GEEBITE:
A teller of course is not a banker,neither is HR staff,Fincon,Audit,Internal control or Admin services staff.They are all routine jobs so dont let the lad feel worse. He probably worked in Zenith bank where University graduates are deployed as tellers too and they weren't contract staff.
The term banker in western world is actually meant for treasury/trading guys and investment banking staff.I got the rude shock when I got a placement in Deustche Bank then. I was told I will be in a support team(AML/Compliance) as I haven't got banking experience going through my resume.I retorted I have done 7 years already high flying in departments like Trops,Fincon etc Those had no meaning to them really
It was quite a bitter pill.

Thank you for this. You are a thoroughbred professional.

@pocohantas, read and assimilate this post and stop being rash. Empty vessels always make the most noise.

Ariza:
Ahhhhhhhhh! ... You better drop your 5 million naira now so that aunty Petesi can drop her 10 million.

Hain! This quarantine is already affecting people oooo, now they are beginning to see 10 million as 10 thousand.... Effect of counting the ceiling too much.

Another poor and stupid woman. Nairaland is not only for poor and stupid people like you and poco. With a PhD, loving husband and grown up children, and a portfolio as an executive director of a bank I live the kind of life you can only live in your dreams. You can go and kill yourself. Asslicker.

pocohantas:
These dudes can always form deep on the most generic issues in the most trivial section.

Alfa male: T or D

Unsuspecting lady: T

Alfa male: I strongly believe this Corona virus was started due to the activities of feminists and a simp dude. If not for patrilineal societies, we would have recorded more death. What do you think my lil one?


Me:

Do not allow bitterness to kill you. It is foolishness to think that those who find pleasure in commenting only on the romance section of this forum have no deep knowledge in other areas of life. Most of us can see through your emptiness, even with all your show off. And, stop giving people faux impression that you a professional bank staff, because you are not. You have not even worked with any bank. A professional bank staff will not make some simple mistakes I have seen you make in most of your quack analysis everywhere in this forum. Anyone who has interest in clout chasing like you can always use google to gain little knowledge on any topic under discussion, like you always do, and use same to give a lame opinion like you do in any area of interest. In your every second bid to show off and act like you are more intelligent than every other person, you keep exposing your dumbness.

The fact that you take pleasure in using your almost poor offline life to chase clout in this forum while others who are doing better than you chose otherwise, does not make you better than everyone.

Meanwhile, since you are better than everyone, why not you and I help those in need since this coronavirus has made things hard for most people. I challenge you here, if you can donate a minimum of 5,000,000 (five million) naira to the Nairaland charity between now and the next 2 hours, I will double the amount and donate immediately. Let us help the needy in Nairaland.

Jaubdu:
. Funny, i just wish you know her in person. Well she has my heart in her hand and that because she worth it( her sense of judgement and IQ, way she carry herself and healthy conversation). Can your boyfriend gives you all his heart?

I wonder what a happily married woman like me would need a boyfriend for. Stop deceiving yourselves, that's all.

funmisticqueen2:
you are really small minded. Better get out and focus on your deadbeat life instead of hating your betters.

Don't choke on your malice on the way out.

I wonder how you can best a happily married woman like me with grown up children, a PhD holder, and a bank executive director.

Jaubdu:
. Having an intelligent conversation with her,is the real deal. Only hungry mofo go after �

Keep lying and deceiving yourself. Are you no longer funmisticqueen2 toy boy? The one she ordered to buy her a refrigerator on the last Valentine's day and you sheepishly do, even though it was against your wish. Of course, she bragged about having you satisfied her selfish wish against your freewill and wish for a relationship that was about a month old then. Don't you have relatives who can give you good advice?

The same Fumi who is known all over Nairaland for her open declaration that it is money that can make her date a man, respect him and stay happy with him. Two of you are deceiving yourselves. Maybe you indirectly called her a mofo here since she is the type after money.

You keep making claim of being an alpha male off Nairaland, yet anyone with little sense can see that you are just a toy in Fumi's hands. Or, are you cooking something to serve her later in the relationship?

