DCmaverick: Good day guys, without wasting much of ur time i want u guys to advice me on this. I have a girlfriend and we have been dating for a year nw and she is a virgin,and i also don't want to disvirgin her now until i marry her. But nw she is Insisting On Me to do it with her{Disvirgin her} nw, which i don't want to until we get Married.
So Guys Please Advice Me On This.
Should I Disvirgin Her Now That She is Asking For it or Should I Wait Until We Get Married??
ReverseIlamina: So Me and this girl have been friends last year on the Same Campus though we kept it lowkey. My friend noticed the girl on campus one day and they proceeded to talking stage.
My friend showed me the girl and I told him we were just friends I gave him the go ahead. But actually I was interested in the girl but I wanted to study her before making any move.
So Fastfoward, they dated for a month and broke up. He said he wasn't interested anymore and I could go for her actually. I'm now close to the girl. I had to let my friend know about it. He said he wasn't bothered but went behind my back and told my other friends what happened.
She was born on the 13th Of July 1948 to the Adeyokunnu family. She got married to Pastor Enoch Adejare Adeboye, General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God. She's blessed with three sons and a daughter who are all Pastors and happily married.
Happy birthday mother in Israel May God continue to bless and keep you in Jesus name Amen
The bible often uses the metaphor of fruit to describe the produce of our lives. Fruit can be either good or bad,(matt 7:18 ; Luke 6:43) Romans 7:5 says, " for when we were in the realm of the flesh... We bore fruit for death" A fruitful Christian's will produce better results, the fruit of the righteous is a tree of life.(proveb 11:30.
Fruit is the direct result of the whatever control our hearts (Matt 15:19) The Fruit of a life not surrendered to Jesus include 1. Sexual immorality 2.impurity and debau6 3. idolatry and witchcraft 4. Hetred, discord 5. Jealousy,fit of rage and many more more evil act. (Gal 5:19-20) In contrast, the "Fruit of the spirit of God" Love,Joy, peace, patience, Kindness, Goodness, Faithfulness, Gentleness, and self control.(Gal.5:22-23. God the father is the gardener (John 15:11) and he desire us to be fruitful. Jesus said "I am the Vine you're the branches if you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit, apart from me you can not do anything".( John 15:5) As branches cling to the vine we cling to Christ, drawing our very life from him. The goal is "much fruit" as Christ uses us to bring about blessed celestial results in a broken and fallen world. When we have committed ourselves to Christ and live to please him,the natural results is behavioral choices that look like him. He was clear that true followers of Christ will be recognized by Thier fruit, "Do people pick grapes from thornbushes or fig tree from thistle? Likewise every good tree cannot bear bad fruit,every tree that doesn't bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire thus by Thier fruit you shall know them.( Matt 7:16-20) There are many ways Christians can be fruitful. True fruitfulness begins in the heart with the fruit of the spirit. That inner fruit affects outward actions, our word's and our activities will glorify the lord, and God's will is accomplished. God's desire is to transform us into the image of Christ (Romans 8:29) and makes us as fruitful as he was in our allegiance to him,we want to be characterized by good works (Ephesians 2:10, Titus 2:7, Colo 1:10) Humanity and forgiveness we want to always be ready to "give an account for the hope that is within you.(1peter 3:15) we desire to be the good soil "Jesus spoke about in the parable of the sower in (matt 13: 3-9. The result of the spiritual fruitfulness is that God is glorified,we grow and others come to know Christ-- this is the ultimate fruitfulness for a child of God. ( Matt 5:16, Act 20:26-27, Mark 16:15.
Dashlish12: Im sorry if some of my words will be fill with typo or seem incohehent and i care less if this is the right thread to share this; the thing is this might be my last form of communicating on planet earth; i use to be what most peepz pray for as a good man, i use to be generous and all few years ago but how i found myself in this state of living from hand to mouth amuse me; so much in debt that i cant get out; i want to offer a big apology to friends,family and foes alike; im sorry i just cant push it further; im ending it all; hopefully God will forgive me
talk to someone who is compassionate and also a good listener suicide is never an option
if you can't handle someone else child kindly let them be. I'm sure most of them won't allow Thier children stay with even their relatives because of the mindset they have towards other people's children.
