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Romance / Re: If You Were Her,what Would You Have Done??? by Phartymah112(f): 12:32pm On Jun 05, 2013
Monicasque: he left and never contacted her for years. She still held on and finally saw that she was waiting for something that might not even happen. She should marry the second guy. Who knows if the Doctor will lv again? anyway he should've known that the way he handled things was gambling as time waits for no man
yap.... Seeing to this
Romance / Re: If You Were Her,what Would You Have Done??? by Phartymah112(f): 12:30pm On Jun 05, 2013
olumaxi: I'l advise d 2nd dude to look elsewea..cos the marriage wil definitely end wit a divorce..cos its obvious ur sis truely lov d 1st guy
hmm,what i'd wanted,buh her parent's wahala dey... And the second guy is like he loves her too...... It won't be easy to cancel d wedding,D family has been spendin on d wedding so far
Romance / Re: If You Were Her,what Would You Have Done??? by Phartymah112(f): 12:11pm On Jun 05, 2013
tpia@:
She should go ahead with her wedding and let bygones be bygones.
you're on the track but it isn't easy.... She wishes all were nightmare
Romance / Re: If You Were Her,what Would You Have Done??? by Phartymah112(f): 12:08pm On Jun 05, 2013
mekzyjoe: Dis home movie script is too long ehh...I dnt like readin or watching nigeria movies op





Romance / Re: If You Were Her,what Would You Have Done??? by Phartymah112(f): 12:08pm On Jun 05, 2013
mekzyjoe: Dis home movie script is too long ehh...I dnt like readin or watching nigeria movies op





i know some of you won't believe it buh it wasn't an excerpt... . I,myself won't believe if someone else narrate it buh It is a reality...that even happen to someone very close to me (a frnd's sis) . Believe it or leave it
Romance / If You Were Her,what Would You Have Done??? by Phartymah112(f): 11:46am On Jun 05, 2013
This happen to a friend's sister and have got her consent before posting here.

She met a guy in 2006 at one of the Nigeria federal university,he was in 500 level studying medicine and she was in 200l studying Pharmacy when they met..... They were just friends for a month until he ask her out through email,he never tell her in person,he was like calling on phone or email (as sis told me o) ,leave a love letter for her,bring flowers(as he knows she loves 'em) etc. Then they started dating casually. He always show her how much he loves her as in he's so romantic.
She loves just everything about him,and he's her first love and he knew how much she care for him too. He's a kind of a shy guy who doesn't like to express his feelings and he's committed mostly to his career,so do my friend's sis. Because both of them were shy, friends used to tell sis that the relationship won't last longer but she usually shun everyone who's against the relationship... She believe he loves her too he's just too shy to express his feelings openly. The man's family spend most of their time in abroad though they usually come 2 Nigeria on purpose. But he's got only few friends who stay permanently in Nigeria

To cut the long story short, after he finished in the university,he told her he's going abroad to further his career and he told her to wait for him (he's 25 then and sis was 23).

Before,during and after her NYSC ,she never heard from him any longer and she becme so worried.... She tried all her best to even get to his friends in 9ja but all to no avail... At this point,she was no longer herself and loose her mind to the extent that she was rushed 2 the hospital one day. She was adopted for a months before she was discharged.

Family and friends try to persuade her to forget the guy and give chance to another dude but She said she believe he would come back someday. (hehe,i wonder sometimes, maybe sis is mad).

It gets to the stage that her parent want to disown her and vow that if she refuses to bring her future partner home this year,she shld forget she has parent.


SHe waited for that
man till age 29 and in april, she gives room to another brother and brt him home to her parent.

Now,everybody was relieved and the wedding date was picked.

As we're preparing for the wedding ( it'll hold on this month's ending),hmmmmmm,Nlanders,you won't believe me,THE FIRST DUDE (now a medical doc) RE-APPEAR last week with an excuse...( i won't like to share the excuse) who knows self,the man might be reading this.. His excuse really worth it though..

Sis still loves him but what's going to happen to the 2nd dude and the wedding?... Sis is now in state of confusion but her parent say she must marry the second man bcoz d wedding is about to hold...