NextD18:
99.846% of Nigerian ladies don't have strong connection and good relationship with their mothers, reason they hate and detest mother inlaws so much, especially if their man is so close to his mother.

So calm down and keep pushing positively, you are not the only lady that isn't in good relationship with her mother.

You skipped your common sense medicine again today, very bad.

Kelvin30286063:

I believe if you read the comments you will see that I've answered that already.

Seen, no vex.

elektra:
You, are you supporting them?
You did not mention how often you call your siblings. The sister you have not spoken to in 3 months, why did you wait 3 months before calling her?

Good questions. Poster come and answer the questions.

healthserve:
What a brilliant article. I love the wya you developed the synopsis from the beginning till somewhere in the middle. Nice work. Beautiful writing skill

You are like rainbow, a man with seven colours. One minute you are with the MGTOW members, the next minute you act like you are not with them. Are you a MGTOW member or not?

Acidosis:


As far as I'm concerned bro, there are no single men of age 35 years and above. You may want to ask my definition of single to ascertain my level of reasoning. Those I consider to be single are people without any form of attachments whatsoever with the opposite sex. You can't be sleeping with someone, got one stubborn ex on your neck, or one form of bestie whom you discuss intimate stuff with, and tell me you're SINGLE. I don't know a single man of that age by my own definition.

stop typing nonsense everywhere

Ineedtoheal:

Everyone has a weakness, some even have more than one. including you that claims to be smart. The fact that I am weak in one area doesn't make me dumb. I know I will break free from it so the fact I tried to fight for love doesn't make me foolish.

do not mind the seven color rainbow girl called poco.hantas, the stories of her weaknesses are everywhere but here she is acting like a smart and hard woman and abusing you, she is not better than you. Just leave the relationship, you will find a better man in the future

makydebbie:

You're a "new" nlder married with children but you've stalked her to the point where you know her clients. Me wey dey follow am no even know these monikers.
You try sha.

Both of you are the same. Birds of a feather always flock together. Follow Follow spoiled nuisance.

crackkhaus:

So delusional...
I've always been aware of you and your numerous scandals going back years...I just never really paid attention.

But if my memory serves me well, are you not the same person some guy came on NL a few years ago to run-down about how you cheated on him and bla bla bla? Can't even recall a lot of the stuff.

Now I don't know what on God's earth makes you think I would want to be associated with someone so scandalous.
Maybe if I was interested in boinking your pum-pum, it would be a different story but as it is like this, I never even dey sure whether your mental health dey alright.

The poco girl has mental issue. Let me call some of her recent targets:

Nikiballerz
Kantebets
Papanwamaikpe
Alexandre7
Plead

Come and see your client.

pocohantas:


I am only interested in the rich ones (in diaspora). The rest I dash to Peeress and Zmpp. “Good girls“ are hardly ever fortunate anyway.

I understand you babe.

I am a happily married woman and my eldest child may even senior you. I understand the reason why you always think that any woman who calls you out for your hypocrisy does so for a personal interest, but everyone is not like you my child. Most of us are not looking for husbands. Of course, good girls are always fortunate, so stop deceiving the younger ones. It is the end that always justify the means.

Only a foolish man or a man who God wants to punish will take you for a wife, especially if you do not change for good,

pocohantas:


Abia men are fair.

Anambra men are dangerously loyal to their mothers, family and culture.

I am not a fan of stereotypes, but some have element of truth in them. No matter how hurt something like Peeress gets.

Of course since you are from Abia state and possibly a man in your life is from Abia state too, Abia men would be fair in your opinion for now while Anambra men and men from other Igbo states would be unfair in your opinion. The usual you. When a situation favors you you become pro man in your life comes first before family, but when it does not favor you you start your usual all men are scum and no man can come first before your family. Such a hypocritical thing.

pocohantas:


Especially the Igbo ones,
Especially the ones from Anambra. Izzôu no vex o.