U are not well..u are part of the problems against real women ... thats how u all supported Amber Heard just cos she's a woman , thereby destroying women that are actually facing real problems ... justice kee u there
Filmmaker and husband of actress, Chacha Eke, Austin Faani has finally spoken out on his alleged marital crisis, Reports.
Reported that Chacha Eke shocked her numerous fans when she announced via on her verified Instagram page that she had left her husband. The actress cited numerous reasons she left, which included abuse.
Detailing why she left her marriage, Chacha Eke said she would quit while she was still alive than leave as a corpse. She also claimed she didn’t want to die or go inexplicably missing.
Speaking further on her separation, Chacha Eke claimed she had released some evidence such as videos, voice notes, and photos to the police force, her lawyers and the media in case things went south. Read more here.
Hours after her post, Austin Faani took to his Instagram page to refute her claims of domestic violence.
He affirmed that he isn’t a violent person as he detest violence in any form.
He reiterated that he has never raised his hands on any woman in his life including his wife.
The father of four noted how everyone who are close to the case know the truth, which he wouldn’t divulge.
Austin Faani added that the person who started the talk will in due time continue to talk.
“I am not a violent person. Personally, I detest violence in any form. I have never raised any hand in any woman in my life including my wife. Everyone close to this case knows the absolute truth and it is not in my place to divulge it, the one person who started the talk will in due time continue to talk. Let light lead”.
See His Reaction As Obtained By Below:
was he supposed to say the truth. You better run for your life I don't want to hear "Justice for Chacha Eke.
123guys: Nairalanders I need advice. I've been dating this girl for more than a year. But I have couple of challenges:
1) She doesn't like to visit me except for a few times. She claims to be a virgin and says I might be tempted. That I need to pay her bride price before we can do all those. At times I wonder if there's something she's hiding.
2) Each time I try to break up, she sheds tears and involves her family members sometimes to beg me.
3) She is a prayerful type (she has MFM background). So, oftentimes she involves me in fasting.
4) She swings mood easily when things are not going on well. This part is really frustrating because she takes everything as fight when this happens. Infact, she hardly takes advice.
I love her but I'm not sure how to deal with those bad sides. Please I need help. I need advice.
PavillionEnergy: The heading sounds funny and I trust Nairalanders to take a swipe at me. But this has been disturbing me and I want you guys to help me look into this matter.
In 2021, I came across a young lady. She is beautiful and she has the right curves in appropriate dimensions. I liked her instantly. We exchanged contacts and we started talking.
I was very busy with work and we spoke like twice in a week though I used to see her briefly whenever she visits my Uncle's shop. How much? comrade!!
I later noticed this girl usually hangs out with a lot of guys. All these boys who wear stockings, carry cross-bags, lock their hairs and wear 'oroma' earpods. She is constantly on TikTok and all my 'crush' for her has disappeared.
In April this year, I received a call from her and she told me she went to Abuja for a programme. She said she was stranded and needed some funds to sort out something.
I wired her the money and I relocated from the town in May. I waited till June and she never called to dicsuss the money. I started calling her two weeks ago and she wouldn't pick my calls. After series of unanswered calls, she picked and told me to send my account details.
She did not send the money and has not returned my calls since then.
KiNg0G: I lived with my father's brother for a long time. he didn't work one day, all he does in the morning was to wash his mouth, have his bath then have his meal, awaiting his wife to come back from her trade in the market.. Then off she went to prepare another meal.. Staying With them was hell for me because sometimes there was hardly food in the house but my uncle hardly cares about that, it is either he is in one joint with his friends on a sunny day or he is at home listening to radio stations. His wife was the provider and never for once did she insult him...
This same character has gotten into me deeply, I can't help myself. I can't do thing's for myself.
My girlfriend cohabiting with me is the one providing almost everything we need all I do is to give her my G-15 in the evening. I'm always at home 24/7. She's never complained, I love it, for me to get a job and be answering Sir sir to people, I can't.
Stay fresh, bath, eat and sleep is the order of the day.
Few women are like this, just the other day she asked me to come pay her bride price before the year ends, I asked her where would I see the money... baby girl told me not worry that something huge is coming..
