@OP, first thing first, change that user name! It in no way depict u, and what u hv done. Wheeew!*that out of my system* now to ur problem, u shldnt hv moved into a relationship face without meeting one on one. And yes U a bad person. Guilt shld continue eating u up, and I mean it literarily.

Well, I hv been enlightened by the various posts. On a lighter note, "I made front page" new on NL *winks*

What has the first lady got to do with commissioning of a Naval war ship. If the President can't make it, what happened to his Vice president. OR is there somthing am missind.

Met her in her at her uncles house where I was a tenant (student). Told her Causin that am gonna marry ur causin, 5yrs down the line, am going for introduction by September. Yes would be proud to narate same at our wedding.

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@ OP, from ur last post, I think u hv decided to go back already. And I also blv u shld, was in the same situation once, left her for A year, after dating for like 3yrs. Now we back and planing our weding. That year gave me a clearer picture of things, hw much I valued her and what I was going to miss by my action. Wish u luck.


Oh congrats! I wish you the bestest. Happy married life in advance. . .
Thanx, *smiles*

@ OP, from ur last post, I think u hv decided to go back already. And I also blv u shld, was in the same situation once, left her for A year, after dating for like 3yrs. Now we back and planing our weding. That year gave me a clearer picture of things, hw much I valued her and what I was going to miss by my action. Wish u luck.

Hv read lots abt the problem of coming home to marry a naija woman. Thot the yankee guys hv found a way around this rubbish alimony thing. Called Prenuptual agreement. Mi think our guys shld borrow a leaf from them. Someone pls correct me if am wrong.

Its simple, tell her to end all communication with him. Remember Okafors law. She is free to talk to anybody else except that mora*u*ker.

Fani Kayode is a fooooool. Nigeria! Ha! I weep for u. Can u imagine this man still able to talk, imagine coming out to say he is on the side of the masses during the subsidy row. Make I'm shut up abeg.

@OP, am new on Nland, but from threads I hv read u hv always been proud of ur relationship, my BF this, my BF that, And I liked u for that. Now this twist! Ur so called friend has crossed the line, so the relationship is gone the earlier u accept that fact the better. He is no longer a friend, so treat the way u will treat other toasters. One more info abt u knwn sha, a Virgin realy? Be firm abt the decision u knw u must take.

@op, Ur situation is not enviable at all, and that's the one of the reasons I don't support rushing into anoda relationship after the one that ended the way urs did. Personaly wen I broke up with my girl stayed off relationship for like a year, it gave me a clearer pic, and made me appreciate what I had, and went back begging after 1 or 2 girls showing me peppe. What am trying to say is if u had taken some time off dating u might not be in this situation u find urself. But with this new fiance in the pic, just think properly b4 deciding, best of luck bro

@op, ur upbringing has got nothing to do with all that has happened to u, at least not the last one u described. U made a mistake by been the one going to visit the guy. And since u took the decision u shld hv knwn what the cost is (givin him to nack). Anyways, that is not to say the boy isn't a fool. He is one with a capital F.if he wasn't he shld hv knwn that u were probably staying the weekend and there was time to nack ur Akpako.sha u get luck he showed himself early to ur advantage, Just move on urs will come.

Hv always wanted mi partner to be a classroom teacher for 2 reasons. She will hv time for me and my kids, at least she will get home early b4 I do. And finaly she would earn lower than I do (call it African male ego or chauvnism if u like). What ya ladies think *winks*

1. No notable muslim cleric,or politician has come out to denounce these act by boko haram.

2. where are the northan leaders that comment on wrong policies of Jonathan, like Atiku, Buhari, IBB. have they condemnd these acts.

3. I stay in the north, been a southerner. this ppl are playing a script, and these are the questions they want us to be asking. did we make a mistake by electing Jonathan?

4.by next election we will all be afraid to vote a southerner because we want peace, we are always afraid of violence. you guys needed to see how this ppl took this Buhari s election,then u will understand.

that man called Jonathan is fool. hw can a president make such statment. please compare with his NSA s,(Azazi) statment. http://www.thenationonlineng.net/2011/index.php/news/31088-bomb-thrown-from-moving-vehicle-says-azazi.html. he shld learne hw to talk abeg.

@lola.luv, wow! Pure work of art. No bleeping and u still able to capture nairaland audience. More ink to ur pen.

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@Pedestal
You took that HIV talk right out of my mouth! Buh the culture thingy isn't happening anymore, sha. That was way back in the olden days!

OP, Benue and Akwa Ibom are the states dragging highest number of HIV/AIDS prevalence. If you like, continue running up and down, opening your worm for BJ everywhere.  


**QUICKLY CANCELS TICKET TO BENUE AND REBOOKS IT TO HOLLAND**
Falls from the Mango tree.@ Lola, so that confirms the cultural thing, so extrapolating, its not too far to say they are promiscous. Imagine it been normal to offer ur wife to anoda to bleep! God abeg oh

Benue has the highest prevelence rate of HIV, check Nigerian stat for Hiv. That says a lot sha. And I here that there is a custom there where a man offers his wife to his Visitor, Duno if it is still practised presently.

@lola, nice story,keep it up. @freecocoe and mashnino, u not the only guys that understand Hausa on this forum, kunji abu na fada, @mushnino, ka na nima mata muslumi ne, freecocoe, combination na roots na ki super ne, Zaria da nyamiri. Thumbs up to ur parents.

Just walk away, such ppl can't chang, and u can't change them either.from the look of it u can't stand it. So walk