If you were sis,what would you have done
Romance / Re: Things You Will Say/have Said Just To Get Into Someone's Pants by Phartymah112(f): 9:34am On Jun 05, 2013
dobodobo: I can swear with BIBLE OR QUA-RAN to get into someone panties
you are simply a f*ol. I pity you
Career / Re: Career Choice: All You Need To Know by Phartymah112(f): 10:11pm On Jun 04, 2013
Alright,thanks

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Romance / Re: What Is Your Own Definition Of Virginity? by Phartymah112(f): 8:20am On Jun 04, 2013
Atheist:-D:


I agree 100%. Virginity is more than just hymen being intact.
you also agree that insertion of finger can lead to loss of virginity?
Career / Re: Career Choice: All You Need To Know by Phartymah112(f): 10:04am On Jun 03, 2013
Hi. Pls,i would need you to figure this out.
My younger sister is so good at mathematics,physics and biology but so dumb at chemistry though she can cope in engineering but we don't want her to go for it simply coz almost everybody in our family is already or an engineer to be,so we don't it our family profession,and we're yet to decide what she should go for. We smtym think maybe medicine buh she can't stand blood.
We even say maybe biochemistry/microb/pharmacy buh she's nt dat good at chemistry
I'd say computer science but these days so many people are doing d course and its even sth she can learn for 3 months,so why wasting 4 year for studying it in uni.
Smtyms,i think statistics would be better...so,pls help me decide which course she should go for and pls,do consider the position it is holding or will b holding in the Nigeria labour market. Pls,GOD BLESS YOU
Romance / Re: What Is Your Own Definition Of Virginity? by Phartymah112(f): 7:18pm On Jun 02, 2013
toluleke: ARE YOU A VIRGIN IF NO...LET WE KEEPING OUR OWN REST...HOW OLD ARE YOU?wod answer ur post...22yrs downward should think of better future THAN BETTER SEX LIFE..
anyway,i won't blame. You lacks what they call /human brain/
Romance / Re: What Is Your Own Definition Of Virginity? by Phartymah112(f): 12:02pm On Jun 02, 2013
Moji12: A lady dat has never talked to/with a man b4









Asides her bro n dad undecided so u dont knw wat to do to make stop bn a virgin. Mtchew.
i can't stop laughing,why don't you re-read the post and make sense out of it... Madam,i am not asking of what to do to stop being a virgin.... There are diff. Level of virgins i.e experience one,So,stop running your mouth,hurting your fingers in typing and sit the fvck down.
Romance / Re: What Is Your Own Definition Of Virginity? by Phartymah112(f): 10:34am On Jun 02, 2013
Atheist:-D:


I will classify. Kissing is the barrier. Anything beyond that violates the right for a lady to call herself a virgin.

handling body parts
Orgasms
Mouth action
Rear action
Partial pene.tration

All the above are se.x. Just different forms of it. All violate a womans chastity.

A true virgin should not do any of these actions.

Imagine a woman telling me she is a virgin where as she has had rear action with up to 20 different men. Would I look at her as a chaste woman?
A kind of answer I'd expected.......thanks

What about a woman that has kissed passionately 20 different men
Romance / Re: What Is Your Own Definition Of Virginity? by Phartymah112(f): 10:28am On Jun 02, 2013
toluleke: shut up..if confused...u can go to your PASTOR,IMAM OR ASK YOUR PARENTS for advice..they are your GUIDANCE...stop CONFUSING PEOPLES MIND WITH YOUR SEXUAL TOTS
thanks ooo,but i see pastor and imam before typing down here. And moreover,everybody has got a different view,that's why i decided to bring it on,don't tell me that my post confuse people. Simply share your own view or shut up!
Romance / What Is Your Own Definition Of Virginity? by Phartymah112(f): 9:39am On Jun 02, 2013
There are varying understanding as to which kind of sexual activities result in loss of virginity.
Some people often have "intimate actions" such as kissing deeply,touching of genitals etc. and still consider they are virgins.

In my own view,i think one who hasn't had sexual intercourse is a virgin.... I'm getting confused.