I love this freedom, but sometimes I get a mixed feelings of been a liability, ants feeding on sugars. Anyway I'm enjoying myself quite well.
The real thing is my masculinity as the head of the house still intact.
Continue!! You will still be the one to create another topic "Please help my wife wants to throw me out of the house" ishe.
Omicron007: The Boiling Ring(Heater) is a very common household electrical appliance in Nigeria. It can be adapted for various uses like boiling water and cooking light meals.
The Heater has caused a lot of disasters and even claimed lives in homes due to improper usage.
Back then in School, I and my roommates used this heater to prepare roasted chicken. When we kill a chicken, we remove the feathers and all the intestines and other necessary 'removables'.
We then insert the heater through the orifice created at the anus region and plug the heater. After some minutes, the chicken becomes fully roasted. We then order some Budweiser Beer to use and wash it down. Share your experience(s) using this electrical appliance.
Hmmm this thing will shoke you and take you to an unknown destination I remember once my mom has asked me to check if the water is hot, innocent me I used stainless cup to fetch the water Omo!!!! Na inside parlour I later see myself sha.
Born2winnx: Hello all My girlfriend wants me to wear same native attire to her niece wedding on Friday. I thought she was joking when she suggested it last week, because I don't even plan on going due to my busy schedule. But to my surprise she's just came to my house with some yards of the material she bought with her money.
Though I appreciate her good gestures, but I don't think it's right.. We are not married. What will her people say when dey see me with her like that because her father, mother, brothers and sisters will be there, not talking about her extended families.
I had to confide with a friend and he told me blantly that it is a set up, I should abort. That he had witness a similar case in a party when a guy was behaving as if he had paid his girlfriend bride price...what happened was the guy didn't leave the way he came. I won't want that to happen to me but before I decide I like to hear from you all.
relationship is 3months I don't know her family house, talkless to know who born her.. not yet ready to.
So, Right now I'm not in school I wrote my waec four years ago hoping to further myself into a higher institution but TBH it has not been easy for me. Right now I want to learn any skill or trade so I was thinking either fashion designing which is tailoring but the rate at which everyone is in to it I feel discouraged already I thought about going to a catering school but I don't think I can afford it. though I'm working, but I'm not going to do it forever I need another source of income which will be my own so I won't be depending on anyone for Money which I find uneasy to ask for help sometimes infact all the time so what do you think? Thanks for reading.
Sageez: Hey Nlers. Forgive the length of this post.
I was invited to join a research agency (KMC Insight) to carry out a mapping exercise for Company xyz. We were asked to map 25 outlets daily for a period of 40days and the pay was agreed to be 90k. I was happy when I got the job. I have been jobless since I returned from service and the invite to me was a blessing, So I though.
Starting the contract, I discovered it wasn't as easy as I thought. The job was very stressful. We almost trecked the whole of Port hacourt. I thought of quiting at a point but was encouraged by friends to continue.
3 weeks into the contract, it was discovered my colleague and I have covered the whole of Obio/Akpo lga and Port Harcourt so our supervisor asked us to stop that the contract has ended so we should submit our devices and wait for our pay.
We did waited for about 2weeks without hearing from the CEO so was asked him on our platform. Surprisingly, Mr Kelechi, our CEO told us that the contract hasn't ended. He promised to get back to us and we all agreed.
Some weeks later, no update from Mr. Kelechi so we dragged him on our platform only for him to tell us that the contract is officially over. Like what! So if we hadn't dragged him, he wouldn't have told us about the contract ending.
Way forward, Kelechi asked us to submit our devices so that Company xyz can pay us. Some 9f us complied while some refused because of the way we were been treated. After much pleading, those holding the devices agreed and returned theirs.
After the submission, Mr. Kelechi went mute on us. We have begged and done everything we can for him to pay us but oga refused.
Please you guys should help us beg this man to pay us. Below are screenshot of the chats from our platform .
The owners of these swimming pools just decided to be unique and different, thereby changing the floor and side tiles of their pools from the regular blue tile to black and red thereby giving them their colours respectively
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or Should I Wait Until We Get Married?? 
. I'm I wrong?