): 12:40pm On Dec 21, 2014
wat of pple dat laff during sleep,
pple attending general meetin n reunion in covens in sleep,
pple kickin dia spouse on bed lik torres wen sleepin, wat do u call dose?

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Romance / Re: 10 Early Signs That You're In An Abusive Relationship by Ozilla(m): 7:04am On Nov 26, 2014
Jst an opinion anyways.....
Romance / 10 Early Signs That You're In An Abusive Relationship by Ozilla(m): 7:03am On Nov 26, 2014
Love is blind – especially when you’re head over
heels. But real danger could be lurking behind the
flowers.
Abuse comes in many forms (emotional, sexual and
physical). For an abuser, relationships are about
control and possession and jealousy, but never love.
You may be able to escape and spare yourself a
broken heart and a black eye if you look out for
the following warning signs:
Too much, too soon
You’ve known the guy for less than a few weeks
and he is starting to talk about moving in
together, or marriage, or about kids. You feel
flattered, but pressurised, and he keeps pushing.
If he’s pushing for commitment long before you’re
ready to do anything of the kind, this guy is
mightily insecure and is looking to formalise your
relationship to give him a sense of worth and
accomplishment and ownership over you. For him,
this is not about your happiness
Heart-lung machine
He wants to be with you all the time, and if you
want to spend some time with your friends, he tags
along whether he is invited or not.
He plans your weekends, your evenings and springs
surprises on you. But he never really asks what you
want to do.
You start to feel a bit claustrophobic, even though
the attention is initially flattering. You start to
get the feeling that his whole life is about this
relationship.
Gifts galore
He showers you with gifts – some of them huge
and expensive and inappropriately large. This
makes you feel uneasy. He is doing this to create a
sense of obligation in you.
It’s difficult to say no to someone who is so
generous to you. The odd bunch of flowers is fine,
but jewellery and designer items are inappropriate
at the beginning of a relationship.
Oh, it’s you
He shows up at your work constantly and comes to
your home uninvited on a constant basis. This is a
dangerous sign, as these could be the beginning
stages of stalking behaviour.
It’s not so much that he wants to see you – he’s
checking up on you.
Telephone terrorist
He phones constantly (in fact, he probably phoned
you the first time the very day after he met you)
and sends text messages all the time. This is a
preamble to possible future controlling/stalking
behaviour. He gets agitated when he can’t get hold
of you.
Your friends/family express reservations
More than one friend tells you to take it slowly.
They can’t quite put their finger on it, but
something about this guy bothers them. They
might even find him a little creepy, but are too
polite to say so.
Temper, temper
He has road rage attacks, and is aggressive to
people who do not do exactly as he wants them to.
He feels he is right about everything and things
that go wrong are always someone else’s fault.
This guy has serious ego and control issues and is
paranoid. He breaks things. The message behind
this is clear: this is what happens when I don’t get
what I want, and you could be next.
He has few long-term friends
His friendships all seem relatively recent. He
fights with everyone and they stop being his
friends. Once or twice, OK, but all the time? He will
be fighting with you next. That’s a promise.
He is also quite secretive about his own life,
friends, family and connections and says only
nasty things about his exes if he speaks about
them at all. This guy has a history he doesn’t want
you to find out about.
He isolates you
He makes it uncomfortable for friends or family
to visit, and starts isolating you by criticising
everyone you know, or telling you they are not good
for you. This is done very subtly, and is often
noticed by others before you pick up on it. He also
starts belittling you in front of others.
Jealousy makes you nasty
He watches your every move and starts accusing
you of flirting with other men, or cheating on him.
He starts to try and exercise control over what you
wear, how you do your hair, where you go and with
whom. If you don’t comply he will start to insult
you and possibly even start calling you names.
Get out, and get out fast. It gets more and more
difficult the longer you stay. And no, nothing you
do is going to change or placate this guy. He
doesn’t want to be placated. Don’t even try. Just
run.
Health / Re: Johesu Strike: Why The Public Silence? by Ozilla(m): 10:19am On Nov 24, 2014
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Travel / Re: Colombia Places Travel Ban On Nigeria, 4 Other African Nations because of Ebola by Ozilla(m): 9:16am On Oct 17, 2014
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TV/Movies / Re: My Experience Of "Half Of A Yellow Sun" At The Cinema by Ozilla(m): 11:56am On Aug 04, 2014
wil comment later, on my way to film hse surulere nw
Phones / Re: Instagram Users Thread-Let's connect by Ozilla(m): 4:45pm On Jan 03, 2014
@irongate_j
followin bak jst b4 u culd tink of hittin follow button.....winks***.

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