Any religious view to this real virginity definition will be welcome.
Education / Re: University of Ilorin 2013/2014 Admission by Phartymah112(f): 5:54pm On Feb 19, 2013
#Following
Romance / Re: The Miss Valentine Challenge [shortlist] by Phartymah112(f): 8:04pm On Feb 09, 2013
sexkillz: I have received Phartymah112's entry via PM.
can i add to it?
Romance / Re: The Miss Valentine Challenge: Write A Love Letter by Phartymah112(f): 6:59pm On Feb 08, 2013
An arrow may fly through the air and leave no trace
Oh My Love! You come and leave a trace right in my heart

snails leave their slime behind them but you,oh darling! Never leave me behind you

you are my second shadow,without you,i can't be

you are my walking stick as a one legged woman

there are many room in my heart and all lead to your love.

you belong to me! Since i possess you,it appear like i have everything i wanted under the sun

I could burn the sea just because of you

Any moment i see you My heart move so fast like a pendulum in full swing.

I know,
I know,
I believe,
I believe,
that your love will make me soar through life
Romance / Re: The Miss Valentine Challenge: Write A Love Letter by Phartymah112(f): 6:56pm On Feb 08, 2013
Passing
Education / Re: University of Ilorin 2013/2014 Admission by Phartymah112(f): 10:45am On Feb 06, 2013
Hahyourmide:
Ehm, last year? I had m0re of English, few technical arithmetics|maths, whchevr way u want it and ehm, a lil' current|past affairs. . .yeah, twsnt so difficult buh kinda tricky sha.
.
With English(lexis n structure)......
Education / Re: University of Ilorin 2013/2014 Admission by Phartymah112(f): 7:51pm On Feb 05, 2013
lareola: how. Wud choose a federal for first and second choice talking from experience you are putting ur eggs in one basket which is not good limiting your chances ilorin is not nice for more advice contact me on 2go lareola007
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Either putting eggs in one basket or not,that isn't what matter. Moreover, a wise man says and i quoted "put all your eggs in one basket and watch that basket"

so,u just have to watch closely how you can be admitted. Nt a matter of choosing fed. Unis. As 1st and 2nd choice.

You also said you talk from experience. Hehehe! Do we have the same faith ni? Mr. A's experience in unilorin will be differ from Mr.B in unilorin too
Education / Re: University of Ilorin 2013/2014 Admission by Phartymah112(f): 9:20am On Feb 03, 2013
mosho2good: I choose unilorin as 1st and 2nd choice and I'm also an indigen with one sitting 0`
Level result and my course is computer science and electrical engeneering...
Pls guys wats my chances
Na God sure pass and with your connection
Romance / Re: Big Question That Many Women Ask. by Phartymah112(f): 4:04pm On Feb 01, 2013
SniperInADiaper:

My marriage is perfect tongue

sorry,just face the fact; nothing is perfect but it might be "very near" to perfection!
Education / Re: University of Ilorin 2013/2014 Admission by Phartymah112(f): 6:05pm On Jan 30, 2013
Lovren: . I disagree wif daht mate... 80% of last year admission was base on score. Both jamb and utme... Got a fwend who scored 256 and 68% in pume. He was given BUS. Dah mean business admin. Buh becuz of jux 2 marks.. He was moved awt.. Unilorin is kinda strict wen u talkin scores...
i would av agree with u,buh i wld say NO,though it is a must 2 hav high score in jamb n putme buh wat matter most is connection. In d last 2 yrs,a frnd of mine was admitted with 238 in jamb and 63% in p.utme,we had d same score in p.utme though and i got 231 in jamb,tell me y i av nt get admitted.

And 4 last yr, 268 n 68%,tel me,i saw pple with 202 and 51% dt got admitted.

So,dear,don't say 80% of last yr admission was based on score. *shikena*

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Education / Re: University of Ilorin 2013/2014 Admission by Phartymah112(f): 7:17pm On Jan 29, 2013
Passing..............

Unilorin is just connection! Even if u score 290 in jamb n 80% in putme or above without having "longer legs" u know what i mean, u won't get admitted.*sad* buh d truth.

Jez read to have a good scores,pray like never b4 and "common" search 4 means to make your "leg longer" and u'l get admitted.