They are ready to kick you out of the house because of their family. Naija men have serious issues balancing their nuclear and extended family. The kinda questions and comments that comes out of their mouths, gives you a clear picture of their mindsets.

I have an only brother and he was showing these traits. His gfs didn’t like me and I always wondered why. Till the mumu opened his mouth to tell me he told his gf I will always come before any woman, because we grew and suffered together. I told him to face his babe o, make e no come dey disturb my own guy.

From the way you behave anyone who is sensible would know that you lack a strong father figure in your life. It does not matter whether your father is alive or not. You have a very poor family upbringing. Stop seeing the whole Igbo people through the point of view of your disorganized family. Your gimmick of using every little opportunity to bring others down to elevate yourself or attract attention to yourself is a very bad behavior.

Martinez39s:
Stop lying and exaggerating. I remember the thread you are talking about and you should go and read it again before saying nonsense. In a clash with Capensis (the failed philosopher and conspiracy theorist) on that thread, I said my father once fell into hard times and things were hard for my family. My mum did her best to support my father and it didn't take long for my father to get back on his feet and he did better than he ever did in his life. Unfortunately, he is now dead and everything he had is now in my mum's control and she runs his business. Prove me wrong.

I know you hate me for my redpill messages and will gladly want to see that I am not doing well in life but sorry to disappoint you, money is not my problem. Sorry that I don't fit into the poorly contrived stereotype of a broke frustrated man that hates women. I can never ever live a fake life or present myself to be something I am not, I am not childish like many on the internet. Good day.

I do not hold anything against you and I do not have any reason to wish you and your family bad. But truth remains what it is.

Of course, I know that your father is dead. Well, I know you and your family offline. Be a good boy.

Martinez39s:
Let me not say I doubt your story but as someone born into a very wealthy family, I can tell you that having 5.6 million naira doesn't mean you have arrived. Do not let anyone deceive you. If you like, start foolishly living big and don't cut your coat according to your size, you will end up broke in less than 18 months. My two cents.

Stop claiming what you are not. The same you who once said some years ago through your old moniker that life had never been easy for your family and that it got worse when your father lost the little job he was managing. And that but for your mother who was generous with the little she was earning that you and your siblings would had dropped out of high school or died of starvation since your relatives neither had nor were able to extend support from the little they had.

One of his partners in crime I know is still in this forum blowing big big grammar every time and travelling all over the world. The deadly billionaire gang.

Abfinest007:
the buhari that betrayed Nigerians is he a poor man

Don't mind him

DaBogu:
Uncle Shola
Thrice, life threw a curved ball at me. I was knocked into the pit and it took the raw resurrection power of God get me back on my feet. None of you "my husband must earn 400K a month" aunties shading me would have survived such tests. You would have divorced and ran away.

I read about a billionaire who lost everything multiple times but he fought back very fiercely to get back up there. Can u stand the tests of life and come out on the other end as an overcomer or you are just a coaster? Do u have any battle scars to show or you are just a sissy? Your success means absolutely nothing to me if you cannot show me your battle scars that you sustained on the way there. I want to learn from those battle scars you sustained. I want to know what you told God in the days of your tears and pain. Your buggatti means nothing to me.

Dear Young man, if you plan to go very far in life, don't bring a woman who cannot fight, into your life. If you are a fighter, you need another fighter beside you not a sissy woman who is afraid of the noise of battle.

I agree with you.

LordKO:
The kind of mentality most people have and the absurd things one reads on a forum like this most of the time are so repulsive.

I wonder how any sane person would say that a wife who conscientiously and loyally stayed at home and caters for the family (with or without offspring) doesn't have right to claim that she "helped build wealth in particular and the family in general" with her husband, just because he majorly contributed his own quota of the family success monetarily/materially.

It's an abomination to approach marriage, a sacred union, as commercial business.

OP

Your mother is entitled to at least half part of the family assets, especially if has been a submissive wife all this while. I don't want to hastily conclude that you've a small-minded/insane man as a father.

God bless you.