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Kobojunkie: Brother, I try to do this... But when I'm back to the state ..they burden me with pastor and church all the time...they expect me to be perfect or saint ...you talk back to them now . they'll say you're shouting at them or talking back at them...you just have to listen when they're talking I don even tire |
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Kobojunkie: I'm in the university |
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SenorFax: I've been doing just that.. They will find a way to make you talk when you're trying your possible best not to.. |
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Ammishaddai: I'm in 200l about to enter my 300l..boss sir |
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This is not a simple argument in the house... Sometimes they will say I was called to be one...but I thought when you pray that you don't need something he listens and changes your destiny... Please I need adviae |
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Good Evening Nairalanders.. Its been long since I posted here, I just have to again....please I have a problem at home with my family, especially my mom and Dad.. My dad is a pastor, doing well for himself and I support my dad , I don't mean bad for him But the problem I have is they've been telling me to be a pastor, and I'm tired of the songs everyday... Actually I don't want to be a pastor and I don't have any desire or zeal to be a pastor, I've tried to explain to them most of the things I want to be in life ... still yet they're forcing the word pastor into my life.. I believe someone can do other things and still get loved by God, I don't want to get the title pastor behind my name...I know being a pastor is not a bad thing but I don't desire..I desire other things apart from being a pastor. My parents force me to preach in church which many times I do it not to emba them in public but deep down I know I don't desire... I literally do other things to the glory of God in church, I play keyboard, I sing in church, I clean the church...and I've also prayed to God I don't want to be a pastor... I asked them why I should be a pastor no strong reason, because in the family most of the male children are pastors.. etc I'm 21years old Please what should I do? At least I have gotten to a stage in life where I can make some decisions for myself...but my parents are not just allowing it, not only in this pastoral issue... Please I need your advise. Thanks |
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ethicallyright: Wat is this one typing ![]() ![]() |
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I scored 246 in jamb, like to study medical laboratory science, but which university do you think I should consider... Which school nairalanders. Some said I should consider unizik, oau... Nairalanders which do u think?, ur opinion needed. Thank you |
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Good evening nairalanders,not d best write up .. I'm Victor pls I long to school in Canada,my point of writing here is to know if I can get a scholarship and if any one can direct me to one ... I'm not financially stable and the course I intend to study is medical lab science...I have good waec results all my results re okay....please ur opinion is welcomed,happy Sunday to you all |
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Pheurly2: Pain has eaten deep..i feel it |
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Nobody talks to me...no friends....lonely...stay in a room all day...i feel I'm turning to a different person...i mean bad. D more I stay iinor...d more I change....funny part..dad is a minister.... ![]() ![]() |
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sageb: Hmmmm |
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Stephenomozzy: Hnnnm...if u are here seeing me...they just want everything done by force....their own alone. .pls is food , house, school fees enough. For bringing up child. There are most times I choose not eat,I nor die...i sleep without clothes....is it enough for bringing up a child. ![]() |
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[quote author=Pheurly2 post=88965446][/quote] H.. ![]() |
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[quote author=Stephenomozzy post=88965200]Leaving home without adequate resources will further deepen you into depressive thoughts, plus now that the world is on lock down, there's not much by way of being far away you can go. Turn out the negative vibes that you may be receiving from your family, maybe their words and actions are reopening your scars, but you can do better. Remember, the pain you're feeling now is not environmental, it is mostly psychological. You can't run away from your mind...embrace the pain, but don't let it define you. It's a tough world out there already.. don't make it harder for your self [b]LOCKDOWN HAS BEEN EASED MAN..i just want to... ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Take it down abeg. .. An old video sef |
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Stephenomozzy: I don't understand..pls explain better |
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brodalikeme: What I passed through. Those my parents. Were not there for me. Nobody to talk to. I was threatened that they hurt me if talk...for 11 years I kept it to myself...told them last year still yet no emotional support...telling me his life history...if he talked to me earlier as his first son...will I hVe passed through such. D same said he wld slap me if I said anything again...imagine.......i want to leave home...i'm set to...their own is just chores..greet them...do that do this..they sent me to school...not d course I want sef....i want to leave...before I hurt someone....just advice wat I should do to survive. |
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Stephenomozzy: I want to leave..i'm serious..i know what I'm saying bro ![]() ![]() |
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Good evening,I'm a guy that posted that was sexually abused...and my parents are not helping me...no one is...i feel used , useless and worthless...i am depressed..i'm 20 ....i can't bear it any longer...i almost committed suicide...God saved me o... I've decided to leave home..i'm going far away..i play d piano..how wld i start up ,pls advice me..thank u..nairalanders....i'm tired of everything...help please.. ![]() ![]() |
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