Good luck 2 you and i also

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Romance / Re: The Reason Why Most Ladies Couldn't Find Mr. Right by Phartymah112(f): 1:39pm On Jan 27, 2013
Acidosis:
hey...did you see me in ur dreams... ?
yep... You just look like a monster
Romance / Re: The Reason Why Most Ladies Couldn't Find Mr. Right by Phartymah112(f): 9:51pm On Jan 26, 2013
Eze Promoe: For sure men like me, we don't need any lady to have a taste of us to know who we really are. Right is my family name, so therefore I'm Mr. Right. It's written on my forehead.
as a man who is a jerk always said!
Romance / Re: The Reason Why Most Ladies Couldn't Find Mr. Right by Phartymah112(f): 8:34pm On Jan 26, 2013
Acidosis: *yawns*
Go and sleep anyway..
Romance / Re: The Reason Why Most Ladies Couldn't Find Mr. Right by Phartymah112(f): 5:30pm On Jan 26, 2013
And stop depending on man for your needs....... Learn to be independent,haba! I want blackbery today,brazilian here tomorrow,i have to change my wardrobe this weekend! You're just sending mr.right away if you don't know,

If you want to change, you'll have to
admit to yourself that you were wrong.
 
You'll always be looking for a
good man to save you -- but believe me,
if you don't get rid of your
problems first, no man will save
Getting rid of crazy relationship
Romance / Re: The Reason Why Most Ladies Couldn't Find Mr. Right by Phartymah112(f): 5:18pm On Jan 26, 2013
You may, for instance, have a bad image
of men in general. Maybe you think most
of them are hopeless womanizers, and
that the few good ones are either taken
or gay. (Haha!)
 
If this sounds like you, then please,
spend less time meeting men on social networking like 2go,facebook,etc and
more time meeting men in the real world.
It's a lot more fun that way.
Some of our misconceptions about men can
come straight from our families.
Other women may have grown up without a
father, or an absent/abusive one, which
gave them a bad image of men in general.
 
So many women grow up
with fear, uncertainty, and anger,
especially when it comes to man, love,
and relationships.
And maybe those witchcraf-t wey dey your village were cursing you,my advice for you is to go for spiritual bath! am i right or am i right? 
 
I'd like to invite you to take a few
moments to think back on your past
relationships.

I'd like you to keep an open mind, and
not to let any misconceptions about men
cloud your judgment.
 
 
Instead, focus on YOURSELF for a bit.
 
 
Try to see what negative, damaging, or
unfair beliefs you may have about men.
Romance / Re: The Reason Why Most Ladies Couldn't Find Mr. Right by Phartymah112(f): 5:11pm On Jan 26, 2013
And it's pretty serious, because this
problem can turn an otherwise good
relationship with a good man into a BAD
one and very quickly.
 
But what does it mean when you seem to
end up with all the jerks?
 
Or is there something in YOU that's
ruining your relationships from the
inside?
 
 
As I've mentioned a while ago, when a
house is crumbling on the inside, it
doesn't matter how beautiful it is on
the outside -- no one's going to want to
live in it for long.
 
 
Likewise, no matter how smart and
attractive you may be, if you have
certain issues or problems on the
inside, no boyfriend's going to want to
stick with you forever.   
You should realized the simple truth
that it takes TWO people to make a
relationship work. It's such a silly,
painfully obvious truth -- but sadly,
too many women are prone to believe
otherwise. 
You may have your own set of inner
problems that are getting in the way of
your relationships.
Romance / The Reason Why Most Ladies Couldn't Find Mr. Right by Phartymah112(f): 4:59pm On Jan 26, 2013
Has every single one of your boyfriends
been "Mr. Wrong?"
If they have, then it
might mean that there's something inside
you that's ruining your relationships.

 last week,i found home beautiful houses in some area but there was just one thing that puzzled me
-- how come no one's living in these
beautiful homes?
 
"It's the recession"
 So I took a closer look,that's when I found the underlying
causes why no one stayed in the houses
for too long -- the houses were
crumbling from the inside!
Some had termite problems. Some had
moisture and mildew problems. And still
others had weak or damaged foundations.
 
These problems ultimately made the
house's previous owners realize that no
matter how beautiful you can make an old
house look, it's still an old house --
and no one likes to live in a house
that's falling apart on the inside!
 
 
Now why am i suddenly talking about houses?
 
I'm using the "old house" analogy to
describe a problem that many of today's
single lady have -- but don't know
about it.

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